SHE is "single" and bored.....she needs a man in her life too......

binti mwenye umri wa miaka 26 anapolalama kuwa hana mtu tumsaidiaje? Adai anataka awe na wandani wake wa kusaidiana kulisukuma gurudumu la maendeleo.......lakini vijana wengi wanamhitaji kwa ile ya chapuchapu tu............tutamsaidiaje ili afanikishe malengo yake?.......ushauri please...............

kwenye hao wa chap chap kuna mmoja ataamua kubaki for gud.. she must keep going

ani pm kuna mtu anataka nisaidiane nae kusukuma gurudumu la maendeleo na mimi sitaki

kama kakufuata akakueleza, jiongeze.

Atulie, ipo siku atapata wake hata akiwa na miaka 40.

Ruta naona nimpe ushauri kidogo
Kusema kweli amejirahisi sana
Na wanaume washajua ni wa chapuchapu hit and run
Na inabidi afanye kazi ya ziada kuiondoa hiyo dhana ya yeye kuwa wa chapu chapu
wanaume tuna tabia moja japo unaweza kuiita umbeya ila ndo ilivyo. Tunaambiana vitu ambavyo hatukupaswa kuvisema
Na wanaume waliopita kw ahuyo dada wameshaambiana na wanaendelea kutoa siri zake kuwa yule ni wa chapuchapu sio wa kujenga kibanda
Aondoe hiyo dhana ya kuwa kila anayekuja kwake ana uwezo tena wa haraka kumvulia nguo na kumpata
la sivyo upweke utazidi kumuandama kwa muda mrefu
Miongoni mwa hao wa chapuchapu anaweza pata mmoja atulie nae

Kongosho said:

kama kakufuata akakueleza, jiongeze.

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Mpaka kaileta hapa, kalitambua hilo ila HE'S GOT OTHER PLANS..ambazo hazihusishi kusukuma hilo gurudumu.

Muulize apenda wanaume wa aina gani?

Maana kama yeye ni type ya wadada wa mjini alafu sharobaro wa kike, alafu anavutiwa na mwanaume ambae ni mlokole, asitegemee atampata... atatongozwa na wanaume wanavutiwa na muonekano wake hali yeye hawapendi hivo kuwakataa na hivo kupleleka yeye kua lonely.....

Muulize yeye ni dada wa aina gani?

Kwamba anajionesha vipi kwa watu tokana na matendo... Je ni mtokaji saana as in mtu wa kujirusha saana kila club hakosi? mara nyingi binti ambae huenda kila club ya mjini ina maana wanaume woote ambao anakuta nao ni wa by nite. Take note hao wanaume hutaka galfriends wa show off wa by nite, na galfriends serious wale ambao sio wa by nite. Hive atakua anaishia kutongozwa na kulala na wanaume ambae wengi husepa baada ya mda mfupi.

Muulize yeye hapo nyumbani ni makazi kazaliwa na kukulia hapo?

Kama YES.... na ikatokea alianza ukicheche na uhuni at the age of 15, Just imagine at age 26 kalala na wangapi na woote hao mtaaani wawafahamu wanaume most walopita hapo. At that age ni wanaume wachache hujilipua kua na a serious relationship with yoou sababu ajua kua wataka mtu wa kukuoa.... na tayari wanaona kama hufai....

Muulize anajitambua na kujua nini hasa anataka?

Does she know her worth? Does she know kua anaheshimika ama lah katika ulimwengu wa wanaume (hii aweza pima kwa the type ya wanaume ambao wanamtongoza... i.e wapiga debe, wanafunzi, waume za watu, vijana.... n.k) Akijijua na kujua the type of men she wants.... then nirahisi kuappreciate a man ambae ni worth it akija katika maisha yake... instead ya kuleta pose za kitoto kana kwamba hana mpango hali the guy ni mpango mzima....


Rutashubanyuma.... I believe you are well and good.

kwenye hao wa chap chap kuna mmoja ataamua kubaki for gud.. she must keep going

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amekataa tamaa na hao wachapuchapu............hana imani nao tena mpe ushauri mwingine................are u single by the way?

Rutashubanyuma.... I believe you are well and good.

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we used to be very close until you dumped me for others...so am doing very fine despite you running away from me..........lol....kumbuka usiache mbachao kwa msalao upitao...........

Muulize apenda wanaume wa aina gani?

Maana kama yeye ni type ya wadada wa mjini alafu sharobaro wa kike, alafu anavutiwa na mwanaume ambae ni mlokole, asitegemee atampata... atatongozwa na wanaume wanavutiwa na muonekano wake hali yeye hawapendi hivo kuwakataa na hivo kupleleka yeye kua lonely.....

Muulize yeye ni dada wa aina gani?

Kwamba anajionesha vipi kwa watu tokana na matendo... Je ni mtokaji saana as in mtu wa kujirusha saana kila club hakosi? mara nyingi binti ambae huenda kila club ya mjini ina maana wanaume woote ambao anakuta nao ni wa by nite. Take note hao wanaume hutaka galfriends wa show off wa by nite, na galfriends serious wale ambao sio wa by nite. Hive atakua anaishia kutongozwa na kulala na wanaume ambae wengi husepa baada ya mda mfupi.

Muulize yeye hapo nyumbani ni makazi kazaliwa na kukulia hapo?

