Unafanyeje kurejesha mapenzi katika ndoa yako?

_ly · Jun 22, 2021

yani nilikuwa nasikiaga tu kuwa wanawake akili zao ndogo nilikuwa nabisha...
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nimebahatika kusom baadhi ya shauri(coment) kwenye huu uzi kutoka kwa wanawake wenzie aisee ni madudu..
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wengine wanasema aache kumjali waishi tu kwa kuwa wana watt, wengne wanasema naye alipize kisasi kwa kifupi wenge wamemshauri aendeleze shali...
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kwako mleta uzi:- kitu kimoja cha kujiuliza ikitokea leo mkaachana na mmeo nani atafaidika na nani atapata hasara??
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jua kuwa leo hii ukimuacha mmeo anakuachia watt na anauwezo wa kuoa tena mwanamke mzur mdogo mkali kuliko hata ww na akaanzisha familia kwa upya na akakusau dk 0 tu..
lakin kwako ww ni ngumu, vijana wenyewe wakuoa hata humu unawaona kila siku kuwasema vibaya single mom, mwisho wa siku utatumika uko nje ili ukidhi haja zak na za watt..
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so tumia akili usitumie hisia

BIN NUN · Jun 22, 2021

Azial said:
Yote ni effect ya kuchepuka kwake, ila nikitaka kuhalalisha kuchepuka nafsi inanisuta naupotezea huo mchepuko natulia tu, kuna muda nikitaka kuchepuka naona kabisa mume wangu kawazidi vitu vingi sana hivo sioni sababu ya kuhangaika nje ya ndoa

Nimekuelewa

don classic · Jun 22, 2021

Azial said:
Habari wana JF!

Mwenzenu moyo wangu umekufa ganzi kabisa kwasasa, nifanyeje kurejesha hisia kwa wangu wa maisha? Mume wangu alini-cheat nikamsamehe ame-cheat tena na sasa moyo wangu umechukia kiasi cha kutokuwa na hisia naye tena

Kwanza kabisa amua kuishi. Tekeleza wajibu wako kama mke bila kuangalia yeye anafanya nini? Ufundishe moyo kupuuza mambo mengine ukibeba sana utakufa. Yanaishaga tu hayo hata huyo anayecheat naye atamuacha tu

Usalama barabarani · Jun 22, 2021

mbalizi1 said:
Hii hawezi kuijibia sanasana hatoonekana tena hapa. Yeye kat0mbesh@ huko kwa x wake weeeee anaona raha tu, mumewe kachoka kaamua kulipiza matokeo yake mke anajifanya kuumizwa.

Bahati mbaya sana mwanamke anayet0mbesha nje ya ndoa yake jamii humchukulia ana tabia chafu na mbaya sana kuliko mwanaume.

Hujui kitu mkuu acha kujaji usivovijua, nimekwambia huwa nafeel guilty naacha tu natulia ndoani!

chezo · Jun 22, 2021

kabla sijaoa nilikuwa nawachukia wazee waliokuwa wanawasaliti wake zao kwenda nyumba ndogo ila toka nimeoa nimeona hawana kosa kbs,, makosa yaanzia kwa wake zao, unarudi home kelele, unaomba unyumba unasubirishwa mara leo nimechoka, kesho tena umechoka, unaomba unyumba asubuhi unaambiwa subiri usiku, ukifika usiku leo nimechoka unajikuta umekata wiki mbili kwa nn nisiende nyumba ya jirani? mama jitafakari vyema angalia mapungufu yako. muda mwingine unapewa kama umesusiwa tu hakuna ushirikiano. ukienda kwenye kazi ya nje hadi unafurahi unasikia hadi sauti nzuri masikioni mtoto analalamika kwa maneno mazuri ukija home speaker mbovu haitoi mlio kimya kimya

Chabrosy · Jun 22, 2021

Azial said:
Kwasasa sina hamu wala hisia kwa mwenza wangu tatizo ni ananivuruga na kunichanganya sana. Ananicheat mpaka najua sasa moyo umepondeka sana

Inaumiza sana mwenza anapokucheat wakati ww ukijiangalia hucheat hata aisee inauma iyo hapa ndo watu wanapo pelekea kiaribiana maisha sasa aisee kicheatiwa inauma sana nikishauri tuu.

