Pongezi kwenu Single Mothers

Pongezi kwenu Single Mothers

Kapeace said:
Hongera tajiri, linaitwaje na linaenda wapi nataka niwe abiria wako siku moja
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Bado sijawa tajiri nadaiwa asilimia 40 sijamaliza deni la kuinunua, alafu nisije kutaja jina kumbe nimezinguana na RTO kwa jeiefu akaanza kunipiga vyeti huko barabarani
 
RRONDO said:
Today I would like to celebrate single mothers. I may not have been raised by one but the burden of single motherhood is not lost on me.

One of my ex is a single mother. She has one lovely boy! From what i see her go through, my admiration and respect for her goes higher each day.

Single mother is a parent who stayed when things went awry and the man walked away. The single mother stood by her children and took the challenge head on! To me a single mother is the definition of wonder woman. Her salary and everything is not hers but belongd to her children.

She is the man and woman of the house, she pays the bills single-handedly, draws up family budget and ensure the salary lasts up to next pay. You can not compare a single mother to a married woman who has support of a husband from home to paedriatic win

Single mother watch over her son/daughter all by herself and still make it to work next day and whenever the children begin to ask 'where is daddy?' she has to come up with an answer solid and wise enough for the sake of peace and to protect her children

Yet the society ostracizes the single mother and 'slut-shames' her! Why is she a single mother? Cant she keep a man? And how dare she have children before marriage? We dont know maybe she left an abusive marriage to protect her children from a violent childhood. Or we dont realize she is the parent who stayed when the man walked out on her and refused even to take care of the children. We dont even think may be she is a widow!

We dont celebrate single mothers enough because their strength and tenacity intimidate us and we are left wondering how can a woman possess so much strength? And when she decides to get herself out there and meet new man we tell her she is too old, used to get a man! She is damaged goods. That she has too much buggage and she should be happy alone.Some even say she doesnt deserve dowry! We give her side eye as if single mothers do not deserve love.

We call her a loose woman for having children by one man and going out with another yet we celebrate men with children from different women! This has to stop

I SALUTE ALL STRONG SINGLE MOTHERS OUT THERE

Source: The Citizen.

******* Pongezi kwa Single Mother**********



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Wanachama mbalimbali wakielezea mahusiano yao mazuri na Single Mothers

********** Alivyozama kimapenzi kwa Single Mother*****





********* Mdau awaasa Wanaume wasiwanyanyase Single Mothers**********
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Basi Mungu akusaidie upate hiyo cancer
 
Lucha said:
Bado sijawa tajiri nadaiwa asilimia 40 sijamaliza deni la kuinunua, alafu nisije kutaja jina kumbe nimezinguana na RTO kwa jeiefu akaanza kunipiga vyeti huko barabarani
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Nitajie route basi unanukia kuwa tajiri kumiliki basi unadhani kitu kidogo?
 
Salute to all strong women who dare to stand by their kids!! Irresponsible men stand somewhere insulting the women taking care of the kids they abandoned!! Shame on them!!!
 
JOHN MAXWELL said:
Njia rahisi ya kuepuka kuwa single maza ni kuacha uzinzi.

Hasara za uzinzi

Unakuwa dumber
Unakuwa na series of mikosi
Magonjwa ya Akili Kama stress ,worry ,fear na depression.

Na hasara mamba 1 ya uzinzi unakosa nuru hata ukiwa ni mzuri vipi wa sura unaishia kuwa dumber MTU wa kutumika na kuachawa.



Tulia usubiri kuolewa Kama unaendekeza uzinzi usitegemee huruma Sana Maisha yapo kwa ajili ya watu wenye discipline.


Uzinzi hauna faida yoyote ni kutokuwa smart kichwani kuwa mzinzi .

Jiulize kwanini mzinzi Ana uwezo wa kuwakumbuka watu wote aliofanya nao ngono ???
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Naomba nirudie sentence yenye utukufu hapo, "Maisha yapo kwaajiri ya watu wenye discipline". Dah maneno mazito sana haya. [emoji25][emoji25][emoji25][emoji25]
 
KingCobra95 said:
sasa kama wa kumuoa hamna, ina maana asizae?? huu ni ujinga.
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Nionyeshe mwanamke ambaye tokea kuzaliwa hajawahi kufuatwa na wanaume serious waliotaka kumuoa kati ya umri wa miaka 16 hadi 25,nikukutanishe na wadada waliochezea usichana wao hadi muda umeenda wameona hawana jinsi wala namna ya kupata mwanaume serious wanaishia kuzaa na wahuni au wanaume za watu.
 
📖Mhadhara wa 22:

Ni kama zimeanza kujengeka fikra na hisia mbaya za kudhani kwamba kuwa SINGLE MOTHER ni kufeli maisha, au ni maumivu makubwa kuliko maumivu mengine yoyote hapa duniani. Kama una fikra hizo achana nazo zitakuchelewesha.

Kuna baadhi ya wanawake baada ya kujikuta wamekuwa SINGLE MOTHERS wanatumbukia kwenye msongo mkubwa wa mawazo. Pengine unakuta mwingine ana kazi nzuri, biashara nzuri, n.k, lakini anajikuta anaharibu biashara yake, ajira yake, mtaji wake kwasababu kutwa yupo ndani anawaza.

Ni kweli kuna maumivu fulani ya kulea mtoto bila uwepo wa karibu wa baba yake, au labda ulidata na penzi la baba wa mtoto. Lakini hebu fikiria kama ulifika muda ukatengana na wazazi wako ukaenda kutafuta maisha pekee yako, kwanini unaharibu maisha yako kwasababu ya msongo wa mawazo ya kutengana na mtu uliyekutana nae ukubwani? - Acha maisha mengine yaendelee.

Wale mnaodhani kuwa SINGLE MOTHER ni maumivu makali sana kuliko maumivu yoyote duniani basi umefeli kufikiria, amka ufikirie tena. Hebu mtafute mwanamke mwenzako ambaye anaishi na mume (ameolewa) lakini hakubahatika kupata mtoto na hana dalili ya kupata mtoto, halafu uketi nae sebuleni ili akwambie ile hali anayopitia yeye ikoje - Hapo ndipo utagundua kwamba Mwenyezi Mungu amekupendelea kwa kukupa neema kubwa sana.

Kuhusu kuwa SINGLE MOTHER na masuala ya kiuchumi:- Usilinganishe neema ya kupata mtoto na vitu vya Mzungu ambavyo vinatafutwa. Ukishakuwa na uwezo wa kudaka ujauzito hakika mwambie Mungu "asante" kwa sababu umepata neema kubwa sana, hayo mengine ambayo bado hukuyapata yanasubiri juhudi zako na utulivu wako.

NB: "Sio lazima kuwa Single mother, lakini ikibidi; yaache maisha mengine yaendelee"

Right Marker
Dar es salaam
Sept 27, 2024.
 
Wadau huwa unanipa wakati mgumu hili swala ni kweli ukioa singo mama yule jamaaa wake anauwezakano mkubwa wa kutembea na mkeo ambae ni mzazi mwenzake?
 
Hammer11 said:
Yes boss
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Kwani imeandikwa lazima mzazi mwenzie awe anaishi mkoa mmoja na mnaoishi nyie kwa sasa...

2..je vipi mke akiwa anagongwa na wengine na sio mzazi mwenzie..


3..hivi vitu kwa sasa ngumu kuvikwepa kugongewa kupo ni kuomba tu
 
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