Ulishawahi kuwa na mahusiano nje ya ndoa au na mtu mwenye ndoa?

[Masikini_Jeuri]

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[Mbu]

Rose who told u am that kind of woman who gonna accept defeat easly? Like I said before u r not getting near my man and u r so dead b4 u reach near my house lolllll :laser:... I wasnt playing no sympathy game, lakini nilikuwa nataka nijue motive ya kina Da Sophy....

Having said that I doesnt mean that I will be wasting my energy and time fighting for a bloody man who doesnt respect himself.. if he is a wh0re am sure he would rather live with his wh0re than me... i will be so finished with him...

What u mean by u better play ur cards right as a wife? r u trying to say its a woman's fault if her man cheated on her?

This is not true.

I personally know quite a few men who have admitted to cheating. I like talking to them about it because the male mind is intriguing to me. I like to know what drives them to do certain things and how they think and come to certain conclusions.

Some cheat because they feel neglected. Some cheat because they think they deserve better. Some cheat to feel that they still can pull a young woman. And some cheat just for the hell of it. Just for the fun, the risk the excitement and the thrill.

Same reason people rock climb, or jump out of planes. It doesn't mean they don't like standing on the ground.. it's just that they're used to standing on the ground and it doesn't make their heart race.

Most often then not, the wife has nothing to do with it.. they claim to love their wives, they will stay with their wives for as long as they don't get caught.. to many who do cheat.. it's a game. A very exciting game.

When they DO get caught, they will most obviously blame their wives. But that's just to have someone to blame for their own recklessness.

ucjaribu, cku unajaribu ukikutana na mtu kama rose hapo utasahau kunyumba.....

Usijaribu tena hata kufanya urafiki nao hawa....

maskini Noname, unaandika kwa uchungu mpaka na feel how much you hurt kutetea nyumba yako. Yaani tunawaumiza sana wake zetu jamani, hebu tubadilike jamani!

Nyamayao, thx . Kuwa na nyumba ndogo kama anayoitolea mfano roselyne1 ni uuaji.

 

[Nyamayao]

maskini Noname, unaandika kwa uchungu mpaka na feel how much you hurt kutetea nyumba yako. Yaani tunawaumiza sana wake zetu jamani, hebu tubadilike jamani!

Nyamayao, thx . Kuwa na nyumba ndogo kama anayoitolea mfano roselyne1 ni uuaji.

wanaume wote wangejua hilo nadhani dunia ingekuwa paradiso...

 

[Mbu]

wanaume wote wangejua hilo nadhani dunia ingekuwa paradiso...

...na kama nyumba ndogo haiepukiki, hakikisha haiivunjii heshima nyumba kubwa.

 

[roselyne1]

Rose who told u am that kind of woman who gonna accept defeat easly? Like I said before u r not getting near my man and u r so dead b4 u reach near my house lolllll :laser:... I wasnt playing no sympathy game, lakini nilikuwa nataka nijue motive ya kina Da Sophy....

Having said that I doesnt mean that I will be wasting my energy and time fighting for a bloody man who doesnt respect himself.. if he is a wh0re am sure he would rather live with his wh0re than me... i will be so finished with him...

What u mean by u better play ur cards right as a wife? r u trying to say its a woman's fault if her man cheated on her?

This is not true.

I personally know quite a few men who have admitted to cheating. I like talking to them about it because the male mind is intriguing to me. I like to know what drives them to do certain things and how they think and come to certain conclusions.

Some cheat because they feel neglected. Some cheat because they think they deserve better. Some cheat to feel that they still can pull a young woman. And some cheat just for the hell of it. Just for the fun, the risk the excitement and the thrill.

Same reason people rock climb, or jump out of planes. It doesn't mean they don't like standing on the ground.. it's just that they're used to standing on the ground and it doesn't make their heart race.

Most often then not, the wife has nothing to do with it.. they claim to love their wives, they will stay with their wives for as long as they don't get caught.. to many who do cheat.. it's a game. A very exciting game.

