Kaa kimasta kijana, hisia sio mzigo mzuri kwako

[Manyanza]

Aisee andiko lako liko sawa kabisa Kuna Jamaa ni Mmarekani nadhani ni Pasta Vlad hungry citizenyule niliona video yake akizungumzia tofauti kati ya Mwanaume na Mtoto wa kiume. Inaendana kabisa na ulichokiandika hapa

 

[Poor Brain]

Intelligent businessman Shadow7 Half american Poor Brain Oya kweli washikaji hisia za mbwa zinatucost sana wana

Alafu huyu Half american ndo anaendekeza sana mahisia

 

[Intelligent businessman]

Jipe somo rudia kuusoma huu uzi wako unakuhusu sana ili ubadilike.

Hata wewe, uta kusaidia kuwa kubwa la manusu vizuri

 

[Intelligent businessman]

Nilitaka nimpose ila yeye kutwa masilaha tu😂

Utasikia fyoko, Kama vile kala kaa la Moto 😄

 

[Half american]

Hata wewe, uta kusaidia kuwa kubwa la manusu vizuri

Mimi hisia ni za maigizo tu ila uhalisia natumia akili sana baada ya kupigwa na heavy thing.

 

[Intelligent businessman]

Alafu huyu Half american ndo anaendekeza sana mahisia

We muite kubwa la manusu au nusu albino Half american

 

[Half american]

Alafu huyu Half american ndo anaendekeza sana mahisia

 

[Intelligent businessman]

Mimi hisia ni za maigizo tu ila uhalisia natumia akili sana baada ya kupigwa na heavy thing.

Kitu gani kili kukuta Mr kubwa la manusu.

 

[Luggy]

Some peoole think uanazme ni kuvaa suruali...it goes beyond that

 

[Shadow7]

Utasikia fyoko, Kama vile kala kaa la Moto 😄

Why is she passing between my interview? Why? I hate you😂😂🙌 in TID voice

 

[Intelligent businessman]

Some peoole think uanazme ni kuvaa suruali...it goes beyond that

You're absolutely right bro

 

[Intelligent businessman]

Why is she passing between my interview? Why? I hate you😂😂🙌 in TID voice

Aisee🤣😄

 

[Half american]

Kitu gani kili kukuta Mr kubwa la manusu.

Tudili na mada hiyo ni mada ya siku nyingine. Experience ni mwalimu mzuri

 

[Intelligent businessman]

Tudili na mada hiyo ni mada ya siku nyingine. Experience ni mwalimu mzuri

Sema ili vijana waji funze.

 

[Fake P]

Sidhani hata kukata salad, Kama huyo Fake P ana jua 😆

Nilitaka nimpose ila yeye kutwa masilaha tu😂

Why is she passing between my interview? Why? I hate you😂😂🙌 in TID voice

Agenda ya kikao imekua mmi tena?😂😂 😂😂 hisia zimewashinda tayari

 

[Half american]

Sema ili vijana waji funze.

Kuna vitu uwezi kujifunza bila kupitia, hasa hilo la hisia.

 

[Poor Brain]

We muite kubwa la manusu au nusu albino Half american

Ahahahahahahaha Half american kubwa la makubwa na nusu.....
Albino

 

[Half american]

Ahahahahahahaha Half american kubwa la makubwa na nusu.....
Albino

Naam chotara la kichina

 

[Intelligent businessman]

Agenda ya kikao imekua mmi tena?😂😂 😂😂 hisia zimewashinda tayari

oya ngoja nije niku nunulie dodoma wine utulie 😊🤓

 

[Shimba ya Buyenze]

Hakuna noma mkuuda, hata wewe upunguze matumizi ya hisia, ulikua mahabusu ya jf kwa sababu ya kushindwa kuzidhibiti hisia zako.

Umeniwahi. Siku ile hisia zilimzidia mpaka aka-mean malice to everybody na kuvuka mipaka. Ajabu sasa hata waliojitolea kumkanya nao hakuwasikiliza. Hisia!

Mimi nadhani hisia hazizuiliki maana ni sehemu ya uumbaji. Hata watu wa Evolutionary Biology watakwambia kwamba hisia ni kitu cha lazima. Hata ukienda Serengeti utaona. Dume la Simba pure Alpha male tena kwenye prime yake na linaloongoza familia yake kubwa kibabe kuna wakati linazidiwa na hisia hasa kwa watoto, wake zake, marafiki n.k. Madume ya nyani, hali kadhalika. Na viumbe wengine.

Cha muhimu nadhani ni kujua wapi hisia zinafaa kutumika; na wapi hazifai. Na hili si jambo rahisi maana hisia na uchanuzi wake kunachangiwa na mambo mengi sana mchangamano yakiwemo mazingira, malezi, mtazamo wa jamii, makuzi, mfumo wa elimu, peer pressure, mtazamo wa dini na mengineyo mengi.

Kwa sasa hali ni mbaya zaidi kwa sababu mtoto wa kiume ni kama vile ametelekezwa na jamii ili ajipambanie mwenyewe. Nguvu zote zimewekezwa kwa mtoto wa kike wakati ukiangalia kwa hali ya sasa mtoto wa kiume pengine ndiye ana changamoto zaidi hasa ukizingatia kuwa yeye ndiye bado anategemewa kuwa mlinzi, mtoaji, kuhani na baba wa familia yake huko mbele ya safari.

Kusema tu kwamba mwanaume hapaswi kuwa na hisia hasa katika mazingira haya ya sasa sidhani kama inasaidia sana maana hisia siyo kitu halisi kinachoota na kukua tu ghafla katika ombwe bali ni majumuisho ya jumla ya uzoefu wote wa mtu anaoupata katika miaka yake yote aliyoishi hapa duniani.

Inabidi kuwaza kwa kina zaidi kama kweli tunataka kumsaidia mtoto/kijana wa kiume ili aweze kujinasua kutoka katika mitego mingi inayomkabili hasa katika dunia hii ya sasa iliyojaa mambo ya kike kike na uke uke!