Kwa kuwa amerudia makosa yale yale na ww bado unampenda chamsingi mlie buyu yani mkaushie mazima kuwa jeuri kuwa kiburi ulie pitiliza mfanyie na ww vituko vya kufa mtu usimfulie nguo usimpikie yani ww deal na watoto wako kama mnao mana huyo mume wako kashakuona ww mdhaifu.

Rudi nyumbani muda utakao ww yani onesha dharau izo mfanyie jeuri ya kufa mtu nakwambia baada ya muda utamuona akakaa sawa mwenyewe na hato cheat tena na akikaa sawa ndo rudisha sasa ule upendo wa zamani....muishi pamoja mulee watoto mfanye maisha uzuri wetu sisi wanaume tukicheat baada ya Muda tunarudi kwa wake zetu na kuwa watu wapya kabisa.....

mjusilizard · Jun 22, 2021

_ly said:
lkn huu sio ushauri mzuri..
kama anavumilia baki na ampende kama ameshindwa bas amuache haondoke lkn sio kwa kubaki na kutojali..

FUATA USHAURI huu na wewe uache kuchepuka, furahhieni ndoa yenu, anzeni upya

mbalizi1 · Jun 22, 2021

Azial said:
Hujui kitu mkuu acha kujaji usivovijua, nimekwambia huwa nafeel guilty naacha tu natulia ndoani!

Mimi ni binadamu sio Mungu hivyo sijaji kwakuwa kazi ya kuhukumu kwa haki pasi na upendeleo ni ya Mungu pekee.

Kadiri muda unavosonga maumivu yatapoa na utapata tu suluhisho kwani kibinadamu huwezi kuishi bila kutiana kwa miaka ya maisha hapa duniani

mjusilizard · Jun 22, 2021

BIN NUN said:
Bibie mumeo ashajua unae huyu mchepuko ndipo tatizo limeanzia hapo. Jitahidi uamue moja Kati ya mume na huyo mchepuko ili uwe na amani ya moyo.wakati mwingine story ya upande mmoja ni tamu Sana pole bibie.View attachment 1826134 View attachment 1826135

pumbavu kumbe anachepuka naye arooo

Extrovert · Jun 22, 2021

Hannah said:
Anakucheat unamsamehe alafu unaendelea kuwa mwaminifu?
Ndio maana umepoteza hisia, hapo ningekuwa mimi ningelipiza, tena kwa fujo. Anadhani yeye ndio ana haki ya kubadilisha ladha tu?

Acha fujo we mdoli😅😅😅

Extrovert · Jun 22, 2021

BIN NUN said:
Bibie mumeo ashajua unae huyu mchepuko ndipo tatizo limeanzia hapo. Jitahidi uamue moja Kati ya mume na huyo mchepuko ili uwe na amani ya moyo.wakati mwingine story ya upande mmoja ni tamu Sana pole bibie.View attachment 1826134 View attachment 1826135

Jf ni kiboko, unaumbuliwa mchana kweupe na wazee wa kufukua makaburi😂😂😂

Extrovert · Jun 22, 2021

mjusilizard said:
pumbavu kumbe anachepuka naye arooo

JF ni zaidi ya maktaba 😂😂😂

Extrovert · Jun 22, 2021

jaji mfawidhi said:
na wewe cheat, maisha mafupi sana, wewe unakaza kwa vijana huko maofisini yeye anakula ma baa medi, jino kwa jino.

Achepuke mara ngapi wakati anae mchepuko😅😅😅

mbalizi1 · Jun 22, 2021

chezo said:
kabla sijaoa nilikuwa nawachukia wazee waliokuwa wanawasaliti wake zao kwenda nyumba ndogo ila toka nimeoa nimeona hawana kosa kbs,, makosa yaanzia kwa wake zao, unarudi home kelele, unaomba unyumba unasubirishwa mara leo nimechoka, kesho tena umechoka, unaomba unyumba asubuhi unaambiwa subiri usiku, ukifika usiku leo nimechoka unajikuta umekata wiki mbili kwa nn nisiende nyumba ya jirani? mama jitafakari vyema angalia mapungufu yako. muda mwingine unapewa kama umesusiwa tu hakuna ushirikiano. ukienda kwenye kazi ya nje hadi unafurahi unasikia hadi sauti nzuri masikioni mtoto analalamika kwa maneno mazuri ukija home speaker mbovu haitoi mlio kimya kimya

Na kuna wakati unakaa unajiuliza maswali hupati jibu, hivi inakuwaje mwanamke hacheat lakini kila ukiomba kutiana nae anakupa sababu ili tu usimfanye?

