The Ugly truth: Tunaishi kwenye dunia iliyojaa watu wenye ubinafsi wa kihisia

The Ugly truth: Tunaishi kwenye dunia iliyojaa watu wenye ubinafsi wa kihisia

cariha said:
Kwani na huyo mwanamke si anakuwa ameona nyuchi za kila aina na size, kuzaa hata ukizaa na wanawake kumi haimaanishi mamako anaweza ku replace hyo nafasi.
Hata wanawake pia wanazaa tofauti, so you have to accept mzazi alikuwa chombo Cha kukuleta dunia tu Kama na wewe utakavozaa watoto basi.
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Labda kwako wewe kama unaona mzazi alikuwa chombo cha kukuleta duniani sawa,SISI WENGINE WAZAZI WETU NI VYANZO VYA NEEMA NA BARAKA ,ndio maana siwezi kuwaacha kwa namna yoyote ile.

Mwanaume haoi kufuata uchi au watoto hivyo vyote anavipata kwa wanawake.

Hamna kitu chochote kinachoweza VUNJA BOND YA MAMA NA MTOTO WAKE WA KIUME,si uchi,si shepu wala uzuri wa sura.Kwani hivi unaweza ukavipata wanawake wengine wazuri wapo wa kumwaga ila BOND YA MAMA KWA SISI WATOTO WA KIUME NI UNIQUE.

Yaani wewe kama unaona UCHI wako ndio utamcontrol mwanaume mpaka asahau wazazi wake nakuonea huruma.
 
Mla Bata said:
Wasaalam!

Ni ukweli pasi na shaka, hakuna kitu kizuri duniani kama mapenzi, kupendwa, iwe na ndugu (familia), rafiki ama mpenzi.

Love is most beautiful feeling in the world, yet people are afraid to be in it. 😤

Whether we know it or not most of us are afraid of really being in love.

Kupitia nyuzi mbalimbali ndani ya majukwaa ya JF ama nje ya majukwaa hayo watu wengi wanaonekana kuhalalisha swala la kuingia kwenye mahusiano nusu nusu "mguu nje, mguu ndani" kwa kigezo cha kuepuka kuumia itapotokea uhusiano kuvunjika or whatever.

People afraid of investing their emotions kwa wapenzi wao au mahusiano yao kwa kigezo tu cha kuogopa kuumizwa.

Our fears may manifest themselves in different ways or show themselves at different stages of relationship, we all harbor defenses that we believe on some level will protect us from getting hurt.

These defenses may offer us a false illusion of safety or security, but they keep us from attaining the closeness we most desire.

I wonder how can someone be in relationship na aka control kiwango cha kumpenda mtu huku akijiangalia nafsi yake kujilinda na kuumia na maumivu ya mapenzi hapo baadae, for me that is "Selfishness" tunatengeneza mazingira ya kuua mahusiano yetu mwanzoni kabisa, kwa hisia zetu za ubinafsi.

Love must be unconditionally as affection without any limitations/conditions.

Jamii, vijana tumejawa na ubinafsi wa kihisia huku kila mtu akiingia kwenye mahusiano kwa kujihami, tunawezaje kutegemea mahusiano kufika mbali kwa minajiri hiyo?

What drives our fears of intimacy? What keeps us from finding and keeping the love we say we want?

We have to stop being so emotionally selfish.

Selfishness destroys relationship, let's be real and honestly to our feelings.

No matter umekutana na changamoto gani kwenye mahusiano yako yaliyopita, tambua dunia bado ina watu wazuri sana wanaoishi. Set yourself free from the heavy burden of your past and let love leads.


Let's meet at the top, cheers 🍻
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Umeongea vizuri lakini hapa umeshindwa kuelewa kuwa hata usipokuwa mbinafsi huyo unaempenda anaweza kuwa mbinafsi na hatimaye wewe ndio ukaishia kuumia,kila jambo inatakiwa umtangulize Mungu kwanza,kinyume cha hapo usitegemee muujiza...
 
joseph1989 said:
Labda kwako wewe kama unaona mzazi alikuwa chombo cha kukuleta duniani sawa,SISI WENGINE WAZAZI WETU NI VYANZO VYA NEEMA NA BARAKA ,ndio maana siwezi kuwaacha kwa namna yoyote ile.

Mwanaume haoi kufuata uchi au watoto hivyo vyote anavipata kwa wanawake.

Hamna kitu chochote kinachoweza VUNJA BOND YA MAMA NA MTOTO WAKE WA KIUME,si uchi,si shepu wala uzuri wa sura.Kwani hivi unaweza ukavipata wanawake wengine wazuri wapo wa kumwaga ila BOND YA MAMA KWA SISI WATOTO WA KIUME NI UNIQUE.

Yaani wewe kama unaona UCHI wako ndio utamcontrol mwanaume mpaka asahau wazazi wake nakuonea huruma.
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Nadhani Kuna mahali hatujaelewana ndio maana contradiction, mzazi licha ya mabaraka whatever you call huyo alikuwa chombo kilichotumika kukuleta duniani, na hyo kuvunja bond why uvunje bond Mana kakuzaa it's obvious ni hard kuvunja bond maana una DNA zake.

