Hivi kwanini mademu wengi wazuri huwa hawana akili?

[Jobless_Billionaire]

Nimedanganya naumwa, so nipo tuu nakula na kulala.

Kwa shemeji

 

[Gunner11]

Ila hakuna universally applied beauty standard.. labda kundi fulani la watu.

Yep na ndo hasa nilikua namaanisha kwenye uzi kuwa beauty standard ni temporary na hakuna real truth kuwa thamani ya mtu iko kwenye uzuri wa nje

 

[Moisemusajiografii]

Kaka zangu, mada hii imenigusa sana na ni kweli, wakati mwingine tunaweza kujikuta tunatoa generalizations kutokana na tunachokiona au uzoefu wetu. Lakini nadhani ni muhimu sana kukumbuka kuwa kila mtu ni ulimwengu wake na hatuwezi kuwaweka wote kwenye kundi moja.

Uzuri wa nje ni kitu kinachovutia jicho haraka, na ni kweli wapo wanaoipa kipaumbele kikubwa. Lakini akili na busara mara nyingi hazionekani kwa haraka kama make-up au mavazi maridadi. Pia, akili ina sura nyingi; kuna akili ya darasani, akili ya maisha, akili ya biashara, akili ya kujali wengine, n.k.

Badala ya kukata tamaa, labda tunaweza kujipa muda zaidi kuwafahamu watu kwa undani. Wakati mwingine, mtu anaweza kuwa na uzuri wa nje na ndani, ila tu anahitaji mtu ambaye yuko tayari kuchimba zaidi kugundua huo uzuri wa ndani.

Kama ilivyosemwa, kupata 'full package' ni kweli ni jackpot, na naamini zipo, na sio chache! Labda zinahitaji uvumilivu na macho ya kuona zaidi ya uso. Tusikate tamaa kutafuta watu wenye akili na busara, bila kujali muonekano wao. Ni suala la kujua kipaumbele chako ni nini hasa kwenye mahusiano.

Siku hizi kiswahili chako kimenyooka sana.Tuisheni imesaidia.Ameni!🫸🫷

 

[Gunner11]

Kwa shemeji

Ndio, nasubiria shem asepe niingie sebuleni niwashe TV niangalie highlights za jana usiku world cup

 

[Jobless_Billionaire]

Hapana limekaa kimtego, hebu lijibu uone

Umesoma philosophy lakini? Katika kusoma kwangu sijawahi kukutana na jambo linaloangukia kwenye field ya mtego, ila yote huenda kwenye fields bainifu.

Labda uniambie kimtego ni nini na mimi nikwambie philosophy ni nini

 

[Gunner11]

Je wanawake wabaya ndo smart?

Hapana ni mtu na mtu, ila wazuri wengi mbumbumbu

 

[Gunner11]

Umesoma philosophy lakini? Katika kusoma kwangu sijawahi kukutana na jambo linaloangukia kwenye field ya mtego, ila yote huenda kwenye fields bainifu.

Labda uniambie kimtego ni nini na mimi nikwambie philosophy ni nini

Kwani beauty standard huzijui,
Anataka approve kuwa haipo, na ni kitu cha kujitengenezea

 

[Jobless_Billionaire]

Kwani beauty standard huzijui,
Anataka approve kuwa haipo, na ni kitu cha kujitengenezea

Ndio hizo nakwambia ni mambo ya kifilosofia, wewe umesema kimtego. Kwiyo hizo beauty standards ni za kimtego?

Then najua hakuna universal standard ya uzuri. May be unisaidie nipate kujua

 

[Gunner11]

Ndio hizo nakwambia ni mambo ya kifilosofia, wewe umesema kimtego. Kwiyo hizo beauty standards ni za kimtego?

Then najua hakuna universal standard ya uzuri. May be unisaidie nipate kujua

Ukiona hiyo pisi ukamwona na ndalichako utamchagua nani?

 

[Jobless_Billionaire]

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Ukiona hiyo pisi ukamwona na ndalichako utamchagua nani?

