Pongezi kwenu Single Mothers

[HIMARS]

Wanaume wenyewe siku hizi hata hizo mbegu zakiume wanazo basi, wamebaki kuuziwa dawa za kuongeza nguvu za kiume tu.

Matatizo ya baba yako ndo unahisi ni ya wote

 

[new gal]

Today I would like to celebrate single mothers. I may not have been raised by one but the burden of single motherhood is not lost on me.

One of my ex is a single mother. She has one lovely boy! From what i see her go through, my admiration and respect for her goes higher each day.

Single mother is a parent who stayed when things went awry and the man walked away. The single mother stood by her children and took the challenge head on! To me a single mother is the definition of wonder woman. Her salary and everything is not hers but belongd to her children.

She is the man and woman of the house, she pays the bills single-handedly, draws up family budget and ensure the salary lasts up to next pay. You can not compare a single mother to a married woman who has support of a husband from home to paedriatic win

Single mother watch over her son/daughter all by herself and still make it to work next day and whenever the children begin to ask 'where is daddy?' she has to come up with an answer solid and wise enough for the sake of peace and to protect her children

Yet the society ostracizes the single mother and 'slut-shames' her! Why is she a single mother? Cant she keep a man? And how dare she have children before marriage? We dont know maybe she left an abusive marriage to protect her children from a violent childhood. Or we dont realize she is the parent who stayed when the man walked out on her and refused even to take care of the children. We dont even think may be she is a widow!

We dont celebrate single mothers enough because their strength and tenacity intimidate us and we are left wondering how can a woman possess so much strength? And when she decides to get herself out there and meet new man we tell her she is too old, used to get a man! She is damaged goods. That she has too much buggage and she should be happy alone.Some even say she doesnt deserve dowry! We give her side eye as if single mothers do not deserve love.

We call her a loose woman for having children by one man and going out with another yet we celebrate men with children from different women! This has to stop

I SALUTE ALL STRONG SINGLE MOTHERS OUT THERE

Source: The Citizen.

******* Pongezi kwa Single Mother**********



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Wanachama mbalimbali wakielezea mahusiano yao mazuri na Single Mothers

********** Alivyozama kimapenzi kwa Single Mother*****





********* Mdau awaasa Wanaume wasiwanyanyase Single Mothers**********
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mtoa uzi nione dm nkupe hela ya soda

 

[Avriel]

Leo nimekutana na single father na wanae, kumbe wanaume wanaweza aisee!

 

[Sexless]

Wewe kijana acha kujitwika matatizo. Unaoa single mama? Hapa ni sawa na kufanya maamuzi magumu ya kununua kiwanja chenye mgogoro. Uko tayari kuchukua risk hiyo?

Single mama huwa haachani na mzazi mwenzie. Kumbuka ana damu (mtoto) wa mwanaume mwenzio. Hivyo lazima watawasiliana tu kujadili maisha ya mtoto, ama anaumwa, masuala ya shule, matumizi na mavazi ya mtoto.

Kupitia haya single mama "atachapwa" tena na mzazi mwenzie.

Usiipuuze sauti hii ya kungwi mzoefu Sexless

 

[Walec]

Hawaezi elewa,ngoja siku nikipata time nishushe uzi wenye nondo zote kwanini usioe Single mother.

 

[mzabzab]

Hawa ni wakugegeda na kusepa tuu maana wanajituma hao kitandani balaa....full raha kupewa uno na single maza

 

[Girland]

Je utachagua single mother au aliyetoa mimba?
wapo wanaotoa mimba wakiamini haujafika muda sahihi wa kupata watoto, na wapo wanaovumilia na kujifungua na baadaye kuitwa single mothers.

Utaoa yupi? Kwa ladies utachagua kundi lipi, Single mother au utatoa mimba?

 

[jay-millions]

Huyo wa pili ngumu kumjua maana hamna ushahidi

 

[Girland]

Huyo wa pili ngumu kumjua maana hamna ushahidi

Hahaaaa,kama ukiwa na options mbili hapo juu utachagua ipi

 

[Beesmom]

Sasa watachagua nn,wakati single mom nao huwa wanatoa ujauzito? Acha watu waoe watakacho bila kusarurasarura eti yupi bora.Ubora wa MTU ni kwa muhusika mwenyewe

 

[Mr Devil]

𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐬, 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬

 

[Girland]

Sasa watachagua nn,wakati single mom nao huwa wanatoa ujauzito? Acha watu waoe watakacho bila kusarurasarura eti yupi bora.Ubora wa MTU ni kwa muhusika mwenyewe

Mkuu kwa options hapo juu utachagua yupi

 

[Watu8]

Sasa mwanamke aliyetoa mimba anajulikanaje?

 

[Girland]

Sasa mwanamke aliyetoa mimba anajulikanaje?

Ni ngumu kujua,lakini swali langu ni kwamba ni yupi anafanya maamuzi sahihi

 

[Beesmom]

Mkuu kwa options hapo juu utachagua yupi

Haiwezekani kuchagua tu bila kufikiria....lazima uangukie koroma

 

[Watu8]

Ni ngumu kujua,lakini swali langu ni kwamba ni yupi anafanya maamuzi sahihi

Sasa ni uamuzi gani huja bila kupima baina ya A na B?

 

[Girland]

Sasa watachagua nn,wakati single mom nao huwa wanatoa ujauzito? Acha watu waoe watakacho bila kusarurasarura eti yupi bora.Ubora wa MTU ni kwa muhusika mwenyewe

Jibu zuri,kwa wewe Beesmom ukitokewa na scenario hiyo utafanya nini ? Utatoa Mimba au utazaa uwe single mother?

 

[mama D]

Je utachagua single mother au aliyetoa mimba?
wapo wanaotoa mimba wakiamini haujafika muda sahihi wa kupata watoto, na wapo wanaovumilia na kujifungua na baadaye kuitwa single mothers.

Utaoa yupi? Kwa ladies utachagua kundi lipi, Single mother au utatoa mimba?

Ngoja waje na majibu😂😂😂

 

[mama D]

Sasa watachagua nn,wakati single mom nao huwa wanatoa ujauzito? Acha watu waoe watakacho bila kusarurasarura eti yupi bora.Ubora wa MTU ni kwa muhusika mwenyewe

Santeee

 

[Mbwa dume]

Je utachagua single mother au aliyetoa mimba?
wapo wanaotoa mimba wakiamini haujafika muda sahihi wa kupata watoto, na wapo wanaovumilia na kujifungua na baadaye kuitwa single mothers.

Utaoa yupi? Kwa ladies utachagua kundi lipi, Single mother au utatoa mimba?

Ngoja na mimi nichangie kama ifuatavyo:
Ntaoa Single mother ila anionyeshe yafuatayo,
1.Kaburi la baba wa mtoto/watoto.
2.Cheti cha kifo cha baba wa mtoto.
3.Mashahidi watatu watakaothibitisha ni kweli alikufa na akazikwa.
4. Picha na video za tukio zima la msiba na mazishi.
5. Ikiwezekana kaburi lifukuliwe tuhakikishe kama ni kweli.
6.Ushahidi wa viongozi wa dini waliohudhuria mazishi.
7....ngoja nijifikirie.......