Wasichana wa siku hizi..na kutafuta elimu..........

Wasichana wa siku hizi..na kutafuta elimu..........

Its true. Manake hata kama ni kazi za ujomba na kupeana at least mtu a-perform basi, kha!
Yaani kuna mtu unakutana nae kwenye kazi unajiuliza alipataje hii position. Japo the boss ameongelea wanawake tu, na wanaume sijui wanazungukaje but they do these tricks too!
FLY said:
Na ndiyo maana Tanzania ni full ubabaishaji kwenye kila sekta.
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EMT said:
Mkuu naona kama umeliangalia tatizo kwa upande mmoja tuu. Kwamba tatizo hapa ni tamaa za wasichana kujilengesha kwa walimu. Kwa maana hiyo, wakishajilengesha ruksa walimu kufanya nao mapenzi? Kwani walimu nao hawana ethical obligations za kutofanya mapenzi na wanafunzi wao to the extent ya hata kuwapa mitihani? Nakumbuka hili suala tumeshalijadili kwenye thread moja ya Lizzy.

Inawezekana wala tatizo sio kwa hao wasichana. Ukweli ni kwamba tofauti na zamani, siku hizi hatuna walimu tena. Walimu wengi wa siku hizi hawajui hata majukumu yao. Hawajui ethics za ualimu. Wengine wameishia kuwa walimu baada ya alternatives nyingine kushindikana kutokana na poor qualifications. Tungekuwa na walimu wenye vichwa na wanaoelewa majukumu yao ya ualimu kama zamani mbona ungekuta nao wako kwenye mgomo kama madaktari?

Sorry kama kuna mwalimu wa kizazi kipya hapa.
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Hapa umenigusa sana ndugu yangu,

Unajua baadhi ya walimu wa college siku hizi ni kama wale wa UPE ya miaka ya 70!!

Ni hatari sana. Ndiyo maana ni kasema hili suala siyo simple linear equation (y=bx+c)....Kwamba ukimalizana na b, bas ume-solve...No way...It is multi factorial equation!!

Babu DC!!
 
King'asti said:
Its true. Manake hata kama ni kazi za ujomba na kupeana at least mtu a-perform basi, kha!
Yaani kuna mtu unakutana nae kwenye kazi unajiuliza alipataje hii position. Japo the boss ameongelea wanawake tu, na wanaume sijui wanazungukaje but they do these tricks too!
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Dada yangu,

Inakera sana kukutana na kijana wa kiume ambaye ni mweupe kiasi kwamba anaishia kujilegeza legeza....

Khaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa,

Wajukuu zangu wasijeniona natoa machozi bure!!

Babu DC!!

NB...Naoma wajukuu wa kike wasinielewe vibaya!!
 
The Boss said:
Actually nilikuwa nataka nizungumze kwa jamii nzima as whole
but nimejikuta najibu post za watu zaidi....
labda nikuulize EMT kuna viwango vya makosa?vya dhambi?
kujiuza na kununua mithani unaweza sema ipi ni dhambi zaidi?
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Yote ni makosa but whether yanalingana inategemea na circumstances. Ndio maana unakuta watu wawili wameua lakini mmoja anakutwa guilty with murder and the other with manslaughter. But point yangu sio hiyo. Point yangu pia tujaribu kuangalia na hao wanaouza mitihani na kufanya ngono na hao wasichana.

Kama hakuna muuzaji wa mitihani, hutaweza kununua mitihani. Kama hakuna walimu wanaotumia nafasi zao za ualimu ili kufanya ngono na wanafunzi, then hakuna mwanafunzi ambaye atafanya ngono na mwalimu ili afaulu. Kama ukimwajiri a top class teacher and mwenye wito wa ualimu, s/he likely to follow the teaching ethics kwa sababu akiharibu ndio anaharibu profession yake. Lakini ukiajiri ambaye qualifications zake ni poor and ualimu ulikuwa ni last resorst, s/he has got nothing to loose. Atafanya apendanvyo.
 
Mwali weye, u can be the change u wanna see in the world. Ofcoz morals nazo zina gharama but u loose some u win some! At least unajiweka kwenye less problems emotionally, Morally, and economically (imagine u ar 50 yrs old ndo unagundua it doesn't work anymore!)
Your tomorrow is built up slowly by your today
Mwali said:
Nimekuelewa King'asti. Point yangu sio kuwatetea wanao toa rushwa ya ngono bali ni kupanua mtazamo ili tuelewe kwamba kosa halianzii kwao. System ilivyo sasa hivi haiwezi kuponyeshwa na maadili pekee. Hatuwezi kusema it is not morally good na watu wakacha. Na hatuwezi kuwaambia wasichana waache na tukategemea kosa litaisha.
Tatizo limekua institutionalized, linahitaji institutionalized solution.
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EMT said:
Vipi kwa wanaume? Nao sio wezi wa elimu? Naona kama ume-narrow sana huu uzi kwa kwa wasichana kujiuza ili kupata elimu. Lakini ufisadi wa elimu ni mpana sana na hau-relate na ngono tuu. Kuanzia viongozi kuwa na degree feki, wizi wa mitihani, kupeana scholarships na nafasi za kusoma kwa kujuana/kutoa rushwa, vyeti vya kufoji, kudesa, mpaka watoto wadogo kunyimwa haki yao ya msingi ya elimu. Masai School *Tanzania,Africa. | Flickr - Photo Sharing!
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Bora umekuja! Si unajua ninavo shindwaga kujitetea? Ila ulicho sema hapo ndio nilitaka kusema hata mimi, nikakosa maneno. lol
 
It is true kwamba hali inasikitisha. On the other hand utafanya nini zaidi ya ku coment tu. Dialema waliokuwa nayo mabinti wanaosoma siku hizi ni stagering.

