I once was on the same situation back 2015 when she conceived without my consent .but when she break news that she is pregnant ,I accepted and became accountable of my own action....remember this lady was my university lecturer..she blessed me with twins (Blanca na Bianca)..don't reject pregnancy simply because you were not involved in the decision process..as a man you need to be accountable and responsible..this is why you are now travelling to SA....while making sure my friend Junior and his mom has all the needs....
I once said" katika kiumbe kinacholaumwa sana duniani lakini chenyewe LAWAMA hizo kinaona ni Sifa ni MWANAUME ...
Be confident,walk tall,make sure your niche is well kept and those around you are happy..