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Numbisa

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Na kwakuwa
ni vigumu kwa muhusika kukueleza kwamba nataka kufanyiwa
au kuambiwa kitu fulani ndio nitajisikia vizuri,
inakubidi utumie ujuzi wako binafsi
kutafuta njia ya kumfanya
ajisikie vizuri.

 

Numbisa

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• #661,622

Hapo sasa balaa ndio linaanza,
kwani mara nyingi
maneno tunayochagua kumwambia
aliyepotelewa hayamfanyi ajisikie poa
bali yanamfanya aanze kutafakari ulikuwa na maana gani.

 

Numbisa

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• Apr 22, 2018

• #661,623

Na hii inatokana
na si wote wana uwezo wa kutafakari
kauli zinazotolewa
na watu wengine katika
mtazamo chanya.

 

Numbisa

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• #661,624

Hebu tuangalie maneno ambayo hupaswi kuyasema kwa muhusika:

 

Numbisa

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• #661,625

Haya ni makosa ambayo
tunayafanya bila kujua,
kwasababu
katika muda huo,
tunakuwa hatuna njia ya kumfanya aliyeondokewa na mali au mtu ajisikie tuko pamoja naye katika machungu.

 

Numbisa

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• Apr 22, 2018

• #661,626

Na kwakuwa
ni vigumu kwa muhusika kukueleza kwamba nataka kufanyiwa
au kuambiwa kitu fulani ndio nitajisikia vizuri,
inakubidi utumie ujuzi wako binafsi
kutafuta njia ya kumfanya
ajisikie vizuri.

 

Numbisa

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• #661,627

Hapo sasa balaa ndio linaanza,
kwani mara nyingi
maneno tunayochagua kumwambia
aliyepotelewa hayamfanyi ajisikie poa
bali yanamfanya aanze kutafakari ulikuwa na maana gani.

 

Numbisa

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• Apr 22, 2018

• #661,628

Na hii inatokana
na si wote wana uwezo wa kutafakari
kauli zinazotolewa
na watu wengine katika
mtazamo chanya.

 

fofre

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• #661,629

 

Numbisa

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• #661,630

Hebu tuangalie maneno ambayo hupaswi kuyasema kwa muhusika:

 

Numbisa

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Shukuru (ameishi/umeishi nacho) miaka mingi"


Unapoongea kauli kama hii inampa picha
mtu huyo,
kwamba jambo hilo
lilipaswa kutokea kwake,
na hivyo hapaswi kuhuzunika.
Yawezekana kuna ukweli ndani yake,
lakini
unapoongea mbele ya muhusika haitamfanya ajisikie vizuri.

 

myoyambendi

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• Apr 22, 2018

• #661,632

Numbisa said:

Na kwakuwa
ni vigumu kwa muhusika kukueleza kwamba nataka kufanyiwa
au kuambiwa kitu fulani ndio nitajisikia vizuri,
inakubidi utumie ujuzi wako binafsi
kutafuta njia ya kumfanya
ajisikie vizuri.

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Numbisa said:

Na kwakuwa
ni vigumu kwa muhusika kukueleza kwamba nataka kufanyiwa
au kuambiwa kitu fulani ndio nitajisikia vizuri,
inakubidi utumie ujuzi wako binafsi
kutafuta njia ya kumfanya
ajisikie vizuri.

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myoyambendi

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• #661,633

11:10

 

Numbisa

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• Apr 22, 2018

• #661,634

Muda wake ulifika"


Hata kama umekosa la kuongea hii kauli
sio kabisa,
itamfanya akuone umefurahia
tukio hilo.

 

Numbisa

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• Apr 22, 2018

• #661,635

Alikosea/Ulikosea sana ku.... "


Ikiwa tukio lilikuwa la ajali,
hata kama liliempata alisababisha
usiongee kauli kama hii
kwa muhusika,
itaonekana kana kwamba alifanya uzembe na alistahili kupatwa na hilo

 

Numbisa

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• #661,636

Kuna sababu ya kila kitu"


Hii kauli kweli ina maana,
unapofikiria kwa kina lakini si nzuri kuizungumza
kwa mtu aliye kwenye
majonzi.

 

Numbisa

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• Apr 22, 2018

• #661,637

Usihofu utampata mwengine tu"


Ikiwa mtu amepoteza mtoto,
mume au mke,
kauli ya kumwambia kwamba
asihuzunike na kuwa
atapata mwengine tu,
itamfanya aone hukuwahi kuona umuhimu wa aliyeondokewa naye,
na ulikuwa unaombea hilo litokee.

 

Numbisa

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• #661,638

Mara nyingi maneno haya yanapotamkwa na muhusika yanakuwa na
matumaini zaidi kuliko yanapotamkwa na mtu mwengine wa pembeni.

 

Numbisa

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• Apr 22, 2018

• #661,639

Ni heri utumie maneno kama:

1."Pole sana kwa yaliyotokea"

 

Numbisa

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• #661,640

2."Natamani ningekuwa na maneno mazuri ya kukueleza ujisikie vizuri"