Ni kweli wanataka kusoma ajili wapate kazi nzuri. Lakini njia wanayofikia malengo haifai. Lakini wafanye nini? Maprof watamfelisha msichana hata kama anamudu masomo. Na huyo anatengenezewa mazingira ili ajitoe muhanga.

Wengine ndiyo kabisa ni lost cases. Kusoma wanapenda na wanamudu. Uwezo wa kulipa ada hana. Circunstance inaelekeza kwenye short cut ya kuwa hawara wa Col. mwenye vinoti ili amkidhie huduma za shule hadi atakapomaliza.

I am sure that they DO NOT DO THESE DIRTY THINGS because the like it bt rather because they have fallen victims of the present circumstances. Tuchukuwe initiative tuwaelimishe lakini je tuko tayari kuwasidia bila ya kutegemea malipo kwa ngono?

Mtanisamehe sana lakini binafsi nasikitishwa na present education system ya TZ.
 
Babu,
Nasikitika kukiri kuwa qualities za jinsi ya kiume zinazidi kujongomea kila uchao! Hata sioni pa kuanzia, but I miss the traditional men wa enzi za ujana wetu!
Dark City said:
Dada yangu,

Inakera sana kukutana na kijana wa kiume ambaye ni mweupe kiasi kwamba anaishia kujilegeza legeza....

Khaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa,

Wajukuu zangu wasijeniona natoa machozi bure!!

Babu DC!!

NB...Naoma wajukuu wa kike wasinielewe vibaya!!
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EMT said:
Vipi kwa wanaume? Nao sio wezi wa elimu? Naona kama ume-narrow sana huu uzi kwa kwa wasichana kujiuza ili kupata elimu. Lakini ufisadi wa elimu ni mpana sana na hau-relate na ngono tuu. Kuanzia viongozi kuwa na degree feki, wizi wa mitihani, kupeana scholarships na nafasi za kusoma kwa kujuana/kutoa rushwa, vyeti vya kufoji, kudesa, mpaka watoto wadogo kunyimwa haki yao ya msingi ya elimu. Masai School *Tanzania,Africa. | Flickr - Photo Sharing!
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Kuna sehemu mimi nimezungumzia hilo la viongozi kuwa na questionable academic credentials...something which is an open secret!
 
King'asti said:
Babu,
Nasikitika kukiri kuwa qualities za jinsi ya kiume zinazidi kujongomea kila uchao! Hata sioni pa kuanzia, but I miss the traditional men wa enzi za ujana wetu!
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Yaani we acha tu dada,

Ndo maana nimehisi machozi kunitoka. Unakutana na kijana wa kiume...ni mdebwedo kama mrenda...Hajui hata kuandika barua ya kiofisi....tena kwa Kiswahili......Wengine wanajirahisi hadi unaona wanautumia invitation card u-Cameron!

Ngoja tu niishie hapa...Kama mzazi, watoto wetu wanatia huruma!!

Babu DC!!
 
Tausi Mzalendo said:
Ukiona mwanamke anatumia njia mbovu ujue tatizo liko kwenye malezi yake.Si ajabu wazazi wake ni watu wanaopenda shortcuts.
Akishakua mtu mzima, utamwekea utaratibu gani ashindwe? Kwani TAKUKURU si wanakataza rushwa ya ngono? Na je wanaopokea/kuomba rushwa ya ngono ni watu wa namna gani?
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TM, Maadili pekee hayatoshi. Ingekua maadili yanatosha basi tungeendelea kua in the same world kila siku sababu wazazi wangetransmit maadili yao kwa watoto. Shida ni kwamba kuna factors nyingi zaidi ya maadili katika tatizo hili.
So long as hakuna punishment, so long as tunategemea 'morals', hakuna mabadiliko yatakayo tokea.
Haitoshi kusema sio halali, tunatakiwa kusema pia sio legal, na hatua zichukuliwe dhidi ya pande zote mbili, utaona kama rushwa haita punguka.
 
doctorz said:
It is true kwamba hali inasikitisha. On the other hand utafanya nini zaidi ya ku coment tu. Dialema waliokuwa nayo mabinti wanaosoma siku hizi ni stagering.

Ni kweli wanataka kusoma ajili wapate kazi nzuri. Lakini njia wanayofikia malengo haifai. Lakini wafanye nini? Maprof watamfelisha msichana hata kama anamudu masomo. Na huyo anatengenezewa mazingira ili ajitoe muhanga.

