Dear I don't expected you to understanding me but I have learned not to judge others but to pray for them because you are not / I'm not the one who hold the key of her life including you .. Na hata neno linasema do not judge ... What you can do is to wish her well .. After all she didn't come here to ask for the advice .. She came to share her happiness so let it be .. He who finds a good wife , he finds a good thing , I apply the same for her .. She found a good husband to be then she found a good thing .. What you can do is to pray fot her so hivyo vitu vibaya unavyohisi visimmtokee, I think it is a better idea than talking negatives and judge her .. Remember usifananishe wengine na huyu Dada .. Thats why tumezaliwa tofauti, na majina tofauti , hivyo Mungu ujibu prayers kitofauti.. Na ndio sio wote wamwitao Bwana , Bwana wataurithi ufalme wa mbingu.. Thanks..