DIVIDE AND RULE: Mbinu ya kimedani inayotumiwa na single mothers

[Vishu Mtata]

Kwamba wanawake wanazaa na wanaume waliowapenda tu? Kwamba hakuna "mistakes" zinazoweza pelekea mwanamke akajikuta na mimba au hata kuzaa na mtu asiye na mapenzi naye ya dhati? Hivi unajua kwamba mahusiano mengi ya kingono yanayosababisha mimba huwa hayajatokana na kupendana kiukweli? Vyanzo mojawapo huwa ni kudanganyana, utoto, mkumbo, tamaa, ujinga etc. Hebu kuwa serious mkuu.

Mkuu zamani nilikua najifariji kama wewe ila ukweli ni huo.

Miaka ya sasa mwanamke anajua vyrma akisex lini anapata mimba, anaelewa akisex afanye nini asipate mimba, njia za kuzuia na kutoa mimba ni bora kabisa.
Jitu la miaka 20+ ati kapata mimba bahati mbaya!!

 

[Vishu Mtata]

Ahaa nilidhani ni vinginevyo, sasa mbona wanaodai Yule aliyezaaaye Tu mwanzo ndiye anapendwa

Ukichanganua unaelewa tu ni wapi alirisk mpaka akakubali kuzaa mkuu.
Huko ndo alikopenda.

 

[fimboyaukwaju]

Single mother wote wakiingia kwenye mahusiano mapya huwa hawawaongelei vizuri wazazi wenzao. Hauwezi kusikia anasema "baba mtoto yupo anampenda na kumjali sana mwanae" . Mara zote utasikia "hata sijui yupo wapi. Atajua mwenyewe na maisha yake"

Do you think that's coincidence? no, it's a manipulative plan. Mpango ni kuwachonganisha boyfriend mpya na baba mzazi. Boyfriend wa sasa akishamuona baba mzazi ni adui na hatimizi wajibu wake atajaribu kustep up kuziba hiyo nafasi

Sasa hapa kuna masimp huwa wanakamatwa mpaka kufikia hatua ya kujiona wao ndio wanastahili haki ya baba wa mtoto.

Wakati huo single mother yeye anakaa pembeni kuangalia hiyo vita yenu. Maana yoyote atakaeibuka mshindi ni ushindi wake pia. Nyie fanyeni vita vyenu upande utakaoibuka mshindi ndie upande ambao singo mither atauchagua. She is not loyal to your efforts, commitment and sacrifices. Her loyalty crave toward survival and interests of herself and her kid

Embu niambie katika kutaka kuchukua haki ya baba mzazi ukajitolea kumlipia ada mtoto. Baba mzazi akaja akataka kumpeleka mtoto wake kwenye shule ya gharama zaidi. Unafikiri single mother ataheshimu sacrifices zako wewe ambae upo kila siku na kuikataa ile ofa ya baba mtoto? Jibu ni hapana, atachagua mtoto wake asome shule ya gharama zaidi.

Single mother ni kiwanja chenye mgogoro kamwe usijiingize kwenye huo ugomvi wala kutaka kujenga kwenye hicho kiwanja.

Her babydaddy is not a villain, he is just an innocent man who discovered her dark side you're yet to discover.

Don’t be a simp

Mimi daima ntawateyetea singo mazas kuwa ni wanawake wakomavu kwelikweli.Ama kuhusu kwanini kunakuwepo na singo mazas,majibu ni haya:
1.kufiwa
2.vituko vya wanawaume ni asilimia 70
3.vituko vya wanawake asikimia 30
hivyo si jambo la ajabu singo mazas kuwashutumu wanaume

 

[Natafuta Ajira]

Mkuu zamani nilikua najifariji kama wewe ila ukweli ni huo.

Miaka ya sasa mwanamke anajua vyrma akisex lini anapata mimba, anaelewa akisex afanye nini asipate mimba, njia za kuzuia na kutoa mimba ni bora kabisa.
Jitu la miaka 20+ ati kapata mimba bahati mbaya!!

Mimba sio malaria kusema itakuja kwa kushtukiza

 

[Bush Dokta]

Mimba sio malaria kusema itakuja kwa kushtukiza

Inakuja kutokana na nyege

 

[Vishu Mtata]

Mimba sio malaria kusema itakuja kwa kushtukiza

Jamaa bila shaka amemuani singo maza hivyo anamtetea.

Ila hili binafsi nimeprove mara kadhaa, labda wale wa miaka ya 90 ambao hawakua na uelewa mkubwa wa mambo ya uzazi ila sio sasa mkuu.

 

[Zemanda]

Uyoh single mother alkufany nn ?

Hapana, swali zuri ni "kwanini wewe unawatetea masingle mother na kuwakingia kifua kwa faida gani?

 

[Tsh]

Hapana, swali zuri ni "kwanini wewe unawatetea masingle mother na kuwakingia kifua kwa faida gani?

Ni vile hujamuona tu huyo single mother, watoto wake wanatia huruma kweli.

