Zijue hoe phase, panic phase na toxic phase katika lifecycle ya mwanamke wa kisasa

[Jadda]

Yaani wewe msimbe ndio unataka kutufundisha kuhusu wanawake.! Watu tumeoa na tuna familia ambayo ipo kwenye mstari halafu msimbe mmoja ndo uibuke from norwhere utupe somo la kuishi na mwanamke.! Ungekua umebobea kwenye suala la mahusiano kwa umri wako ungekua na ndoa sahivi.


Women like you who claim to be feminist or right advocates you are not in your husband's house. Just continue to prove your rights from one bed to another, no respectful woman will follow your path.

Hahaha yani hadi wewe nawe umeoa basi kweli nazidi kuamini ule msemo kwamba wanawake wana huruma, yani hivyo hivyo ulivyo nawe kuna mwanamke kakubali kuolewa na wewe bila shaka naye atakuwa mpumbavu kama wewe tu, narudia wewe huwajui wanawake wala huna elimu yoyote kuhusu mahusiano mimi sihitaji phd ya saikolojia kulijua hilo we endelea kujifariji tu..we niite majina yote utakayo haibadili ukweli na wala sitaacha kuwasema!!

 

[Natafuta Ajira]

Hahaha yani hadi wewe nawe umeoa basi kweli nazidi kuamini ule msemo kwamba wanawake wana huruma, yani hivyo hivyo ulivyo nawe kuna mwanamke kakubali kuolewa na wewe bila shaka naye atakuwa mpumbavu kama wewe tu, narudia wewe huwajui wanawake wala huna elimu yoyote kuhusu mahusiano mimi sihitaji phd ya saikolojia kulijua hilo we endelea kujifariji tu..we niite majina yote utakayo haibadili ukweli na wala sitaacha kuwasema!!

Wewe mbona haujaolewa? hauwezi ukajiweka kwenye mzani sawa na mwanamke ambae ameolewa. Kitendo cha yeye kuolewa maana yake amekuzidi akili. Anajua kwenye mahusiano anatakiwa kukaa wapi na wajibu wake ni nini ndio maana akaolewa. Wewe haujui chochote ndio maana bado u msimbe. Thread ya 11 hakuna mwanamke aloejitokeza kukuunga mkono wewe unafikiri hawapiti humu? Wenzako wanapita hapa na wanakuchora tu uko kwenye mahusiano yao ni watiifu sababu wanajua iyo ndio nguzo kuu ya kuishi na mwanaume. Feminism imewaaribu sana akili imefika hatua wasimbe mnajiweka kwenye mzani wa juu zaidi ya waliolewa.! what the fuvk.!

 

[The Loyalty King]

And when she's ready to settle

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[The Loyalty King]

Umesomea quba nin mkuu
maana Nina dadayangu alishakuwa Hadi miss wilaya Fulani ila Kwasas age go kaamua kuishi na mvuvi

😆😆😆😆

 

[The Loyalty King]

Kuanzia miaka 18 mpaka 27 unapigwa fingering nyuma, una lamba mibolo unameza kabisa na cums alafu leo umeoza unataka uolewe na mimi. K kibuyu wewe..

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[Sakasaka Mao]

Hii ni trend ya maisha ambayo wanawake wa kisasa wameichagua, ni timeline ya chaos, delusions na entitlements zao ambazo zina-influence maamuzi yao.

HOE PHASE

12-15: Hapa anaanza mahusiano ya kimapenzi na wanafunzi wenzake shuleni au mtaani. Mara nyingi ndio kipindi ambacho anatolewa bikira.

16-18; Hapa anaanza kuwapiga chini wale boys wa age yake kwa sababu anaona hao sio hadhi yale tena. Hao boys atawaweka tu kwenye cycle yake kwa ajiri ya kumsaidia kimasomo darasani. Hapa anajiwekea standard za juu sio kutokana na character yake bali kutokana na delusions. Wengi hapa huwa wanachakatwa na bodaboda na kupewa vijisent kidogo na lift.

19-20: Hapa sasa ego yake inakua kwenye peak, hii kwa sababu anapumbazwa na attention anayoipata kutoka kwa wanaume. Kiukweli wanaume wanamtolea macho kwa matamanio ya kingono tu, nothing serious. Hapa bodaboda sio hadhi yake tena atajipandisha chat kidogo mpaka kwa wanafunzi wa chuo au wafanyakazi wa level za kawaida uko maofisini. Hii ndio hatua ambayo anaanza kujihusisha na maisha ya usiku yaani club na pombe

21-23: Hiki ndicho kipindi ambacho mara nyingi mwanaume mwema mwenye malengo mazuri nae ndio huwa anajitokeza, lakini unajua nini? hapa nice guys wanakua sio chaguo lake. At this stage she prefer bad boys because these players and irresponsible men provide her with dramas. She think she is still in control but she is just a pawn in her own game of self-destruction.

