Je, ulishawahi kulazimisha mpenzi au rafiki aendelee kubaki maishani mwako?

Nyaubikra · Feb 3, 2020

My dear mtoa post
Huyo alisema kuhusu subconscious mind amenigusa ku moyo mpk chozi limetoka Mana Niko katika Hali ya kutafuta furaha na Aman moyon.

Tatizo langu ni kua nilipo Anza kutafuta rafiki wa kweli ktka uanafunzi huu nilionao sasa nikapata nikaweka Iman kua atakua na me Kila mda ni mwana wangu Sana tunashare vingi ,tunasoma wote ,tunasema Iman kua tutafanya wote kazi moja na vengine vingi Kama marafiki

Nalimtafuta yye Mana nallikua na msongo wa mawazo kukataliwa kimahusiano na Mikasa mingi ya maisha .

Ila sasa yanayo nikuta ni makubwa Mana najikuta me ndyo naweka huo uwepo sasa wa urafiki sio Kama zaman kisa jamaa kapata demu ambaye anampenda Sana.

Mara nyingi najikuta mpweke Sina wa kusema nae niliyo nayo basi nabaki naongea mwenyew tu Sina Hata demu Kama rafiki yangu kusema atanipa furaha

Humu mko mnaojua namna nitapona na hili tatizo [emoji24][emoji24] [emoji24] Mana napenda marafiki Ila marafiki ni wakunipa furah mwanzon tu

[emoji24][emoji24][emoji24][emoji24][emoji24][emoji24][emoji24] Ngoja kwanza nilie mimi [emoji24][emoji24][emoji24] Mana mtoa mada kanigusa kwenye huzun.

Naombeni ushauri wenu wakuu[emoji17][emoji17]

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Da'Vinci · Feb 3, 2020

Nyaubikra said:
My dear mtoa post
Huyo alisema kuhusu subconscious mind amenigusa ku moyo mpk chozi limetoka Mana Niko katika Hali ya kutafuta furaha na Aman moyon.

Tatizo langu ni kua nilipo Anza kutafuta rafiki wa kweli ktka uanafunzi huu nilionao sasa nikapata nikaweka Iman kua atakua na me Kila mda ni mwana wangu Sana tunashare vingi ,tunasoma wote ,tunasema Iman kua tutafanya wote kazi moja na vengine vingi Kama marafiki

Nalimtafuta yye Mana nallikua na msongo wa mawazo kukataliwa kimahusiano na Mikasa mingi ya maisha .

Ila sasa yanayo nikuta ni makubwa Mana najikuta me ndyo naweka huo uwepo sasa wa urafiki sio Kama zaman kisa jamaa kapata demu ambaye anampenda Sana.

Mara nyingi najikuta mpweke Sina wa kusema nae niliyo nayo basi nabaki naongea mwenyew tu Sina Hata demu Kama rafiki yangu kusema atanipa furaha

Humu mko mnaojua namna nitapona na hili tatizo [emoji24][emoji24] [emoji24] Mana napenda marafiki Ila marafiki ni wakunipa furah mwanzon tu

[emoji24][emoji24][emoji24][emoji24][emoji24][emoji24][emoji24] Ngoja kwanza nilie mimi [emoji24][emoji24][emoji24] Mana mtoa mada kanigusa kwenye huzun.

Naombeni ushauri wenu wakuu[emoji17][emoji17]

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Pole sana ndugu yangu

Da'Vinci · Feb 3, 2020

Expectations is the root of all heartache

Pyaar · Feb 3, 2020

Kwa upande wangu mtu akinionesha upendo nami namuonesha upendo, tena mara dufu...Ila nikiona chenga, kabadilika huwa ni mwepesi sana wa kutupa kule..Tena namtoa kabisa hata kwa kiraka hanifai.

