Nimekuwa nikiumizwa na historia yangu ya nyuma natamani kumwambia ukweli mpenzi wangu lakini nahofia ataniacha

Nimekuwa nikiumizwa na historia yangu ya nyuma natamani kumwambia ukweli mpenzi wangu lakini nahofia ataniacha

Logikos said:
Honeymoon period, yaani wakati bado anakupenda, wakati bado akiona Chongo anaita Kengeza.., hapo hata ukipitisha nini atasema yaliyopita si ndwele tugange yajayo..,

lakini akishacommit anaweza kusema wewe muongo muongo na haujabadilika sababu ungebadilika usingemficha.., Kwahio kusema kabla unampa option (asepe au aendelee nawe); hawezi kusema ulimtega..., ila kama alishacommit na ukateleza wakati upo ndani ya commitment kueleza upuuzi wako hauna faida yoyote zaidi ya pain... (In short elezea yaliyotokea kabla yenu na sio wakati mpo pamoja, hapo utakuwa sio kwamba unataka kumsaidia yeye bali kusafisha consisous yako na kumbebesha zigo yeye)
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Asante sana nitajaribu kufanya hivyo japo najua ni kama nimechelewa kuna siku aliwahi kuniuliza niliwahi kuwa na wangapi kabla yake nilimdanganya nadhani pale ndiyo ilikuwa nafasi ya kusema ukweli
 
naomi kivuruge said:
Habari za wakati huu wana JF ni matumaini yangu mu wazima wa Afya.
Bila kupoteza muda twende kwenye jambo husika tajwa hapo juu.

Mimi ni msichana, kipindi nasoma kuna maisha nilikuwa naishi hapo nyuma hayakuwa mazuri nadhani ni kwasababu ya utoto na kutojitambua pia, ama ni ile foolish age pia ilichangia.
Kwasasa nimekua nina kibarua nafanya nimeshakuwa kwenye mahusiano kadhaa kadhaa lakini tulishindwana, pia watu niliokuwa nao kwenye mahusiano hawakuwa tayari nadhani au walikuwa na watu wao.

Mwaka jana nilibahatika kuanzisha mahusiano na mwanaume mmoja mpaka sasa hivi nipo nae lakini hatuko kwenye mkoa mmoja, sasa jambo ninalohofia ni kwamba ikitokea siku akafatilia background yangu akaambiwa maisha niliyoishi hapo nyuma itakuwaje na mimi sijawahi kumwambia, nahofia akija kujua anaweza kuniacha.

Ninaomba ushauri wenu wadau je ni sahihi mimi kumweleza mpenzi wangu ukweli wa maisha niliyopitia hapo nyuma au ninyamaze tu haina umuhimu??
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Usithubutu kamwe,na akiambiwa kuhusu hiyo historia kataa, sema wanakuonea wivu tu.

Ila uache umalaya sasa utulie we mwanamke.
 
naomi kivuruge said:
Kwasasa ninaishi maisha ya kawaida sifanyi yale mambo tena na wala sina marafiki, niliwaza tu mbeleni kama labda akafatilia akajua, kwa hili jibu lako nikimwambia kuwa niliteleza nilipokuwa mdogo atataka maelezo zaidi🥲
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Huenda unaona huyo mwanaume ndiyo turufu ya maisha yako kiasi cha kuogopa kumpoteza? Ushauri wangu ni kuwa usimwone kama jambo la kufa na kupona, utakuja kuumia sana mambo yakigeuka. Mimi nilisema upige story bila kuonyesha kuwa ulipitia maisha hayo. Akija kugundua na kukuacha wala usisikitike sana kwani kila jambo lina wakati wake.
 
naomi kivuruge said:
😁😁umewaza mbali sana mkuu, hili jina sijui hata lilitoka wapi kipindi najiunga ndiyo lilikuja kwa haraka haraka, nitaomba mods wanibadilishie waniwekee hata binti sayuni
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Sawa Binti Sayuni, ...hata Paul àlikuwa mkora Leo twasoma Injili yake....! Namna unavyojibu hizi hoja ,naona umetupa chai yq Iftar!
 
macho_mdiliko said:
Huenda unaona huyo mwanaume ndiyo turufu ya maisha yako kiasi cha kuogopa kumpoteza? Ushauri wangu ni kuwa usimwone kama jambo la kufa na kupona, utakuja kuumia sana mambo yakigeuka. Mimi nilisema upige story bila kuonyesha kuwa ulipitia maisha hayo. Akija kugundua na kukuacha wala usisikitike sana kwani kila jambo lina wakati wake.
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Asante sana, hakika umenifungua macho
 
naomi kivuruge said:
Asante sana nitajaribu kufanya hivyo japo najua ni kama nimechelewa kuna siku aliwahi kuniuliza niliwahi kuwa na wangapi kabla yake nilimdanganya nadhani pale ndiyo ilikuwa nafasi ya kusema ukweli
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Nachelea kusema huyo hana busara (waliosema usimchunguze bata hawakuwa vichaa)..., na unaweza kudhani umepata kumbe umepatikana.., mtu ambaye ana wivu hata kabla / wakati bado hamjatambuana anaweza kuwa a one step before kuchomana visu na kuzikana kwenye septic tank....

Kumbuka boyfriend, girlfriend ni bora na raha kuliko marriage...

Being in Love is one Thing; Being Married all Different Animal...

One day you are Married to Your Soulmate then you Watch them turn into Someone Else....; Sometimes you are so in Love with who a Person was, you can't bring yourself to Love who they have become..... Joss Carter POI (Till Death)
www.jamiiforums.com www.jamiiforums.com
 
Logikos said:
Nachelea kusema huyo hana busara (waliosema usimchunguze bata hawakuwa vichaa)..., na unaweza kudhani umepata kumbe umepatikana.., mtu ambaye ana wivu hata kabla / wakati bado hamjatambuana anaweza kuwa a one step before kuchomana visu na kuzikana kwenye septic tank....

Kumbuka boyfriend, girlfriend ni bora na raha kuliko marriage...

Being in Love is one Thing; Being Married all Different Animal...

One day you are Married to Your Soulmate then you Watch them turn into Someone Else....; Sometimes you are so in Love with who a Person was, you can't bring yourself to Love who they have become..... Joss Carter POI (Till Death)
www.jamiiforums.com www.jamiiforums.com
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Hata mimi nilishangaa why aliniuliza hivi, ngoja tuendelee kuchunguzana
 
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