Simuelewi huyu Mwanamke-Msaada wanaJF

[Dr Lizzy]

inaonekana hukuelewa au upo tofauti.....
mtu amekiri kuwa ni yeye ndie aliekosea in the first place....
sasa hapo mwanamke ana haki ya kudeka na kudeka...

Nimeelewa sana!Kama angesema hajaomba msamaha na kubembeleza ova n ova again ushauri wangu ungekua wa kumtetea msichana!!Asipoonyesha msimamo either ataendelea kumbembeleza mtu asiyemtaka au atamuacha mtu anaempenda bila kujua alikua anampima tu!Either way itakua imekula kwake...

 

[The Boss]

The Boss,

Unaweza kutafuta njia ya kumfurahisha mwenzio lakini yeye akawa hataki kufurahishwa, na muanzishaji wa thread amesema amefanya kila jitihada binafsi hamna kitu je wewe unadhani afanye nini?

tunatofautiana na njia za kutumia kumfurahisha mwenzio....

wengine wana arrange kasafari hivi pamoja somewhere,,,,,bagamoyo,zanzibar,ukiweza hata nje ya nchi...

wengine out hivi...someplace nice..
wengine hata kununua khanga inaweza kusaidia......au hata nguo za ndani mpya na kadhalika....

umenipata?

 

[BAK]

Pole sana,
Give her some space,she needs it,inakera mwanaume ukionyesha uko desperate kwa mwanamke......umemkosea,umetimiza wajibu wako wa kuomba msamaha na umemuomba yaishe yeye anakuchenga.....muonyeshe there is life without her,be strong my brother......

Inawezekana alikuwa anasubiri ukosee afanye hilo,usijilaumu sana wewe ni mwanadamu tena mwenye busara umejirudi ukaomba msamaha,hata kama umekuwa na relationship 200,if she was not meant for you,ndo basi tena.....time is a healer,let time define her actions....

Kila la kheri,ushauri wangu,mpe muda wa kuamua tena vizuri ukiweka time framework na ukamwambia,hajaamua by that time....LET HER GO,Mungu ni wa rehema,atakujalia mwingine au atamuelewesha kwa njia zake huyo dada thamani ya mwanaume aliyempoteza then atarudi na kama itakuwa poa utampokea ,kama sio itabidi yeye aanze maisha mengine.

Very well said Michelle....BAK says THANKS * 10,000 times

 

[Seto]

kaka hawa wanawake ni janga la kimataifa kwa wanaume, hawaeleweki. Bora ya we mligombana wengine hata ugomvi hamna but tunayoyapata ni makubwa kuvumilia.
pole......

hapo ni kama anakuacha kisanii...

 

[Mbimbinho]

Pole sana,
Give her some space,she needs it,inakera mwanaume ukionyesha uko desperate kwa mwanamke......umemkosea,umetimiza wajibu wako wa kuomba msamaha na umemuomba yaishe yeye anakuchenga.....muonyeshe there is life without her,be strong my brother......

Inawezekana alikuwa anasubiri ukosee afanye hilo,usijilaumu sana wewe ni mwanadamu tena mwenye busara umejirudi ukaomba msamaha,hata kama umekuwa na relationship 200,if she was not meant for you,ndo basi tena.....time is a healer,let time define her actions....

Kila la kheri,ushauri wangu,mpe muda wa kuamua tena vizuri ukiweka time framework na ukamwambia,hajaamua by that time....LET HER GO,Mungu ni wa rehema,atakujalia mwingine au atamuelewesha kwa njia zake huyo dada thamani ya mwanaume aliyempoteza then atarudi na kama itakuwa poa utampokea ,kama sio itabidi yeye aanze maisha mengine.

Thanks Michelle, thnx 4 ur encouragement. hop I'l stand by ur words.

