Zabron Hamis
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Word.
Word.Kejeli zao huwa zina maanisha kitu sema wanafanyia cushioning ili kidume usije uka over react maana mengine yanakuwaga deep sana kwa ground! Kuna tofauti kubwa Ke akikwambia:
We mwanaume ndio huna akili kabisa yani sasa si ungeongea na mrajisi kwanza.
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Ha hah but mume wangu mi naona kama ungewasiliana na mrajisi kwanza ingekuwa jambo la akili zaidi mpenzi.
Katika hizi kauli mbili lengo ni kukosoa ila ya juu iko cold/harsh kiasi inaweza amsha hisia za hasira kwa mlengwa kwa kuona kama amedharaulika ila kauli ya pili ina warmth which means imekosoa constructively kiasi mtu hawezi feel offended kabisa.
Wanawake wengi hawajui the art of communication. Wengi ni good speakers but not good communicators.
Bora ibilisi ni muovu kuliko mtu mzima hovyo asiye jielewa[emoji3][emoji3][emoji3] kwahiyo unamchukia mwanaume mwenye mapepo ila unampenda ibilisi? Maajabu.
[emoji1787][emoji1787][emoji1787][emoji1787] mashindikana....Katika yote ambayo nimejaribu kuwarekebisha still mmekuwa na guts za kuongelea busara. Aisee kweli mshakuwa mashinidikanaa
Wote kuanzia mama mkwe, mawifi watakula kichambo akifuatiwa na huyo mwanaume suruali mpaka wanikome wakafie mbele huko wao si Wana uzazi wazae mfyuuuHii kauli ya "kwann hupati mtoto" isikie tu kwa wenzako. Ikitokea muda wa kuzaa umefika uko tayari lakini mimba ni kama zimeenda likizo, ndio utajua uchungu wa hiyo kauli. Hapo umeambiwa na mawifi na mama mkwe pekee, akimalizia jamaa unaweza kujinyonga.
Ndio maana nikasema practically ni ngumu. Ila akitaka kuwa free from financial responsibilities asitegemee itakuwa rahisi.She has to be ready for that maana ni ngumu kum convince mwanamke wa kileo kwamba aache kazi alee familia. Utaishia kuambiwa kwani baba yangu alinisomesha ili iweje??? Hapo ndipo utajua hujui [emoji23]
akutukanaye hakuchagulii tusi.Hahahah hatari😂😂😂 ila ulikuwa unajishughulisha na nini sasa kisichoonekana maana mambo yalikuwa sawa.
that's bullshit nifanye kazi na partner/mume anilipe mshahara?!Ndio maana nikasema practically ni ngumu. Ila akitaka kuwa free from financial responsibilities asitegemee itakuwa rahisi.
Best option ni kumfungulia biashara inayompa uhuru wa muda, au kumuenroll kwenye biashara zangu while paying her a salary.
Tunaongelea wanawake who insist on having their own money separate from hela ya mume / familia.that's bullshit nifanye kazi na partner/mume anilipe mshahara?!
Yesu wangu [emoji23][emoji134][emoji23][emoji134]She has to be ready for that maana ni ngumu kum convince mwanamke wa kileo kwamba aache kazi alee familia. Utaishia kuambiwa kwani baba yangu alinisomesha ili iweje??? Hapo ndipo utajua hujui [emoji23]
Nawaongela hao piaTunaongelea wanawake who insist on having their own money separate from hela ya mume / familia.
Kwa uzoefu nilionao kwa wanawake walioacha kazi for the sake of Ndoa!!Yesu wangu [emoji23][emoji134][emoji23][emoji134]
Kuacha kazi???
Nime edit comment before. Soma tena utoe maoni yako.Nawaongela hao pia
kwa nini umlipe mshahara
kwa nini asipate share?
Mfungulie yake mpya.Tunaongelea wanawake who insist on having their own money separate from hela ya mume / familia.
And yes its done sasa how else would you expect it? 50/50 shares into a business I founded and ran for years? Au uwithdraw pesa kwa matumizi yako any time you feel like it?
Tell me, how else would it be done bila predefined monthly stipend?
And that was the best option niliyoitaja mwanzo kabisa.Mfungulie yake mpya.
Aiseee,Ndo tushakuona dikteta.
Mimi mwanaume wa kunipiga Aki ya nani tutapigana hata Kama nitapigwa ila siwezi muacha bure
Yaani nawaza wazazi wangu walivyojinyima,wameishi kwa shida ili wanilipie ada..halafu mume anakwambia acha kazi [emoji134]Kwa uzoefu nilionao kwa wanawake walioacha kazi for the sake of Ndoa!!
Mtu asijaribu hilo Tendo
yes Ila pia iwe na usimamizi maybe unahitaji report kila week or monthlyAnd that was the best option niliyoitaja mwanzo kabisa.
Na kama hana uwezo wa kuendesha biashara nimpe ka management position kwenye ka empire kangu avute mpunga wake kiurahisi huku akipata experience.Mfungulie yake mpya.