Nakuelewa sana kaka ila hutaki kuw fear sana mpk mtt akusome kwamba anaweza kufanya kitu na usi take action ni bora ashindikane ila hata ndg na jirani watakupa konngole kwa kusema huyu baba kajitahidi sn kwenye kumlea lakn mtt mwenyewe ndo kichwa maji au kafuata akili za mama yake 😂Pamoja sana kaka..
vitoto vya siku hizi ni sheedah . ukiwa mkali sana mtoto anaweza hata kuondoka nyumbani na usijue ameenda wapi.
So inabidi uwe Wise. Watoto wa siku hizi sio sawa na dada zetu wa miaka ya themanini/70 na mwanzoni mwa miaka ya 90.
Nilivyo kuwaga nikimuona video vixen Tunda alivyo haribikiwa halafu nikitazama cv ya baba ake mzazi Afande SabaSita nilikuwa nashangaa sana aisee na kuona kama mzee Sabasita anazingua .kumbe kuna umri binti akisha fika baadhi ya mambo huwezi kumzuia zaidi ya kumuachia Mungu. P funky kwa Kajala, baba ake Lulu, baba ake Wema, etc etc.
Mtoto wa kike alie balehe huwezi kumzuia kumiss behave ( kwa mfano kugongwa). Unacho weza kufanya ni :
1. Kumuwekea mazingira magumu sana ya kupata nafasi ya kugongwa. Yani hata akienda kugongwa basi awe amekulia timing ya hatari sana.
2. Kumchelewesha kuanza kugongwa. Badala ya kuanza kugongwa akiwa na miaka 13 basi at least aanze akiwa na miaka 17/18/19.
Ukiujua ukweli utakuweka huru
😂😂 mimi ni bibi ujueWangu haendi kwa bimkubwa wake, kama nimemuweza toka udogoni basi nitapambana nae mpaka uzeeni.. Hadi afikishe umri wa financial services [emoji23][emoji23]
Bro plz for the sake of your daughter's future take her FEZA GIRLS huko makongo academic iko chini kiasi pia inahitaji mwanafunzi ajielewe mwenyewe academically tofauti na Feza,then jua ni stage binti anapitiia atabadilika.Asante sana mkuu vipi kuhusu academic performance? So unaniambia kwenye nidhamu atatoka amenyooka?
Kumpeleka boarding si namna ya kumfundisha nidhamu...... Sana utamfanya akapate tabia chafu mpya mfano, kusagana na nyingine nyingi...... Kitu nachoona hapo mkuu..... Huyo mtoto abaki kwa bibi ake..... Na umwambie bibi ake kwa sabb bibi ni mama pia ataweza kumcontol..... Pili mafunzo ya dini pia ni muhimu sana.... Huyo mtoto yupo kweny umri wa kubalehe anahitaji uangalizi mkubwa zaid ya mtoto mchangaAm almost 35 and my daughter is 15 ( kidato cha pili )Nahisi kama vile sina tena uwezo wa kum control huyu mtoto.
I think She now takes me as her brother ( Nime lihisi hili kwa kuangalia jinsi aanavyo wa address age mates wangu ) Hawezi kusema kuna mbaba mmoja au uncle mmoja, atasema kuna mkaka mmoja.
Watu ambao nawa reffers kama brothers and sisters ( ambao si ndugu ) na yeye ana warefer the same.
Nadhani kitu kilicho kuwa kimebaki ni yeye kuanza kuni ita kwa jina langu.
Leo ni siku ya kumi tangu nim sent off kwa mama yangu mzazi ( bibi yake ) ambapo atakaa mpaka atakapo fanya mtihani wa kidato cha pili. At least sasa hivi anaweza kuniamkia shikamoo baba nikipiga simu kuonge na bibi yake maana yake alipokuwa akiishi under my roof nilikuwa sipati shikamoo kabisa...
Anajiona mkubwa sawa sawa na mimi.. Kubishana na mimi lilikuwa jambo la kawaida.. her behaviour reduced me into a guy who was calling to my mother and elder sisters or elder relatives to complain about her instead of me being that strict dad who just speak and it is done..
