Hii ni trend ya maisha ambayo wanawake wa kisasa wameichagua, ni timeline ya chaos, delusions na entitlements zao ambazo zina-influence maamuzi yao.
HOE PHASE
12-15: Hapa anaanza mahusiano ya kimapenzi na wanafunzi wenzake shuleni au mtaani. Mara nyingi ndio kipindi ambacho anatolewa bikira.
16-18; Hapa anaanza kuwapiga chini wale boys wa age yake kwa sababu anaona hao sio hadhi yale tena. Hao boys atawaweka tu kwenye cycle yake kwa ajiri ya kumsaidia kimasomo darasani. Hapa anajiwekea standard za juu sio kutokana na character yake bali kutokana na delusions. Wengi hapa huwa wanachakatwa na bodaboda na kupewa vijisent kidogo na lift.
19-20: Hapa sasa ego yake inakua kwenye peak, hii kwa sababu anapumbazwa na attention anayoipata kutoka kwa wanaume. Kiukweli wanaume wanamtolea macho kwa matamanio ya kingono tu, nothing serious. Hapa bodaboda sio hadhi yake tena atajipandisha chat kidogo mpaka kwa wanafunzi wa chuo au wafanyakazi wa level za kawaida uko maofisini. Hii ndio hatua ambayo anaanza kujihusisha na maisha ya usiku yaani club na pombe
21-23: Hiki ndicho kipindi ambacho mara nyingi mwanaume mwema mwenye malengo mazuri nae ndio huwa anajitokeza, lakini unajua nini? hapa nice guys wanakua sio chaguo lake. At this stage she prefer bad boys because these players and irresponsible men provide her with dramas. She think she is still in control but she is just a pawn in her own game of self-destruction.
24-25; Bado analanda landa na bad boys hajaamua kutulia. Akiulizwa kuhusu kuolewa anasema anataka kuwa huru kufanya mambo yake(maana iliyojificha hapo ni kwamba anataka uhuru wa kuishi reckless life bila kuwa accountable kwa yoyote) Kumbuka hapo mileage ya body count inazidi kusogea. Hii ndio hatua ya mwisho ya hoe phase.
PANIC PHASE
26-27: Nature inaanza kumuhukumu. Taratibu bad boys wanamkimbia wanaenda kwa batch mpya ya watoto wabichi walioingia sokoni. Taratibu anaanza kuwapa nafasi wanaume aliowafungia vioo akiwa kwenye ubora wake, ila nao baada ya kupiga wanaona hakuna maajabu wanaingia mitini. Lakini delusions zake bado hazijamtoka akilini completely kwaiyo bado anakua na mawazo atajitokeza mwanaume mwema. Wengi wao huwa wanafika hii hatua wakiwa single mother.
28-29; Hapa ndipo anagundua ukweli kwamba thamani yake sokoni imeshaisha, anaanza kutafuta mwanaume mwenye hofu ya Mungu yaani anamtafuta simp mmoja hapa atakaepuuzia past yake.
30-32; Anaweka kambi kanisani. Anakalili vifungu vya biblia, hakosi ibada. Kumbuka hayo anayafanya kinafiki tu akitegemea kwa kufanya hayo ataifuta past yake chafu.
TOXIC PHASE
33+; Kabeba vinyongo moyoni, hana matumaini ya ndoa, amekua feminist-anapandikiza chuki za kijinsia ili na wanawake wenzake waishie kuwa miserable kama yeye. Kutwa kulaumu wanaume kwa maamuzi yake mabovu wakati ashahau yeye mwenyewe ndie ambae hakuitumia vizuri peak yake.
My brothers, listen to me very careful. The modern woman who follows this path will target you as her last option after the streets damage her. Don't be her retirement plan. You were made for the fresh, not for left overs