carmel
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nimegonga mpwa nenda kathibitishe.
"Help! I'm Trapped In a Relationship I Don't Want to Be In!"
"Help! I'm Trapped In a Relationship I Don't Want to Be In!"
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Teamo
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Fugwe
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Inavyoonekana wewe ni mchunaji. Mwenzako anagharimia hayo yote na huna mpango naye lakini unachukua tu offer hizo??? wewe dada, sasa siku ya kumwambia leo basi reaction yake itakuwaje???
Shaycas
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You got nothing to lose.If you loved him because of those offers,then you're cursed too but if you loved him from the bottom of your heart,sit down with him and discuss the matter,otherwise you're tired of him or you have got another one.
According to your statement the guy or that family is cursed not to mary to Chagga women but you didn't say whether he has told you that he won't marry you.
According to your statement the guy or that family is cursed not to mary to Chagga women but you didn't say whether he has told you that he won't marry you.
carmel
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Marrying a chagga= curse
vivian =chagga
cross multiplication that one
so, vivian =curse
Hope u understand now shaycas
Asprin
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Welcome to Mathematicians Club!
Masaki
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Hapo ndipo matatizo yanapoanzia. Hata ukipata mwanaume mwingine anayekupenda kwa dhati, atatishiwa maisha ya huyo mwanaume kwa kuambiwa kwamba wewe ni demu wake na kwamba anakuhudumia kila kitu!
If I may ask you, do you love him? What if kama kusingekuwa na pingamizi la wosia alioacha babu yake, je ungekubali kuolewa naye?
Masaki
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That is the point Shaycas, you can say it again...and again!
Vivy you are 24....then nachukulia kwamba huyo jamaa yako yuko kwenye early 30's.....kwa assumption kwamba ili mtu aweze kumudu kulipa bills zinazozidi 600,000pm (ni hii ni minimum) kwa gf wake alone lazima awe na kipato nadhani kisichopungua 2.5m (na kipato hiki si rahisi kwa yanki mdogo kumudu)....
then awe hana ratiba za kuoa (sababu inabidi akuache ndo aoe), napata impression kwamba ni Liyumba type?....kwamba wewe ni small house?
If I'm wrong, I do apologise!
then awe hana ratiba za kuoa (sababu inabidi akuache ndo aoe), napata impression kwamba ni Liyumba type?....kwamba wewe ni small house?
If I'm wrong, I do apologise!
Theodora
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You are in a dilemma maana he supported u in monetary aspects... Lakini as TD Jakes says Let it go - Do not stay around in such a relationship. Lesson number 1 be independant its such a gratifying thought , learn and appreciate urself first. 24 is still young and worth waiting for not just any man but a man worth of you.
Lady N
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😕 yawezekana!!!!!?
Msanii
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Jesus has the answer for you.
None will cast curse to u if you believe in HIM.
Just pry to our Lord and your helpful boy will come to his senses to announce marriage soon days.
Kama vipi funga macho PIGA CHINI kisha anza mbele acha utegemezi mpenzi wangu
Wewe ni msomi: kaa naye uongee naye kuhusu future yenu. Usimwambie unataka kumwacha. Ukisema hivyo utakuwa umeanza vibaya. Cha kufanya ni kumweleza kile unachotarajia maishani mwako, na kumwonesha nia yako ya kutaka hata kuoana naye kama yuko radhi. Ni wazi atakwambia hawezi! Baada ya hapo sasa unaweza kumweleza hasara za kuendelea na mahusiano yenu bila kuwa na malengo ya kuoana. Katika kumweleza hayo jitahidi kum-convince kwa hoja hadi yeye mwenyewe aone kweli kuachana ndiyo njia sahihi na yenye faida kwako na kwake. Kumbe hoja zako zisuke zijikite katika faida ya kuachana kwenu; ma hasara ya kuendeleza mahusiano mliyo nayo. Ukishamweza tu hapo basi unachukua hatua mara moja. Ila usipokee tena misaada yake. uwe tayari kujigharamia hayo mengine. Kumbe, uamuzi ni wako!
Ujengelele
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Wachagga ndivyo walivyo, hawana mapenzi ya kweli bali ni kumchuna mtu tu, pitia threads mbili kuhusiana na mapenzi ya Wachagga upate ushahidi. Hili la kutoolewa alikuwa analijua siku nyingi lakini akatulia tuli, baada ya kuchuna sana sasa anatafuta pa kutokea maana kishatimiza mradi wake.
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Prodigal Son
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Una uhakika??? unakosea tena kabisa unavyowatukana dada wakichagga bila kosa, akitokea msukuma moja akaiba utasema waukuma wote ni wezi????????? tabia ya mchagga moja haimaaninishi kwamba mabinti wote wa kichagga ndo walivyo mnawaonea tu naamini wenngi walioa mabinti wa kichagga hawaregret hata kidogo, naomba uwatake radhi tafadhali
Jeff
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kama umri unakutupa mama anza kutafuta wa future then huyo unamtupa taratibu,akishajua una mwingine hata yeye ataanza kujisogeza pembeni na asipofanya hivyo basi we unamwambia ukweli ya kuwa unataka wa future sio kupotezeana muda,na bahati nzuri nae analijua hilo so hatoumia sana
Serendipity
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Kula good time, sio lazima kuolewa!
Sugar wa Ukweli
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Dada Vivian kusuka au kunyoa kivipi?,una maana anaweza amua kukubali kukuoa baada ya wewe kumwambia unataka kuolewa?