Tunaelekea kufunga ndoa, lakini sina hisia naye tena za kimapenzi

Tunaelekea kufunga ndoa, lakini sina hisia naye tena za kimapenzi

Surya said:
Lazima hili litakua tatizo la kiroho, tazama kwa jicho hilo.

Pia kuna Janga hili.
Mawigi/nywele bandia.
Mafuta au lotion Za kisasa..
Ni chanzo kikubwa shetani hutumia kuharbu ndoa za watu kwa kuwafanya wanawake kupoteza joto na hali asili ya uke.

Mafuta paka Coconut Oil tu.
Click to expand...
Bila kusahau shanga za kiunoni
 
Sheillah Sheillah said:
Habari.

Mimi na mpenzi wangu tumekuwa kwenye mahusiano kwa muda wa miaka mitano kama boyfriend na girlfriend (sio uchumba).

Nikiri kwamba tumekuwa na kutokuelewana kama ilivyo kawaida ya mahusiano lakini tupo vizuri kuhakikisha tatizo lolote linatatuliwa kwa wakati na kuhakikisha mawasiliano hayapotei. Pia tumekuwa na nyakati za furaha.

Tatizo lililopo ni kwamba nimepoteza kabisa hisia za kimapenzi kwa huyu mpenzi wangu ambaye tunategemea kupiga hatua mpya ya mahusiano yetu kuelekea kwenye ndoa.

Nikiwa nae sihisi chochote kabisa, ni kama nipo na mtu ambaye ni jinsia yangu, akinigusa sihisi chochote tena hata kwenye suala zima la sex imefika wakati hadi tutumie lubricants au wakati mwingine tuangalie video za wakubwa to get wet (hii aliipendekeza yeye nilikuwa siangalii kabla ya tatizo). Hili tatizo halikuwa mwanzoni, limetokea miezi kadhaa sasa.

Napata wakati mgumu sana ukizingatia tunaelekea kuwa mwili mmoja. Nimejaribu njia mbalimbali za kutatua hili tatizo ikiwa ni pamoja na kushirikisha wataalamu lakini tatizo bado lipo.

Pia nimemshirikisha yeye ila yeye anahisi nitakuwa na tatizo la uke kuwa mkavu, kitu ambacho nina uhakika sina.

Wanajukwaa naombeni ushauri wenu juu ya kutatua tatizo hili.
Click to expand...
Peaneni nafasi, have time for yourself and explore your body, may be it has something to do with your mind, unahitaji kuwaza mambo mengine rather than the existing problem, badilisha hata mazingira ikiwezekana na aina ya mind refreshing activities mazoezi kidogo ya kufanya mwili uwe active, jipe miezi kadhaa bila kuwasiliana au kuwa nae karibu, itakusaidia kujua kama kweli unampenda or if you real need him as a husband, itakusaidia kujua pia hisia zako zipoje kwake then you can make a right choice kabla ya kuingia ndoani

Ila.mimi nahisi you are stressed au kuna jambo linakusumbua kiasi kwamba your body is not respinding, kumbuka kwamba suala la sex linaanzia kwenye mindset yako

Kama mindset yako haipo tayari basi mwili hauwezi kurespond
 
Dreadnought said:
Nadhani wengi wenu hamko kwenye ndoa ndo maana mnashauri hivyo.

Kuchokana kupo hata kwenye ndoa hiyo ndo asili ya binadamu.

Hata akipata mwingine mwenye hisia naye itafika muda zitaisha tu.
Click to expand...
Ndoa ina mambo mnapendana mapenzi yanakuwa moto kama 1-2 yrs hivi badaye manachokana hata game mnaweza piga Mara 1 ndani ya wiki 2,basis ndio maasha yanaendelea hivyo hivyo kinachobaki ni kila moja kutimiza jukumu lake Baba anakuwa Baba na Mama anakuwa Mama maisha yanaendelea mwisho mnasubiri kuzikana.
Na historia ya mapenzi yenu inakuwa imeishia hapo.
 
Econometrician said:
Ndoa ina mambo mnapendana mapenzi yanakuwa moto kama 1-2 yrs hivi badaye manachokana hata game mnaweza piga Mara 1 ndani ya wiki 2,basis ndio maasha yanaendelea hivyo hivyo kinachobaki ni kila moja kutimiza jukumu lake Baba anakuwa Baba na Mama anakuwa Mama maisha yanaendelea mwisho mnasubiri kuzikana.
Na historia ya mapenzi yenu inakuwa imeishia hapo.
Click to expand...

Jamani hivi mbona sisi hatuchokanagi[emoji23][emoji23]

Yaani hata katikati ya ugomvi tunaweza kutamaniana,
Kikubwa tujistiri ila baadhi ya sehemu tukionana tu baaasi[emoji28][emoji28]
 
Yani nyie mumekuwaje mpo pamoja kwa miaka 5 halafu Hamna hata mtoto?? ungekuwa na mototo angeweza kuwarejesha katika hisia.