NILIKUWA NIMEPANGA FORM 3 AKAKAE BOARDING FEZA GIRLS BUT NIMEAMBIWA FEZA GIRLS PALE WATOTO WANATOKA HAWANA DISCIPLINE.. NIKAAMBIWA NIMPELEKE MAKONGO NDIO WANAFUNDISHA WATOTO DISCIPLINE.. SO I WAS THINKING OF TAKING HER TO MAKONGO AMBAKO ATAJIFUNZA NA DISCIPLINE PIA.. PLUS NAMUONA KAMA NI MWENYE KIPAJI PALE MAKONGO KINAWEZA KUWA NURTURED.. but still bado ninasita kwa sababu sijui kuhusu uwezo wa kitaaluma wa Makongo ingawa mtoto wangu huyu yupo very very bright ( Yupo bright kama Wakili msomi N'GWASHI D. KAMANI, MBUNGE VITI MAALUMU CCM ( The youngest MP in TZ SO FAR SHE WAS JUST BORN IN 1996 ) ana uwezo mkubwa sana darasani ana msingi mzuri sana wa shule ya msingi aliyo soma na shule anayo soma sasa hivi...
So ushauri wenu wadau. Nimpeleke Makongo atoke na discipline au nimpeleke Feza Girls atoke na matokeo mazuri sana, connection , classy with some farking western attitude
Kingine kwa wale wanaume ambao mlipata watoto wa kike mkiwa bado teenagers na mkawalea then mkaja kuishi nao as single fathers, then wakawa teen agers mkiwa in ur early 30s mliweza vipi kudeal na kiburi cha foolish age cha mtoto wa kike?
😂😂😂😂KWELI HALI NGUMU MIMI SIO WA KUKAMUA MAANDAZI NIPATE MAFUTA YA KUKAANGIA DAGAA
Kama utafanikiwa mpeleke Canossa Secondary iko Tegeta. Ila huwa hawapokei wahamiaji Ila ninaamini akiwa bright wakiona kuna uwezekano wa div one ya 7 form IV watamchukua. Ni best school Kitaaluma na kinidhamu.Am almost 35 and my daughter is 15 ( kidato cha pili )Nahisi kama vile sina tena uwezo wa kum control huyu mtoto.
I think She now takes me as her brother ( Nime lihisi hili kwa kuangalia jinsi aanavyo wa address age mates wangu ) Hawezi kusema kuna mbaba mmoja au uncle mmoja, atasema kuna mkaka mmoja.
Watu ambao nawa reffers kama brothers and sisters ( ambao si ndugu ) na yeye ana warefer the same.
Nadhani kitu kilicho kuwa kimebaki ni yeye kuanza kuni ita kwa jina langu.
Leo ni siku ya kumi tangu nim sent off kwa mama yangu mzazi ( bibi yake ) ambapo atakaa mpaka atakapo fanya mtihani wa kidato cha pili. At least sasa hivi anaweza kuniamkia shikamoo baba nikipiga simu kuonge na bibi yake maana yake alipokuwa akiishi under my roof nilikuwa sipati shikamoo kabisa...
Anajiona mkubwa sawa sawa na mimi.. Kubishana na mimi lilikuwa jambo la kawaida.. her behaviour reduced me into a guy who was calling to my mother and elder sisters or elder relatives to complain about her instead of me being that strict dad who just speak and it is done..
NILIKUWA NIMEPANGA FORM 3 AKAKAE BOARDING FEZA GIRLS BUT NIMEAMBIWA FEZA GIRLS PALE WATOTO WANATOKA HAWANA DISCIPLINE.. NIKAAMBIWA NIMPELEKE MAKONGO NDIO WANAFUNDISHA WATOTO DISCIPLINE.. SO I WAS THINKING OF TAKING HER TO MAKONGO AMBAKO ATAJIFUNZA NA DISCIPLINE PIA.. PLUS NAMUONA KAMA NI MWENYE KIPAJI PALE MAKONGO KINAWEZA KUWA NURTURED.. but still bado ninasita kwa sababu sijui kuhusu uwezo wa kitaaluma wa Makongo ingawa mtoto wangu huyu yupo very very bright ( Yupo bright kama Wakili msomi N'GWASHI D. KAMANI, MBUNGE VITI MAALUMU CCM ( The youngest MP in TZ SO FAR SHE WAS JUST BORN IN 1996 ) ana uwezo mkubwa sana darasani ana msingi mzuri sana wa shule ya msingi aliyo soma na shule anayo soma sasa hivi...