 

[VoiceOfReason]

Kuwa mpole.., kosa ulilifanya wewe, with time hopefully things will go back to normal..., Just Show Sincerely kwamba unajutia makosa yako.., do everything you can on your part..., Msamaha unatoka rohoni sio mdomoni..., Give her time and show love....

 

[Mbimbinho]

kaka hawa wanawake ni janga la kimataifa kwa wanaume, hawaeleweki. Bora ya we mligombana wengine hata ugomvi hamna but tunayoyapata ni makubwa kuvumilia.
pole......

hapo ni kama anakuacha kisanii...

Duh, hiyo sasa balaa mkuu., ebana pole kama ni hivo. Maana naweza sema mimi pocbly ni kama adhabu flani, but kwa upande wako unaonewa mkuu. N'wayz, tuzidi kuwavumilia hawa watu

 

[tama]

Mpe space,mwenyewe akiona kimya ataanza kujirudi kama bado nae anakupenda.

 

[pauline]

..huyo ameumia,mpe time to recover.....
...au bado anachuja kama uhusiano wenu uendelee au ukome.....
..endelea kubembeleza huku ukionyesha wazi umejirekebisha makosa yako.....

 

[The Boss]

buy her some diamonds rings.....

they say its a girl's best friend...

 

[tzjamani]

Duh,

Ilivyo ngumu kusoma mind ya mwingine. Mtihani Mungu katujalia.

Huyo bibie either
1. Kaumia sana na (ma)kosa ulilofanyia kwa hiyo nafikiri akuteme kimoja au asikilizie kama uko serious umetubu na hutarudi kumuumiza
2. Kuna mshikaji yuko online kwa hiyo anatafuta jinis ya kukudisconnect wewe

Tumia busara zaidi na kama unamwamini Mungu mshikishe ili Mapenzi yake Mungu yatimie katika kumpata mpenzi/mke wako wa ndoa kutoka kwake Mungu.

Pole sana ila usisahau mapito ni mtaji

 

[VoiceOfReason]

..huyo ameumia,mpe time to recover.....
...au bado anachuja kama uhusiano wenu uendelee au ukome.....
..endelea kubembeleza huku ukionyesha wazi umejirekebisha makosa yako.....

Where Have you been ??, has JF become so Huuge hadi hatuonani??, Hope you are Okay Though Welcome Back...

 

[Masanja]

Pole sana,
Give her some space,she needs it,inakera mwanaume ukionyesha uko desperate kwa mwanamke......umemkosea,umetimiza wajibu wako wa kuomba msamaha na umemuomba yaishe yeye anakuchenga.....muonyeshe there is life without her,be strong my brother......

Inawezekana alikuwa anasubiri ukosee afanye hilo,usijilaumu sana wewe ni mwanadamu tena mwenye busara umejirudi ukaomba msamaha,hata kama umekuwa na relationship 200,if she was not meant for you,ndo basi tena.....time is a healer,let time define her actions....

Kila la kheri,ushauri wangu,mpe muda wa kuamua tena vizuri ukiweka time framework na ukamwambia,hajaamua by that time....LET HER GO,Mungu ni wa rehema,atakujalia mwingine au atamuelewesha kwa njia zake huyo dada thamani ya mwanaume aliyempoteza then atarudi na kama itakuwa poa utampokea ,kama sio itabidi yeye aanze maisha mengine.

Yaani Michelle ungekuwa karibu ningekununulia hata chupa moja ya kilaji ya ndovu ya chupa ndogo (kama hutumii basi ningekupa ice cream) Yaani huu ni ushauri murua kabisa! Ubarikiwe...

Mi nadhani katika maisha ni kumuonyesha mtu (awe mwanaume au mwanamke) kwamba there is life without him/her. Kama mmeshindwa kukubaliana. Unajua ukiwa desparate na relationships....utaumia kichwa bure!

I wish you luck.

 

[pauline]

Where Have you been ??, has JF become so Huuge hadi hatuonani??, Hope you are Okay Though Welcome Back...

siku hizi hamu ya kuchat facebook na kuinteract online in general imepungua,,,,sijui nazeeka???:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:miss you too VOR...