By the way,jifunze tu namba ya kurudisha hisia maana hata ukisema umuache na kwenda kwa mwingine bado hata huko hiyo hali itakuja kujirudia.
 
Sheillah Sheillah said:
Habari.

Mimi na mpenzi wangu tumekuwa kwenye mahusiano kwa muda wa miaka mitano kama boyfriend na girlfriend (sio uchumba).

Nikiri kwamba tumekuwa na kutokuelewana kama ilivyo kawaida ya mahusiano lakini tupo vizuri kuhakikisha tatizo lolote linatatuliwa kwa wakati na kuhakikisha mawasiliano hayapotei. Pia tumekuwa na nyakati za furaha.

Tatizo lililopo ni kwamba nimepoteza kabisa hisia za kimapenzi kwa huyu mpenzi wangu ambaye tunategemea kupiga hatua mpya ya mahusiano yetu kuelekea kwenye ndoa.

Nikiwa nae sihisi chochote kabisa, ni kama nipo na mtu ambaye ni jinsia yangu, akinigusa sihisi chochote tena hata kwenye suala zima la sex imefika wakati hadi tutumie lubricants au wakati mwingine tuangalie video za wakubwa to get wet (hii aliipendekeza yeye nilikuwa siangalii kabla ya tatizo). Hili tatizo halikuwa mwanzoni, limetokea miezi kadhaa sasa.

Napata wakati mgumu sana ukizingatia tunaelekea kuwa mwili mmoja. Nimejaribu njia mbalimbali za kutatua hili tatizo ikiwa ni pamoja na kushirikisha wataalamu lakini tatizo bado lipo.

Pia nimemshirikisha yeye ila yeye anahisi nitakuwa na tatizo la uke kuwa mkavu, kitu ambacho nina uhakika sina.

Wanajukwaa naombeni ushauri wenu juu ya kutatua tatizo hili.
Click to expand...
Kule unga wa mbegu za maboga.... Kama routine yako unapopata kinywaji Cha Moto. Utapata mabadiliko positively.
 
1622487276860.jpeg

Karucee said:
It's just a comment she made. To me it doesn't quite suffice.
Click to expand...
 
Hornet said:
Jamani hivi mbona sisi hatuchokanagi[emoji23][emoji23]

Yaani hata katikati ya ugomvi tunaweza kutamaniana,
Kikubwa tujistiri ila baadhi ya sehemu tukionana tu baaasi[emoji28][emoji28]
Click to expand...
Anastasia "Ana" Steele & Christian Grey (fify shades)
 
Karucee said:
There will be such times when you look at your partner and wonder, wawapi huyu?

Then you remember what a loving person they used to be. How they loved you with all of their hearts and it was at such a moment that you decided they would be your partner for life.

The idea of getting married and dedicating your life to one partner can give you cold feet Sheila. It can freak you out and the effects can be physical or psychological or both.

You therefore have to look beyond today, beyond next year and beyond the next five years. Does he have the qualities that will make him a great Dad? You have to put yourself aside and think of the little family that you will create.

Good men are hard to come by. When you find one cling to them with all that you have.

Mengine utasolve tu kwa kubadilisha diet, kuongeza kungumanga kwenye diet etc. Huenda upo affected na mipango ya harusi ndo maana hata kulainika ni issue, huenda ni hormones, huenda Baby wako alikukera sasa badala uongee unabaki nalo moyoni na kumuona hafai.

Do not let go of that man young lady.
Click to expand...
You are logically right, on the other hand, she has an emotional buggage and somebody has to unpack, infact they should both workout to fix, it should be taken as her problem only....
 
Karucee said:
There will be such times when you look at your partner and wonder, wawapi huyu?

Then you remember what a loving person they used to be. How they loved you with all of their hearts and it was at such a moment that you decided they would be your partner for life.

The idea of getting married and dedicating your life to one partner can give you cold feet Sheila. It can freak you out and the effects can be physical or psychological or both.

You therefore have to look beyond today, beyond next year and beyond the next five years. Does he have the qualities that will make him a great Dad? You have to put yourself aside and think of the little family that you will create.

Good men are hard to come by. When you find one cling to them with all that you have.

Mengine utasolve tu kwa kubadilisha diet, kuongeza kungumanga kwenye diet etc. Huenda upo affected na mipango ya harusi ndo maana hata kulainika ni issue, huenda ni hormones, huenda Baby wako alikukera sasa badala uongee unabaki nalo moyoni na kumuona hafai.

Do not let go of that man young lady.
Click to expand...
Hey miss Karucee what's the secret behind your competency in English language?

Sometimes, I find it difficult to grasp the meaning of some words in your posts.

My English is simple and precise but I hate it enough to adore yours, your English sounds a bit professional than mine.

Please, let me know the techniques that bridged you to that success. I want to learn from you.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Our Community

Regional Communities

Back
Top Bottom
Menu
Forums
New posts
Log in
Register