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Kwa Dunia ya Sasa. Mke anataka Kutekeleza Majukumu ya Mume kwa Lazima Tena. Anataka Na Yeye aonekane anahudumia Familia.
Mada maalum kwa wanandoa
Mshana Jr
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WHAT IS THE PATTERN FOR YOUR MARRIAGE?
Dear single and waiting,
Cc: Dear Married and frustrated,
Please pay attention to this carefully;
One of the reasons why it seems like you are waiting too long to receive that partner you have been praying for is because you haven't taken the time to pray concerning the pattern that God wants you to model for your marriage.
One of the reasons also, why you may be experiencing frustration in your marriage is because you haven't prayerfully asked God for the pattern He wants you to model for your marriage.
What is the pattern for your marriage?
How does God want you to lead your home Sir?
Has God told you how He wants you to be led Ma?
Sometimes when I see single people worry so much about convictions and confirmation before marriage, the first question I always want to ask is; Have you asked God for a revelation of how He wants your home to be built? Or you just want to be satisfied with God telling you if the person you want to marry is the right one or not.
And when God finally speaks, when you finally see that person in your dream or have their name chosen for you by a prophet, do you also wait in the place of prayer to ask God the kind of home compatible with the person He has confirmed for you? He is the right person for what marriage pattern?
We need to start teaching these principles. A compatible spouse will crash in a wrong marriage pattern. If God is calling you to lead a marriage of signs and wonders, then a partner who is lukewarm in the secret place cannot work for you no matter how compatible you are, that marriage will crash Ma.
If God is calling you to model a marriage pattern that is based on openness and transparency for the edification of souls, you cannot get your conviction from a quiet and reserved person no matter how compatible you two are, this is why most marriages are experiencing frustration. You are convinced that you are with the right person, you are convinced you heard God's voice brooding over your marital choice, yet things don't seem to be working out in that marriage, check the pattern Sir. Run back to God quickly and ask Him if His plan for your home is for it to be a boat, a canoe, a ship or a plane, stop trying to pattern your home like an ark when God has called you to model your marriage like a storehouse.
I ask again, what is the pattern God has given you for your marriage?
You want your spouse to come now now but you don't know the pattern he or she is coming to fit.
Today I charge you to go back and ask God for the building plan He has given you for your marriage. Before going to lay a simple foundation that supports a house built on a rock, please know if God is calling you to build on a swamp. The pattern determines the foundation.
Dear single and waiting,
Cc: Dear Married and frustrated,
Please pay attention to this carefully;
One of the reasons why it seems like you are waiting too long to receive that partner you have been praying for is because you haven't taken the time to pray concerning the pattern that God wants you to model for your marriage.
One of the reasons also, why you may be experiencing frustration in your marriage is because you haven't prayerfully asked God for the pattern He wants you to model for your marriage.
What is the pattern for your marriage?
How does God want you to lead your home Sir?
Has God told you how He wants you to be led Ma?
Sometimes when I see single people worry so much about convictions and confirmation before marriage, the first question I always want to ask is; Have you asked God for a revelation of how He wants your home to be built? Or you just want to be satisfied with God telling you if the person you want to marry is the right one or not.
And when God finally speaks, when you finally see that person in your dream or have their name chosen for you by a prophet, do you also wait in the place of prayer to ask God the kind of home compatible with the person He has confirmed for you? He is the right person for what marriage pattern?
We need to start teaching these principles. A compatible spouse will crash in a wrong marriage pattern. If God is calling you to lead a marriage of signs and wonders, then a partner who is lukewarm in the secret place cannot work for you no matter how compatible you are, that marriage will crash Ma.
If God is calling you to model a marriage pattern that is based on openness and transparency for the edification of souls, you cannot get your conviction from a quiet and reserved person no matter how compatible you two are, this is why most marriages are experiencing frustration. You are convinced that you are with the right person, you are convinced you heard God's voice brooding over your marital choice, yet things don't seem to be working out in that marriage, check the pattern Sir. Run back to God quickly and ask Him if His plan for your home is for it to be a boat, a canoe, a ship or a plane, stop trying to pattern your home like an ark when God has called you to model your marriage like a storehouse.
I ask again, what is the pattern God has given you for your marriage?
You want your spouse to come now now but you don't know the pattern he or she is coming to fit.
Today I charge you to go back and ask God for the building plan He has given you for your marriage. Before going to lay a simple foundation that supports a house built on a rock, please know if God is calling you to build on a swamp. The pattern determines the foundation.
Mshana Jr
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"Happiness is not perfected until it is shared."
~ African proverb
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Firstly, if you're not happy with yourself, you cannot share your happiness with anyone. As we grow older, we become more interested in quality - rather than quantity of friends.
