Guys nisameheni, Naombeni mawazo yenu nirekebike

Guys nisameheni, Naombeni mawazo yenu nirekebike

Kuwa wewe bwashee, mda mwingine tupo humu kufurahia tu , baada ya stress za mikimbizano ya maisha , tuki log out ya humu yanabaki humu humu
OK, ila hata kama ni maigizo inapaswa yawe ya kunufaisha to some degree
 
Mimi ni mtu flan ambae huwa na mawazo mengi sana na huwa nafikiri vitu kwa ukubwa sana tu the point na weza kumiss little details.. (over thinker mkubwa sana mimi)

So basically ni kaamua kuwa instead of kukaa na vitu vingi kichwani ni bora kushare na kupata closure kwa wadau

Nafurahi mwitikio ni mzuri because najua what I say might be resonating kwa wengi.. Nimeongeza ujuzi na pia Nimetoa ujuzi kupitia mabandiko yangu..

But kuna kitu nakiona kina Leta doa, huenda sijui ni nini? Ila nacho jua ni kuwa katika majadiliano kuna kupingana but watu hutanguliza chuki badala ya kuangalia hoja, na mimi nimejifunza leo kuwa huwa nafanya hivyo bila kujua..

Huenda nacho kijadili au kutetea kiko sawa ila sipaswi kimchukia mtu..

Also kama kuna kingine mtu ame notice kupitia interaction zangu na yeye na haliko sawa, au nilimkwaza ajue I had no bad intentions kabisa. Naomba aseme tu hapa ili nijue nakosea wapi..

Jf ni platform nzuri na ni naamini bado Kuna bright minds wengi sana humu.. Trust me..

Ni hayo tu, Sita panic leo nataka nione nakosea wapi...

Viva DR Congo, mwingereza atoke tu.
Ashapigwa goli 1
 
Kwanza, hongera kwa kuwa tayari kujitathmini, that takes maturity.

Kwa jinsi nilivyokusoma kwenye mijadala yetu, tatizo lako siyo uwezo wa kufikiri bali tatizo ni kwamba kwenye mijadala yako mara nyingi unaanza na conclusion, halafu unatafuta hoja za kui-support badala ya kuiruhusu evidence ikuongoze, ukikutana na hoja inayopingana na mtazamo wako, unaelekea kui-dismiss haraka kwa kusema ni psychology, indoctrination au theory, badala ya kuichambua.

Pia, kuna wakati unafanya generalizations kutoka kwenye experience zako binafsi au observations chache, kisha unazifanya ziwe universal truth, hapo ndipo mjadala huwa unaanza kupoteza mvuto.

Na jambo la mwisho, jitahidi kutenganisha mtu na hoja yake, ukikosoa idea badala ya kumlabel mtu, watu watakuwa tayari zaidi kukusikiliza hata wasipokubaliana na wewe.

Keep your curiosity, but let evidence challenge your beliefs as much as your beliefs challenge evidence.

All the best Mkuu.
sure mkuu, ila hata wewe sio kwamba uko right na huwa tunabishana sana na kuna consistency nzuri kwenye hoja zako, ila sio kwamba ziko right..

We both learn from one another.

Shukran na nitazidi kufanyia kazi ninapo kosea tuko humu kujifunza especially in crucial matters
 
Usvunje Sheria za JF na Sheria za ustaraab wa kibinadamu. Toa mawazo yako ishi unavyoweza. Jf tunapita in cognito mode. Hatujuani nje ya hapa. So kuna wengine tabia za humu na nje tofauti. So ishi uwezavyo. People don't care at all
 
Usvunje Sheria za JF na Sheria za ustaraab wa kibinadamu. Toa mawazo yako ishi unavyoweza. Jf tunapita in cognito mode. Hatujuani nje ya hapa. So kuna wengine tabia za humu na nje tofauti. So ishi uwezavyo. People don't care at all
Sawa sawa...
 
Tafuta kazi kijana huo ni msongo wa mawazo, kushinda mitandaoni na kuandika andika hovyo hiyo sio dalili nzuri.
Una taka kunifanya ni panic ila sasa nimeshajua shida ni wewe😂
 
sure mkuu, ila hata wewe sio kwamba uko right na huwa tunabishana sana na kuna consistency nzuri kwenye hoja zako, ila sio kwamba ziko right..

We both learn from one another.

Shukran na nitazidi kufanyia kazi ninapo kosea tuko humu kujifunza especially in crucial matters
Exactly sio kwamba kuna mtu ana monopoly ya ukweli, kuna kugongana kwa ideas na kujifunza kupitia ideas hizo hizo.

Mimi huwa naona kuna value kubwa sana kwenye kubadilishana hoja tofauti, especially pale ambapo tunabaki kwenye respect na reasoning badala ya kushindana nani yuko right kila wakati.

I agree with you, tuendelee kujifunza, kurekebishana na kupanua perspective, shukrani pia kwa openness yako.
 
Exactly sio kwamba kuna mtu ana monopoly ya ukweli, kuna kugongana kwa ideas na kujifunza kupitia ideas hizo hizo.

Mimi huwa naona kuna value kubwa sana kwenye kubadilishana hoja tofauti, especially pale ambapo tunabaki kwenye respect na reasoning badala ya kushindana nani yuko right kila wakati.

I agree with you, tuendelee kujifunza, kurekebishana na kupanua perspective, shukrani pia kwa openness yako.
Thanks kamanda and actually through last interaction kwenye uzi wangu nili gundua hilo..

Exactly it's all about reasoning and respecting other's POV bila kuwa chukua wao.. That's a great deal in moving forward.

Mm ni mtu wa namna hiyo, I normally leave my ego behind sometimes
 
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