The 3 Things Love Is NOT

The 3 Things Love Is NOT

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King'asti said:
so hiyo line hapo mwisho,u mean u have no expectations, no control over us, and no grudges? basi kama ndiyo, i love u even more. uwe na jioni salama yenye uwajibikaji
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While love my start with self-love, true love/real love keeps no record of wrong doing. So if someone you love hurts you , as painful as angry as one may feel, you do have to forgive the person. Holding on the stuff never helps the offended. It's not easy but forgiveness is necessary.
 
Mr.Rocky said:
Wou out of closet a man of love and caring is here
Thank you TF
Ila one point here
How can u be in love without demanding something
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To be demanding isn't all bad, but there are many ways in which it can be unloving. It's one thing to be persistent in asking or requiring something but excessively demanding one's own way regardless of others rights or how they are treated indicates self centeredness. Overly demanding people are not concerned with what others want because they are mostly concerned with themselves. And they can be sensitive and uncaring when it comes to getting what they want.

Selflessness is the essence of love. You can not have love without selflessness. Selflessness also doesn't impose it's own expectations and desires on someone else
 
Demanding, controlling, grudging, i dont see love in these words , ni kweli kabisa mkuu thanks kwa mapoint ya ukweli, ila sie ndio tunaona haya mambo ndio mapenzzi, sijui ni upofu tukipenda au vipi
 
Gaga said:
Demanding, controlling, grudging, i dont see love in these words , ni kweli kabisa mkuu thanks kwa mapoint ya ukweli, ila sie ndio tunaona haya mambo ndio mapenzzi, sijui ni upofu tukipenda au vipi
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For those who are not in relationship (I am one of them)to be realistic there's is no perfect man/woman and it's only by the grace of GOD and our efforts that relationship works out
 
The Finest said:
To be demanding isn't all bad, but there are many ways in which it can be unloving. It's one thing to be persistent in asking or requiring something but excessively demanding one's own way regardless of others rights or how they are treated indicates self centeredness. Overly demanding people are not concerned with what others want because they are mostly concerned with themselves. And they can be sensitive and uncaring when it comes to getting what they want.

Selflessness is the essence of love. You can not have love without selflessness. Selflessness also doesn't impose it's own expectations and desires on someone else
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Mkuu in love there is not something like over demand of selflessness
How can you determione that your love is over demanding while it seems that what she demand is something important to her at that moment
How can u say that my lover is concerned about herself while she want what u can afford at that time
To love someone and if you want her ro appreciate your love to her never ever judge her in that way
Kweli inawezekana kuwa unaona she is too demanding but what is over demand or execessive demand and what criteria you can use to determine that she is over demand
Ndo maana tunasema when you are in love tend to tolerate most of your lovers activities and behaviour if you can do that (though kuna mengine hayavumiliki ila kwa kuwa umeamua kuwa nae jitahidi kuvumilia)
 
The Finest said:
For those who are not in relationship (I am one of them)to be realistic there's is no perfect man/woman and it's only by the grace of GOD and our efforts that relationship works out
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When will you be one of those in a relationship
 
Mr.Rocky said:
Mkuu in love there is not something like over demand of selflessness
How can you determione that your love is over demanding while it seems that what she demand is something important to her at that moment
How can u say that my lover is concerned about herself while she want what u can afford at that time
To love someone and if you want her ro appreciate your love to her never ever judge her in that way
Kweli inawezekana kuwa unaona she is too demanding but what is over demand or execessive demand and what criteria you can use to determine that she is over demand
Ndo maana tunasema when you are in love tend to tolerate most of your lovers activities and behaviour if you can do that (though kuna mengine hayavumiliki ila kwa kuwa umeamua kuwa nae jitahidi kuvumilia)
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Ngoja nitafakari hii point yako kabla sijakujibu ina uzito mkubwa
 
The Finest said:
Dah!! Rocky leo unanichimbua kweli kweli lol!! AshaDii naye hayupo kunipa msaada ningemuita AfroDenzi lakini najua she will back you up
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Wasaidizi wako wote wameingia chimbo
DA na AD wote hawakupi msaada kwa sababu umekataa kudeclare interest zako na kusema vile ulivyopigwa na NO kwenye ile statement "Willl you marry me"
 
The Finest said:
For those who are not in relationship (I am one of them)to be realistic there's is no perfect man/woman and it's only by the grace of GOD and our efforts that relationship works out
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just give it a try, yyyani hakuna kabisa huko kwenu unaemzimia?
 
Gaga said:
just give it a try, yyyani hakuna kabisa huko kwenu unaemzimia?
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Awazimie mara ngapi Gaga
Ashawazimikia wengi ila tatizo aseme ni yupi amemdondokea inakuwa ni tatizo na kila akiulizwa unaoa lini anabaki anatafuna maneno au atamuambia mwenzake ngoja naenda WC nitarudi
Akirudi ataleta story za Manchester United na Wavaa nguo za kubana issue ya kuoa inakuwa imezimwa kiaina
 
Mr.Rocky said:
Awazimie mara ngapi Gaga
Ashawazimikia wengi ila tatizo aseme ni yupi amemdondokea inakuwa ni tatizo na kila akiulizwa unaoa lini anabaki anatafuna maneno au atamuambia mwenzake ngoja naenda WC nitarudi
Akirudi ataleta story za Manchester United na Wavaa nguo za kubana issue ya kuoa inakuwa imezimwa kiaina
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Au ndo anaweka deshi, ili kil a atakaetokea ajue maybe ana kanafasi
sipati picha kwa nini hayuko kwenye uhusiano
 
Gaga said:
Au ndo anaweka deshi, ili kil a atakaetokea ajue maybe ana kanafasi
sipati picha kwa nini hayuko kwenye uhusiano
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Ndio anachofanya
Asipokujibu ina maana kuwa nafasi bado ipo na hata mwingine atakayekuja jamaa anasema yuko single bado
So kila mmoja anategemea kuwa kuna siku ataambiwa wewe ni mhusika na hiyo nafasi bado haijamdondokea hata mmoja
 
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