Kama YES.... na ikatokea alianza ukicheche na uhuni at the age of 15, Just imagine at age 26 kalala na wangapi na woote hao mtaaani wawafahamu wanaume most walopita hapo. At that age ni wanaume wachache hujilipua kua na a serious relationship with yoou sababu ajua kua wataka mtu wa kukuoa.... na tayari wanaona kama hufai....

Muulize anajitambua na kujua nini hasa anataka?

Does she know her worth? Does she know kua anaheshimika ama lah katika ulimwengu wa wanaume (hii aweza pima kwa the type ya wanaume ambao wanamtongoza... i.e wapiga debe, wanafunzi, waume za watu, vijana.... n.k) Akijijua na kujua the type of men she wants.... then nirahisi kuappreciate a man ambae ni worth it akija katika maisha yake... instead ya kuleta pose za kitoto kana kwamba hana mpango hali the guy ni mpango mzima....

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yeye anatka kijana mtanashati mwenye uwezo wa kuhudumia familia..................asema ni kweli kamchezo amekafanya sana lakini sasa maejirekebisha kwa hiyo vijana wasimtupie kapu lake........lol.......................asema yeye hachagui kati ya mlokole au la......................wote sawa tu kwake....................tatizo juzijuzi nimemwona yuko pregnant....sasa sijui waht is happening now..........................nilishindwa kumwuuliza......................i thought that matter was too personal to her................................so I did not want to embarrass her........

Rutashubanyuma said:

binti mwenye umri wa miaka 26 anapolalama kuwa hana mtu tumsaidiaje? Adai anataka awe na wandani wake wa kusaidiana kulisukuma gurudumu la maendeleo.......lakini vijana wengi wanamhitaji kwa ile ya chapuchapu tu............tutamsaidiaje ili afanikishe malengo yake?.......ushauri please...............

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Anaonekana huyo ni unt-social,yaani kote anakopita yeye watu wanamuona hafai kwa kuolewa ndio maana anakimbilia jamvini

Mpaka kaileta hapa, kalitambua hilo ila HE'S GOT OTHER PLANS..ambazo hazihusishi kusukuma hilo gurudumu.

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Amyner kweli una jicho la mwewe......you have hit the right notes...........lakini mbona humshauri m,wenzio afanyaje hapo?

Anaonekana huyo ni unt-social,yaani kote anakopita yeye watu wanamuona hafai kwa kuolewa ndio maana anakimbilia jamvini

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yawezekana kuwa usemayo ni kweli sasa afanyaje aache kuwa anti-social naye ampate wandani wake wa milele.............she is really bored........

Ruta naona nimpe ushauri kidogo
Kusema kweli amejirahisi sana
Na wanaume washajua ni wa chapuchapu hit and run
Na inabidi afanye kazi ya ziada kuiondoa hiyo dhana ya yeye kuwa wa chapu chapu
wanaume tuna tabia moja japo unaweza kuiita umbeya ila ndo ilivyo. Tunaambiana vitu ambavyo hatukupaswa kuvisema
Na wanaume waliopita kw ahuyo dada wameshaambiana na wanaendelea kutoa siri zake kuwa yule ni wa chapuchapu sio wa kujenga kibanda
Aondoe hiyo dhana ya kuwa kila anayekuja kwake ana uwezo tena wa haraka kumvulia nguo na kumpata
la sivyo upweke utazidi kumuandama kwa muda mrefu
Miongoni mwa hao wa chapuchapu anaweza pata mmoja atulie nae

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Brialex....................una mawazo na ushauri mzuri lakini hii dhana ya chapuchapu ataiondoaje............ahame mji nini?

Atulie, ipo siku atapata wake hata akiwa na miaka 40.

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ni kweli hata akifumbata vidole vyake bila ya kufanya jitihada fulani fulani hivi.............40 yrs not too late, I know........even to have babies too.....

kama kakufuata akakueleza, jiongeze.

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changamoto yangu ni kumwezesha kumpata mtu kama Kongosho...................hapa JF.......................mie mchovu sina uwezo kupambana na hii damu changa.................kasheshe zao siziwezi................wasije kuniletea kifaduro cha usubuhi usubuhi.....lol

ani pm kuna mtu anataka nisaidiane nae kusukuma gurudumu la maendeleo na mimi sitaki

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tatizo siyo member wa JF........................nipe wasifu wa huyo njemba nimpelekee kwa sms sasa hivi.........ili tuwaunganishe

Rutashubanyuma said:

Brialex....................una mawazo na ushauri mzuri lakini hii dhana ya chapuchapu ataiondoaje............ahame mji nini?

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Mkuu nafikiri kuna time ya kusema enough is enough na ngoja niache hiki au kile
Afikie mahali aseme kuwa tabbia ya kutongozwa na mwanaume siku moja na kumkubalia na siku hiyo hiyo anamaliza kila kitu ife
Ni kuacha mazoea yake maana inaonekana ni tabia yake na ishakuwa sugu
Aachane nayo kaka

Mkuu nafikiri kuna time ya kusema enough is enough na ngoja niache hiki au kile
Afikie mahali aseme kuwa tabbia ya kutongozwa na mwanaume siku moja na kumkubalia na siku hiyo hiyo anamaliza kila kitu ife
Ni kuacha mazoea yake maana inaonekana ni tabia yake na ishakuwa sugu
Aachane nayo kaka

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huu ushauri ni kiboko lazima nimfikishie leoleo..................kama nimekuelewa vizuri ni kuwa sasa ilale usingizi wa pono.....angalau kwa miaka 3 khalafu mambo yaanze