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Mtu wa aina hii , ndani ya mahusiano ni ngumu. mtu mwenye moyo mgumu, mtu wa kuumiza moyo wa mtu mwingine, mtu asiyejali. Ni kitu gani kinawafanya watu hawa wawe na moyo huo?

Inaweza kuwa ni mazingira aliyokulia, Kwa wazazi ambao hawakuwahi kumuonyesha upendo wowote. HUenda ni kwa sababu ya kuwa na shida nyingi, Huenda ni kutokuelewa, Hajafundishwa, Amesahau au karuka maandiko ndio maana akili hio inamtesa.
 
Mtu huyu atakuwa anahisi kutopendwa, kukataliwa, Hakuwahi kujua jinsi ya kumjali mtu mwingine. Au inaweza kuwa ubongo wake umeshambuliwa na mitandao ya kijamii na shughuli nyingi za kidunia. Makundi ya kidini au ya kisiasa, ndio maana hana wazo la kujijali ni mtu wa kuhitaji watu wa kumpongeza hata kama hajafanya kitu kizuri.

Watu hawa wana mioyo migumu, hutaweza kuishi nao kwa urahisi, maana hata ukilia, ukapiga kelele , ukamtishia , kitu atakachokuambia ni hiki. Acha kunishambulia. Acha kunipa presha. Hata ukionyesha kumjali atakugeuzia kibao na kukufanya ushindwe kujali.
 
Nafikiri umewahi kusikia kuwa katika mahusiano kuna mtoaji na mpokeaji. Lakini kama wote mtakuwa watoaji mahusiano yatajengeka vizuri. Kuna wanaotoa sana, kuna wanaopokea sana, Lakini inapokuja suala la kujali, wengi hupenda kupewa muda wa kutosha. kuwepo pale kwa ajili ya mwenzake anapomuhitaji. Bila shaka huo nao ni utoaji. ni katika hisia na kimwili .

Utafanyaje endapo umeingia kwenye mahusiano na mtu ambaye hukuchunguza tabia zake kwa undani , ni mtu asiyejali, ni mtu asiyewajibika. mtu ambaye ataanza kukulaumu kuwa umekuwa tatizo maana hutaki kumuacha peke yake? Ni vizuri uanze kujijali mwenyewe. unaweza kuwa unasaidia na kuwajali watu wengi kuliko unavyojijali mwenyewe. Lakini unahitaji kujijali , Acha kutaka kumbadilisha mtu, hutaweza. kwa sababu hatabadilika kwa ajili ya kutaka kwako. Chui wamezaliwa kuwa chui huwezi kuwabadilisha. Unaweza ukadharau tabia yake, acha kujiumiza kutokana na matendo yake. Angalia kitu cha muhimu unachoweza kufanya.
 
Fikiria Kitu Utakachoweza.

1.Unaweza kuamua kuondoka kidogo.

Kuna vitu vingi ambavyo vinamfanya mtu kukaa, huenda ndio maana bado upo hapo, Lakini maumivu ya kukosa penzi, kukosa mtu wa kukujali, hakuna mtu wa kukuambia kila kitu kitakuwa sawa, hicho ni zaidi. ni maumivu , ni magonjwa. Piga magoti, Omba toba kuhusu wewe kuingia kwenye mahusiano ambayo yanakutesa. Mungu atafanya njia. Uchaguzi ni wako. huo ndio ukweli.
 
2. Kama utaamua Kukaa.

Msamehe. tambua kuwa huyo mtu ametokea mahali ambapo hapakuwepo na upendo, mahali ambapo hawajali wengine, na sehemu kubwa zaidi hakuwahi kujua jinsi ya kumuhurumia mtu. Jaribu kuona ni kitu gani kinampa huzuni, kitu gani kinakosekana kwake. Usikubali hali ya kubakwa, yaani kulazimishwa kitu bila ridhaa yako. kumbuka kuwa huyo mtu kuna vitu vingi vimekosekana kwenye maisha yake. Ona ndani yake kuwa kuna kitu kizuri kimejificha
 
3.Tafuta msaada mahali.

Kama wewe ni mtoaji na ni mtu unayewapenda watu na kuwajali, tafuta sehemu , kama kutembelea Yatima, Wajane, Wazee na wafungwa , kaonyeshe huo upendo , kujali kwako wengine. Au watu ambao wanakubali upendo wako. Fanya hicho kitu ni kizuri kwako. Hudhuria semina mbalimbali, watu wanaofundisha kitu unachokipenda kukifanya maishani mwako. Kumbatia moyo wako. Linda moyo wako, maana huko ndiko uzima wako unakotokea. hizi ndio sifa ambazo zitakusaidia kuishi mahali pagumu.
 
OUR SEX LIFE IS AMAZING BUT THE MARRIAGE SUCKS

He woke up horny.

He started touching his wife on her breasts.

He flipped her over. Got on top of her.

He started kissing her, but she seemed not interested.

He turned his game up. Kissed her on her neck as he spread her legs. She looked off.

"What's wrong?" He asked.

"Us" she said.

"What do you mean?" He asked.

"The only thing we do great together is having sex" She said.

"I thought you love our sex. I am faithful to you, I don't cheat" he told her.

"I do. You sex me good. But marriage is more than sex. It is not enough to be faithful, marriage needs to have depth, substance; not centered around sex. I don't want us to be two empty souls that are faithful to each other. We had it, we used to have depth. I want us to talk, to laugh, to pray, to date again even in our marriage, to cuddle, to make memories, to play with our children, to travel and see the world, to debate on topics like we used to, to play a sport, to go for concerts, to have intimacy in our marriage. What we currently have is not marriage, but a sexual arrangement. Sex is just not enough" she lamented.

"Ouch! That's painful" said he.

"The painful truth" said she.

He started stroking her hair gently and said, "You are right. Things changed when we got kids, life got busy I guess"

She looked at him and said, "Darling people make time for what is important. I want to be more than the mother of your children, I am your wife, I want to feel like a wife. I want quality time with you like we used to have; not alot, just enough. I want to be loved and talked to. I want our time. When was the last time you stroked my hair like you are right now?"

"A long time ago" he answered.

She placed her finger on his lips and said, "Exactly, you haven't taken time to look at me because we both are always in a hurry. You know a woman doesn't ask for much. Even something as little as you stroking my hair touches my heart. So many wives are tired of sex in their marriage: They fake orgasms, fake headaches or exhaustion and some pretend they are on their periods just to escape having sex with their husbands because they don't feel married. I want to feel married my love. I don't want to become like those women. This home is not a lodge for you to come, sleep, get sex then leave day in day out. This is our home, our bed, our marriage. I need you my husband"

"I need you too" he told her and kissed her.

The kiss was sweet, intense, not rushed and not sexual. It was intimate.

He reclined back to the bed.

He placed her head on his chest and for a while they talked as he played with her fingers. They laughed, randomly prayed, opened up and emotionally connected.

Since then, their marriage is not centered around sex; and when they do have sex, it's not sex, it's making love.

Have you made your marriage empty as you hide behind sex? There is more to marriage than sex.

Kindly share to all loving couples
 
Kaisiki. Mambo ya kikwenu hayoo
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