So ushauri wenu wadau. Nimpeleke Makongo atoke na discipline au nimpeleke Feza Girls atoke na matokeo mazuri sana, connection , classy with some farking western attitude
Kingine kwa wale wanaume ambao mlipata watoto wa kike mkiwa bado teenagers na mkawalea then mkaja kuishi nao as single fathers, then wakawa teen agers mkiwa in ur early 30s mliweza vipi kudeal na kiburi cha foolish age cha mtoto wa kike?
True bro, but thats the a teste for your mental maturity, understand teenager's psychology en play with it, hamna kigumu hapo ukojua wewe ni baba yake sio kaka tena, wazazi wa kiume ni wazuri sana kwa watoto wao wa kike ukiamua kusacriface mda wako na starehe zako zingine
Feza na Makongo, naona kama usiku na mchana vile. Umejaribu shule za wasichana za makanisa?Am almost 35 and my daughter is 15 ( kidato cha pili )Nahisi kama vile sina tena uwezo wa kum control huyu mtoto.
I think She now takes me as her brother ( Nime lihisi hili kwa kuangalia jinsi aanavyo wa address age mates wangu ) Hawezi kusema kuna mbaba mmoja au uncle mmoja, atasema kuna mkaka mmoja.
Watu ambao nawa reffers kama brothers and sisters ( ambao si ndugu ) na yeye ana warefer the same.
Nadhani kitu kilicho kuwa kimebaki ni yeye kuanza kuni ita kwa jina langu.
Leo ni siku ya kumi tangu nim sent off kwa mama yangu mzazi ( bibi yake ) ambapo atakaa mpaka atakapo fanya mtihani wa kidato cha pili. At least sasa hivi anaweza kuniamkia shikamoo baba nikipiga simu kuonge na bibi yake maana yake alipokuwa akiishi under my roof nilikuwa sipati shikamoo kabisa...
Anajiona mkubwa sawa sawa na mimi.. Kubishana na mimi lilikuwa jambo la kawaida.. her behaviour reduced me into a guy who was calling to my mother and elder sisters or elder relatives to complain about her instead of me being that strict dad who just speak and it is done..
NILIKUWA NIMEPANGA FORM 3 AKAKAE BOARDING FEZA GIRLS BUT NIMEAMBIWA FEZA GIRLS PALE WATOTO WANATOKA HAWANA DISCIPLINE.. NIKAAMBIWA NIMPELEKE MAKONGO NDIO WANAFUNDISHA WATOTO DISCIPLINE.. SO I WAS THINKING OF TAKING HER TO MAKONGO AMBAKO ATAJIFUNZA NA DISCIPLINE PIA.. PLUS NAMUONA KAMA NI MWENYE KIPAJI PALE MAKONGO KINAWEZA KUWA NURTURED.. but still bado ninasita kwa sababu sijui kuhusu uwezo wa kitaaluma wa Makongo ingawa mtoto wangu huyu yupo very very bright ( Yupo bright kama Wakili msomi N'GWASHI D. KAMANI, MBUNGE VITI MAALUMU CCM ( The youngest MP in TZ SO FAR SHE WAS JUST BORN IN 1996 ) ana uwezo mkubwa sana darasani ana msingi mzuri sana wa shule ya msingi aliyo soma na shule anayo soma sasa hivi...
So ushauri wenu wadau. Nimpeleke Makongo atoke na discipline au nimpeleke Feza Girls atoke na matokeo mazuri sana, connection , classy with some farking western attitude
Kingine kwa wale wanaume ambao mlipata watoto wa kike mkiwa bado teenagers na mkawalea then mkaja kuishi nao as single fathers, then wakawa teen agers mkiwa in ur early 30s mliweza vipi kudeal na kiburi cha foolish age cha mtoto wa kike?
