wanaume wanao ni-approach hawafanani na mimi nisaidieni jamani!

wanaume wanao ni-approach hawafanani na mimi nisaidieni jamani!

DE 3RD BORN said:
Kwanza pole sana dada kwa kutofuatwa na mwanaume anaekufaa, ila usife moyo nakujiona kama we mdhaifu sana, cha msingi ni kuangalia vigezo muhimu sana vya mwenza anaekufaa na kuvipuuza vigezo dhaifu, kwa mfano kigezo cha elimu kuwa ndogo than yours co strong sana maana m2 anaweza kujiendeleza MAANA ELIMU NI BAHARI. God bless you.
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Kula tano..wewe una hekima na bonge la mshauri
 
soledad said:
Habari wana JF,
Mie ni mdada umri wangu ni abt 27yrs, nimekuwa nikipata shida hadi sometimes i feel bad and embarassed . Tatizp ni kuwa Wanaume wengi wanaonifuata kwaajili ya mahusiano siendani nao in every aspect mfano education, status and age. Imefikia mahali nashindwa hata kujielewa labda nipo selective sana for men , i dont know. wengi wanaonifuata akiwa na elimu kama yangu basi atakuwa mdogo kuliko mie this happen many times, akiwa sawa na mie au above my age basi atakuwa either shule ndogo au status yake na mie tofauti sana so we can't be!. Naomba ushauri maana its time for me to share my life with some one but the bible say mungu atanipa wa kufanana nami ila mie simuoni huyo wa kufanana na mie na siwezi kuamua kuwa na mtu yeyote tu kwasababu hajatokea wangu, aina ya wanaume ninao wa admire WAPO BUT HAWAJI and I can't approach them lo! sasa sijui mie ndo nina problem? yaani my heart is full of love and Iwant to share this with some one but wote wanaokuja ndo hivyo .
Nifanye nini ili nipate wa kufana na mie ?
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Hellow Mdada,
Kwanza kunywa maji mdogo wangu alafu unisikilize,nataka nikupe perspective ya kike katika hili.Shost usichague sana but don't lower your self too much.You deserve the best baby girl,you are the flower and you have the power.
Mwanaume uliyemzidi umri na status (education,finances and social status)anaweza kukufaa ila anaweza kuwa na inferiority complex ikawa tabu tena.Inafika mahali unaogopa hata kum-introduce Mr. kwa mashost au kwa colleagues kazini unaona aibu kha nani anataka hy.Hii pia ina angalizo,unaweza kuwa na Mwanaume anakuzidi umri lakini zuzu hujapata kuona mfano wake,hana mtizamo wa kimaendele hata.Anaweza kuwa na financial status nzuri lakini selfish hutakaa uone cent yake.
Hakuna kuchelewa katika hii sector,endelea kumwomba Mungu akupe huyo wa kufanana nawe ila hata mkipishana isiwe saana. Nimesoma wengi wanakwambia eti ngoja ufike 30 sijui itakuwaje,hao bado wako karne za kale,katika developing world what matters ni happiness ya maisha sio kuoa/kuolewa katika umri flani kwa sababu ni destri.Wangapi wamefanya hivyo na ndoa zao ni kwishne sasa hv.
Tatizo la baadhi ya wanaume ni uoga wa kuoa mtu mwenye status flani,ila wako wanaume wa ukweli wanaojiamini hili kwao si tatizo.
Japo kuna watu humu wanasema elimu,fedha havina nafasi katika mapenzi sikubaliani nao asilimia zote.Kuna raha mnapokuwa confortable,mwanaume anaprovide inavyotakiwa,u speak the same language na mna mitazamo inayoendana.Kila la kheri shost.
 
soledad said:
The Boss kujitambua kwa namna gani? mie naona najitambua ndo maana siwezi kuwa na mtu yeyote ingawa this is the perfect time tena naona nimechelewa. Mimi nafikiri hivi my men anatakiwa awe rafiki yangu tufanane hata tuvyoona mambo na kufikiri yaani hata tuwe tunazungumza lugha moja mitazamo inaenda pamoja tusaidiane pamoja kufikia our vission. sasa kinachoni embarasse ni kufuatwa na watoto ! mtu yuko 3rd year and am working for more than a year ,nikifikiria sielewi au naonekanaje sijui.
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Inavyoonekana hata ukifanikiwa kuingia kwenye maisha ya ndoa yatakusumbua sana. To have a great marriage you must learn how to compromise. You need to make concessions in your life. Kwa maandishi yako unaonekana kama vile you’re working to create a perfect marriage. Ndiyo maana you’re resisting the temptation to compromise on certain things.