Da'Vinci · Feb 3, 2020

Pyaar said:
Kwa upande wangu mtu akinionesha upendo nami namuonesha upendo, tena mara dufu...Ila nikiona chenga, kabadilika huwa ni mwepesi sana wa kutupa kule..Tena namtoa kabisa hata kwa kiraka hanifai.

Daaah hongera sana ni watu wachache wanaweza fanya hivo..
Expect nothing you won't be disappointed

Pyaar · Feb 3, 2020

Da'Vinci said:
Daaah hongera sana ni watu wachache wanaweza fanya hivo..
Expect nothing you won't be disappointed

Thanks bro.
Mwanasingeli wetu katuacha aisee.

Pyaar · Feb 3, 2020

Da'Vinci said:
Inasemekana yu hai bibie

Kwahiyo habari zilikuwa za uongo.

Nkundwe Sr · Feb 3, 2020

Mimi marafiki ninao lakini natengeneza mazingira ya rafiki yeye anipende mimi sana kuliko mimi navyompenda yeye uwaga inatokea tu wananipenda sana wao wanahesabiaga mimi ni rafiki yao lakini mimi nawachukulia kawaida sana. Niko sehemu napata marafiki wengi wa kike hii hali yakuwa na marafiki wa kike siipendi sana nmeanza wote kuwakwepa wananitafuta sana mimi sitaki urafiki na mademu sjui nifanyaje?

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Da'Vinci · Feb 3, 2020

Hon Nkundwe,
U have something.. mental attractions and Charisma.
Wanavutiwa tu kuwa nawe. Usiwakwepe mkuu, utafifiza kipawa chako hiko

Nkundwe Sr · Feb 3, 2020

Da'Vinci said:
U have something.. mental attractions and Charisma.
Wanavutiwa tu kuwa nawe. Usiwakwepe mkuu, utafifiza kipawa chako hiko

Mkuu sipendi naona ka naoneka mtu wa mademu kumbe ata kitu sipati hii hali siipendi sana

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hyunhah · Feb 3, 2020

Kuna MA class mates natamani warudi kwangu kama kushauriana na urafiki wetu WA o'level kuna kipindi my work mates naona kama hawako real sana kwny ushauri na naona kabisa sometimes Kama kuanguka kwangu ni furaha kwao.

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Da'Vinci · Feb 3, 2020

Hon Nkundwe said:
Mkuu sipendi naona ka naoneka mtu wa mademu kumbe ata kitu sipati hii hali siipendi sana

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Jitahidi hivo hvo.. ipo siku utatamani uwapate hafu uwakose

Jadda · Feb 4, 2020

Aiseee nilijuaga niko peke yangu mwenye mawazo kama haya,, at times I feel useless may be because of the kind of life I'm living..

Da'Vinci said:
Mimi sijui ila Nadhani maybe sijapenda au nimeukomaza moyo wangu kwa mitazamo ya kua mpweke pweke.
Mfano..
Hua najisemea I'm useless one, nobody needs me! So kwa mentally hii hata mpenzi akiniacha najua tu I'm no tdestined to he loved.

princess ariana said:
My friend we need jesus!!!!
mwisho wa siku nasemaga samething, "Bwana weeh nobody needs me! mimi sina jipya kwanza atakaaje na mimi bora basi ameamua kuniacha, maana sina cha ku-offer
Hivi tukoje[emoji23] tutafute dawa haya sio maisha

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Da'Vinci · Feb 4, 2020

Karma said:
Aiseee nilijuaga niko peke yangu mwenye mawazo kama haya,, at times I feel useless may be because of the kind of life I'm living..

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Pole sana mdada. Tuko pamoja..
Watu hushangaa hio signature yangu. Hiyo ndio falsafa yangu maishani, I'm useless so if you like me like me..if you hate me..hate as you can coz I'm not worthy in this world.

Maneno haya yananisaidia nisitegenee cha mtu

Jadda · Feb 4, 2020

Yup sometimes yanasaidia sana

Da'Vinci said:
Pole sana mdada. Tuko pamoja..
Watu hushangaa hio signature yangu. Hiyo ndio falsafa yangu maishani, I'm useless so if you like me like me..if you hate me..hate as you can coz I'm not worthy in this world.

