Huwa sivutiwi na mwanamke mwenye hizi tabia

[King Loto]

Mi nilikuwaga na demu mmoja yeye ndo alisema anataka kufanya maisha na Mimi nikamkubalia kwa wakati ule alikuwa na jamaa mmoja alikuwa ana hela kimtindo, akaachana na jamaa akaja kuishi kwangu🤔
Lakini nikaja kushtuka bado ana mawasiliano ya kwenye simu na yule jamaa. Niliumia sanaaaaaaa
Nikamkalisha Mara ya kwanza Kwamba sitaki uwasiliane na huyu bwana akajibu jamaa ndo anamtafuta. 🤔

Baada ya week nikakuta bado wanawasiliana yaani demu anapigiwa na ile namba anapokea ukichek call log 4minutes and 35seconds nikamwambia sitaki hizi mambo , akakiri hawatoongea tena.

Wakaendelea tena kuwasiliana , nikagundua lakini awamu hi akaomba msamaha , na laini yake akaivunja nikajip moyo labd ndo mwisho😔😔 akatafuta laini mpya kabisa lakn ndani ya week nikakuta ile namba bado wanaongea.
Nikanyoosha mikono nikakiri nikasema mwanamke asipoamua kwa dhati yake kubadilika hata uwe na milioni 800 habadiriki.

Pesa sio kigezo Cha kupendwa kwa dhati, Wala umasikini sio kipimo Cha kupima mapenzi ya mtu juu yako.

yule jamaa alipendewa pesa bravo shutuka so alikuwa ganda la ndizi mtelezo wake.

 

[Kanungila Karim]

Aah wapi! mtu kama mi hanipati
Usawa wenyewe huu wa kulenga kwa manati

 

[King Loto]

Heheh wale ambao hatuombwi hela mpaka tunajishtukia wenyewe tunatuma,wale tunaokopeshana na wapenzi wetu na tuko waaminifu kurudishiana hela siku tuliyoahidiana tupooo...

kama unatuma pesa bila kuombwa wewe wanakuita bwana wa mabwana yaani bonge la bwana.

 

[King Loto]

poi

21 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP

Singles or would be couples these days are facing serious challenge to know whether they are in the right Relationship or not, that is very necessary and important considering so many relationship woes and heartbreak we are been confronted with everyday of our existence. But to know if one is in the right relationship isn't rocket science. Though not magical, it is very possible to know. As I always say, we can all be right if we do the right thing.

Consider the following checklist;

1. God's will. This is very key. Its not about your will but His. Whether you chose him or her and bring him or her to God or you pray through to receive, you must be sure you are doing His will. God still speaks, we must discover the way He communicates, he's a dynamic God. In knowing His will neutrality and objectivity is very key. Neutrality is simple " ladies close your legs" and guys "zip up". Objectivity is when you are not biased or don't have a predetermined answer. Your relationship must be God oriented. It is dangerous to go into an institution neglecting the institutor (Evang. Tunde Olufunde, 2020). Don't take that risk.

2. God is the center of it. This is more than praying, it is about obeying the commandments of God concerning Relationship. Abstinence is still very valid till eternity. Avoid premarital sex!

3. Sound conviction. This should be mutual. A situation where both partners are deeply convinced to be together. Conviction shouldn't be one sided.

4. Mutual love. Where love is not one sided.

5. Well defined. The Relationship has a goal which is Marriage. Many are still living in the world of assumption concerning their relationship, ladies especially. If he or she is not coming out straight or using delay tactics please don't assume. Move on to avoid time wasting, see if all you lose is things like money, property etc you can still rise up but when you lose your time, it is a big loss because whatever steals your time, stole your destiny (AJS 2020). So avoid time wasters like plague.

6. Mutual commitment to the Relationship.

7. Mutual respect of each others decision.

8. The caring is mutual and not one sided.

9. There is high level of understanding between them. They understand the place of leisure time and time for serious spiritual exercise.

