Thamani ya maneno POLE na SAMAHANI katika Mahusiano

mahondaw said:

mi wangu ana jeurii moja matata......hata akosee haombi ng'o...dawa yake ipo jikoni

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kuwa makini na dawa yako, kuna nyingne unaweza mpa na matokeo yake yakawa hasi zaidi ukataman bora usingempa hiyo dawa

Khantwe said:

Yani hata asiposema samahani akubali kosa tu inatosha

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si ndio mpaka akubali sasa

Kaazi kweli kweli

Evelyn Salt said:

madharau yasio na kichwa wala miguu tena kuna hiyo defense mechanism mtu anakosa afu anawahi kununa mxyuuuu hapo anajiwekea tahadhari asiulizwe uboya tu, umekosa sema sorry haibadili uanaume!!!

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Mimi nikigundua nimekosa ninachofanya ni kuamka asubuhi sana na kujiandalia vitu vyangu mwenyewe bila kumuamsha majeruhi wangu naenda zangu job kimyakimya nikiwa nimeacha hela zaidi kuliko kawaida kwenye dressing
table,siku hiyo ntapiga sana simu kujua mambo yanaendaje hapo home au kazini kwake kama atakua kazini,ile nikitoka tu kazini moja kwa moja uchumi supermarket au mlimani city kuna vitu ambavyo ananipmbaga nimchikulie lakini najifanyaga nipo busy ila kwa siku hiyo namchukulia in excess,baada ya hapo moja kwa moja home tena nikiwa sober cpitii maeneo yetu yale!!!kama kuna mechi ya arsenal siku hiyo naangalizia yumbani sio jackeys tena.....basi hapo utamwona tu anacheka na kusema "we unajifanya mjanja sana,ukirudia teenaa...."..wanawake bwana!!!

MsakaGamba said:

Mnyime ile kitu inayo mfanya awe mpole akiwa juu yako.

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hahahahahaaha ...nkimnyima anakua mdogooooooooo

kilambalambila said:

kuwa makini na dawa yako, kuna nyingne unaweza mpa na matokeo yake yakawa hasi zaidi ukataman bora usingempa hiyo dawa

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Haha ni maneno tu haya siwezi fanya hivooo..

ze-dudu said:

ikiiva mpe anywe halafu uone kama humo ndani mtaendelea kuishi wote

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khakhaaaa kuna dawa za aina nyingi si mpaka hiyo unayoifikiria

Inabidi mzoee tu na kumsoma mwanaume wako kuwa yeye namna ya kuomba msamaha kwake ikoje ila kupiga magoti au kusema nisamehe ni ngumu kumesa

Khantwe said:

Lakini facial expression si inaonyesha kuwa amekubali kosa....mwanaume akiwa anaomba msamaha ovyo ovyo anaboa bhana

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yeah anaonesha but ile kutamka ndio noo!!!

Lizzy said:

Next........................................????


Jeuri, kiburi, dharau, Ego and the likes..I think.

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Baada ya hapo unampa muda wa kushusha pressure...ila isiposhuka unampandia na kumuonesha kuwa wewe ndiye baba mwenye nyumba..... Umeelewa?

Kuna kabila fulani wanatumia msemo kuwa, "Baba hashindwi kesi ...dhidi ya mke au mwanae"...Na ikitokea baba akashindwa basi hukumu inasomeka kuwa hakuna aliyeshindwa!

Ni somo dogo tu ila muhimu sana kuwaonesha kuwa "Men are not big boys"!!!!

miss neddy said:

umeona akijishusha sana ataonekana bushoke

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Hivi mnajua kwa nini watu wa Malawi walichukia sana pale rais wao wa awamu iliyopita mwanamama Joyce Banda alipomsalimia Malkia wa Uingereza kwa kupiga magoti?

In short, ukiwa kichwa lazima uhakikishe kuwa unatetea heshima na hadhi ya kichwa hicho kwa gharama yoyote!

mahondaw said:

mi wangu ana jeurii moja matata......hata akosee haombi ng'o...dawa yake ipo jikoni

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kwani mnakaa mtaa gani? sio jirani na Asprin?

Evelyn Salt said:

madharau yasio na kichwa wala miguu tena kuna hiyo defense mechanism mtu anakosa afu anawahi kununa mxyuuuu hapo anajiwekea tahadhari asiulizwe uboya tu, umekosa sema sorry haibadili uanaume!!!

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na nikikosa fedha je inabadili?

mahondaw said:

mi wangu ana jeurii moja matata......hata akosee haombi ng'o...dawa yake ipo jikoni

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ha ha ha ha.....pole mamy.

MsakaGamba said:

Mnyime ile kitu inayo mfanya awe mpole akiwa juu yako.

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Akichepuka?,aje hapa kulialia?

mahondaw said:

Haha ni maneno tu haya siwezi fanya hivooo..

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Nice! Na mostly dawa ya haya mambo ni PSYCHOTHERAPY, ukijua namna ya kumkontrol kisaikolojia utawin sana attention yake kwako na atabadilika?

Awe mpole niongee lugha zote nimalize!

Inategemea na kosa alilofanya pia,kama ni dogo mie nimeamua tu kulikuza basi awe tu mpole ila kama ni kubwa basi aombe radhi kwa namna yoyote inayofaa.

Samahani kila Mara akosapo zinanikera,zinapoteza maana na zinamshushia hadhi yake kwangu.

Ennie said:

Awe mpole niongee lugha zote nimalize!

Inategemea na kosa alilofanya pia,kama ni dogo mie nimeamua tu kulikuza basi awe tu mpole ila kama ni kubwa basi aombe radhi kwa namna yoyote inayofaa.

Samahani kila Mara akosapo zinanikera,zinapoteza maana na zinamshushia hadhi yake kwangu.

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Umenena vema mamito...

Khantwe said:

Umenena vema mamito...

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Thanks mamy.
Upo?

Ennie said:

Thanks mamy.
Upo?

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Nipo best...huonekani