'...... you'r the most beautful girl/wife...........COMPLIMENTS

'...... you'r the most beautful girl/wife...........COMPLIMENTS

KIKUNGU

KIKUNGU

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Compliments can be indispensable to both finding love, and keeping its flames burning once you're in relationship. But we, African lovers are no longer satisfied with words of praise such as, ‘you look nice' or even over-the-top statement like, 'you're the most beautiful girl/wife in the world', When it comes to compliments, even if they sound interesting, original and above all sincere, does the other half value them and acknowledges that they hold water in relationship? Does our culture support and recognises compliments at all? You ladies/Lads, accepts compliments from the bottoms of your hearts? Are compliments reflected only in honesty and true love?Does it exists only in modern,middle and high class relationship?

Please share with us.
 
KIKUNGU said:
Compliments can be indispensable to both finding love, and keeping its flames burning once you're in relationship. But we, African lovers are no longer satisfied with words of praise such as, ‘you look nice' or even over-the-top statement like, 'you're the most beautiful girl/wife in the world', When it comes to compliments, even if they sound interesting, original and above all sincere, does the other half value them and acknowledges that they hold water in relationship? Does our culture support and recognises compliments at all? You ladies/Lads, accepts compliments from the bottoms of your hearts? Are compliments reflected only in honesty and true love?Does it exists only in modern,middle and high class relationship?

Please share with us.
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Kwa maoni yangu, nafikiri hakuna jinsia inayopenda kusikia compliment kama sisi kina dada; au at least tunaoonesha waziwazi kuwa tunataka kumwagiwa vijisifa now and then. Na wengi twapumbazika kirahisi kwa sifa hizo hata kama twajua hazitoki moyoni mwa msemaji.

Utamu zaidi unakuja pale ambapo unajua hiyo sifa ni kutoka moyoni mwa msemaji (kwa maana inaambatana na vitendo ambavyo vinaitafsiri hiyo "you are the most byutiful girl in the whole world" thing. Mfano if you cant stop staring at me, au you dont get enough of me n.k.

Nitafurahi kujua kuwa na kina kaka nao wanapenda compliments, sometimes nafeel they dont care au may be we are chocking them with our "l love this and that, l like they way you talk kind of thing".

Kwa muda ni hayo tu, naweza kuchangia zaidi wataalamu wakija!
 
Mimi kiukweli ukitaka kuniboa anza kunisifia
mimi kama mtu akiniomba outing sipendi kabias kusikia haya maneno
umependeza...
Una miguu mizuri....
Una macho mazuri..... And the like.....
Wewe niulize tu unataka nini maana najijua nilivo bwana kwani sina kiooo?
Sifa zenyewe za wanaume matapeli wakubwa nyie kwendeni huko
uzuri bongoo?
 
daughter said:
compliments zikizidishwa zinaboa.zinatakiwa kuwa sincere sio unanipa misifa kibao wakati najijua kabisa sistahili
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matapeli on duty my dear tupilia mbali.....
 
daughter said:
Compliments zikizidishwa zinaboa.zinatakiwa kuwa sincere sio unanipa misifa kibao wakati najijua kabisa sistahili
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Nnm hapo kwenye bold pananistua, ni sifa gani ambayo hustahili? Mf amesema wewe ni mdada mzuri kuliko wote duniani; ndivyo anavyokuona na kwa mtazamo wangu ndivyo mpenzi wako anapaswa kukuona. Si wanasema uzuri uko kwenye macho ya mtazamaji?
 
Kama compliment ni sincere, zina uzuri wake.
Zinakupa confidence na kukufanya ukisikie kijana zaidi.

Natamani kushare a story hapa, but I cant.
 
Smile said:
Mimi kiukweli ukitaka kuniboa anza kunisifia
mimi kama mtu akiniomba outing sipendi kabias kusikia haya maneno
umependeza...
Una miguu mizuri....
Una macho mazuri..... And the like.....
Wewe niulize tu unataka nini maana najijua nilivo bwana kwani sina kiooo?
Sifa zenyewe za wanaume matapeli wakubwa nyie kwendeni huko
uzuri bongoo?
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Smile, mdada mwenzio akikusifia unaboreka pia?
 
Kongosho said:
Kama compliment ni sincere, zina uzuri wake.
Zinakupa confidence na kukufanya ukisikie kijana zaidi.

Natamani kushare a story hapa, but I cant.
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Sincerity ndilo neno!
Jamani kongosho, tushirikishe basi? Hata kwa PM
 
daughter said:
Compliments zikizidishwa zinaboa.zinatakiwa kuwa sincere sio unanipa misifa kibao wakati najijua kabisa sistahili
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Daughter,sasa your other half atajuaje kwamba zimezidi au la?Na utajuaje kuwa compliments hizi zinatoka moyoni au la?
 
jamani hivi vitu vinategemeana na jinsi wawili wenye mahusiano walivyojizoesha mathalani kuna wengine ambao huwa tunapenda kusifiwa ktk utendaji wakazi like umepika msosi mzuri kweli, au mambo yako kwenye 6*6 ni yananichanganya, ila kwenye vitu vya nje like shape, kupendeza huwa vinaboa sana.

ila sasa kuna wakati ukisifwa umependeza unapata confidence sana unapokuwa mbele za watu kwa hyo kila mtu inategemea anapenda nini au amezoea nini
 
Smile said:
Mimi kiukweli ukitaka kuniboa anza kunisifia
mimi kama mtu akiniomba outing sipendi kabias kusikia haya maneno
umependeza...
Una miguu mizuri....
Una macho mazuri..... And the like.....
Wewe niulize tu unataka nini maana najijua nilivo bwana kwani sina kiooo?
Sifa zenyewe za wanaume matapeli wakubwa nyie kwendeni huko
uzuri bongoo?
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Hahahaaaa we smile sio mzima yaani umenifanya nimeangua kicheko mpaka nimejisahau kama niko kazini looh!
 
Smile said:
siboreki cause hapo najua ni ukweli
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si hiyo tu, nafikiri coz unajua huyo dada hana anachohitaji hivyo unachukulia kuwa ni sincere. Najua ni vigumu kumtrust mwanaume (after what most of us went thru); unless we can do without them (full independence, madildo, au kubadilisha preference etc) nafikiri ni bora kutrust maana inaleta ladha ya mapenzi zaidi kuliko kuwa mguu mmoja nje mwingine ndani; ofcourse hakuna gurantee kuwa hautaumizwa tena, lakini ni bora kuishi for the moment and let tommorow take care of itself; enjoy it while it last.
 
Kongosho said:
Kama compliment ni sincere, zina uzuri wake.
Zinakupa confidence na kukufanya ukisikie kijana zaidi.

Natamani kushare a story hapa, but I cant.
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Ai weeeee we Kooooongosho nifanye nini walau utumegee hiyo story
 
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