 

[The Boss]

siku hizi hamu ya kuchat facebook na kuinteract online in general imepungua,,,,sijui nazeeka???:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:miss you too VOR...

facebook unatumia jinalipi?

 

[Michelle]

Thanks Michelle, thnx 4 ur encouragement. hop I'l stand by ur words.

All the best,everything is gonna be ok......cheer up!:coffee:

 

[Michelle]

Yaani Michelle ungekuwa karibu ningekununulia hata chupa moja ya kilaji ya ndovu ya chupa ndogo (kama hutumii basi ningekupa ice cream) Yaani huu ni ushauri murua kabisa! Ubarikiwe...

Mi nadhani katika maisha ni kumuonyesha mtu (awe mwanaume au mwanamke) kwamba there is life without him/her. Kama mmeshindwa kukubaliana. Unajua ukiwa desparate na relationships....utaumia kichwa bure!

I wish you luck.

Jamani shukrani pia,ubarikiwe zaidi......

Sasa umenikumbusha ndovu namimi nina kiu hela sina,tufanyeje sasa????....lol

 

[kilimasera]

endelea kuomba msamaha usichoke anakupima huyo kama ukikata tamaa atajua huna mapenzi ya dhati kwake

Wandugu, :sad:
Ni GF wangu ambaye kwa kipindi kirefu ka miez 3 hivi tumekuwa kwenye mis'understandings, na nimemuomba sana msamaha but amekuwa mgumu kunisamehe.
Cha kushangaza ni kwamba kila akiongea na rafiki zake au dada yake anawaambia kuwa tumeshasolve na ku-clear our differences, but ukweli ni kwamba bado hajanisamehe.
Sasa juzi kati kaniambia kuwa Amenisamehe lakini hawezi kuwa kwenye relationship tena, ikabidi nimuombe rafiki yake anibembelezee, cha ajabu alichomwambia huyu rafiki yake ni kuwa mimi na yeye hatujaachana.
Wandugu kwa kweli huyu mtu ananichanganya sana, maana ki ukweli ni kwamba nampenda sana huyu binti na yote haya mimi ni sababu, lakini nimeshatubu. Sometimes nafeel ni give up, but naamua kuendeleza mapambano.

Nashindwa kabisa kuelewa msimamo wa huyu GF wangu, labda nisaidieni wandugu, hii tabia inaashiria nini? Shud I move on or ni-stick no mata wat?:sad:

 

[VoiceOfReason]

siku hizi hamu ya kuchat facebook na kuinteract online in general imepungua,,,,sijui nazeeka???:laugh::laugh::laugh::laugh:miss you too VOR...

By the way are you still in Handsworth...., hows life treating you?, Started studying yet?

 

[Babu Lao]

Pole sana Mkuu...wengine huwa na tabia hiyo ya kusema wamesamehe lakini ukweli ni kwamba hawajafanya hivyo. Mueleze ukweli jinsi ambavyo unavyompenda na pia kutaka muendelee na penzi lenu lakini kama bado unamuona ana dukuduku moyoni basi muombe akueleze kinachojiri hadi awe katika hali kama hiyo labda inawezekana bado kuna kitu kinamsumbua ndiyo maana anashindwa kukusamehe 100%

Hakuna jambo linalofanywa bila malengo... jaribu ushauri hapo juu lakini ikishindikana mwaga mbio..... Ulikuwa na maisha yako kabla yake na utaendelea kuwa na maisha yako baada ya huo uhusiano wenu!!! Wewew mwanamume!!!! Siku zote binadamu tunakosea sababu sisi sio malaika ila cha msingi ni kugundua kosa lako na kujisahihisha ili usijelirudia tena.... sasa kama umekiri kosa na kuomba msamaha na bado mtu hataki kukusamehe, achana nae atakuletea taabu mbeleni!!!!!