Wakinamama wanaolea watoto bila baba (single mothers): Sababu, athari kwa mtoto, changamoto na mitazamo ya jamii

Alexander The Great · Dec 31, 2018

Ila kwa mtazamo wangu,

Sipingi kukosea kuoa ni AJALI kama zilivyo ajali nyingine.

Ila Wanawake wote hawapo sawa, na maisha hayana formular. Unaweza ukapata single mother na akawa mke mwema kuliko kupata hata mwanamke alie BIKRA.

Swala la kuoa naamini ni kufanya maombi kwa mungu, na kujitahidi kutafuta alie bora kitabia. Na si kigezo cha kua single mother, bikra, mzuri kwa shepu, mzuri kwa sura, elimu na kadhalika.

Antonio de Guzman · Dec 31, 2018

Sawa tumekuelewa

Khantwe · Dec 31, 2018

Alexander The Great said:
Ila kwa mtazamo wangu,

Wanawake wote hawapo sawa, na maisha hayana formular. Unaweza ukapata single mother na akawa mke mwema kuliko kupata hata mwanamke alie BIKRA.

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Mjinga hawezi kuelewa hivi, ni mwanaume mpuuzi tu ndio atachukua ushauri wa kitoto namna hii. Yaani watu wamependana washindwe kuoana kisa kuna mvulana Jf kasema?

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Nyani Ngabu · Dec 31, 2018

Bado sijaelewa chanzo cha hii disdain dhidi ya single mothers ni nini hasa!

Wema na uadilifu wa mtu hauwi defined na parental status yake bana.

Ni dhana potofu na ya kijinga kabisa kuwanyanyapaa single mothers.

Single mothers are not the scum of the earth.

Superb2014 · Dec 31, 2018

Pambana tu na hali yako usitake kupangia watu maisha, Single Mother nao ni Binadamu kama Binadamu wengine.

Antonio de Guzman · Dec 31, 2018

Siyo kila single mom ana matatizo na wapo wanaojitambua sana

Chaz Lee · Dec 31, 2018

Umekutana na nini mkuu?

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Pablo Blanco · Dec 31, 2018

Khantwe said:
Mjinga hawezi kuelewa hivi, ni mwanaume mpuuzi tu ndio atachukua ushauri wa kitoto namna hii. Yaani watu wamependana washindwe kuoana kisa kuna mvulana Jf kasema?

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Hivi unaweza ukaomba upewe mke mwema afu ukapewa single mother??? Naomba jibu

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Pablo Blanco · Dec 31, 2018

Alexander The Great said:
Ila kwa mtazamo wangu,

Wanawake wote hawapo sawa, na maisha hayana formular. Unaweza ukapata single mother na akawa mke mwema kuliko kupata hata mwanamke alie BIKRA.

Swala la kuoa naamini ni kufanya maombi kwa mungu, na kujitahidi kutafuta alie bora kitabia. Na si kigezo cha kua single mother, bikra, mzuri kwa shepu, mzuri kwa sura na kadhalika.

Hivi unaweza ukaomba upewe mke mwema afu ukapewa single mother? Nipe jibu

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Wazolee · Dec 31, 2018

Wamekukosea nini single mother maana povu limekutoka sana

Hamna single mother ktk familia yako?

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Karucee · Dec 31, 2018

Watu wa hivi wanakuwaga na matatizo mengi ya kisaikolojia na upeo wa mawazo hawana.

Hivi kwa mfano wewe kama mwanamme tuchukulie baba yako alifariki ukiwa mdogo. Mama akabaki alone na hali si hali hapo home labda hela nyingi ilitumika kuntibia mzee. Sasa Mama akaja kuolewa tena na Mashallah huyo Baba akawatunza fresh mkasoma mpaka mkahamia makwenu na mkaoa. Mama yako alikwa single ama hakuwa single?

Haya mfano mwingine. Dada yako anadundwa kila siku na shemeji yako. Na wewe unaishi kwa shemeji yako kwa hiyo hata kukohoa huwezi. Unasema sista dundwa tu mi ndo nishafika. Sista inafika mahali anaona cha kufia nini anaondoka yeye na wanae(bila shaka na wewe). Dada yako ni single ama sio single.