I am not saying that if you’re working towards creating a perfect marriage, then you should lower your standards to accomplish it. But if you’re better off not compromising yourself to yourself, then you certainly aren’t better off compromising with any prospective spouse.

Napenda spouse wangu awe rafiki yangu. Lakini kuwa rafiki haina maana kuwa “tufanane hata tuvyoona mambo na kufikiri yaani hata tuwe tunazungumza lugha moja mitazamo inaenda pamoja tusaidiane pamoja kufikia our vision”. Eti kwa vile wewe unatumia Internet Explorer, basi hutaki kuolewa na mtu anayependa kutumia Firefox or Chrome.

Kwa vile wewe ni shabiki wa Simba basi unataka mume ambaye pia ni shabiki wa Simba ili msaidiane pamoja kufikia your vision ya kuchukua ubingwa kila msimu? Halafu Simba akifungwa, nani atampakata?

Inawezekana labda niko wrong. Jana FP kafikisha miaka 13 kwenye ndoa labda anaweza kukupa first hand experience kama she had to make some compromises kwenye maisha yake ya ndoa mpaka kufikia zaidi ya decade: https://www.jamiiforums.com/mahusiano-mapenzi-urafiki/335131-wedding-anniversary.html
 
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What i know ni kwamba mapenzi sio material things
na wala sio Age,status,urembo n.k
kuiendekeza ivyo utasubiri sana

hao wanaokufuata ndo level yako zats y wanakufuata...
Hao unaodhani ww kwamba wana status sio level yako ndo maana wanakupita km hawakuoni

What i can see here is Soledad huna mapenzi unayosema unataka kushare na mwanaume labda kama unataka kushare nae status!!

ngoja nirudi nikwambie nini maana ya mapenzi labda utabadilisha mtazamo

nakuja!
 
Chelian said:
What i know ni kwamba mapenzi sio material things
na wala sio Age,status,urembo n.k
kuiendekeza ivyo utasubiri sana

hao wanaokufuata ndo level yako zats y wanakufuata...
Hao unaodhani ww kwamba wana status sio level yako ndo maana wanakupita km hawakuoni

What i can see here is Soledad huna mapenzi unayosema unataka kushare na mwanaume labda kama unataka kushare nae status!!

ngoja nirudi nikwambie nini maana ya mapenzi labda utabadilisha mtazamo

nakuja!
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soledad said:
Habari wana JF,
Mie ni mdada umri wangu ni abt 27yrs, nimekuwa nikipata shida hadi sometimes i feel bad and embarassed . Tatizp ni kuwa Wanaume wengi wanaonifuata kwaajili ya mahusiano siendani nao in every aspect mfano education, status and age. Imefikia mahali nashindwa hata kujielewa labda nipo selective sana for men , i dont know. wengi wanaonifuata akiwa na elimu kama yangu basi atakuwa mdogo kuliko mie this happen many times, akiwa sawa na mie au above my age basi atakuwa either shule ndogo au status yake na mie tofauti sana so we can't be!. Naomba ushauri maana its time for me to share my life with some one but the bible say mungu atanipa wa kufanana nami ila mie simuoni huyo wa kufanana na mie na siwezi kuamua kuwa na mtu yeyote tu kwasababu hajatokea wangu, aina ya wanaume ninao wa admire WAPO BUT HAWAJI and I can't approach them lo! sasa sijui mie ndo nina problem? yaani my heart is full of love and Iwant to share this with some one but wote wanaokuja ndo hivyo .
Nifanye nini ili nipate wa kufana na mie ?
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Personality yako ikoje!! (Gold-digger, Miss 69, Hooker, Lesbian or ????)
 
usijali na wala usijisikie vibaya . utafanikiwa ila sikiliza moyo wako :A S 465:
 
waiting.jpgWatch out u don't end up like her....
 