24-25; Bado analanda landa na bad boys hajaamua kutulia. Akiulizwa kuhusu kuolewa anasema anataka kuwa huru kufanya mambo yake(maana iliyojificha hapo ni kwamba anataka uhuru wa kuishi reckless life bila kuwa accountable kwa yoyote) Kumbuka hapo mileage ya body count inazidi kusogea. Hii ndio hatua ya mwisho ya hoe phase.

PANIC PHASE

26-27: Nature inaanza kumuhukumu. Taratibu bad boys wanamkimbia wanaenda kwa batch mpya ya watoto wabichi walioingia sokoni. Taratibu anaanza kuwapa nafasi wanaume aliowafungia vioo akiwa kwenye ubora wake, ila nao baada ya kupiga wanaona hakuna maajabu wanaingia mitini. Lakini delusions zake bado hazijamtoka akilini completely kwaiyo bado anakua na mawazo atajitokeza mwanaume mwema. Wengi wao huwa wanafika hii hatua wakiwa single mother.

28-29; Hapa ndipo anagundua ukweli kwamba thamani yake sokoni imeshaisha, anaanza kutafuta mwanaume mwenye hofu ya Mungu yaani anamtafuta simp mmoja hapa atakaepuuzia past yake.

30-32; Anaweka kambi kanisani. Anakalili vifungu vya biblia, hakosi ibada. Kumbuka hayo anayafanya kinafiki tu akitegemea kwa kufanya hayo ataifuta past yake chafu.

TOXIC PHASE

33+; Kabeba vinyongo moyoni, hana matumaini ya ndoa, amekua feminist-anapandikiza chuki za kijinsia ili na wanawake wenzake waishie kuwa miserable kama yeye. Kutwa kulaumu wanaume kwa maamuzi yake mabovu wakati ashahau yeye mwenyewe ndie ambae hakuitumia vizuri peak yake.

My brothers, listen to me very careful. The modern woman who follows this path will target you as her last option after the streets damage her. Don't be her retirement plan. You were made for the fresh, not for left overs

Uchambuzi wa maana sana huu kwa vijana, una mashiko.

 

[Sakasaka Mao]

And when she's ready to settle

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Kwa kweli wewe ni mPAGAN.

 

[JimmyKB]

Hii ni trend ya maisha ambayo wanawake wa kisasa wameichagua, ni timeline ya chaos, delusions na entitlements zao ambazo zina-influence maamuzi yao.

HOE PHASE

12-15: Hapa anaanza mahusiano ya kimapenzi na wanafunzi wenzake shuleni au mtaani. Mara nyingi ndio kipindi ambacho anatolewa bikira.

16-18; Hapa anaanza kuwapiga chini wale boys wa age yake kwa sababu anaona hao sio hadhi yale tena. Hao boys atawaweka tu kwenye cycle yake kwa ajiri ya kumsaidia kimasomo darasani. Hapa anajiwekea standard za juu sio kutokana na character yake bali kutokana na delusions. Wengi hapa huwa wanachakatwa na bodaboda na kupewa vijisent kidogo na lift.

19-20: Hapa sasa ego yake inakua kwenye peak, hii kwa sababu anapumbazwa na attention anayoipata kutoka kwa wanaume. Kiukweli wanaume wanamtolea macho kwa matamanio ya kingono tu, nothing serious. Hapa bodaboda sio hadhi yake tena atajipandisha chat kidogo mpaka kwa wanafunzi wa chuo au wafanyakazi wa level za kawaida uko maofisini. Hii ndio hatua ambayo anaanza kujihusisha na maisha ya usiku yaani club na pombe

21-23: Hiki ndicho kipindi ambacho mara nyingi mwanaume mwema mwenye malengo mazuri nae ndio huwa anajitokeza, lakini unajua nini? hapa nice guys wanakua sio chaguo lake. At this stage she prefer bad boys because these players and irresponsible men provide her with dramas. She think she is still in control but she is just a pawn in her own game of self-destruction.

24-25; Bado analanda landa na bad boys hajaamua kutulia. Akiulizwa kuhusu kuolewa anasema anataka kuwa huru kufanya mambo yake(maana iliyojificha hapo ni kwamba anataka uhuru wa kuishi reckless life bila kuwa accountable kwa yoyote) Kumbuka hapo mileage ya body count inazidi kusogea. Hii ndio hatua ya mwisho ya hoe phase.

