Marriage Is a Hypocritical Institution Part 2, Kauli sifuti ng'o

Watu8 · Jul 25, 2014

lara 1 said:
GOOD! Sasa naomba EVALUATION YA WATENDA KAZI AMBAO WAPO KAZINI TAYARI! Tuanzie hapo!

Kama nilivyoeleza katika post ya awali kuwa ufanisi wa watu hao wawili katika zile scenarios mbili haulingani...

Lakini kwa mantiki hiyo hatuwezi kuiponda KAZI hiyo kwa kuwa tu mmoja anafanya vibaya na mwingine anafanya vizuri...

Au kwa lugha nyingine ni kwamba mtia doa (dosari) KAZI ni MFANYAKAZI mwenyewe.

Mfano huu huu unaweza ukautaswirisha kwenye NDOA pia...taasisi ya NDOA ipo tayari ikingoja watu kuingia...

Wenye kuitendea haki ndoa wata-prevail lakini wale wasioweza kuitendea haki ni wazi wata-fail tu...

In the world of mathematics, NDOA tunaweza kuifananisha na a certain complex function ambayo inategemea aina ya variables ambazo utailisha ili ikupe results fulani...

Ukiweka variables ambazo si sahihi ima faima huwezi kupata jibu sahihi...

REALITY · Jul 25, 2014

Tom B Kilongola said:
As far as I am concerned, naona ndoa ni aina fulani ya mazoea ya maisha. Eti kwamba ukifika umri fulani basi ili udhihirishe uanaume/uanawake wako lazima upate mwenza wa kuishi naye kwenye kifungo cha maisha kijulikanacho kama ndoa. For me ndoa na jela hakuna tofauti zaidi ya mazingira tu, halafu kingine kinachonifanya nisifikirie kuoa ni ukweli kwamba nshapata karibu kila kitu wanandoa wanachopeana, now what? Hakuna jipya kwenye ndoa.

you are totally lost

Chauro · Jul 25, 2014

Piganeni basi mmalize hasira hahaaa watu wana jazba humu kila mtu aamini kile anachoamini.

Watu8 · Jul 25, 2014

REALITY said:
sawa ila wanandoa wajinga hupoteza maana ya ndoa na weruvu hufanya ndoa iwe timilifu

Nimekupa 'like' kwa kuwa umeandika fact...ila uliniboa sana juzi ulipojibu post yangu kizandiki...damnnnnn!!!!

MankaM · Jul 25, 2014

lara 1 said:
MJADALA NDO HOT CAKE YA SAIVI! Siuachi ngoooo! Nani aanzishe topic idode wakati topic inayouza ipo.? Tunapokezana vijiti tu! Kesho mtu atani jibu to share the glory of this topic! Hahaaaaaaa! Sasa hivi page 10.

unamaanisha unataka kujaza page au

50thebe · Jul 25, 2014

lara 1 said:
mi nangojea hizo zenu nzito nzitooooo naona watu wanatoa nyongo mwilini hamna, hoja wala mjuu wa hoja, wana tapa tapa tu, busy trying to kill the messenger to avoid the message!

Dondoo ya hoja zangu nzito hii hapa

Dhumuni la ndoa

Masahafu ya Quran Tukufu na Biblia Takatifu yameeleza umuhimu wa taasisi ya ndoa
Tafiti za kisayansi na kijamii zimeonesha na zinaoesha umuhimu wa ndoa
Mazingira ya kijamii yanaonesha namna wanandoa wanavyoepuka msongo wa mawazo kwa kuishi vema

Changamoto za ndoa

Masahafu ya Quran Tukufu na Biblia yameanukuu hadithi zinazoakisi changamoto za ndoa
Tafiti za kisayansi na kijamii nazo zimeonesha na zinaoesha changamoto za ndoa

Maoni yangu

Ukichukua changamoto za ndoa, ukazijadili huku ukishibisha mifano ya changamoto hizo kasha ukahitimisha ati ndoa ni unafiki, hitimisho lako nibaki kuwa jepesi maana limebobea kwenye ushahidi wa upande mmoja.
Hitimisho zuri la mada/hoja yako lingebeba pia namna ndoa inavyoisaidia jamii na namna ndoa inavyoibomoa jamii. Hapo hitimisho lako lingekuwa zito.

NB: Ni imani yangu kuwa waweza kujazia ‘nyama' dondoo hapo juu.

Janjaweed · Jul 25, 2014

Chauro said:
Piganeni basi mmalize hasira hahaaa watu wana jazba humu kila mtu aamini kile anachoamini.

sio kila hasira humalizwa na mangumi!!

KATASAN'KAZA · Jul 25, 2014

lara 1 said:
Hahahaaaa! HII VITA INAITWA LIVE TO DIE ANOTHER DAY! Kila siku inachukua sura mpya!

Hast generalization is the fallacy u'r committing without knowing..! Usije ukajificha kichani kunya ukajisemea moyoni kuwa sasa naweza kushusha mzigo with hawanioni. Kams una busara sema sioni with. Lala0 ufanyacho wewe u'r assuming that all marriage zip sababu wa wanavumulia mateso. Kumbuka ujabainisha mini watu eakichukue km furaha ya ndoa au mate so ya ndoa, kumbuka kwanza matatizo na furaha ya ndoa no tofauti kutoka jamii moja hadi nyingine, mfano mkurwa km mwanamke ajawahi kupigwa kwa kuonewa wivu hawezi amino km anapendwa.

Watu8 · Jul 25, 2014

Chauro said:
Piganeni basi mmalize hasira hahaaa watu wana jazba humu kila mtu aamini kile anachoamini.

