wanaume wanao ni-approach hawafanani na mimi nisaidieni jamani!

Wanawake wachache huolewa na wanaume wa ndoto zao.

we unamtaka wa namna gan! Just describe

wanaume wanao ni-approach hawafanani na mimi nisaidieni jamani!. sasa tukusaidie nn jibu moja tu; chukuwa atuwa means that wa approach wewe mwenyewe(tongoza we mwenyewe nadhani utakuwa unamuona mwenye vigezo unavyo vitaka)

soledad said:

Habari wana JF,
Mie ni mdada umri wangu ni abt 27yrs, nimekuwa nikipata shida hadi sometimes i feel bad and embarassed . Tatizp ni kuwa Wanaume wengi wanaonifuata kwaajili ya mahusiano siendani nao in every aspect mfano education, status and age. Imefikia mahali nashindwa hata kujielewa labda nipo selective sana for men , i dont know. wengi wanaonifuata akiwa na elimu kama yangu basi atakuwa mdogo kuliko mie this happen many times, akiwa sawa na mie au above my age basi atakuwa either shule ndogo au status yake na mie tofauti sana so we can't be!. Naomba ushauri maana its time for me to share my life with some one but the bible say mungu atanipa wa kufanana nami ila mie simuoni huyo wa kufanana na mie na siwezi kuamua kuwa na mtu yeyote tu kwasababu hajatokea wangu, aina ya wanaume ninao wa admire WAPO BUT HAWAJI and I can't approach them lo! sasa sijui mie ndo nina problem? yaani my heart is full of love and Iwant to share this with some one but wote wanaokuja ndo hivyo .
Nifanye nini ili nipate wa kufana na mie ?

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taja kabila lako na elimu gan umesoma

Kweli wao hawafanani na wewe,lakini wewe unafanana nao ndio maana wanakuaproach,wewe si unataka wanaofanana na wewe,na wao pia wanataka wanaofanana na wao,so wewe unafanana nao,ingawaje wao hawafanani na wewe!!

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sifongo said:

Brother quimby_joey nakuona hapa we huyo dada unamuelewa? kama una vigezo jirushe mkuu ila uissahau kumuambia unapenda ujasusi.

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Mkuu Sifongo nimekupata ujumbe umefika

Soledad, usually mtu unavyojiweka, unavyoact na unavyo appear inadetermine watu gani watakufuata, inaweza isiwe 100 % lakini in most cases ni hivo unless mtu tofauti na unaowaatract awe amekusoma kwa mda na amepata chance ya kukujua wewe kama wewe.

Subiri Chuo Kikuu Kinakuja!!! Love and Relationship University

Mi nakushauri usome sana,halafu uje umuumbe huyo mtu mwenye kufanana nawewe. Au
Nenda sewa au kimboka utawapata

soledad said:

Habari wana JF,
Mie ni mdada umri wangu ni abt 27yrs, nimekuwa nikipata shida hadi sometimes i feel bad and embarassed . Tatizp ni kuwa Wanaume wengi wanaonifuata kwaajili ya mahusiano siendani nao in every aspect mfano education, status and age. Imefikia mahali nashindwa hata kujielewa labda nipo selective sana for men , i dont know. wengi wanaonifuata akiwa na elimu kama yangu basi atakuwa mdogo kuliko mie this happen many times, akiwa sawa na mie au above my age basi atakuwa either shule ndogo au status yake na mie tofauti sana so we can't be!. Naomba ushauri maana its time for me to share my life with some one but the bible say mungu atanipa wa kufanana nami ila mie simuoni huyo wa kufanana na mie na siwezi kuamua kuwa na mtu yeyote tu kwasababu hajatokea wangu, aina ya wanaume ninao wa admire WAPO BUT HAWAJI and I can't approach them lo! sasa sijui mie ndo nina problem? yaani my heart is full of love and Iwant to share this with some one but wote wanaokuja ndo hivyo .
Nifanye nini ili nipate wa kufana na mie ?