Kindly do not be mistaken, "quality" here, is not referring to "superior" vs "inferior" humans. No. But it's the depth of a relationship. And this comes from degrees of interest.
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I.e. deep and meaningful vs superficial and temporary.
Keep in touch with those who make effort to remain connected to you. Develop long term relationships with those who reciprocate the love you give them.
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Do not ever allow anyone to make you feel inferior, such that you begin to "beg" for their love, by overdoing things for them. Never beg for love, especially in romantic relationships. Let it be mutual, or let it go. There's a big difference between love and attachment. Interdependency is not the same as dependency.
~ African proverb
.
Firstly, if you're not happy with yourself, you cannot share your happiness with anyone. As we grow older, we become more interested in quality - rather than quantity of friends.
Kindly do not be mistaken, "quality" here, is not referring to "superior" vs "inferior" humans. No. But it's the depth of a relationship. And this comes from degrees of interest.
.
I.e. deep and meaningful vs superficial and temporary.
Keep in touch with those who make effort to remain connected to you. Develop long term relationships with those who reciprocate the love you give them.
.
Do not ever allow anyone to make you feel inferior, such that you begin to "beg" for their love, by overdoing things for them. Never beg for love, especially in romantic relationships. Let it be mutual, or let it go. There's a big difference between love and attachment. Interdependency is not the same as dependency.
Mshana Jr
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WANAUME WENGI WANAISHI NA WANAWAKE WALIOBEBA WANAUME WENGINE MIOYONI MWAO[emoji817]
Migogoro mingi katika mahusiano na ndoa nyingi ni Mwanamke kujaribu kutafuta UPENDO ambao aliupata kwa X wake japo hawakuwa na malengo ya kuishi pamoja[emoji625]
Ukiona Mwanamke ameilinda IMANI YA MAHUSIANO AMA NDOA yake ujue wakati anakutana na mwenza wake hakuwa anahitaji kupata mtu wa kuziba pengo la Mapenzi ila alimaanisha kuianza safari ya mapenzi akiamini amepata mwenza wa maisha yake[emoji1377]
Wanawake wengi wanajikuta njia panda katika mahusiano ama ndoa zao kwa kuwa waliingia huko kwa sababu zao wakati huo upande wa pili uliamini katika UPENDO kitu ambacho kimegharimu wanaume wengi sana.
Mwanamke anaweza kuchelewa kuolewa akajilipua kwa Mwanaume ambaye hampendi, kuna ambao wanakuwa na watu ambao hawaongelei maisha ya baada ya mahusiano na wakati huo Mwanamke anahitaji kuwa na ndoa na hapo ndipo wanaachana na Mwanamke kuamua kutafuta mwenye malengo ya familia japo anaweza kuwa hampendi[emoji2299]
Nikisema wanaume wengi wanaishi na Wanawake ambao mioyoni mwa wanawake hao wana wanaume wengine waliowahifadhi[emoji625]
Mwanamke kama hana mbadala ki mwili ama ki nafsi Basi hawezi kumdharau Mwanaume[emoji817]
Wanawake ndio walinzi wa penzi ndo maana ikiwa Mwanamke hakupendi kamwe hajifichi hata akijaribu ku-pretend kuna wakati rangi yake halisi itathibitika[emoji23][emoji23]
Asilimia kubwa ya mahusiano ama ndoa zinazodumu katika FURAHA NA AMANI ni zile wenza hao kwa UPENDO wameamua kubebeana madhaifu yao na wakiamini hakuna atakayekuwa zaidi ya aliye nae, Mwanamke kama anampenda Mwanaume mmoja kamwe masikio na macho yake hayazunguki nje ya Mwanaume aliye nae, Vinginevyo unaishi na Mwanamke ambaye amekupangisha kwenye penzi lake[emoji817]. [emoji1600][emoji1600]
Migogoro mingi katika mahusiano na ndoa nyingi ni Mwanamke kujaribu kutafuta UPENDO ambao aliupata kwa X wake japo hawakuwa na malengo ya kuishi pamoja[emoji625]
Ukiona Mwanamke ameilinda IMANI YA MAHUSIANO AMA NDOA yake ujue wakati anakutana na mwenza wake hakuwa anahitaji kupata mtu wa kuziba pengo la Mapenzi ila alimaanisha kuianza safari ya mapenzi akiamini amepata mwenza wa maisha yake[emoji1377]
Wanawake wengi wanajikuta njia panda katika mahusiano ama ndoa zao kwa kuwa waliingia huko kwa sababu zao wakati huo upande wa pili uliamini katika UPENDO kitu ambacho kimegharimu wanaume wengi sana.