Wengine ndiyo kabisa ni lost cases. Kusoma wanapenda na wanamudu. Uwezo wa kulipa ada hana. Circunstance inaelekeza kwenye short cut ya kuwa hawara wa Col. mwenye vinoti ili amkidhie huduma za shule hadi atakapomaliza.

I am sure that they DO NOT DO THESE DIRTY THINGS because the like it bt rather because they have fallen victims of the present circumstances. Tuchukuwe initiative tuwaelimishe lakini je tuko tayari kuwasidia bila ya kutegemea malipo kwa ngono?

Mtanisamehe sana lakini binafsi nasikitishwa na present education system ya TZ.
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Big fact,

Yaani kwa watanzania waliowengi...imekuwa kama kanuni kwamba huwezi kumsaidia mtu wa jinsia tofauti usipate malipo ya ngoni!!

Inasikitisha sana!!

Babu DC!!
 
Dark City said:
Hapa umenigusa sana ndugu yangu,

Unajua baadhi ya walimu wa college siku hizi ni kama wale wa UPE ya miaka ya 70!!

Ni hatari sana. Ndiyo maana ni kasema hili suala siyo simple linear equation (y=bx+c)....Kwamba ukimalizana na b, bas ume-solve...No way...It is multi factorial equation!!

Babu DC!!
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Ni kweli. Kuna baadhi yetu tulibahatika kusoma kipindi ambacho hawa walimu wapya walikuwa wanaingia kwenye soko na wale wa zamani wakikaribia kustaafu. You can openly tell their differences sio tuu kwenye kufundisha bali pia jinsi wanavyo interact socially na wanafunzi. Wale wa zamani, mpaka sasa nakumbuka walichonifundisha. I still remember the topics. I still remember how they addressed the topic. Na mazingira ya class and how I received their teachings bado nayakumbuka. Kwao sikuhitaji tuition and I performed well in my final exams.

Lakini hawa wapya story nyingi. Na wasichana wanaelewa weaknesses zao, so wanajilenegesha kiulaini. To make it easy wanaanzisha na tuition ili kuwapata wasichana kirahisi. Kama umeshindwa kumfundisha mwanafunzi darasani na akaelewa utawezaje kumfundisha tutition na kuelewa? Hapo sio kujitengenezea mazingira ya wanafunzi kujilengesha? Halafu kwa nini walimu wengi wa tuition ni wanaume?

Don't get me wrong. Wapo ambao ni walimu wazuri sana. Japokuwa qualification ni ndogo na ualimu haikuwa their first option, wanafundisha vizuri na wanafuata ethics za uliamu. Kudos to them. Pia wapo wengine ambao wangependa kuwa walimu lakini kutokana na hali halisi ilivyo kwenye hii sekta wamesepea kwenye sekta nyingine au wamejiupgrade huko huko na kuwa maafisa elimu.
 
Dark City said:
Big fact,

Yaani kwa watanzania waliowengi...imekuwa kama kanuni kwamba huwezi kumsaidia mtu wa jinsia tofauti usipate malipo ya ngoni!!

Inasikitisha sana!!

Babu DC!!
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Babu DC
Hivi unajua kunawasichana wana liwa while wazazi wao wanalipa
pesa kwenye private college pesa nyiingi tu
na wazazi wanafikiri kwa kuwapeleka private schools wamewalinda na walimu mafataki...
 
doctorz said:
It is true kwamba hali inasikitisha. On the other hand utafanya nini zaidi ya ku coment tu. Dialema waliokuwa nayo mabinti wanaosoma siku hizi ni stagering.

Ni kweli wanataka kusoma ajili wapate kazi nzuri. Lakini njia wanayofikia malengo haifai. Lakini wafanye nini? Maprof watamfelisha msichana hata kama anamudu masomo. Na huyo anatengenezewa mazingira ili ajitoe muhanga.

Wengine ndiyo kabisa ni lost cases. Kusoma wanapenda na wanamudu. Uwezo wa kulipa ada hana. Circunstance inaelekeza kwenye short cut ya kuwa hawara wa Col. mwenye vinoti ili amkidhie huduma za shule hadi atakapomaliza.

I am sure that they DO NOT DO THESE DIRTY THINGS because the like it bt rather because they have fallen victims of the present circumstances. Tuchukuwe initiative tuwaelimishe lakini je tuko tayari kuwasidia bila ya kutegemea malipo kwa ngono?

Mtanisamehe sana lakini binafsi nasikitishwa na present education system ya TZ.
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Very true and painful in deed.
 
The Boss said:
Babu DC
Hivi unajua kunawasichana wana liwa while wazazi wao wanalipa
pesa kwenye private college pesa nyiingi tu
na wazazi wanafikiri kwa kuwapeleka private schools wamewalinda na walimu mafataki...
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The Boss,

Sijui kama kuna mahali nimesema kuwa wanaotoa rushwa ya ngono ni watoto wanaotoka kwenye familia masikini...La hasha...

Nimejaribu kuonesha kuwa hili tatizo ni kubwa sana...kama alivyosema mbeba box mmoja, ni multifaceted

Babu DC
 
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