I've read recently that 30% of women at the end of their reproductive life would have abortion whether in states where it is legal or criminalized.
These are supporting facts.
Today, I heard a woman was operated to remove her womb after practicing unsafe abortion and have serious infection that resulted to that.
3 months earlier a grown up, employed lady underwent induced abortion just because she is afraid of his dad.
9 months earlier a married woman aborted and went to her home village in order to hide the action from her husband.
5 years ago a high school girl were brought to abortion list after her uncle who secretly had sexual relation with her since she was 15, impregnated her.
More than 15 years ago, a husband led a wife to terminate pregnancy as he didn't want a third child.
I also read one of activists concern and they brought some cases in attention questioning who would you give permission to do only single allowed safe abortion.
1. A young girl living with her mother and step dad. She is living in hard condition where her step dad has irrelevant violence towards her to the extent of raping her. She is doing excellent in her studies in form one. She has no other sexual experience rather than rape from he step dad. Recently she realized she has conceived and she is aware of law of no pregnancy at school as well as she is afraid of her mother and step dad reactions. She think of getting abortion.
2. A woman (32yrs)with HIV living with her husband and two children and one is affected. Her condition has been deteriorating recently and she has enough of pains with the child suffering. She uses oral contraceptive for family planning and she has been taking the pills accordingly. Lately she felt like being pregnant and when she went to clinic they confirmed her thought. She was confused and she was not ready to repeat preventive cascades which is not total assurance to deliver and care HIV free baby, she thought it is enough with her affected child. She is asking a doctor to terminate the pregnancy.
3. A woman of 40 years old. She has never been married she lives with her three children who hardly get food because she has no permanent employment. For about 6 years she has been a serious alcoholics and some time men get advantage of that and rape her. She has discovered lately that she is pregnant for about two months and she sees it as unfair to a coming baby whom she even don't know its father and off course can hardly support its well being. Abortion is her best option.
4. A married woman living with her husband in a poor state with their two children who both have serious disabilities that they need full human care even at age of 4 and above. She thought of trying her chances for another baby and conceived again after understanding and being ready to adhere care to minimize chances of malformation. When her pregnancy reached 20 weeks, she checked the unborn baby status and she was told her baby can survive but also has serious malformation that is worse than the others. She cried with pain and she says she can't tolerate to see her baby like that anymore.
5. A 23yrs college student lady from poor family in her last term of schooling. She has been doing excellent in her studies even without financial support from her family and government. She has been busy with different activities through which she earns money for fee and living at college. For certain circumstances her activities didn't provide well this time even sometime she couldn't afford 3 meals a day and the college administrative press on fee collection and if is not paid timely will attract dismissal from studies. There this man who is ready to pay for her but with the condition for sex. She thought of it, her struggles and her irregular menses then she accepted with protection by taking injection to avoid pregnancy. After two months after sex, she realized she got what she feared, pregnancy. As per college rules, she can't continue with studies while pregnant and off course, she can't sit to fail her three year dream and struggle.
Those were the stories, yet the activists concluded that regardless of the situations we can't decide on any woman need. One will decide for one self.
My take: There are many unknowns regarding the issues. As for myself, I never thought married, health and economic fairly women would get abortion. I think Social pushers seems to take the leading. Again, I see the need to rectify the reasons to undergo legal abortion. Yet education and more researches on the issue are necessary at this era of "new constitution" and new laws.