 

[Zemanda]

Mm nikishajua ww n singo maza hata salamu skup

Hata ukiwa na upwiru busu hapati si ndio?

 

[Zemanda]

Why you guys, you never talk about SINGLE FATHERS… why

Kwanin? Tunawaonea sana hawa singo mazas na ukuti hata siku moja tukidiscus kuhusu singo fazas why

Jibu ni simple sana single father hawa exist in real life kwasababu kitendo cha mwanaume kutengana au kumpoteza mwanamke wake then akabakia na mtoto au watoto then huwa hana option ya kuishi pekee yake na watoto huwa anatafuta mwanamke wanaanzisha familia upya.

Wanawake on the other hand wanazaa na wanaume ambao hawajengi nao familia. Hebu nikuulize unamwitaje single father mwanaume ambaye anafamilia yake ila kazaa na binti fulani? Single kivipi na yupo ndani ya ndoa na ana mkewe?

Nakupa mfano mwingine,atokee binti amezaa na mwanaume wakashindwana,then huyu binti akaamua kukabidhi mtoto kwa baba yake halafu yeye akaenda anza mahusiano upya na mwanaume mwingine then wakafunga ndoa na wakapata watoto wengine,huyu mwanamke utamwitaje single mother?🤔 Wanaitwa masingle mother kwasababu wengi wanachukia ndoa,wakipata vihela vya kununua kitimoto kila weekend wanakuwa na dharau sana na wanaume na wanasema hawahitaji wanaume,sasa unawalinganishaje na wanaume?

Mifumo dume.. makosa mengi sana anapigwa nayo singo maza

Mfumo dume haujawahi wala hautawahi kuwa tatizo kwa mwanamke, mwanaume na jamii kwa ujumla.

Kinachoendelea kwasasa ni matokeo ya kukosekana mfumo dume ndani ya jamii.

Ni kukosa akili au elimu kama utadhania pale mwanamke anapoharibikiwa basi ni mwanaume kasabisha hiyo ni fikra potofu na ndio imetufikisha hapa.

wanawake wa sasa mnaishi mnavyojiskia ninyi sio mfumo dume unavyo taka.

Mfumo dume unataka mwanamke asijihusishe na mwanaume nje ya ridhaa ya wazazi ,je sio ninyi wanawake ndio kila siku mnapinga hilo na kutaka wanaume mjichagulie wenyewe,hapo mfumo dume ulikukandamiza wapi kama mwanamke na ulichagua mwenyewe,wakati mabibi za mabibi zako walichaguliwa wanaume wa kuishi nao ninyi mnakataa kuchaguliwa mbona mnaowachagua hamdumu nao?🤔

Mfumo dume unataka mwanamke akae ndani ya himaya ya mume wake na mwanaume asimamie majukumu 100% kwa mkewe,ninyi wanawake mkasema hapana na sisi tunataka tutoke tutafute. Kumbuka ukitoka nje unakuwa umeacha majukumu yako kama mke so utalazimika kuwajibika kwa 100% katika familia, na huu mtihani wengi unawashinda ndio maana mahusiano kwenu ni kama adhabu hamuelewi cha kufanya,mnabakia kuteseka na maisha ambayo wanaume hawakuwahi kuwaambia muyachague mitaka ninyi wenyewe,hapo mfumo dume umehusikaje kumuumiza mwanamke?

Ukifutilia watoto wa kiume wenye changamoto nyingi za kitabia ambao wanashindwa kuishi na wanawake ni zao la mama dhaifu au baba aliyetoka familia au ukoo wenye bibi dhaifu au babu dhaifu kwenye malezi. Ukifuatilia familia nyingi zenye wanaume imara katazame ukoo wake uone kama hautakutaka na mfumo dume.

Mfumo dume ni uongozi na direction,mfumo jike ni usimamizi na kufuata utaratibu. Sasa ukimuweka mwanamke kuwa ndie mkuu wa kaya utegemee nini kwa offsprings wake?

 

[elizaberth andrea]

Single mother wote wakiingia kwenye mahusiano mapya huwa hawawaongelei vizuri wazazi wenzao. Hauwezi kusikia anasema "baba mtoto yupo anampenda na kumjali sana mwanae" . Mara zote utasikia "hata sijui yupo wapi. Atajua mwenyewe na maisha yake"

Do you think that's coincidence? no, it's a manipulative plan. Mpango ni kuwachonganisha boyfriend mpya na baba mzazi. Boyfriend wa sasa akishamuona baba mzazi ni adui na hatimizi wajibu wake atajaribu kustep up kuziba hiyo nafasi

Sasa hapa kuna masimp huwa wanakamatwa mpaka kufikia hatua ya kujiona wao ndio wanastahili haki ya baba wa mtoto.