Hana lolote huyo ni nunganyembe tu anajifanya kutaka ushauri kumbe ndo anatafva mwanaume ungekuwa m'ke wa maana ungekuwa ushapana bwana subiri w'me wasiojua kutongoza wataku pm
 
Kwanza wewe ni nani?
Elimu yako ni ipi?
Kazi yako ni nini?
Na una status gani hapa mjini?
Nitarudi niko kwenye foleni
 
Maryrose said:
Hellow Mdada,
Kwanza kunywa maji mdogo wangu alafu unisikilize,nataka nikupe perspective ya kike katika hili.Shost usichague sana but don't lower your self too much.You deserve the best baby girl,you are the flower and you have the power.
Mwanaume uliyemzidi umri na status (education,finances and social status)anaweza kukufaa ila anaweza kuwa na inferiority complex ikawa tabu tena.Inafika mahali unaogopa hata kum-introduce Mr. kwa mashost au kwa colleagues kazini unaona aibu kha nani anataka hy.Hii pia ina angalizo,unaweza kuwa na Mwanaume anakuzidi umri lakini zuzu hujapata kuona mfano wake,hana mtizamo wa kimaendele hata.Anaweza kuwa na financial status nzuri lakini selfish hutakaa uone cent yake.
Hakuna kuchelewa katika hii sector,endelea kumwomba Mungu akupe huyo wa kufanana nawe ila hata mkipishana isiwe saana. Nimesoma wengi wanakwambia eti ngoja ufike 30 sijui itakuwaje,hao bado wako karne za kale,katika developing world what matters ni happiness ya maisha sio kuoa/kuolewa katika umri flani kwa sababu ni destri.Wangapi wamefanya hivyo na ndoa zao ni kwishne sasa hv.
Tatizo la baadhi ya wanaume ni uoga wa kuoa mtu mwenye status flani,ila wako wanaume wa ukweli wanaojiamini hili kwao si tatizo.
Japo kuna watu humu wanasema elimu,fedha havina nafasi katika mapenzi sikubaliani nao asilimia zote.Kuna raha mnapokuwa confortable,mwanaume anaprovide inavyotakiwa,u speak the same language na mna mitazamo inayoendana.Kila la kheri shost.
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you again lol
 
Mmmh au ww ndio huvutiii hahah kwa dunia ya leo na mlivyo wengi all places are booked tafuta alie oa akusaidie

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Sifa zako ni zipi? Uzitakazo zipi? Ninauhakika nimekuzidi kila kitu isipokuwa labda uchumi. Mimi pia sifai?
 
vema umesema mwenyewe kuwa Mungu humpa mtu mke/mume afananaye naye. kwa nyongeza Mungu haharakishwi au kulazimishwa. kuna mawili, anaweza akakupa kwa kuchelewa au asikupe kabisa. je mtamgeukia shetani ili aharakishe matakwa yako au uko tayari kusubiri uamuzi wa Mungu?
 
soledad said:
Habari wana JF,
Mie ni mdada umri wangu ni abt 27yrs, nimekuwa nikipata shida hadi sometimes i feel bad and embarassed . Tatizp ni kuwa Wanaume wengi wanaonifuata kwaajili ya mahusiano siendani nao in every aspect mfano education, status and age. Imefikia mahali nashindwa hata kujielewa labda nipo selective sana for men , i dont know. wengi wanaonifuata akiwa na elimu kama yangu basi atakuwa mdogo kuliko mie this happen many times, akiwa sawa na mie au above my age basi atakuwa either shule ndogo au status yake na mie tofauti sana so we can't be!. Naomba ushauri maana its time for me to share my life with some one but the bible say mungu atanipa wa kufanana nami ila mie simuoni huyo wa kufanana na mie na siwezi kuamua kuwa na mtu yeyote tu kwasababu hajatokea wangu, aina ya wanaume ninao wa admire WAPO BUT HAWAJI and I can't approach them lo! sasa sijui mie ndo nina problem? yaani my heart is full of love and Iwant to share this with some one but wote wanaokuja ndo hivyo .
Nifanye nini ili nipate wa kufana na mie ?
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Fanya maamuzi magumu. Tutafutane
 
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