So kuleta mtu jinsia yoyote anaweza kuleta bila shida na haihusiki kuvunja bond hayo ni mambo yaliyo wekwa kiasili ndio Mana yule mama, baba, dada zote hizo ni division zilizoko kwa jamii na kila role Ina nafasi yake why ui break hyo cycle of life?

Ni sawa na Mimi nilinganishe nafasi ya baba na mwanaume kitu ambacho hakiwezekani kila mtu ana nafasi yake na haiingiliki na siwezi singizia mume wangu kuvunja upendo kwa mzazi wangu that's never to me.

Hafu Mimi uchi naona ni kiungo Cha kawaida tu ka vingine vya mwili ka macho kina nafasi ya starehe na sio kutumika ili ku win mtu
 
Culture Me said:
It hurts to love someone
and not be loved in return
But what is more painful is to love someone
and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel,

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right ones
So, that when we finally meet the right person we will know how to be grateful for that gift,

Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion
and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.

A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be
and that you just have to let go.

When the door of happiness closes, another opens but oftentimes we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

The best kind of friend is the kind you can just be with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you have ever had.

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back!
Don't expect love in return;
just wait for it to grow in their heart,
but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours.

There are things you'd love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from
but don't be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from his heart.

Never say goodbye if you still want to try
never give up if you still feel you can go on
never say you don't love a person anymore if you can't let go.

Love comes to those who still hope although they've been disappointed to those who still believe although they've been betrayed
to those who still love although they've been hurt before,
and to those who have courage
and faith to build trust again.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone
but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth;
even that fades away.
Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
Hope you find someone that makes you smile.
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mkuu huu ni wimbo gani?
 
cariha said:
Nadhani Kuna mahali hatujaelewana ndio maana contradiction, mzazi licha ya mabaraka whatever you call huyo alikuwa chombo kilichotumika kukuleta duniani, na hyo kuvunja bond why uvunje bond Mana kakuzaa it's obvious ni hard kuvunja bond maana una DNA zake.
So kuleta mtu jinsia yoyote anaweza kuleta bila shida na haihusiki kuvunja bond hayo ni mambo yaliyo wekwa kiasili ndio Mana yule mama, baba, dada zote hizo ni division zilizoko kwa jamii na kila role Ina nafasi yake why ui break hyo cycle of life?
Ni sawa na Mimi nilinganishe nafasi ya baba na mwanaume kitu ambacho hakiwezekani kila mtu ana nafasi yake na haiingiliki na siwezi singizia mume wangu kuvunja upendo kwa mzazi wangu that's never to me.
Hafu Mimi uchi naona ni kiungo Cha kawaida tu ka vingine vya mwili ka macho kina nafasi ya starehe na sio kutumika ili ku win mtu
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Wewe ndiye unajichanganya
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cariha said:
Nadhani Kuna mahali hatujaelewana ndio maana contradiction, mzazi licha ya mabaraka whatever you call huyo alikuwa chombo kilichotumika kukuleta duniani, na hyo kuvunja bond why uvunje bond Mana kakuzaa it's obvious ni hard kuvunja bond maana una DNA zake.
So kuleta mtu jinsia yoyote anaweza kuleta bila shida na haihusiki kuvunja bond hayo ni mambo yaliyo wekwa kiasili ndio Mana yule mama, baba, dada zote hizo ni division zilizoko kwa jamii na kila role Ina nafasi yake why ui break hyo cycle of life?
Ni sawa na Mimi nilinganishe nafasi ya baba na mwanaume kitu ambacho hakiwezekani kila mtu ana nafasi yake na haiingiliki na siwezi singizia mume wangu kuvunja upendo kwa mzazi wangu that's never to me.
Hafu Mimi uchi naona ni kiungo Cha kawaida tu ka vingine vya mwili ka macho kina nafasi ya starehe na sio kutumika ili ku win mtu
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Sasa ushajiuliza kwanini ukioa bond hiyo bond inavunjika ghafla mpaka kufikia hatua ya kumsahau mama yako mzazi.

Manake wewe unaamini UCHI na WATOTO ndio unasababisha sisi wanaume tuwasahau ndugu zetu,MIMI NDIO MAANA NIKAKUKATALIA.
 
joseph1989 said:
Sasa ushajiuliza kwanini ukioa bond hiyo bond inavunjika ghafla mpaka kufikia hatua ya kumsahau mama yako mzazi.

Manake wewe unaamini UCHI na WATOTO ndio unasababisha sisi wanaume tuwasahau ndugu zetu,MIMI NDIO MAANA NIKAKUKATALIA.
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Hayo ya kuamini uchi ni yako my point was clear kutofautisha hyo tofauti ya roles and responsibilities za hao watu wawili, pia wewe kuacha kumhandle mzazi wako ni uzembe wako wallah haihusiani na uchi maana ka ni uchi kila mtu anao wa kwake, let's be responsible for our actions and stop blaming other's for our failure. Hivi unaachaje kumtunza mamako usingizie mke na kurogwa mhhhhh mbona Kuna tatizo hapo.
 
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