Extrovert · Jun 22, 2021

Demi said:
Ni kweli. Na dawa yake ni kumuacha kama alivyo, humuulizi kuhusu upuuzi wake na usionyeshe kusononeka/kulialia maana wanaume wengi wanapenda kuona mke akilialia na ndo wanazidisha.
Unaendelea tu na mambo yako , humchukulii uzito wowote, hugombani nae...
Mwanaume anayekupenda atachange maana atajiuliza huyu mwanamke ana plan gani.
Ila Kama huwezi yote hayo sepa tu jamani...mahusiano bila mapenzi sikai zaidi ya mwezi.

Heheheh ukipenda utakaa hata miaka 9,,,sehemu mnazokimbiaga huwa hamjapenda kikweli kweli

Extrovert · Jun 22, 2021

Azial said:
Acha tu ndugu ni majanga tu

Yule mchepuko wako vp kashakupiga chini nini akili zimerudi sasa kama una ndoa?😅

Extrovert · Jun 22, 2021

Rebeca 83 said:
Pole sana, mwenzio napata mawazo kuwa mumeo alikuonyesha hakupendi kabla hata haja cheat,alivyo cheat ikawa confirmation kuwa hakupendi kabisa. Mwili ukafunga. unlike men who can sex with anyone sisi wanawake ni watu wa hisia zaidi mostly tuna sex na mtu tulie form emotional bond. Sasa constantly being shown you are unwanted either direct or indirect breaks the bond and consequently intimacy. Jiulize if you still want this kind of relationship?? because the problem is not cheating,the problem is deep, is how you BOTH feel about each other...honestly jiulize mwenyewe kama huyo mume anakupenda.. which i believe he isn't ...otherwise he wouldnt have cheated, and second if you still want this relationship...Usiwaone wengi wanandoa wanapita huko nje ndani wanaishi maisha ya kimazoea..calculate uone if una sababu to stay labda watoto n.k ...... Again cheating is not a problem,most men cheat, but i guess his attitude towards it ndio inayokuchosha,haonyeshi kujali ama kujutia kitendo chake??? to this i simply advice you to call it a day!

Acha watoto wakue na wazazi basi

Extrovert · Jun 22, 2021

TheChoji said:
Duuh.. hizi ndoa sijui zimekumbwa na nini. Juzi kuna mdada alikua ananisimulia kesi yake ni kama hii hii yeye kashamchoka mumewe na ndoa ina mwaka mmoja tu! Nikasema hiiiiiii

Alifikiri ndoa ni lelemama

Kapeace · Jun 22, 2021

Azial said:
Kweli sina amani ya moyo kabisa

Unahitaji utulivu mkubwa katika maamuzi yoyote kwa Sasa, usitumie hasira kukabiliana na hii changamoto, na usichepuke ukidhani ni tiba bali kuongeza majanga zaidi, pole sana

Extrovert · Jun 22, 2021

Gorgeousmimi said:
Ni kawaida kwamba humjali ni kwasababu anakuumiza na hajali hisia zako na bado anaendelea kukuumiza.Wewe binaadamu mwenye moyo wa nyama kama yeye.

Madhali mna mtoto focus na kulea mtoto kama ni mtu ambae unaweza kujitegemea jitegemee kwa sasa mpaka atakapojirekebisha.

Epuka kukutana nae kimwili kwasababu magonjwa ni mengi mtoto asije kukosa wazazi wote wawili.Hizo cheating mbili ni unazozijua wewe siajabu ameshacheat sana tu na ana wanawake wengi ambao huwajui.

Put yourself and your child first.

Best of luck.

Yeye pia ana cheat huyo 😂😂😂 soma uzi wote utajifunza kitu

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