Wakati huo single mother yeye anakaa pembeni kuangalia hiyo vita yenu. Maana yoyote atakaeibuka mshindi ni ushindi wake pia. Nyie fanyeni vita vyenu upande utakaoibuka mshindi ndie upande ambao singo mither atauchagua. She is not loyal to your efforts, commitment and sacrifices. Her loyalty crave toward survival and interests of herself and her kid

Embu niambie katika kutaka kuchukua haki ya baba mzazi ukajitolea kumlipia ada mtoto. Baba mzazi akaja akataka kumpeleka mtoto wake kwenye shule ya gharama zaidi. Unafikiri single mother ataheshimu sacrifices zako wewe ambae upo kila siku na kuikataa ile ofa ya baba mtoto? Jibu ni hapana, atachagua mtoto wake asome shule ya gharama zaidi.

Single mother ni kiwanja chenye mgogoro kamwe usijiingize kwenye huo ugomvi wala kutaka kujenga kwenye hicho kiwanja.

Her babydaddy is not a villain, he is just an innocent man who discovered her dark side you're yet to discover.

Don’t be a simp

athematically and scientifically, what we call a coincidence is usually just the law of truly large numbers at work. In a world with billions of people and infinite daily interactions, incredibly rare events become statistical certainty. Our brains are naturally wired for pattern recognition (apophenia) and confirmation bias. We vividly remember the one time we thought of an old friend and they text us, but we entirely forget the thousands of times we thought of someone and absolutely nothing happened.

 

[Kijana wa Kizimkazi 2030]

athematically and scientifically, what we call a coincidence is usually just the law of truly large numbers at work. In a world with billions of people and infinite daily interactions, incredibly rare events become statistical certainty. Our brains are naturally wired for pattern recognition (apophenia) and confirmation bias. We vividly remember the one time we thought of an old friend and they text us, but we entirely forget the thousands of times we thought of someone and absolutely nothing happened.

Mbona dada leo umeamkia nyuzi za single mother

 

[Moise Aimar]

Single mother wote wakiingia kwenye mahusiano mapya huwa hawawaongelei vizuri wazazi wenzao. Hauwezi kusikia anasema "baba mtoto yupo anampenda na kumjali sana mwanae" . Mara zote utasikia "hata sijui yupo wapi. Atajua mwenyewe na maisha yake"

Do you think that's coincidence? no, it's a manipulative plan. Mpango ni kuwachonganisha boyfriend mpya na baba mzazi. Boyfriend wa sasa akishamuona baba mzazi ni adui na hatimizi wajibu wake atajaribu kustep up kuziba hiyo nafasi

Sasa hapa kuna masimp huwa wanakamatwa mpaka kufikia hatua ya kujiona wao ndio wanastahili haki ya baba wa mtoto.

Wakati huo single mother yeye anakaa pembeni kuangalia hiyo vita yenu. Maana yoyote atakaeibuka mshindi ni ushindi wake pia. Nyie fanyeni vita vyenu upande utakaoibuka mshindi ndie upande ambao singo mither atauchagua. She is not loyal to your efforts, commitment and sacrifices. Her loyalty crave toward survival and interests of herself and her kid

Embu niambie katika kutaka kuchukua haki ya baba mzazi ukajitolea kumlipia ada mtoto. Baba mzazi akaja akataka kumpeleka mtoto wake kwenye shule ya gharama zaidi. Unafikiri single mother ataheshimu sacrifices zako wewe ambae upo kila siku na kuikataa ile ofa ya baba mtoto? Jibu ni hapana, atachagua mtoto wake asome shule ya gharama zaidi.

Single mother ni kiwanja chenye mgogoro kamwe usijiingize kwenye huo ugomvi wala kutaka kujenga kwenye hicho kiwanja.

Her babydaddy is not a villain, he is just an innocent man who discovered her dark side you're yet to discover.

Don’t be a simp

singo mothers mnawaonea sana
lakini ukikuta singo maza makini utafurahia sana

 

[hip hop uchwara]

Aisee

 

[mwandende]

Halafu ukiwa na mahusiano na single mother unakosa amani kabisa 😄😄.

Siku moja nilikwenda kumtembelea baby mama wa mwanangu,,kumbe yule mama mtoto wng ana penzi jipya mimi sina habari.
Basi nilipofika nikakuta jamaa fulani kakaa kwenye kochi anatazama tv.
Baada ya introduction ,, jamaa akafahamu kwmba mimi ndy baba mtoto wa yule single mother,
Basi punde si punde yule Jamaa alijifunika gazeti la daily news tangu saa nne hadi saa saba anajidai anasoma kaziba uso na hana story na mtu..😄😄.
Baadae kidogo akatoka pale kwenye kochi akapotea,,mida naondoka namwona kamweka yule mama mtoto wng mtu kati analalamika sana ujio wng pale..😄😄.
Aisee,,naondoka huku mama mtoto ananambiya hapa kwko njoo muda wowote 😄😄..

Jamaa akabwaga zigo nikawa kama kawaida naavamia alipo mama Mtoto napiga nae story...
Single mother mapenzi yake ya kweli yapo kwa baba mtoto wa kwnz.
Wengine wote anaigiza tu...