PANIC PHASE

26-27: Nature inaanza kumuhukumu. Taratibu bad boys wanamkimbia wanaenda kwa batch mpya ya watoto wabichi walioingia sokoni. Taratibu anaanza kuwapa nafasi wanaume aliowafungia vioo akiwa kwenye ubora wake, ila nao baada ya kupiga wanaona hakuna maajabu wanaingia mitini. Lakini delusions zake bado hazijamtoka akilini completely kwaiyo bado anakua na mawazo atajitokeza mwanaume mwema. Wengi wao huwa wanafika hii hatua wakiwa single mother.

28-29; Hapa ndipo anagundua ukweli kwamba thamani yake sokoni imeshaisha, anaanza kutafuta mwanaume mwenye hofu ya Mungu yaani anamtafuta simp mmoja hapa atakaepuuzia past yake.

30-32; Anaweka kambi kanisani. Anakalili vifungu vya biblia, hakosi ibada. Kumbuka hayo anayafanya kinafiki tu akitegemea kwa kufanya hayo ataifuta past yake chafu.

TOXIC PHASE

33+; Kabeba vinyongo moyoni, hana matumaini ya ndoa, amekua feminist-anapandikiza chuki za kijinsia ili na wanawake wenzake waishie kuwa miserable kama yeye. Kutwa kulaumu wanaume kwa maamuzi yake mabovu wakati ashahau yeye mwenyewe ndie ambae hakuitumia vizuri peak yake.

My brothers, listen to me very careful. The modern woman who follows this path will target you as her last option after the streets damage her. Don't be her retirement plan. You were made for the fresh, not for left overs

I don't know your age but you talked the fact. If these girls see this useful they may follow this article so that they maybe able to overcome their ego

 

[realMamy]

Hii ni trend ya maisha ambayo wanawake wa kisasa wameichagua, ni timeline ya chaos, delusions na entitlements zao ambazo zina-influence maamuzi yao.

HOE PHASE

12-15: Hapa anaanza mahusiano ya kimapenzi na wanafunzi wenzake shuleni au mtaani. Mara nyingi ndio kipindi ambacho anatolewa bikira.

16-18; Hapa anaanza kuwapiga chini wale boys wa age yake kwa sababu anaona hao sio hadhi yale tena. Hao boys atawaweka tu kwenye cycle yake kwa ajiri ya kumsaidia kimasomo darasani. Hapa anajiwekea standard za juu sio kutokana na character yake bali kutokana na delusions. Wengi hapa huwa wanachakatwa na bodaboda na kupewa vijisent kidogo na lift.

19-20: Hapa sasa ego yake inakua kwenye peak, hii kwa sababu anapumbazwa na attention anayoipata kutoka kwa wanaume. Kiukweli wanaume wanamtolea macho kwa matamanio ya kingono tu, nothing serious. Hapa bodaboda sio hadhi yake tena atajipandisha chat kidogo mpaka kwa wanafunzi wa chuo au wafanyakazi wa level za kawaida uko maofisini. Hii ndio hatua ambayo anaanza kujihusisha na maisha ya usiku yaani club na pombe

21-23: Hiki ndicho kipindi ambacho mara nyingi mwanaume mwema mwenye malengo mazuri nae ndio huwa anajitokeza, lakini unajua nini? hapa nice guys wanakua sio chaguo lake. At this stage she prefer bad boys because these players and irresponsible men provide her with dramas. She think she is still in control but she is just a pawn in her own game of self-destruction.

24-25; Bado analanda landa na bad boys hajaamua kutulia. Akiulizwa kuhusu kuolewa anasema anataka kuwa huru kufanya mambo yake(maana iliyojificha hapo ni kwamba anataka uhuru wa kuishi reckless life bila kuwa accountable kwa yoyote) Kumbuka hapo mileage ya body count inazidi kusogea. Hii ndio hatua ya mwisho ya hoe phase.

PANIC PHASE

26-27: Nature inaanza kumuhukumu. Taratibu bad boys wanamkimbia wanaenda kwa batch mpya ya watoto wabichi walioingia sokoni. Taratibu anaanza kuwapa nafasi wanaume aliowafungia vioo akiwa kwenye ubora wake, ila nao baada ya kupiga wanaona hakuna maajabu wanaingia mitini. Lakini delusions zake bado hazijamtoka akilini completely kwaiyo bado anakua na mawazo atajitokeza mwanaume mwema. Wengi wao huwa wanafika hii hatua wakiwa single mother.

28-29; Hapa ndipo anagundua ukweli kwamba thamani yake sokoni imeshaisha, anaanza kutafuta mwanaume mwenye hofu ya Mungu yaani anamtafuta simp mmoja hapa atakaepuuzia past yake.