10. They are ready to talk about anything; their past, present and future.

11. Agreement concerning the matter of sex and the need to wait.

12. Both have a picture of how their Marriage would be and can't wait to get started.

13. They carry their parents and other concerned people along and most importantly, their pastors for guidance and counseling.

14. They both love God. No pretence.

15. They are intentional about personal development. They grow together. They read books, they attend seminars, conferences and workshops together.

16. There is mutual trust, no cheating or side chicks.

17. The two love birds demonstrate mutual tolerance for each other.

18. There is mutual agreement on important issues eg number of children in marriage, matter of sex, finance, career, extended family management, friends management etc.

19. They both knows how to settle their issues amicably when there is mistake.

20. The two are best of friends. No secrets, transparency is the watchword.

21. They are both responsible.

Dear singles, take a look at all these signs if your Relationship is lacking all of these, then you have a lot to do. It's not too late to make the necessary adjustments. Have a good foundation to avoid stories that touches the heart. The journey starts now!

You know I love you. Stay safe for me please.

A more impactful and responsible relationship is possible.

© Olajide Olawale Opeyemi, 2020
(Coach Triple O)
Relationship, Marriage and Spiritual Success Coach.

Photo credit: Facebook news feed

kweli you nailed it with points of facts

 

[Gunther Schwagermann]

Tafuta mwanamke atayepaisha yako siye anayetafuta pesa kujipaisha.

 

[King Loto]

Aah wapi! mtu kama mi hanipati
Usawa wenyewe huu wa kulenga kwa manati

😂😂😂😂 Kanungila Karim samahani wewe dada uliyevaa shati la kaki hivi unaitwa nani
Demu: mi naitwa bahati
brother men : mbona kama nishawahi kukuona
Demu : acha longo longo sema una shilingi ngapi?
msela: kwani mazee nyie mpango wenu vipi ?
brother men: mi mbn mpango wangu safi.
mitungi R.I.P ngwea aseee mzee wa mikasi.

 

[King Loto]

Tafuta mwanamke atayepaisha yako siye anayetafuta pesa kujipaisha.

kweli aiseee

 

[Offshore Seamen]

Mwaka 2014 kuna mwanamke nilimtongoza tulikuwa tumepiga nae interview na kazi tukaanza pamoja. Siku hiyo tumepumzika saa 4 kama kawaida story zikawa zianendelea huku narusha ndoano. Yule mwanamke mbele ya jamaa tuliokuwepo pale na Dada mmoja, kaka huna pesa,gari hata masters huwezi kuwa na mimi.

Tangu hapo jamaa zangu wakawa wananitania mzee baba pesa au gari hujapata umfate bibie. Ila baada ya wiki wanaume wenye magari walispend nae kadri ya uwezo wao, maana kipindi hicho Tumbaku ilikuwa Tumbaku kweli ela ilikuwepo mtu kumiliki gari 3 za kutembelea ilikuwa kawaida.

 

[King Loto]

Offshore Seamen aseee akawa kitumbua nje nje kinaliwa kigezo uwe na gari mwisho wa siku ikaweje mkuu.

 

[dimatteo]

Pole broo

 

[Extrovert]

All these go down when

21 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP

Singles or would be couples these days are facing serious challenge to know whether they are in the right Relationship or not, that is very necessary and important considering so many relationship woes and heartbreak we are been confronted with everyday of our existence. But to know if one is in the right relationship isn't rocket science. Though not magical, it is very possible to know. As I always say, we can all be right if we do the right thing.

Consider the following checklist;

1. God's will. This is very key. Its not about your will but His. Whether you chose him or her and bring him or her to God or you pray through to receive, you must be sure you are doing His will. God still speaks, we must discover the way He communicates, he's a dynamic God. In knowing His will neutrality and objectivity is very key. Neutrality is simple " ladies close your legs" and guys "zip up". Objectivity is when you are not biased or don't have a predetermined answer. Your relationship must be God oriented. It is dangerous to go into an institution neglecting the institutor (Evang. Tunde Olufunde, 2020). Don't take that risk.