Maneno haya yananisaidia nisitegenee cha mtu

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Da'Vinci · Feb 4, 2020

Karma said:
Yup sometimes yanasaidia sana

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Not sometimes. It's all the time.
I'm in my own

Jadda · Feb 4, 2020

Okee Okeeii

Da'Vinci said:
Not sometimes. It's all the time.
I'm in my own

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BATISTUTA · Feb 4, 2020

Tony-stark said:
Kwa upande wa marafiki.

Wakati nasoma kipindi hicho, nilikua na rafiki yangu ambaye nilikua namjali sana, tulikua tunaishi wote nyumba yetu hii ya kwao inafuata mbele,
Huyu rafiki tukifika nyumbani ni marafiki wakubwa tu, ila tukifika shule urafiki hakuna tena anakuona huna maana tena, anakuwa na marafiki zake wengine.
kipindi cha utoto nilidhani sitoweza kusurvive peke yangu bila ya mtu yoyote pembeni,
Ila nikaja gundua kwamba mtu ukimjali sana anakuona huna maana, anajua wewe huna cha kufanya bila ya yeye, lazima akuendeshe, lazima akudharau, lazima akupuuze.

Nilichokifanya nikajijengea msimamo kwamba "naweza kufanya chochote bila ya yoyote, yaani mimi na akili yangu tu nitaweza kufanya chochote kile" nikaanza kujiamini, japo nilitambua haitokua rahisi.(na ni kweli haikuwa rahisi)
*Nilianza kujipenda mwenyewe kwamba mimi ni wa muhimu kuliko yoyote yule mimi ni wathamani sana, sitokuja kujidharau tena, so haitotokea tena niumie sababu ya mtu mwingine
*nitafanya kila njia nipate Amani/furaha na Nitafanya kila njia furaha/amani yangu isipotee (japo sio rahisi pia)
*Sitosikiliza yoyote na hakuna atakaye badirisha msimamo wangu, sababu binadamu wengi ni wanafiki.
*Familia yangu ndio marafiki pekee wa kweli japo kila mtu yuko mbali na yake.
Na mpaka leo sijabadirika sina rafiki wa kweli zaidi ya salamu kila mtu na yake,
Hata wale niliosoma nao wachache ndio huwa tunaongea kwa bahati mbaya mwaka mara 1.

Maisha yangu ni
Job
Movies
Music
Books
Games
TV shows nk au kushinda kwenye magroup ya introverts wenzangu.

Unaweza dhani mimi ni alien ila ndio maisha yangu na hakuna kilichoaribika, na mambo ya kuumizana nilishayasahau,na furaha muda wote ipo nami, na sina mpango wa kuishi kama binadamu wengine, nikaishia kuumia tu.
Kiufupi haitokuja kutokea hiyo kitu.

Mtanisamehe kwa Uzi mrefu.

"Magic is believing in yourself if you can do that, you can make anything happen".

Safi sana ujumbe mzuri

Jadda · Feb 4, 2020

Yeah mie hata mtu baki akinipenda huwa najiuliza kanipendea nini maana ninaboa

princess ariana said:
basi tu inatokea maana we mwenyewe ukijiangalia una hangaika na matatizo ya introvert
unatafakari unasema hata ivyo am useless hana sababu ya kubaki na mimi.

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princess ariana · Feb 4, 2020

Karma said:
Yeah mie hata mtu baki akinipenda huwa najiuliza kanipendea nini maana ninaboa

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sasa si bora wewe unapendwa na hao watu baki.
mimi sijawahi kuhisi napendwa hata mtu akinitumia [emoji173] nashtuka ..
nmesahau last time nmependwa lini[emoji22].. nashangaa kwanini mzee hataki kunipeleka Jwtz nikaishi maisha yasiyo na upendo wala urafiki

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