Nyie mumejikaririsha kwamba single mothers ni wale wa PMU. Pata Mimba Uolewe ndo maana maneno mengi ya karaha dhidi ya all single mothers. Mnajisahau wenyewe ni watoto wa single mothers.

Tuache kujitoa ufahamu basi.

Nyani Ngabu · Dec 31, 2018

Pablo Blanco said:
Hivi unaweza ukaomba upewe mke mwema afu ukapewa single mother??? Naomba jibu

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Oh yes.

Siyo wote ambao siyo single mothers ni wema na single mothers wote si wabaya.

Hilo ni suala la mtu na mtu tu.

Khantwe · Dec 31, 2018

Pablo Blanco said:
Hivi unaweza ukaomba upewe mke mwema afu ukapewa single mother??? Naomba jibu

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Kwani usipewe? Yaani mke mwema kwako lazima awe bikra tofauti na hapo sio? Ndio maana nasema wewe ni mvulana, grow up

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Pablo Blanco · Dec 31, 2018

Superb2014 said:
Pambana tu na hali yako usitake kupangia watu maisha, Single Mother nao ni Binadamu kama Binadamu wengine.

Hata mashoga Ni watu Kama watu wengine

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Karucee · Dec 31, 2018

Pablo Blanco said:
Hivi unaweza ukaomba upewe mke mwema afu ukapewa single mother? Nipe jibu

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Unafikiri kuwa mke mwema inakuja na label ya goodness?

Some men swear by single mothers wewe.

Avatar · Dec 31, 2018

akili kumkichwa

Pablo Blanco · Dec 31, 2018

Karucee said:
Watu wa hivi wanakuwaga na matatizo mengi ya kisaikolojia na upeo wa mawazo hawana.

Hivi kwa mfano wewe kama mwanamme tuchukulie baba yako alifariki ukiwa mdogo. Mama akabaki alone na hali si hali hapo home labda hela nyingi ilitumika kuntibia mzee. Sasa Mama akaja kuolewa tena na Mashallah huyo Baba akawatunza fresh mkasoma mpaka mkahamia makwenu na mkaoa. Mama yako alikwa single ama hakuwa single?

Haya mfano mwingine. Dada yako anadundwa kila siku na shemeji yako. Na wewe unaishi kwa shemeji yako kwa hiyo hata kukohoa huwezi. Unasema sista dundwa tu mi ndo nishafika. Sista inafika mahali anaona cha kufia nini anaondoka yeye na wanae(bila shaka na wewe). Dada yako ni single ama sio single.

Nyie mumejikaririsha kwamba single mothers ni wale wa PMU. Pata Mimba Uolewe ndo maana maneno mengi ya karaha dhidi ya all single mothers. Mnajisahau wenyewe ni watoto wa single mothers.

Tuache kujitoa ufahamu basi.

Hujaelewa,nimesema Kama ni mjane hapo hakuna tatizo au hujui kusoma???? Cha pili Ni kwamba hakuna mwanaume mkorofi mbele ya mwanamke mnyenyekevu, mwanaume hawezi kumpiga mwanamke bila sababu

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Pablo Blanco · Dec 31, 2018

Khantwe said:
Kwani usipewe? Yaani mke mwema kwako lazima awe bikra tofauti na hapo sio? Ndio maana nasema wewe ni mvulana, grow up

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Wewe ndo foolish,Biblia na Quran zinaelekeza kila mwanaume aoe mwanamke bikra,Sasa sijui wewe unamuongelea Mungu yupi

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Pablo Blanco · Dec 31, 2018

Wewe ndo foolish,Biblia na Quran zinaelekeza kila mwanaume aoe mwanamke bikra,Sasa sijui wewe unamuongelea Mungu yupi

Nyani Ngabu said:
Oh yes.

Siyo wote ambao siyo single mothers ni wema na single mothers wote si wabaya.

Hilo ni suala la mtu na mtu tu.

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Pablo Blanco · Dec 31, 2018

Wewe ndo foolish,Biblia na Quran zinaelekeza kila mwanaume aoe mwanamke bikra,Sasa sijui wewe unamuongelea Mungu yupi

Karucee said:
Unafikiri kuwa mke mwema inakuja na label ya goodness?

Some men swear by single mothers wewe.

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