Kabla ya ndoa, kwanini mnatumia muda mrefu kuchunguzana?

KENZY

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Mtu mnakaa miaka mpaka sita mara miezi saba!!.. kwanini..?
hamuoni kama mnapoteza muda,mnachunguzana nini kwani kuna mtu ametokea sayari tofauti na hii..? au umeambiwa unaoana na alien..?
Mnachunguzana tabia kwani kuna tabia gani usiyoijua hapa duniani..? kwani kuna tabia inayotoka nje ya hii dunia..? ama unaetaka kuoana nae amezaliwa na peremende..?
Wiki mbili zinatosha uchumba baada ya hapo ndoa tusichoshane vizazi.
 
Bianadamu achunguziki tena uchumba ndo mbaya zaidi kila mtu anajifanya malaika
 
Unapooa au kuolewa unachagua partner for life, huo muda unatumika kujua kama ni qualified , ata fit or atakuletea matatizo. Although miaka sita ni mingi, at least mwaka au miaka miwili pamoja
 
Detective J said:
Unapooa au kuolewa unachagua partner for life, huo muda unatumika kujua kama ni qualified , ata fit or atakuletea matatizo. Although miaka sita ni mingi, at least mwaka au miaka miwili pamoja
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hao waliochunguzana muda mrefu mbona wanaachana..?
unajua huko mahakamani ndoa ngapi zinavunjika..?
 
Kitendo cha kuchukua muda mrefu peke yake mara nyingi husababisha kutokuwepo kwa ndoa, ukimchunguza sana bata huwezi kumla "Waswahili" wameshanielewa na hiki ndio kinachoendelea kwenye jamii zetu.
 
KENZY said:
hao waliochunguzana muda mrefu mbona wanaachana..?
unajua huko mahakamani ndoa ngapi zinavunjika..?
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Kuna relevancy kwenye haya mambo, suala la kuachana lita vary na mtu na mtu,na pia ita depend nini kimetokea na wame invest muda gani
So hakuna unit measure ya hayo mambo

unajua how expensive ndoa kuvunjika? Especialy when watoto are involved , I mean kwa wakristo ( kwa waislam sijui, could be easy )
 
Yani mtu alelewe huko ntimbwilimbwi na mimi mtopea huko. Tukutane tufunge ndoa bila kujua tabia?

Utaoa vigagula.
 
Mhandisi Mzalendo said:
Yani mtu alelewe huko ntimbwilimbwi na mimi mtopea huko. Tukutane tufunge ndoa bila kujua tabia?

Utaoa vigagula.
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sawa kaanae miaka 20 halafu umuoe uone kama atabadirika kutokuwa kigagula!
 
Nimekuwa na mahusiano na Binti Mmoja kwa miaka Tisa, ila nimekuja kumuoa Binti ambaye toka Namfaham mpaka yeye kubeba Mimba ni Mwezi mmoja na Nusu. Mpaka leo nikisema nipewe nafasi ya kuchagua tena basi ntamchagua huyu niliyenaye Mara 1000.
Nilichoamin ni kuwa mke au Mume hatafutwi wala kuchunguza chunguza sio Maembe ya Kiangazi hayo
 
miaka 9 mkuu sasa huyo akawe mke wa mtu mwengine duh!...😂
 
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