Nyumba hujengwa kwa hekima,na kuimarishwa kwa busara.Kwa maarifa vyumba vyake hujazwa vitu vya thamani na vya kupendeza(mithali 24:3-4).

Heaven on Earth · Jul 25, 2014

ladyfurahia said:
mkuu usitusome tiapo kaneno japo sentense 1

haaa ukimaliza kumuombea Lara..., uje na kwangu lols Mama mchungaji.

lara 1 · Jul 25, 2014

ng`wana ong`wa kulwa said:
lara 1 said:

Binti nakuhurumia sana Mungu wa Mbingu na Nchi atakuhukumu sawasawa na yote unayoyanena nimemaliza ni juu yako kuendelea kulalama kujionyesha unajua au uachane na upuuzi wako huu.

"Aonywaye mara nyingi akishupaza shingo yake atavunjika ghafla na hapati dawa"

NDOA NA IHESHIMIWE NA WATU WOTE.

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Hahahaaaa! I MUST ADMIT I HAVE SEEN A LOT FROM YOU KUANZIA JANA BUT THIS NEARLY CREEPED OUT! Nimeomba anisamehee tu kwa blasphemy yeyote kama nimeifanya!

ILA DUA KAMA HII UNGEWAOMBEA WANANDOA WOOTE WASIO WAAMINIFU, WANAO CHEPUKA, WANAO NYANYASA WENZAO NA KUWANYIMA FURAHA YA NDOA, WANAO ACHA WENZAO NA KUZIMA NDOTO ZAO WAHUKUMIWE SAWA SAWA NA MATENDO YAO TUNGEKUWA HALF WAY KURUDI MARRIAGE IS A SACRED NOBLE INSTITUTION, IHESHIMIWE NA WATU WOTE! The lost course ingepatikana na good old days zingerudi! Ila coz dua unaitumia kama fimbo kutuchapia wale tunao point aout nyufa nyufa hizo ili muwahi kujenga ukuta sasa hapo nikuachie na MUNGU WAKO!

Tom B Kilongola · Jul 25, 2014

REALITY said:
you are totally lost

Am never lost unless you know where I'm going. Besides everybody has their decisions in life and my decision is based on my experience.

Chauro · Jul 25, 2014

Janjaweed said:
sio kila hasira humalizwa na mangumi!!

Kuna watu bila mangumi hasira haziwaishi ....hizi cheche hapa wangekua wanaonana lazima kuna ambao wangekula makwezi teh.

Mkaruka · Jul 25, 2014

You WiIl NEVER GET PERFECTIONISM,from anything inayokuwa practiced na binadamu.So Opposite ya NDOA ndo yenye PERFECTION?

Evz · Jul 25, 2014

lara 1 said:
Hahaaaaa! Me shallow in bible? Hahaaaa! Stop kidding! Feel free KUINGIA, hapa upo sio na mtu wa wasi wasi nilipata A IN BIBLE KNOWLEDEGE O LEVEL, OLD TESTAMENT NA NEW TESTAMENT NIKO VIZURI! I insist INGIA!

Okay kwa hio UMEKUBALI UNAFIKI UPO ILA UNASEMEHEKA MDA WOWOTE UKIBAMBWA LAKINI, USIPOBAMBWA NUSRA, NUSRA ALMANUSRA UMENUSURIKA?

So pi unakubali mambo si tambarare huko, unafiki upo ila mnakabiliana nao?

NO FURTHER QUESTIONS YOUR HONOR!

nina wasiwasi na IQ ya huyu kiumbe

Chauro · Jul 25, 2014

watu8 said:
Nyumba hujengwa kwa hekima,na kuimarishwa kwa busara.Kwa maarifa vyumba vyake hujazwa vitu vya thamani na vya kupendeza(mithali 24:3-4).

Mwenzetu kaamua kutusaidia nyie mnampigia kelele.??!!

Janjaweed · Jul 25, 2014

Chauro said:
Kuna watu bila mangumi hasira haziwaishi ....hizi cheche hapa wangekua wanaonana lazima kuna ambao wangekula makwezi teh.

nawajua, wengine ukiwaona machoni wapole lakini dk mbili wanakuchania shati...

haya maisha wacha yapite tu... tufanye mambo mengine

Sibonike · Jul 25, 2014

Ndoa ni wanandoa.
Si kila mwanaume ni husband material.

Si kila mwanamke ni wife material.

Ndoa kama taasisi yoyote inachangamoto zake, zinaweza kuijenga au kuibomoa.

Kila ndoa duniani ni ya aina yake, hakuna mbili zinazofanana. Ni kama finger print.

Uvumilivu katika ndoa ni muhimu. Kama ilivyo ili kufikia malengo yoyote yale.

What more should I say? Marriage is a very noble institution!

Miss Neddy · Jul 25, 2014

lara 1 said:
Hahaaaa! MI SIJASEMA BASI ZIMA WANA MAANA AU HAWANA! ARGUMENT YANGU NI KUWA HUMOMMWENYE BASI SIO TAMBARAREEEEEEEE! Mna UNAFIKI UNAFIKI ndani yake kama hulka yetu binadamu!

kama unafki upo haiwezi kwa wote ni moja ya kumi ya abiria waweza kuwa wanafki asilimia kubwa ni raha kwa sababu kila anaingia kwenye taasisi hiyo hashurutiswi ni kwa hiari yake

REALITY · Jul 25, 2014

watu8 said:
Nimekupa 'like' kwa kuwa umeandika fact...ila uliniboa sana juzi ulipojibu post yangu kizandiki...damnnnnn!!!!

nimesahau mkuu koho koho

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