Wanawake wote duniani, wana sifa moja kuu inayo fanana na ambayo haibadiliki toka enzi za Pontyo wa Pilato.
They are poor judges of characters towards men.
Hii maana yake ni kwamba, mwanamke hana uwezo wa kuchagua mume wa kumuoa kwa sababu hawezi ku judge character halisi ya mwanaume.
Risiti za hoja hii 👆 zipo kwenye angles nyingi, kwa mfano: 👇👇
1. Kuongezeka kwa idadi kubwa ya single mothers.
She is a single mother because of the following reasons: 👇👇👇👇
1. She has left her baby dad
OR
2. Her baby dad has left her.
WHY HAS SHE LEFT HER BABY DAD? 👇
- She has left her baby dad, because he is an asshole.
Mwanaume anae weza kuzaa mtoto na mwanamke, halafu mwanamke huyo akamuacha huyo mwanaume, tafsiri yake ni kwamba huyo mwanaume ni ass hole.
Mwanamke anataka mtoto wake alelewe na " Baba" Yake ambae ni " Baba kweli" . Sasa mpaka huyu mwanamke ameamua kukuacha wewe mwanaume ambae umezaa nae na kuamua eidha kulea peke yake au kulea na mwanaume mwingine, tafsiri yake ni kwamba amekuona wewe ni ASS-HOLE!!
Hata hivyo bado tatizo linabaki kwa mwanamke, kwa sababu kama huyu baby daddy wake ni ASS- HOLE, then why did she made a baby with him on the first place?
Jibu linarudi paragraph ya mwanzo. Because she is a POOR JUDGE OF CHARACTER. She didn't see the ASS-HOLE in him for her to dodge making a baby with the ASS-HOLE.
2. WHY HER BABY LEFT HER? 👇👇👇
Because he is an ASS-HOLE.
Mwanaume ambae sio ASS-HOLE, hawezi kuzaa na mwanamke na kisha kumuacha mtoto wake ( more especially wa kiume) akalelewe na mwanaume mwingine, na hata ikitokea wameachana na mwanamke basi atachukua damu yake ikalelewe na mama yake ( Bibi wa mtoto) au familia yake na kama hilo litashindikana basi at least atatoa kwa mtoto wake.
WHY DID SHE HAVE A BABY WITH AN ASS HOLE? 👇👇👇👇👇👇
1. Because she is a POOR JUDGE OF CHARACTER. She didn't detect the ASS-HOLE in his baby dad at first place.
2. She is also ASS-HOLE. Mwanaume mpaka anafikia kukuacha wewe mwanamke ambae amezaa na wewe, tafsiri yake ni kwamba you are an ass- hole indeed.
And to prove this, kama huyu mwanaume ana vihelahela, na bado anampenda mtoto wake, basi atakuwa anatuma hela ya matumizi kwako kwa ajili ya mtoto wako. Hii maana yake ni kwamba " This guy is paying money so as to not live and or be with you". This prove how much of a ASS-HOLE you are. It is one thing to pay money to eat food in a restaurant, but when someone pays money so that to do not eat in a certain restaurant then the restaurant is a very big problem.
But hii pia ita maanisha kwamba huyu jamaa na yeye ni ASS-HOLE. Kama angekuwa sio ASS-HOLE asingeweza kuzaa na mwanamke ambae ni ASS-HOLE. You don't make your children with an ASS-HOLE period.
Hata hivyo hii pia itamaanisha kuwa huyu baby dad na yeye ni ASS-HOLE pia kwa sababu mpaka unafikia
2. NDOA NYINGI KUVUNJIKA.
Ndoa nyingi zinavunjika siku hizi kwa sababu wanawake ndio wanawachagua wanaume wa kuishi nao. Na kwa kuwa mwanamke hana uwezo wa kufanya right judgment ya kuchagua mume because she is a poor judge of character towards men, so mwisho wa siku ndoa haiwezi kudumu itavunjika tu, kwa sababu huyu mwanamke anachagua kwa hisia tu na kwa mazoea.
Any fool with an erecting dick can make a baby but it takes a real man to be father, to handle a woman ( a wife) and to raise his family and children.
Ndio maana zamani mwanamke alichaguliwa mume wa kumuoa. Wazee ndio walijua mwanaume yupi anafaa kumuoa binti Yao.
Binti aliozwa kwa " Mume material " na sio kwa mtu mwenye jinsia ya kiume.
Hii ndio sababu kuu ndoa za zamani zilidumu. Baba yako alimuoa mama yako mwaka 1975 mpaka Leo hii bado wapo pamoja ni kwa sababu babu zako wa umamani walimchagua ama kumu approve baba yako kwa sababu walimpima wakamuona ana faa kuwa " Mume". So washukuru Sana babu zako kizaa mama ako bila wao, pengine na wewe ungelelewa na single mother.
NI MAMBO YA KIZAMANI?
Kama unafikiri ni mambo ya KIZAMANI basi unakosea Sana kwa sababu mpaka Leo familia nyingi zinazo eleweka duniani bado zina practice huu utamaduni. Ni eidha mwanamke atafutiwe mume au mume awe approved kwanza na jopo wazazi wa kiume wa mke.
Mfano mzuri unamuhusu binti wa Rais mmoja maarufu Sana Africa, simtaji ila natoa codes. She was born in 1993 ( Nimetaja mwaka ili ujue kwamba ni jambo ambalo ni recent)
Miaka ya 2010s akiwa anasoma Marekani, alipata mchumba/ boyfriend raia wa Senegali, Basketballer, ambae alikuwa college-mate wake.
Their bond was very strong. Mtoto wa Rais analindwa, spies wanao mlinda binti wakatoa taarifa kwa mama ( ambae of course probably alikuaa anajua) na kwa mzee.
Mzee akampandisha mama mtu kwenye ndege 17 hours flight to the US. Mama kamwambia mtoto baba yako hajaya approve haya mahusiano, na anataka ubreak up na huyu mtu with an immediate effect. She complied accordingly.
Kuna mchumba ambae tayari familia ilikuwa imemuandaa kwa ajili ya huyu binti. Mchumba Ali kuwa anaishi Canada. They came from the same tribe with the president na family friend.
Wakawa hooked up, then ndoa ikawa arranged, and now they are happily married with two kids.
BACK TO DON'T MAGE
Tetesi zinasema, Dokta Mage amejiua kwa sababu baba yake alimkataa mchumba wake.
Kama baba mtu alimkataa mchumba its obviously he detected the ASS-HOLE in him. Akamuona hatoshi kuwa mume wa mtoto wake and he did it to protect her daughter. Lakini binti kwa sababu they are poor judge of characters, hakuweza kuona logic ya baba ake cause females have for their own logic with different fell ours.
Kitendo cha binti kujiua kime thibitisha uamuzi sahihi wa baba yake. Alimuona ni binti ambae hana uwezo wa kuchagua mume. Anaweza kufanya maamuzi sahihi. Ndio maana ameweza kwa sababu ambayo ni very " PRETTY ISSUE" sio " PETTY ".
Rest In Piece Dokta Mage.
Wazazi wa ki Tanzania, msisahau kuwafundisha watoto wenu kuhusu emotional intelligence na maarifa mengine nje ya shule.
Hivyo ni vitu muhimu sana kwenye maisha ya watoto wenu ambavyo shuleni havifundishwi.
Mtaala wetu wa Necta ni mtaala unao muandaa mtoto kujibu mitihani na kwenda kuajiriwa.