2. God is the center of it. This is more than praying, it is about obeying the commandments of God concerning Relationship. Abstinence is still very valid till eternity. Avoid premarital sex!

3. Sound conviction. This should be mutual. A situation where both partners are deeply convinced to be together. Conviction shouldn't be one sided.

4. Mutual love. Where love is not one sided.

5. Well defined. The Relationship has a goal which is Marriage. Many are still living in the world of assumption concerning their relationship, ladies especially. If he or she is not coming out straight or using delay tactics please don't assume. Move on to avoid time wasting, see if all you lose is things like money, property etc you can still rise up but when you lose your time, it is a big loss because whatever steals your time, stole your destiny (AJS 2020). So avoid time wasters like plague.

6. Mutual commitment to the Relationship.

7. Mutual respect of each others decision.

8. The caring is mutual and not one sided.

9. There is high level of understanding between them. They understand the place of leisure time and time for serious spiritual exercise.

10. They are ready to talk about anything; their past, present and future.

11. Agreement concerning the matter of sex and the need to wait.

12. Both have a picture of how their Marriage would be and can't wait to get started.

13. They carry their parents and other concerned people along and most importantly, their pastors for guidance and counseling.

14. They both love God. No pretence.

15. They are intentional about personal development. They grow together. They read books, they attend seminars, conferences and workshops together.

16. There is mutual trust, no cheating or side chicks.

17. The two love birds demonstrate mutual tolerance for each other.

18. There is mutual agreement on important issues eg number of children in marriage, matter of sex, finance, career, extended family management, friends management etc.

19. They both knows how to settle their issues amicably when there is mistake.

20. The two are best of friends. No secrets, transparency is the watchword.

21. They are both responsible.

Dear singles, take a look at all these signs if your Relationship is lacking all of these, then you have a lot to do. It's not too late to make the necessary adjustments. Have a good foundation to avoid stories that touches the heart. The journey starts now!

You know I love you. Stay safe for me please.

A more impactful and responsible relationship is possible.

© Olajide Olawale Opeyemi, 2020
(Coach Triple O)
Relationship, Marriage and Spiritual Success Coach.

Photo credit: Facebook news feed

All these went kaput, eversince money came in between 🤣🤣🤣

 

[Uttarra]

Ni sahihi, lakini kuna uwezekano wa kudhibiti tamaa ya pesa. Walioshinda huu mtihani wanajua kuwa utu ni tofauti na pesa.

Wanaoushinda huo mtihani wanapewa pesa. Pesa na utu vinauhusiano wa moja kwa moja. Waulize wajumbe.

 

[King Loto]

Pole broo

thanks mkuu haya ni maruwani tu

 

[Extrovert]

Wajumbe sio watu mkuu...Pesa imefanywa kuwa na uhusiano na utu kwa kuwa zinakidhi tamaa zenu watoto wa kike. Thats why a man without cash looks worthless...sababu anashindwa kukidhi matamanio yenu juu ya material stuffs. Ila mwenye hela ni A+ shobo ni overflinch.

Wanaoushinda huo mtihani wanapewa pesa. Pesa na utu vinauhusiano wa moja kwa moja. Waulize wajumbe.

 

[Beeb]

Pole sana

 

[katoto kazuri]

Unahela

 

[Tayta]

Haha ila JF bhana

Wanaume huwa tunawaambia wanawake wavumilie tunapochepuka maana huo ni udhaifu wetu

Wakati huo huo sisi hatutaki kuwavumilia na udhaifu wao wa kupenda pesa zetu

Ila mtoa mada pole sana aisee

 

[Shunie]

Mkuu muunde wa peke yako uepukane na hizo tabia

 

[Mr. Somebody]

kabla ya kuoa /kuolewa chukua mida was kutosha kupima akili ya huyo anarkuita bebi au unayemwita bebi. .wapo hata wanaume wanaofata wanawake wenye pesa kwa swaga zote za kujifanya wanajua kupenda ili tu wapate kitonga flanii. .mfano .mama ake Na Diamond na yule jamaa 😄🤗🤗🤗ukinikoti mi simo

21 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT RELATIONSHIP

Singles or would be couples these days are facing serious challenge to know whether they are in the right Relationship or not, that is very necessary and important considering so many relationship woes and heartbreak we are been confronted with everyday of our existence. But to know if one is in the right relationship isn't rocket science. Though not magical, it is very possible to know. As I always say, we can all be right if we do the right thing.