When they DO get caught, they will most obviously blame their wives. But that's just to have someone to blame for their own recklessness.

am glad ume acknoledge hio rensponsibility,manake tulikuwa hatuelewani nadhani kwa sababu ya kuwanyooshea vidole akina da sopphy peke yake....

afu umeandika kwa uchungu,ushawahi kuwa cheated on nini???

naenda kumtafuta dada sopphy tupange mkakati wa kum'mkwapua' mumeo!!!!.....:rolleyez::target:

 

[ngoshwe]

Sie wengine wenye vi shuhuli vya kusafiri safiri bana haaaa, kwa swali hili ni sawa na kuuliza misalaba kwenye Makaburi ya Kikristo...

 

[Mbu]

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am glad ume acknoledge hio rensponsibility,manake tulikuwa hatuelewani nadhani kwa sababu ya kuwanyooshea vidole akina da sopphy peke yake....

afu umeandika kwa uchungu,ushawahi kuwa cheated on nini???

naenda kumtafuta dada sopphy tupange mkakati wa kum'mkwapua' mumeo!!!!.....:rolleyez::target:

ha ha haa...wewe mchokozi kweli aisee khaaaaaaaaaaaa????!!!

 

[Katabazi]

Hivi nikiishazaa na nyumba ndogo,nakuwa bado na cheat au niko swaaaafi,mana siku hizi nyumba ndogo ndio jamabo la kwanza hilo-ili kubadili status

 

[Audax]

Mimi nipo single bado -lakini ukweli ni kwamba kwa wale wenye ndoa,cku unapoanza kutoka nje ya ndoa ndo cku matatizo ndani ya nyumba yenu yanapopata mwanya. Mara ugomvi mara nini-Ili mradi tu zile baraka mlizopewa na mwenyezi mungu umezi apply vicvyo. Kwa wale ambao hamjaoa au kuolewa ,chezeni hiyo michazo ila muwe makini saana na kwa wale mliokwisha oa au kuolewa tulieni na familia zenu Ili muendelee kupata baraka toka kwa mungu.

Msisahau ukimwi ndo kwanza umeanza-hiyo vita c kweli kwamba maambukizi yamepungua-yapo palepale na yanazidi kuongezeka.

Kumbukeni ya kuwa wazuri hawaishi. Hivyo kila kitu tulichonacho ni cha mpito tu.

 

[Mbu]

Mimi nipo single bado -lakini ukweli ni kwamba kwa wale wenye ndoa,cku unapoanza kutoka nje ya ndoa ndo cku matatizo ndani ya nyumba yenu yanapopata mwanya. Mara ugomvi mara nini-Ili mradi tu zile baraka mlizopewa na mwenyezi mungu umezi apply vicvyo. Kwa wale ambao hamjaoa au kuolewa ,chezeni hiyo michazo ila muwe makini saana na kwa wale mliokwisha oa au kuolewa tulieni na familia zenu Ili muendelee kupata baraka toka kwa mungu.

Msisahau ukimwi ndo kwanza umeanza-hiyo vita c kweli kwamba maambukizi yamepungua-yapo palepale na yanazidi kuongezeka.

Kumbukeni ya kuwa wazuri hawaishi. Hivyo kila kitu tulichonacho ni cha mpito tu.

...kumbe hujaoa, Oa kwanza kisha utakuja kuhukumu vizuri.
Sanduku la kura mpaka sasa lishajaa kura 32 za NDIO dhidi ya 21 za HAPANA...

 

[Naumia]

Mimi niko single na katika maisha yangu ya ku date I have never dated/got involved with a married man nor cheated.

 

[MNDEE]

Pepo wa ngono atawapeleka kubaya mshindwe na mlegee:angry:

 

[ngoshwe]

Moderators naomba poll iwekwe kwenye jukwaa kuu la forums ama zaidi ya sehemu 1; kuna watu hawafiki huku lakini tungependa kupa kura zao

Hakuna unafiki bana.

Cheating ni jadi yetu wote bana toka agano la kale ukitazama kuanzia, Eva mayb be alicheat na Nyoka (Swaatan), Abrahamu alicheat na Mjakazi akapata Ismail, Tazama Kisazi cha Mzee Eliya, Esssau na Jakob, Lutu, Mfalme Suleiman, Mfalme Daudi na wale wote unaowafahamu kwenye Biblia walikuwa na zaidi ya mtu mmoja (unampataje mwingine kama si cheating kwanza?).

