Kapeace
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Safi Sana nimekupenda bureee
Wanawake wengi wakiingia kwenye ndoa wanabadilika kitabia
Wanawake wengi wakiingia kwenye ndoa wanabadilika kitabia
Kamukhm
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Unauondoa!!?
Na huu ubaya au uzuri tunaupima vipi!? Nani anasema huu ni uzuri au huu ni ubaya!?
Ndoa ni makubaliano ya kuzalisha kitu kipya (mwili mmoja) Mkiiendea na tabia zenu mlizotoka nazo huko makwenu haikati hata kona moja mnaishana.
Wanandoa haijalishi ni mume au mke.. wanapaswa kujenga mawasiliano na kuwa na interest to learn and know about the partner.. na kukubali na ku-commit kufanya mabadiliko when needed.
Sio mume ukae unasema tuu mke anafuata before you know it anachoka mnaishi kwa mazoea if you are lucky.. au mke naye anataka yeye pekee ndio asikilizwe (entitlement) take me as I am.. kwenye scenario hizo mkibahatika kuishi mtaishi kwa mazoea.. hakuna upendo hapo.. na hiyo ni upotevu wa muda.. its better mkaachana...
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Jadda
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The best comment tangu uzi umeanza! Its true kwenye ndoa wanaume wengi wanadhani kuwa kichwa cha familia basi ndiyo mke afuate kila kitu anachotaka hata kama siyo kizuri au mke hakifurahii!
It takes commitment! Kila mmoja kwenye ndoa aingie kwa lengo la kurekebisha tabia zake mbaya na kubaki na nzuri na kila mmoja awe tayari kumsikiliza mwenzie siyo mmoja tu ndiyo atake kusikilizwa!
Kamukhm
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Shida uelewa huo ndio haupo.... Wengi tunadhani ndoa ni mazoea tu. Mtu anazo flaws kabisa na anajua.. ila uvivu ndio unamsumbua anajikuta anatoa kauli kama hivi ndivyo mimi nilivyo.. take me as I am.. ndoa hakuna tena hapo.. ni kuchukua na utumwani tu huko.
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Jadda
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Daah kweli Kabisa aisee
Kapeace
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Wewe ndo umeelezea vizuri, wanaume wengi wa kiafrika wanaamini kwenye ndoa jinsia yao ni perfect hawakosei wala hawakubali kushauriwa na wake zao, tamaduni zetu nyingi zinatuminya wanawake kuonekana si lolote mbele ya mume, mume anaabudiwa Kama mtakatifu ukimkosoa unaonekana malaya uliyeshindikana,
Nimekubaliana nae baadhi ya misimamo yake Kama mwanaume na walau yeye anatetea Hilo pasipo matusi kejeli Wala dhihaka, wale wengine ndo hasara tupu hata hawajui maisha ya ndoa wanakurupuka tu ovyo ovyo,
Sikutaka kuendeleza majadiliano sababu vichwani mwao wamejawa na mfumo dume na kwa misimamo ile hayupo mwanamke kizazi hiki atakubali kuvumilia ndoa na hao watu.
Kamukhm
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Nahisi inabidi tuurudie utaratibu wa jando na unyago. Vijana wa leo tumekuwa na kiburi tu na ujuaji mwingi...ila kiuhalisia hakuna kitu tunajua kuhusu mahusiano.
Tamaa, haraka, kukosa misimamo na uvumilivu vinatutafuna na malipo watalipa watoto.
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Kapeace
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Wenyeww wanakwambia nikiwa na pesa yangu hakuna mwanamke wa kunisumbua, halafu wakajikuta sasa pesa zimeisha🤣🤣kiswahili mfukoni, wakapotea, somo la ndoa kwa Wachumba inabidi lizingatiwe sana hii mitizamo ndo ipo huku mtaani tutajakuwa na jamii ya ovyo mno huko mbeleni
Dr hyperkid
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Safi tuh long time no see you
Au ndo kupishana majukwani
Mwanamke ukipika marotarota hunikaribishi😂😂 dah🙌🙌
Kapeace
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Humu jf nimo Sana labda tunapishana tu, au upo kwenye mfungo wa mwezi mtukufu?
Jadda
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[emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23] eti kiswahili mfukoni
Wakiwa na pesa oo mi mwanamke hanibabaishi ila zikiisha wanarudi kwa hao hao wanawake wasiowababaisha! Bora hata huyo aliyekiri kuwa yeye hata asipokuwa na pesa bado anataka mkewe amheshimu maana heshima haijengwi na pesa kuliko hao wanaojifanya wakipata pesa wanawake watakoma!
Kapeace
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Hahahaha tuvulana tumejaa humu karma
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Tuvulana tena mkuu
Kapeace
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Sijataja mtu
CHIBURABANU
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Si ushukuru mungu anakupangia ratiba mkuu una uhakika utakula.
Cha ajabu mchepuko unapewa tunda any time ukiitisha,sometimes kuoa naonaga ni utopolo Fulani hivi.
Mke kumpangia ratiba ya kunyemka mume wake ni ujinga uliopitiloza.
Mwanamke dawa yake ni moja tuu...mwanamke mwenzie.
the say
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Ni fala sana huyu jamaa yako