Consider the following checklist;

1. God's will. This is very key. Its not about your will but His. Whether you chose him or her and bring him or her to God or you pray through to receive, you must be sure you are doing His will. God still speaks, we must discover the way He communicates, he's a dynamic God. In knowing His will neutrality and objectivity is very key. Neutrality is simple " ladies close your legs" and guys "zip up". Objectivity is when you are not biased or don't have a predetermined answer. Your relationship must be God oriented. It is dangerous to go into an institution neglecting the institutor (Evang. Tunde Olufunde, 2020). Don't take that risk.

2. God is the center of it. This is more than praying, it is about obeying the commandments of God concerning Relationship. Abstinence is still very valid till eternity. Avoid premarital sex!

3. Sound conviction. This should be mutual. A situation where both partners are deeply convinced to be together. Conviction shouldn't be one sided.

4. Mutual love. Where love is not one sided.

5. Well defined. The Relationship has a goal which is Marriage. Many are still living in the world of assumption concerning their relationship, ladies especially. If he or she is not coming out straight or using delay tactics please don't assume. Move on to avoid time wasting, see if all you lose is things like money, property etc you can still rise up but when you lose your time, it is a big loss because whatever steals your time, stole your destiny (AJS 2020). So avoid time wasters like plague.

6. Mutual commitment to the Relationship.

7. Mutual respect of each others decision.

8. The caring is mutual and not one sided.

9. There is high level of understanding between them. They understand the place of leisure time and time for serious spiritual exercise.

10. They are ready to talk about anything; their past, present and future.

11. Agreement concerning the matter of sex and the need to wait.

12. Both have a picture of how their Marriage would be and can't wait to get started.

13. They carry their parents and other concerned people along and most importantly, their pastors for guidance and counseling.

14. They both love God. No pretence.

15. They are intentional about personal development. They grow together. They read books, they attend seminars, conferences and workshops together.

16. There is mutual trust, no cheating or side chicks.

17. The two love birds demonstrate mutual tolerance for each other.

18. There is mutual agreement on important issues eg number of children in marriage, matter of sex, finance, career, extended family management, friends management etc.

19. They both knows how to settle their issues amicably when there is mistake.

20. The two are best of friends. No secrets, transparency is the watchword.

21. They are both responsible.

Dear singles, take a look at all these signs if your Relationship is lacking all of these, then you have a lot to do. It's not too late to make the necessary adjustments. Have a good foundation to avoid stories that touches the heart. The journey starts now!

You know I love you. Stay safe for me please.

A more impactful and responsible relationship is possible.

© Olajide Olawale Opeyemi, 2020
(Coach Triple O)
Relationship, Marriage and Spiritual Success Coach.

Photo credit: Facebook news feed

Amen Amen

 

[King Loto]

laskaboza asante kwa mawazo mazuri na hata hivo nilisema let me get start kutafuta mwanamke ambaye siyo slay queen or slay mama.

yaan she is not living the modern life, she don't know club, lounge, class cars, she don't have idea with weekends, she don't wear fend, glasses, hair styles like peruvian, brazillian, she don't needs house for her own, she never sense the idea of vacay trip.

yaan kiufupi mwanamke ambaye hana utambuzi na malimwengu ya dunia ameridhika na hajui utamu wa dunia ulivo huyu yuko like dakika 1000 nyuma ya hawa wa sasa labda ndio nitasema huyo ndio mtii😕😕😕😕
Cha kuongezea ukiwa uko fit financially mwanamke wa hivo atakuboa kama uko naye yaan ushamba mwingi, kama unapenda maisha ya bata lazima umuache au uende na michepuko.