Haya mambo ya ubinafsi ndo yanaleta tafsri za ajabu...we cheat pale inapobidi lakini kumbuka kinga na uangalie vizuri usikamatwe, usipo cheat mwenzio ata cheat kwa nafasi yake huko!

 

[Keil]

Hizi kura ... mhhhh! :confused3:

 

[Noname]

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am glad ume acknoledge hio rensponsibility,manake tulikuwa hatuelewani nadhani kwa sababu ya kuwanyooshea vidole akina da sopphy peke yake....

afu umeandika kwa uchungu,ushawahi kuwa cheated on nini???

naenda kumtafuta dada sopphy tupange mkakati wa kum'mkwapua' mumeo!!!!.....:rolleyez::target:

lol sijaandika kwa uchungu I was bit serious though... I wouldnt say i have not been cheated or my heart never been broken because I will be lying... but I took my time to heel...

hahha eti mumkwapue... U know we have already figured out how we can keep the walls and the windows of our marriage secured...:hug: so hard luck labda mkamkwapue Chrispo or Geoff...

 

[Noname]

maskini Noname, unaandika kwa uchungu mpaka na feel how much you hurt kutetea nyumba yako. Yaani tunawaumiza sana wake zetu jamani, hebu tubadilike jamani!

Nyamayao, thx . Kuwa na nyumba ndogo kama anayoitolea mfano roselyne1 ni uuaji.

Thanks for feeling my pains... and thanks very much for acknowledging the underlined

 

[Nyamayao]

lol sijaandika kwa uchungu I was bit serious though... I wouldnt say i have not been cheated or my heart never been broken because I will be lying... but I took my time to heel...

hahha eti mumkwapue... U know we have already figured out how we can keep the walls and the windows of our marriage secured...:hug: so hard luck labda mkamkwapue Chrispo or Geoff...

noname, hiyo ndoa bado changa sana, wifi yetu tutamkosa bure, hajajua game vizuri, huyo mwingine kashakwapuliwa kitambooo, ni neema za Mungu tu zimrudishe kundin.

 

[FirstLady1]

Najaribu kufanya Takwimu mazingira haya niliyopo sasa na watu ninaowafahamu naona kama 85 % wanaume wanacheat..15% wanawake wana-cheat ...
Sijui kwa nini haturidhiki na tulivyonavyo?

 

[Keil]

lol sijaandika kwa uchungu I was bit serious though... I wouldnt say i have not been cheated or my heart never been broken because I will be lying ... but I took my time to heel...

hahha eti mumkwapue... U know we have already figured out how we can keep the walls and the windows of our marriage secured...:hug: so hard luck labda mkamkwapue Chrispo or Geoff...

Hapo kwenye bold ndio kiini cha mada hii. Na pale nilipopigia mstari ndio suluhisho. Lakini siyo wote wanao cheat lazima wawe na hilo tatizo, kuna wengine ni tabia yao.

Tatizo ni hili: msichana anatendwa na mwanaume A, then anaenda kutendwa na mwanaume B and so on ... matokeo yake anakuja ku-conclude kwamba wanaume wengi kama siyo wote huwa sio waaminifu kwenye ndoa/mahusiano yao. Hapo ndipo akina Da Sophy na Rose wanapokuja na falsafa ya jino kwa jino.

Mwanamke akiumizwa kwa kuwa cheated ama kuwa heart broken na chochote kile, asipo heal .... matokeo yake ndio hayo. Ukisoma between the lines kwenye michango ya Roselyn kuna msg kubwa ambayo iko hidden ... watu wameumizwa inafika mahali mioyo yao inakuwa sugu na ndipo mambo yanakuwa moto kwa moto.

Je, msichana akitendwa na wanaume 3 au zaidi, ataendelea kuwa anasaka new husband/bf mpaka lini? Au akitendwa na wanaume wengi tofauti aamue kuwa single for ever? Is it possible?

 

[Masikini_Jeuri]

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afu umeandika kwa uchungu,ushawahi kuwa cheated on nini???

naenda kumtafuta dada sopphy tupange mkakati wa kum'mkwapua' mumeo!!!!.....:rolleyez::target:

Ni ma- Sadist pekee ndio hufurahia kujeruhi na majeraha ya wenzao! With that sentence you are one of them!