Pamoja sana kaka..
vitoto vya siku hizi ni sheedah . ukiwa mkali sana mtoto anaweza hata kuondoka nyumbani na usijue ameenda wapi.
So inabidi uwe Wise. Watoto wa siku hizi sio sawa na dada zetu wa miaka ya themanini/70 na mwanzoni mwa miaka ya 90.
Nilivyo kuwaga nikimuona video vixen Tunda alivyo haribikiwa halafu nikitazama cv ya baba ake mzazi Afande SabaSita nilikuwa nashangaa sana aisee na kuona kama mzee Sabasita anazingua .kumbe kuna umri binti akisha fika baadhi ya mambo huwezi kumzuia zaidi ya kumuachia Mungu. P funky kwa Kajala, baba ake Lulu, baba ake Wema, etc etc.
Mtoto wa kike alie balehe huwezi kumzuia kumiss behave ( kwa mfano kugongwa). Unacho weza kufanya ni :
1. Kumuwekea mazingira magumu sana ya kupata nafasi ya kugongwa. Yani hata akienda kugongwa basi awe amekulia timing ya hatari sana.
2. Kumchelewesha kuanza kugongwa. Badala ya kuanza kugongwa akiwa na miaka 13 basi at least aanze akiwa na miaka 17/18/19.
Ukiujua ukweli utakuweka huru
1. Set standards katika malezi yake. Ameingia kundi linalokuhitaji umtazame kwa macho mawili bila kupepesa. Mkanye bila haya, na kuwa na msimamo.Am almost 35 and my daughter is 15 ( kidato cha pili )Nahisi kama vile sina tena uwezo wa kum control huyu mtoto.
I think She now takes me as her brother ( Nime lihisi hili kwa kuangalia jinsi aanavyo wa address age mates wangu ) Hawezi kusema kuna mbaba mmoja au uncle mmoja, atasema kuna mkaka mmoja.
Watu ambao nawa reffers kama brothers and sisters ( ambao si ndugu ) na yeye ana warefer the same.
Nadhani kitu kilicho kuwa kimebaki ni yeye kuanza kuni ita kwa jina langu.
Leo ni siku ya kumi tangu nim sent off kwa mama yangu mzazi ( bibi yake ) ambapo atakaa mpaka atakapo fanya mtihani wa kidato cha pili. At least sasa hivi anaweza kuniamkia shikamoo baba nikipiga simu kuonge na bibi yake maana yake alipokuwa akiishi under my roof nilikuwa sipati shikamoo kabisa...
Anajiona mkubwa sawa sawa na mimi.. Kubishana na mimi lilikuwa jambo la kawaida.. her behaviour reduced me into a guy who was calling to my mother and elder sisters or elder relatives to complain about her instead of me being that strict dad who just speak and it is done..
NILIKUWA NIMEPANGA FORM 3 AKAKAE BOARDING FEZA GIRLS BUT NIMEAMBIWA FEZA GIRLS PALE WATOTO WANATOKA HAWANA DISCIPLINE.. NIKAAMBIWA NIMPELEKE MAKONGO NDIO WANAFUNDISHA WATOTO DISCIPLINE.. SO I WAS THINKING OF TAKING HER TO MAKONGO AMBAKO ATAJIFUNZA NA DISCIPLINE PIA.. PLUS NAMUONA KAMA NI MWENYE KIPAJI PALE MAKONGO KINAWEZA KUWA NURTURED.. but still bado ninasita kwa sababu sijui kuhusu uwezo wa kitaaluma wa Makongo ingawa mtoto wangu huyu yupo very very bright ( Yupo bright kama Wakili msomi N'GWASHI D. KAMANI, MBUNGE VITI MAALUMU CCM ( The youngest MP in TZ SO FAR SHE WAS JUST BORN IN 1996 ) ana uwezo mkubwa sana darasani ana msingi mzuri sana wa shule ya msingi aliyo soma na shule anayo soma sasa hivi...
So ushauri wenu wadau. Nimpeleke Makongo atoke na discipline au nimpeleke Feza Girls atoke na matokeo mazuri sana, connection , classy with some farking western attitude
Kingine kwa wale wanaume ambao mlipata watoto wa kike mkiwa bado teenagers na mkawalea then mkaja kuishi nao as single fathers, then wakawa teen agers mkiwa in ur early 30s mliweza vipi kudeal na kiburi cha foolish age cha mtoto wa kike?