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UKE WENZA UNAUWEZA??
NIJIBU NIKAJADILIANE NA MKE WANGU TUKUKARIBISHE KWENYE FAMILIA YETU TUGAWANE MAPENZI BINTI
:smile: :smile:

Dada take care sana na hizo status coz utampata mwenyenazo lakin hutajua kama kakupenda ndo utakapo kuja juta mara 2 zaid, nakushaur chek age yako fanya maamuz then maisha yataenda.

cacico said:

wanaume, kusoma hamjui na picha nyao kuzama mkajua kama huyu ni jk kapanda guta napo tabu?? hebu mueleweni huyu dada na mumsaidie kukidhi yake haja!

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1. hebu mpe mbinu ulizotumia wewe kuchagua mwenza..
2. akiwa na marafiki humohumo ndio atapata mchumba lakini akitafuta kwa jua na tochi hakawii kupata koroma kama Mr Rock alivyosema

Dada angu always love is naturally, unavyopendwa angalia mume huyo ana malengo mazuri na wewe?jamani fahamu mapenzi na status? hebu tuzipotezee! hv ukitaka mwanaume mwenye elimu sawa au kakuzid itakufaidia nini ikiwa hana mapenzi ya dhati? kwani ni dhambi mwanaume au mwanamke, kuoa au kuolewa na mtu mwenye elimu ya juu au ndogo ikiwa ana mapenz ya dhati? take care my ccter me nataka kukwambia now days angalia mwanaume mwenye mapenzi ya dhati nawe, dont matter level ya education!maisha mnayamake endapo wote mna mapenzi ya dhati! uchaguzi mwema!

toa sif zako tukusaidie..unaelekea kuzeeka sasa

Mwanaume hasifiwi sura dada, mwanaume anasifiwa kwa kazi na kazi ndio heshima na utu wake na kingne cha mhimu kwenye ndoa ni amani na upendo na hilo watu wengi wanalitafta hawapati na wanajuta, majumba unayoyaona wewe yaone hivo hivo yanaficha mambo meengi mno..chukua yeyote uishi maisha yenyewe haya bado una dilly dally?!!

soledad, at your age wanawake wengi wanafanya bold decision coz biological clock doens't wait. Tafuta hata ambaye anafadhali katika hao haiwezakani wote hammechi kabisa. Life si too short unfortunately isn't fair either.

mzee wa magumashi said:

Wewe fanya maamuzi yakipekee.mwenyewe........

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mke au mume bora hutoka kwa mungu yani ww wala huwezi kufanya machaguzi maana hayatakusaidia lolote ndani ya ndoa yako.kama hujabarikiwa kuwa na mtu huwezi kufaidi iyo ndoa yako yani unafanya mambo kidunia zaidi kuliko kiroho yani utajuta na unayoyatafuta.

soledad said:

Habari wana JF,
Mie ni mdada umri wangu ni abt 27yrs, nimekuwa nikipata shida hadi sometimes i feel bad and embarassed . Tatizp ni kuwa Wanaume wengi wanaonifuata kwaajili ya mahusiano siendani nao in every aspect mfano education, status and age. Imefikia mahali nashindwa hata kujielewa labda nipo selective sana for men , i dont know. wengi wanaonifuata akiwa na elimu kama yangu basi atakuwa mdogo kuliko mie this happen many times, akiwa sawa na mie au above my age basi atakuwa either shule ndogo au status yake na mie tofauti sana so we can't be!. Naomba ushauri maana its time for me to share my life with some one but the bible say mungu atanipa wa kufanana nami ila mie simuoni huyo wa kufanana na mie na siwezi kuamua kuwa na mtu yeyote tu kwasababu hajatokea wangu, aina ya wanaume ninao wa admire WAPO BUT HAWAJI and I can't approach them lo! sasa sijui mie ndo nina problem? yaani my heart is full of love and Iwant to share this with some one but wote wanaokuja ndo hivyo .
Nifanye nini ili nipate wa kufana na mie ?

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mke au mume bora hutoka kwa mungu yani ww wala huwezi kufanya machaguzi maana hayatakusaidia lolote ndani ya ndoa yako.kama hujabarikiwa kuwa na mtu huwezi kufaidi iyo ndoa yako yani unafanya mambo kidunia zaidi kuliko kiroho yani utajuta na unayoyatafuta.

TIME will give you the 'right' husband. Mark my words.

am above your age,am about to finish my Masters degree,vp nakufaa?