Kwanini uchague ndalichako? Kwamba hakuna ambao ni wazuri kuliko huyo? Kama wapo maana yake bado hujaprove

 

[Gunner11]

Kwanini uchague ndalichako? Kwamba hakuna ambao ni wazuri kuliko huyo? Kama wapo maana yake bado hujaprove

Kwanini umweke pembeni kwani si hamna beauty standard?

 

[Jobless_Billionaire]

Kwanini umweke pembeni kwani si hamna beauty standard?

Ni kama wewe ulivyoamua kumuweka na ndalichako badala ya kumuweka na mzuri kuliko yeye.

Nimekwambia universal standard. Huyo unaemuona mzuri sio kila mmoja anamuona mzuri. Ukihoji watu bado utapata ambao watakwambia huyo sio mzuri kulingana na vigezo vyao.

Labda nikuulize swali dogo, hakuna wanaomzidi uzuri huyo? Kama wapo, umezingatia nini kuona hao wanaomzidi wamemzidi?

 

[Gunner11]

Ni kama wewe ulivyoamua kumuweka na ndalichako badala ya kumuweka na mzuri kuliko yeye.

Nimekwambia universal standard. Huyo unaemuona mzuri sio kila mmoja anamuona mzuri. Ukihoji watu bado utapata ambao watakwambia huyo sio mzuri kulingana na vigezo vyao.

Labda nikuulize swali dogo, hakuna wanaomzidi uzuri huyo? Kama wapo, umezingatia nini kuona hao wanaomzidi wamemzidi?

Mbona unajitekenya na kuji kuna wewe mwenyewe?
Hoja iko wazi kabisa hiyo!

 

[Jobless_Billionaire]

Mbona unajitekenya na kuji kuna wewe mwenyewe?
Hoja iko wazi kabisa hiyo!

Hapa ndio unapofeli dogo. Mtu anataka umjibu hoja aione, wewe unamwambia ipo wazi.

Inaonyesha pia uelewa wako upo chini sana, zaidi umetawaliwa na mwongozo wa hisia zako. Cha kukushauri, mada za mapenzi zitakufaa ila zinazohitaji critical thinking unapelea sana na zinakupalia ndio maana unaishia kuona watu wanakuandama..

Otherwise, stick on what you believe, I can't do it anymore. Thank you

 

[Gunner11]

Hapa ndio unapofeli dogo. Mtu anataka umjibu hoja aione, wewe unamwambia ipo wazi.

Inaonyesha pia uelewa wako upo chini sana, zaidi umetawaliwa na mwongozo wa hisia zako. Cha kukushauri, mada za mapenzi zitakufaa ila zinazohitaji critical thinking unapelea sana na zinakupalia ndio maana unaishia kuona watu wanakuandama..

Otherwise, stick on what you believe, I can't do it anymore. Thank you

Mkuu nimekwambia a what's real in real life and psychological too,

What we call beauty standard ni namna tulivyo jiwekea binadamu kuwa huyu mtu ni mzuri, na kweli pia kuna genetic factors leading to it, mtu atampenda mtu anaye fanana labda na mama yake sometimea

Mtu mwingine atampenda mwanamke mwenye tako kubwa because it's what he likes, mwingine atampenda thick and slim labda kwa sababu anafanana na celebrity crush toka udogoni

It's a social and psychological construct ila hauwezi kusema haipo, ipo na ina exist.. Ndo jinsi tutumiayo kuchagua mwenza na wa kuchapa mashine Tukiwa na haja..

So, na elewa na hata wewe unaelewa it is just that tunakaza mafuvu hicho ndo kitu sikubali kwa watu kama nyie humu...

