GT wamekupa ushauri mzuri sana tunza hizo sms, another thing usimuonyeshe actions zake zina kuzuia ww kuendelea na maisha yako, si keshaoa wa nn huyo! Ukienda kumuambia mkewe we ladies we know each other when it comes kwenye issue ya mwanaume unayempenda we alwayz sideline naye no matter what, hata ikimaanisha mama mzazi anakanwa, so play silence, usijibu chochote, usiende kwa rafiki yoyote wala mzazi wake yaani fanya kama its not in ur to do list, mwisho wa siku atajiona mjinga kumfuatlia mtu ambaye hamna return. Usitafute reconciliation eti mkae chini muongee sasa muongee nn? Achana naye namaanisha potezea as if haexist. Mtu akiwa anafanya vituko halafu ww in one way or another una tafuta compromise naye anaona kumbe he can make an impact so anaendelea, inawezekana ni fantasy yake sometimes or he needs ur attention so do nt give him.