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Sumu ya ndoa ni uchafu wa mmoja wapo wa wanandoa.
Sumu ya ndoa ni kumpelekea mwenzio uchafu wa sehemu za siri na harufu mbaya ya mdomo wakati wa kubusiana,inashusha sana heshima heshima haya mambo.(Hii ni kali kwa kweli au nimekosea wajameni?)

NB: Hope nipo ndani ya mada.
 
Bluray said:
Umeniwahi, sumu ya ndoa ni ndoa, unapotaka kuli-institutionalize penzi unali prostitute na kuli devalue kiasi linakuwa a charade na kupoteza maana yake natural.
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How does instutitionalisation prostitute love?
I would like to be enlightened Mkuu.
 
VeraCity said:
How does instutitionalisation prostitute love?
I would like to be enlightened Mkuu.
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Love transcend institutions, the birds and the beasts do not have institutions and ceremonies, but they know love too, some of them better than we do.

Institutionalizing something as complex as love is akin to computer simulating intelligence, you can try very much, but because the rules of computer programming can never attain the level of sophistication of natural human intelligence, what you end up with is of a much inferior nature than the real thing.

When we humans try to "institutionalize" love, with unnatural rules like "ye shall forsake all others" (how pretentious !) and "till death do us part" (really, If I believed in god I would almost say this was a blasphemious disregard for the hands of providence) we are watering down a truly wonderful phenomenon into one narrow manageable track.

We are trying to come up with formulaes to create some very natural phenomena, at the end of the process instead of coming up with a sustainable product, we create the choking plastic marriage that no wonder has either horrific oppressive results if it succeeds at all or most often in current years succumb to a split within the first five years.

So institutionalizing the natural order of things to a manageable degree of chaos only give us the least common denominator, which turns out to be bland and boring for most people, hence the increase of extramarital affairs. Institutionalizing love into marriage is akin to canning food, you get some artificial benefit (the food lasts longer for example, whic cannot be said of the marriage) but you end up with some major cancers, literally.

This devaluation of the natural order of things, this dumbing down of people to sets of "married" and "unmarried", this pretentious high mindedness and self-ascribed morality, is what I call the prostitution of love.

Many have realized this, consciously or subconsciously, and are now resorting to accepting that marriage is prostituted love, and in going along, they choose to marry for money or social position, completing the prostitution to their own perceived advantage, ramming the gear into this vicious cycle of prostitution one more layer.

That's why some of us will never engage in this prostitution of love.
 
Bluray bana...anafurahisha sana wakati mwingine! Hivi Bluray, do you have friends?
 
sumu ya ndoa ni kushirikisha familia katika kuendesha maisha ya wanandoa
 
MTM said:
Quiet!!! sijui ulitaka nini ingawa nilijaribu kusema sumu ya ndoa ni ndo yenyewe.. sababu ni kwamba ndo haiji frrom the sky; ndoa ni zao la mapenzi, na ndoa inatokana na mlolongo wa matukio ya kimapenzi yaliyopanda mbegu ya ndoa... kwa hiyo depending on how you look at it, sumu ya ndoa inaweza kuwa yafuatayo

  • pretendence - mtu ana-fake mahusiano kwa sababu tu ya kuachieve kitu
  • umaskini - mara nyingi tunafanya maamuzi kutokana na mazingira yaliyomo tu na mara nyingi yanakuwa limited
  • mabadiliko ya kitabia
  • wivu
  • choyo
  • ndugu wasiotakia mema
  • elimu
  • magonjwa
  • ushirikina
nk
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MTM.
nilikuelewa vizuri bro na ulikuwa sahihi, bega kwa bega tusonge mbele. kwa msaada wako na wengine wote waliochangia katika kijiutafiti hichi nakushkuruni sana. kwani nimekamilisha mengi kwa muda mfupi. mola awabariki na kwavile elimu haina kikomo basi kitakachoongezewa nitakifurahia zaidi. nawashkuruni sana mliochangia na mtakaochangia.

Mr. quiet
 
quiet said:
ningeomba kila post iwe na ujumbe ndani ya sentensi isiozidi mstari mmoja na kianzio kiwe, sumu ya ndoa ni ............
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...ulimi! chunga ulimi wako.
 
Mbu said:
...ulimi! chunga ulimi wako.
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Mbu

ni kweli na niliona hilo na nilikuwa mzito kidogo, lakini niliulizwa kidogo. hata hivyo samahani kwani niliona kama sikujibu ningeeleweka kama ni dharau. lakini nakubali kosa . samahanini waungwana . hata hivyo tayari nimekamilisha zile mia hivyo mnaweza mkaingiza maelezo kwa mtiririko huru bila kujali . nawashukuruni sana tena sana bila kiasi kwa kunifanikishia ombi langu hili.

kama nilivyosema awali kama zitaongezwa nitazipokea. lakini mjadala sasa upo huru.

nawaombea furaha ya maisha nyote.
 
mpangwa1 said:
Lazima utakuwa mchaga tena mpalestina
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Inaelekea wewe mbahili nn? Ubahili ktk ndoa ni sumu, mnatakiwa kushare kila pato mnalopata.Uchaga umetokea wapi hapa, tupige vita ukabila sio mzuri.
 
October said:

Lazima atakua Mpare
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Hivi kuna kabila linalofurahia mwanaume kuwa bahili na pato lake?Naona wanaume nimewagusa sana hii sehemu...........Mwanaume kuwa bahili haipendezi kwa kweli.
 
sumu ya ndoa ni kusikiliza maneno ya watu wa nje
 
Baba_Enock said:
- sumu ya ndoa ni kutokuwa na mahusiano nje ya ndoa

- sumu ya ndoa ni pale mahusiano ya nje ya ndoa yanapofahamika

- sumu ya ndoa ni kuongezeka pato la pesa la ghafla (ufisadi,uuza unga, e.t.c) kwa mmojawapo

- sumu ya ndoa ni mwanaume kumbembeleza sana mke

- sumu ya ndoa ni kusifiana sana in "public"
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baba Enock kweli umefikilia hasa hapo nilipo underline 🙂
 
true love has nothing to do with my money,NOR YOUR MONEY!

concept mbovu katika vichwa vya wanawake wa kiafrika ni kwamba ''they are there to be given money''

huwezi amini mke wangu ni kama huwa namtongoza kila siku!nikitaka chakula cha usiku lazima nispend hela maeneo fulani
 
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