Msiogope, ni wanandoa au wapenzi wachache sana huwa wanauana

Yoda

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Tanzania mauaji kati ya wanandoa, wapenzi au ndugu wa karibu kwa mwaka ni kama watu 300 tu nchi nzima, hiyo ni sawa na wastani watu 10 tu kwa mkoa mmoja kwa mwaka mzima.

Ukiangalia takwimu hili ni jambo ambalo hata halipaswi kusumbua kichwa na kusababisha vijana na watu wazima kuandika nyaraka ndefu kuhusu ndoa sijui uoe au usio au uoe au usio kabila gani au sijui mali zigawanywaje n.k
 
Kataa ndoa wanatembea na huu upepo ili kuendelea kuwatia watu khofu ili wazinzi (wasiotaka kuoa) wapate kichaka cha kujifichia
Au wale wanaotaka kuoa na kuolewa wawe na khofu na haya matukio yanayoendelea
Ingawaje matukio kwahakika yanatisha
 
Tusiogope ni wanawake wachache sana sana wanaodhulumu mali za wanaume wanatoboa life,sana sana hutafuta ndoa nyingine ili kutafuta unafuu ambao mara nyingi haupo zaidi ya stress majukum yakiongezeka!!
 
Kuna theory sikumbuki inaitwa Flight landing or availability heuristic(bias).

Maelezo marefu but kwa kifupi inasema kwa siku ndege makumi elfu zinaruka na kutua salama(hakuna story) but ndege moja tu ikipata ajali dunia nzima itajua,na watu wataanza kuongelea how ndege sio salama..

Pessimism is literally for losers.
 
Hivyo ni vifo,kuna ulemavu wa kudumu na vipigo heavy haviripotiwi sana.
 
Hii takwimu chanzo chake ni kipi?

Ingawa ni maelezo mazuri katika kutoa matumaini kwa wanao iogopa hiyo ndoa.
 
Na binadamu wengi ndio wanaishi maisha yao kwa namna hii
 
Kila mtu yupo huru kuishi vile apendavyo yeye,kila mtu yupo huru kufanya kile kinachompa amani na furaha,
Ukiona unafanya jambo kisa tu umeambiwa na mtu au umeshawishiwa na mtu,basi tambua kua haupo huru,unaishi kwa maelekezo ya wengine au kwa kushawishiwa na wengine,

Kua huru,fanya kile kinachoipa amani nafsi yako,haya ni maisha yako,life is very short,
It's okay no one understands your journey,at the end of the day,what matters most is that you are doing what makes you happy.
 
Haya.
 
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