Mwanamke anaweza kuchelewa kuolewa akajilipua kwa Mwanaume ambaye hampendi, kuna ambao wanakuwa na watu ambao hawaongelei maisha ya baada ya mahusiano na wakati huo Mwanamke anahitaji kuwa na ndoa na hapo ndipo wanaachana na Mwanamke kuamua kutafuta mwenye malengo ya familia japo anaweza kuwa hampendi[emoji2299]
Nikisema wanaume wengi wanaishi na Wanawake ambao mioyoni mwa wanawake hao wana wanaume wengine waliowahifadhi[emoji625]
Mwanamke kama hana mbadala ki mwili ama ki nafsi Basi hawezi kumdharau Mwanaume[emoji817]
Wanawake ndio walinzi wa penzi ndo maana ikiwa Mwanamke hakupendi kamwe hajifichi hata akijaribu ku-pretend kuna wakati rangi yake halisi itathibitika[emoji23][emoji23]
Asilimia kubwa ya mahusiano ama ndoa zinazodumu katika FURAHA NA AMANI ni zile wenza hao kwa UPENDO wameamua kubebeana madhaifu yao na wakiamini hakuna atakayekuwa zaidi ya aliye nae, Mwanamke kama anampenda Mwanaume mmoja kamwe masikio na macho yake hayazunguki nje ya Mwanaume aliye nae, Vinginevyo unaishi na Mwanamke ambaye amekupangisha kwenye penzi lake[emoji817]. [emoji1600][emoji1600]
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Ili ndoa iwe na amani ni mmoja kujifanya mjinga tu ili maisha yaendelee.
Mshana Jr
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MKE MDOGO AMUUA MKE MKUBWA WAKIGOMBEA ZAMU YA KULALA NA MUME.......
Kutoka huko Nigeria mke mdogo aliyetambulika kwa jina la Rebecca amemuua mke mwenzake aitwae Precious wakati wanagombania zamu ya kulala na mume.
Inadaiwa kuwa siku hiyo mume alikuwa kwa mke mkubwa ndipo mke mdogo alipofunga safari hadi hapo nakudai anahitaji mume aende kwake nae akapate haki yake ndipo vita ya kurushiana maneno ilipoanza ambapo katika ugomvi huo mke mdogo alimchoma mwenzake kisu.
Mke mkubwa alifariki wakati akikimbizwa hospitali kwa ajili ya matibabu, mke mdogo amekiri kufanya kosa na ameomba Mahakama imsamehe akidai hakukusudia kufanya mauaji hayo bali alikuwa akidai nae apate haki yake.
Kutoka huko Nigeria mke mdogo aliyetambulika kwa jina la Rebecca amemuua mke mwenzake aitwae Precious wakati wanagombania zamu ya kulala na mume.
Inadaiwa kuwa siku hiyo mume alikuwa kwa mke mkubwa ndipo mke mdogo alipofunga safari hadi hapo nakudai anahitaji mume aende kwake nae akapate haki yake ndipo vita ya kurushiana maneno ilipoanza ambapo katika ugomvi huo mke mdogo alimchoma mwenzake kisu.
Mke mkubwa alifariki wakati akikimbizwa hospitali kwa ajili ya matibabu, mke mdogo amekiri kufanya kosa na ameomba Mahakama imsamehe akidai hakukusudia kufanya mauaji hayo bali alikuwa akidai nae apate haki yake.
Mshana Jr
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Huyu dada da? Nipo huku kirumba story yake ni mbaya sana huyu dada alikuwa kaolewa na mume wake mwingine wakaachana akaolewa na huyu kaka anafanya kazi geita mgodini huyu kaka alimpenda sana huyu bint amemjengea bonge la nyumba Ana nyumba 3 na gari mbili kanunuliwa na huyu bwana lakin kumbe bint hampendi huyu kaka wa geita alikuja kwa ajili ya pesa tu lakin anampenda mume aliyemuacha nasikia alikuwa anafanya visa ili waachane lakin mume anagoma so ni kawaida yake kukatazwa kwenda sehemu lakin anaenda tu ili mwanaume amuache sasa jmosi mwanaume yupo mgodin akamwambia anaenda mpirani mwanaume akamwambia hakuna kwenda mdada akaenda tu mwanaume akapanda ndege akaja mwanza akaenda home mdada akaenda mpirani alivyotoka akaunga kwa diamond akiwa na mume wake wa zamani akarudi nyumbani saa 11 alfajiri nyumbani anagonga mlango akafunguliwa na kupigwa risasi 7 na mme wake na kufa huyu bint ni mwana yanga na ni mnyiramba zamani alikuwa muhudumu pale villa. Dada Ana story zake ni ngumu sana. C&P tutasikia mengi
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