Kwa Wanandoa: Bila tendo la ndoa hakuna ndoa(?)

Kwa Wanandoa: Bila tendo la ndoa hakuna ndoa(?)

Mentor said:
Hapo sikuungi mkono mdogo wangu!

Halafu unanifanya niwaze;

Aidha
1. kuna mtu amekuomba game kabla ya ndoa...

Au
2. ...????!
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hahahahahahahaha you make me happy my brother

wala hata usiwaze my kaka nothing is going on sema kuna mambo mambo tu huwa najiuliza kichwani na hizi thread za humu za mara kwa mara shake well before use na kuuziwa mbuzi kwenye gunia

ya pili ni ipi my kaka mbona hujaisema?
 
Mentor said:
Hapo sikuungi mkono mdogo wangu!

Halafu unanifanya niwaze;

Aidha
1. kuna mtu amekuomba game kabla ya ndoa...

Au
2. ...????!
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halafu nini hiko kaka yangu usichoniunga mknono nimesema uwongo au
 
Blue G said:
it could be possible to be in your own way if you wanted to and believe in that just assume if all men preferred waiting to marriage do you think you would have a woman with a long chain? its us ourselves who makes things worse by introducing useless things

and tell me this honestly how do you feel if you realize that your woman had at least six men before she met you and that was because of doing a matching thing
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First and foremost, don't blame it on men. If a mama doesn't wanna give it up before marriage, let her stick to her guns. And if she's worth it, she'll find a brotha so gentle to ride with. If she gives it up because of pressure, then she's just another smash and pass to me. It's not how soon a mama let a brotha in that defines her.

And just because I chose to test the waters, doesn't mean she should do the same. When you have a gun, it's always pleasure to shoot it. But you don't wish to get shot at, just because you're wearing a vest. Get it?

And as I said before, I don't really care how many men she let hit before me. If we vibing and connect, she's a keeper. Besides, I'll never put myself in a situation to know all that bs.
 
Heaven Sent said:
Me naamini sex ndo kitu kikuu kwenye ndoa as ni kitu cha pekee unachopaswa kushare na partner wako only.... but "THERE IS MORE TO MARRIAGE THAN SEX". Kuwa great sex partners/ compatible kwenye sex doesn't guarantee a happy and healthy marriage

Tunaadvocate mno "no sex before marriage", nafikiri hapa hapa tungejiuliza hawa watu wanafanyaje kujenga upendo, kubond na hadi ifikie hatua wanatambua na kukubaliana kwamba he/she is the one na wakati hakuna sex kati yao. Jibu ni easy tu kwamba kuna mambo mengine mengi yanayojenga mahusiano imara ukiachana na sex

Tunashukatana na sex partners wengi wazuri sana tu kunapohusika lakini still tuliachana nao, kwa nini na wakati walikuwa wanaturidhisha mno kunako? Ni kwa sababu kuna Vitu apart from sex tunavyohitaji kwa wenzi wetu. Vile vile kuna watu tulipendana nao kama mapacha but leo tumemwagana nao, possibly tumeoa/ Kuolewa na wengine. Jibu ni kwamba Ndoa ni zaidi ya upendo pia, we simply don't get married kwa sababu tu tunapendana. Sex is not everything kwenye ndoa (nishasikia sana eti vikojoleo havinuniani, so kuna wanandoa wanasex tu afu baada ya hapo mnuno unaendelea teh), na ndoa bila sex sijui kama kuna ndoa (ukiacha sababu za magonjwa)
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Nimeipenda hiyo....havinuniani

Heaven Sent at her best
 
Paulo Sergio De Souz said:
First and foremost, don't blame it on men. If a mama doesn't wanna give it up before marriage, let her stick to her guns. And if she's worth it, she'll find a brotha so gentle to ride with. If she gives it up because of pressure, then she's just another smash and pass to me. It's not how soon a mama let a brotha in that defines her.

And just because I chose to test the waters, doesn't mean she should do the same. When you have a gun, it's always pleasure to shoot it. But you don't wish to get shot at, just because you're wearing a vest. Get it?

And as I said before, I don't really care how many men she let hit before me. If we vibing and connect, she's a keeper. Besides, I'll never put myself in a situation to know all that bs.
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mkuu i got all that it takes to put the blame on men because they are the the ones who persuade girls some even doing all they can icluding force or hilarious ways just to make sure they trap a girl they want,an others even if its the bare truth that the girl belongs to the other guy they still cling on their desire to get the girl

just put yourself in the shoes of ladies and see how is it difficult living with pressure from the guys persuading a girl to with them using differnet techniques and not only once some others guys do not give up easiliy regardless how many time they have been rejected and you tell me honestly is it just an easy task or something one really has to be so strong


its true that not because you choose to taste water she has to do the same,but let me ask you a simple question,where do you get a woman who wont taste the water just like you if we at least have a three quarter men who have the same attitude of tasting water as yours?

sometimes you may not keep yourself in the position to know everything about your woman,but the woman herself because she is totally in love with you,she completely trusts you and she has completely given herslef to you and so she decides not to hide a thing about her past how do you deal with this mkuu?
 
Blue G said:
mkuu i got all that it takes to put the blame on men because they are the the ones who persuade girls some even doing all they can icluding force or hilarious ways just to make sure they trap a girl they want,an others even if its the bare truth that the girl belongs to the other guy they still cling on their desire to get the girl

just put yourself in the shoes of ladies and see how is it difficult living with pressure from the guys persuading a girl to with them using differnet techniques and not only once some others guys do not give up easiliy regardless how many time they have been rejected and you tell me honestly is it just an easy task or something one really has to be so strong


its true that not because you choose to taste water she has to do the same,but let me ask you a simple question,where do you get a woman who wont taste the water just like you if we at least have a three quarter men who have the same attitude of tasting water as yours?

sometimes you may not keep yourself in the position to know everything about your woman,but the woman herself because she is totally in love with you,she completely trusts you and she has completely given herslef to you and so she decides not to hide a thing about her past how do you deal with this mkuu?
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Basically what you just said is, any brotha that persuades you tirelessly, can get lucky. That's scary.
 
Tendo la ndoa kwenye ndoa ni dharura tu sio jambo la kuendekeza.

Kama huna hamu hujabanwa achana na hilo tendo fanya mambo mengine ya maendeleo.

Mkeo anatakiwa awe fahari ndani kwako na sio kwamba iwe yupo kwa ajili ya tendo tu.

Ukiwa unakula tuuu kutimiza ada mwishowe chakula kinachosha na sio kinachosha kwa sababu sio kitamu bali kinakuchosha kwa sababu unakeuka utaratibu.

Kukitumia kitu ambacho haukihitaji huwezi kuona umuhimu wake kamwe.

Tumia pale unapokihitaji utaona umuhimu wake.
 
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