You knew it, but still test on someone to clarify

 

[Jobless_Billionaire]

Mkuu nimekwambia a what's real in real life and psychological too,

What we call beauty standard ni namna tulivyo jiwekea binadamu kuwa huyu mtu ni mzuri, na kweli pia kuna genetic factors leading to it, mtu atampenda mtu anaye fanana labda na mama yake sometimea

Mtu mwingine atampenda mwanamke mwenye tako kubwa because it's what he likes, mwingine atampenda thick and slim labda kwa sababu anafanana na celebrity crush toka udogoni

It's a social and psychological construct ila hauwezi kusema haipo, ipo na ina exist.. Ndo jinsi tutumiayo kuchagua mwenza na wa kuchapa mashine Tukiwa na haja..

So, na elewa na hata wewe unaelewa it is just that tunakaza mafuvu hicho ndo kitu sikubali kwa watu kama nyie humu...

You knew it, but still test on someone to clarify

Umerudi palepale mwenyewe.

Umepost mtu unaemuona wewe ni mzuri kwa sababu tu umemlinganisha na ndalichako, na ni kwakuwa umetumia vigezo vyako nikakwambia huyo wapo wanaoona sio mzuri kulingana na criteria zao.

Kama kwako nyeupe ndio nzuri, sio kila mtu anavutiwa na nyeupe, kama ni matako, sio kila mtu

Hakuna universal standard ya kusema hiki ni kizuri na wote waka-fall hapo. Ndio maana kunakuwa tu na criteria tofauti tofauti ambazo watu huziangukia, sio moja.

Nashukuru umejijibu.

 

[Smartkahn]

Kaka Maisha jinsi yalivyo kuna watu will get away with almost everything, kuna watu walizalishwa wakawa single mother of 2 or 3 na bado wakapata mwanaume akampenda yeye na wanae na akamlea softly, mtu kama huyu dunia inaweza isimguse katika kumfunza mpaka anazeeka mpaka anakufa, Japo watu wa hivi wanaweza wasiwe wengi ila wapo.

Nakubaliana na maelezo yako yote ya mwanzo.

Mwanamke ukizaliwa ukajikuta mzuri, hata usipotumia part fulani ya akili yako utaishi tu vizuri, lakini kuishi huko vizuri sio kwamba hawatumii akili kabisa, kuna part wanaitumia ile inayohusika na manipulative skills kama moja ya skills za kusurvive.

Ok sawa, kwamba akili zipo ila hajazielekeza kwenye u-wife material. Bali kajikita kuzitumia katika fursa kulingana na potential aliyonayo ukizingatia usawa huu[zama hizi].

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"Huwezi mwanamke ukawa na degree 4 [upper class] alafu uishie kufua na kupika nyumbani."

Ila kibongo bongo wengi wao wamebweteka hua wanaona kuwa mzuri basi unakua umemaliza kila kitu(katika ndoa hawa watu ni pasua kichwa).

 

[Wauzaji wa Container Tz]

Hapana ni mtu na mtu, ila wazuri wengi mbumbumbu

Unfanya generalization.?

 

[Habdavi]

The Economic principle of asymmetric incentives.

When society rewards a person heavily for their aesthetic value, the incentive to develop intellectual depth, critical thinking, or operational skills drops drastically. It is not that they are incapable of intelligence; it is that they have never been economically or socially required to develop it to survive or thrive.

Halo effect and cognitive shielding

The Halo Effect is a cognitive bias where humans automatically attribute positive traits—like intelligence, honesty, and competence—to attractive people, without any evidence.


The Reality: Because of this bias, highly attractive individuals are often shielded from the consequences of poor decisions or lack of knowledge from an early age.


The Consequence: If a child or young adult is constantly agreed with, praised, and rescued from their mistakes simply because they are pleasant to look at, they are deprived of the brutal feedback loop required to build common sense. Common sense is forged through failure, friction, and accountability. When beauty eliminates that friction, cognitive growth stalls.

Mwenye uwezo wa kutafsiri hii kwa kiswahili. Nimeikuta kwenye kitabu na mimi nimeibandika hapa kama ilivyo.

 

[Nilipe nisepe]

Dah yani kweli nyie mnaojiita waandamanaji ndo kazi yenu kutwa kuwajadili wanawake aisee!!.
Mtapigwa virungu hadi mshangae..