30-32; Anaweka kambi kanisani. Anakalili vifungu vya biblia, hakosi ibada. Kumbuka hayo anayafanya kinafiki tu akitegemea kwa kufanya hayo ataifuta past yake chafu.

TOXIC PHASE

33+; Kabeba vinyongo moyoni, hana matumaini ya ndoa, amekua feminist-anapandikiza chuki za kijinsia ili na wanawake wenzake waishie kuwa miserable kama yeye. Kutwa kulaumu wanaume kwa maamuzi yake mabovu wakati ashahau yeye mwenyewe ndie ambae hakuitumia vizuri peak yake.

My brothers, listen to me very careful. The modern woman who follows this path will target you as her last option after the streets damage her. Don't be her retirement plan. You were made for the fresh, not for left overs

Niko hapo katikati 😜

 

[majam19]

Niko hapo katikati 😜

Kumbe nawew upo mungu anakuona

 

[JimmyKB]

I am made for the fresh and not for the left overs.

So be it, and don't make leftovers for others as well

 

[JimmyKB]

Mbunye imechakatwa hadi imekumbwa na.mabadiliko ya kiumbo na ya kikemikali

Japo siyo mshabiki sana wa hizi mada Ila vijana naona mnazidi kujitia nguvu katika mchakato wa kutokuona sana umuhimu wa wanawake

 

[majam19]

Japo siyo mshabiki sana wa hizi mada Ila vijana naona mnazidi kujitia nguvu katika mchakato wa kutokuona sana umuhimu wa wanawake

Unamacho ya mbali ni kwel unavyosema

 

[JimmyKB]

Kama taifa kwenye suala la malezi tayari tumefeli. Familia ni conservative institute, ulimbukeni wetu wa kugeza umagharibi kwa kutaka familia iwe liberal institute ndio umetufikisha hapa.

Sawa kabisa

 

[Natafuta Ajira]

I don't know your age but you talked the fact. If these girls see this useful they may follow this article so that they maybe able to overcome their ego

Unfortunately most of women in this forum belong to toxic phase, and they are very reluctant to accountability as you see jadda's comments above. As parents/future parents we must focus on our young daughters at the age of hoe phase, because that is the path period which will determine woman's value and how she will be respected.

 

[Bray baba]

Japo siyo mshabiki sana wa hizi mada Ila vijana naona mnazidi kujitia nguvu katika mchakato wa kutokuona sana umuhimu wa wanawake

Wanawake ni viumbe visivyotakiwa kupewa kipa umbele,hawa watu ni Taka taka kabisa,Tena huyo Jada ni Mafi kabisa,itakuwa chini kwake kaota sugu na kumevunda kwa Fangas na UTI sugu

 

[Zinn]

Shida ni moja unacheza mchezo wa tit for tat badala ya reality check. Mengi unayojibu ni kama unafanya kujibu kushindana na sio kujadili ajenda iliyopo mezani. Kwenye kila comment unayojibiwa direct unaanzisha mjadala mwingine ambao unatutoa kwenye original agenda na kupoteza maana ya kujadili.

It's like unalenga kupata ushindi wa "mimi ni mwanamke wa shoka sishindwi na mwanaume kirahisi" badala ya " let me learn and explore the topic na ni navigate na hawa wachangiaji in a most communicating manner.

Sijajua kwenye mahusiano yako sijui boyfriend au mchumba wako kama huwa anapata last and final say kwenye mijadala yenu.

Mchumba amtoe wapi, kuna mwanaume mwenye akili timamu achukue kichomi hicho?

 

[cocastic]

Jadda huwa unalopoka bila kufanya utafiti wa kutosha. Embu fuatilia kauli ya mama Azizi anasemaje kuhusu hili sakata.

Aziz Ki si wazazi wake wote wamefariki? Mbna mnatuchanganya waja?

 

[Zinn]

U

Dah!

Ufafanuzi tafadhali

 

[Kama ipo ipo]

Ilo tunalitambua ndio maana tunakemea mienendo isiofaa. Tungekua tunakosea kama tungefumbia mambo.

We have to stop treating women like kids because this will led to the continuation of the same mistakes because they know even after things fall apart because of their poor decision they will get along with it without been accountable.

Judging women harshly and ruthless atleast will give sense to the and the upcomimg generation that, where they are going is the wrong direction.

It's two way traffic mkuu, balance elimu yako iwafikie ke na me kama unataka matokeo chanya. Naona umejikita kuhubiria wanawake kana kwamba mahusiano yao ni ke+ke wakati sio hivyo.