Simba kesho ndio mwisho wake katika kombe hili mwaka huu huo ndio ukweliKWELI HALI NGUMU MIMI SIO WA KUKAMUA MAANDAZI NIPATE MAFUTA YA KUKAANGIA DAGAA
Shida yako ni namba 2 mkuu, jirekebishe hapo. Malezi malezi malezihuyu mwanangu sio mbaya kihivyo she is a good girl, with other people she is very cool and she is so much loved by so many people. Her own problem is how she treats me. I think she doesnt do more than enough. She doesnt accord me the traditional fatherhood respeck which i think i deserve. Mambo mengine yuko poa kabisa. Mimi nafikiri labda ni sababu ya 1. mazoea ( kwamba amenizoea sana kwa sababu kila siku ananiona / humans dont value things which they easily get
2. Kudeka : kwamba anajua baba angu kijana he loves me and cant just do nothing unto me.
Nidhamu ya mtoto ujengwa kwa pamoja Kati ya wazazi,shule(walimu) na jamii inayomzunguka.Am almost 35 and my daughter is 15 ( kidato cha pili )Nahisi kama vile sina tena uwezo wa kum control huyu mtoto.
I think She now takes me as her brother ( Nime lihisi hili kwa kuangalia jinsi aanavyo wa address age mates wangu ) Hawezi kusema kuna mbaba mmoja au uncle mmoja, atasema kuna mkaka mmoja.
Watu ambao nawa reffers kama brothers and sisters ( ambao si ndugu ) na yeye ana warefer the same.
Nadhani kitu kilicho kuwa kimebaki ni yeye kuanza kuni ita kwa jina langu.
Leo ni siku ya kumi tangu nim sent off kwa mama yangu mzazi ( bibi yake ) ambapo atakaa mpaka atakapo fanya mtihani wa kidato cha pili. At least sasa hivi anaweza kuniamkia shikamoo baba nikipiga simu kuonge na bibi yake maana yake alipokuwa akiishi under my roof nilikuwa sipati shikamoo kabisa...
Anajiona mkubwa sawa sawa na mimi.. Kubishana na mimi lilikuwa jambo la kawaida.. her behaviour reduced me into a guy who was calling to my mother and elder sisters or elder relatives to complain about her instead of me being that strict dad who just speak and it is done..
NILIKUWA NIMEPANGA FORM 3 AKAKAE BOARDING FEZA GIRLS BUT NIMEAMBIWA FEZA GIRLS PALE WATOTO WANATOKA HAWANA DISCIPLINE.. NIKAAMBIWA NIMPELEKE MAKONGO NDIO WANAFUNDISHA WATOTO DISCIPLINE.. SO I WAS THINKING OF TAKING HER TO MAKONGO AMBAKO ATAJIFUNZA NA DISCIPLINE PIA.. PLUS NAMUONA KAMA NI MWENYE KIPAJI PALE MAKONGO KINAWEZA KUWA NURTURED.. but still bado ninasita kwa sababu sijui kuhusu uwezo wa kitaaluma wa Makongo ingawa mtoto wangu huyu yupo very very bright ( Yupo bright kama Wakili msomi N'GWASHI D. KAMANI, MBUNGE VITI MAALUMU CCM ( The youngest MP in TZ SO FAR SHE WAS JUST BORN IN 1996 ) ana uwezo mkubwa sana darasani ana msingi mzuri sana wa shule ya msingi aliyo soma na shule anayo soma sasa hivi...
So ushauri wenu wadau. Nimpeleke Makongo atoke na discipline au nimpeleke Feza Girls atoke na matokeo mazuri sana, connection , classy with some farking western attitude
Kingine kwa wale wanaume ambao mlipata watoto wa kike mkiwa bado teenagers na mkawalea then mkaja kuishi nao as single fathers, then wakawa teen agers mkiwa in ur early 30s mliweza vipi kudeal na kiburi cha foolish age cha mtoto f