Kuna wakati kufanya kosa sio kosa....Happiest Birthday to my 1st love 🤗

Kuna wakati kufanya kosa sio kosa....Happiest Birthday to my 1st love 🤗

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Lizzy said:
Well, kabla sijakuwa mzee na kuokoteza busara kidogo here and there I was once young and perhaps a bit stupid.

Kwa kutokuwa kwangu responsible (kama nilivyokuwa na-preach mchana [emoji849][emoji849]) I got pregnant. Nikaamua kuwa if I was irresponsible enough to the point of getting pregnant at such a young age...I might as well start by holding myself accountable, so....I did!

Anyway, leo dogo anatimiza miaka kadhaa and I'm happy & proud I made the decision I made! No idea what will become of him 10 or 20 yrs mbeleni but right now....he is an awesome kid!![emoji4] Kanacheza sana mpira and he is the captain of his team[emoji1491][emoji1491] I honestly couldn't ask for better kids. [emoji56]

Happiest birthday to my little dude [emoji3060][emoji3060]
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Maybe one day (for the sake of educating & inspiring others) I'll write an autobiography nimwage ugali, mboga mpaka chai.[emoji2376][emoji2376]
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Happy birthday kijana wa lizzy

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Chakorii said:
Jamani watu8 kwani unanini?
Tumuombee heri afunge ndoa ampate mtoto ndani ya ndoa.asipite huku tunakokusimulia sasa[emoji3064][emoji3064][emoji3064][emoji3064]
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Watu huwa wanawanyoshea mikono wakati unapojulikana tu na ujauzito..watoto wakikua watu haohao huwa wa kwanza kuwatamani.
 
Chakorii said:
Mama mchungaji Yani hii ishu ya watoto ni nzito sana [emoji3525]Sikuwahigi kuelewa mpka pale nilipowapata wale vijana aiseh

Baba ni baba hakuna baba mbaya..ila tunatokea kutamka maneno mabaya kwa baba watoto zetu kwakuwa moyo unakuwa umezingirwa na uchungu + hasira.Mungu atusaidie kwakweli
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Nakuelewa vizuri mno mpenzi; wengine unakuta uchungu na hasira zote anazihamishia kwa watoto daah. Aisee kuachana sio kazi ndogo; hata kama hamna watoto. Mtu anapokuwa sehemu ya maisha yako, afu unaamka tu siku moja unatakiwa umuachilie na umsahau, uendelee na maisha yako mmh. Bora hata msipokuwa na watoto; usipokuwa unamuona au kuongea naye, roho inatulia; imagine mtu kakuumiza, hata hujapona na bado unatakiwa uendelee kuwasiliana naye kwa amani tu kwa ajili ya watoto wenu. Ukute mwingine mpuuzi, pamoja na kujishusha kwako kwa ajili ya watoto, bado anakuumiza aisee

Na hizi co-parenting zetu za kibongo ndiyo mtihani kabisa. Most likely mzazi wa kulea atabaki mmoja, na mwingine atalea zaidi kwa simu financially. Mzazi mwenza akishapata familia, mara nyingi concentration yoyote inahamia kwa familia anayoishi nayo; huku kwingine atapiga simu siku moja moja basi. Kazi kubwa inabaki kwa wewe uliyebaki na watoto; ndiyo maana kuna baadhi ya wazazi wanaamuaga kusitisha suala zima la mahusiano mapya/ndoa hadi pale watoto wanapokuwa wakubwa kidogo. Mungu atusaidie kukubaliana na hali zote, kusameheana na kuchukuliana kwa ajili ya welfare ya watoto wetu.
 
Heaven Sent said:
Nakuelewa vizuri mno mpenzi; wengine unakuta uchungu na hasira zote anazihamishia kwa watoto daah. Aisee kuachana sio kazi ndogo; hata kama hamna watoto. Mtu anapokuwa sehemu ya maisha yako, afu unaamka tu siku moja unatakiwa umuachilie na umsahau, uendelee na maisha yako mmh. Bora hata msipokuwa na watoto; usipokuwa unamuona au kuongea naye, roho inatulia; imagine mtu kakuumiza, hata hujapona na bado unatakiwa uendelee kuwasiliana naye kwa amani tu kwa ajili ya watoto wenu. Ukute mwingine mpuuzi, pamoja na kujishusha kwako kwa ajili ya watoto, bado anakuumiza aisee

Na hizi co-parenting zetu za kibongo ndiyo mtihani kabisa. Most likely mzazi wa kulea atabaki mmoja, na mwingine atalea zaidi kwa simu financially. Mzazi mwenza akishapata familia, mara nyingi concentration yoyote inahamia kwa familia anayoishi nayo; huku kwingine atapiga simu siku moja moja basi. Kazi kubwa inabaki kwa wewe uliyebaki na watoto; ndiyo maana kuna baadhi ya wazazi wanaamuaga kusitisha suala zima la mahusiano mapya/ndoa hadi pale watoto wanapokuwa wakubwa kidogo. Mungu atusaidie kukubaliana na hali zote, kusameheana na kuchukuliana kwa ajili ya welfare ya watoto wetu.
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Mungu aendelee kumtunza baba wa watoto wangu aiseh Mungu azidi kumpa maisha marefu yenye furaha na amani huko alipo🙏Hatuwezi kuwa pamoja hata iweje...Haiwezekani .Mungu amtunze huyu kiumbe anajua thamani ya watoto
 
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