Naombeni Ushauri: Baba mkwe kakataa kupokea Mahari kwa awamu tatu

[Japkas]

Sikia wewe acha kuwa lofa, kubali. Waambie awamu ya kwanza utalipa hicho kiasi unachotaka kulipa (1.3m).

Ukishachukua mke hawana ujanja wowote unaweza kuwalipa hata elfu kumi kumi kila mwezi.

Labda abebe begani wakaishi lakini kama ana mpango wa ndoa na sherehe atakwama deni litakumbushwa likamilike ndio taratibu ziendelee

 

[Chaliifrancisco]

Labda abebe begani wakaishi lakini kama ana mpango wa ndoa na sherehe atakwama deni litakumbushwa likamilike ndio taratibu ziendelee

Ndoa anafunga tu vizuri

 

[Machaare]

Me mpaka leo sijamaliza mahari ila mke walinipa na nishazaa nae mtoto mzuri sana

 

[Mzigua90]

Mtie mimba kaa kimya muendelee na mapenzi yenu, kikubwa usimuache.

Ba mkwe ataomba apokee hata awamu nane

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Binti nae akaze au ndio wale wanaoogopa mzee akishasema hamna mjadala. Mimi ningetafuta kipimo cha mimba nimpelekee mama wakajadiliane na mume wake kama watalea mjukuu au wachukue kilichopo na mimi nikapate cha kuanzia maisha na mwenzangu

 

[Lambardi]

Mwambie huyo mwenzio kuwa uchumi wako hauruhusu,. Kama hawataki kuchukua awamu tatu unaoa mwingine. wakiendelea kukaza achana nae,. Tafuta wengine kwakuwa huyo hawakuuzii,. Na baada ya hapo hao wakwe utaendelea kuwasaidia Ktk starehe na maafa mbalimbali

Atafute mbinu tu nzuri kuongea na wazee kutafuta mwingine sio rahisi hivyo.....atalivaa la kukivaa akifanya na stress....ndoa ndoanoo

 

[Lihove2]

Mimi sijabisha ila bado najipanga

Ndiyo wewe uwambie wakupe muda utafute hiyo nusu. watampigia simu mshenga kukulizia kwamba umefikia wapi?ukiwajibu watakwambia uende tuu na hicho ulicho nacho kwanza.Ila usianze uzinzi na mwezako kabla ya ndoa

 

[Evelyn Salt]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Binti nae akaze au ndio wale wanaoogopa mzee akishasema hamna mjadala. Mimi ningetafuta kipimo cha mimba nimpelekee mama wakajadiliane na mume wake kama watalea mjukuu au wachukue kilichopo na mimi nikapate cha kuanzia maisha na mwenzangu

Kuna muda wazazi wanazingua sana 😁

 

[sumbai]

huyo bint mpe mimba halafu mset akajifungulie kwao wazaz wake wenyewe watakutafuta

Mtie mimba kaa kimya muendelee na mapenzi yenu, kikubwa usimuache.

Ba mkwe ataomba apokee hata awamu nane

Vibaya hivi

 

[Lihove2]

Unataka adanganye Ukweni,wewe ndo miongoni mwa wanaoendekeza Mila Mbaya

Hizo zingine ambazo siyo za kutoa mahali ndiyo mila mbaya kabisa

 

[Evelyn Salt]

Vibaya hivi

Hiyo ni njia sahihi

 

[Best_Carmine]

Timu kataa ndoa japo mechi ya leo tupo ugenini ila kuna dalili ya kuondoka na pointi tatu mhimu

 

[sumbai]

Mahari ni utamaduni uliopitwa na wakati.

Ni biashara ya kuuza wanawake iliyohalalishwa na jamii tu.

Kwahiyo mkuu, wewe incase hutapokea mahari??

Heshimu Mila ndugu yangu

 

[Kiranga]

Kwahiyo mkuu, wewe incase hutapokea mahari??

Heshimu Mila ndugu yangu

Kuheshimu mila ni logical fallacy ya "argument from tradition".

AI Overview.

"Argument from tradtion" is a type of reasoning that asserts a belief or practice is valid simply because it has been followed for a long time or is part of a long-standing tradition. It's a type of logical fallacy where the claim that something is "right" or "correct" is based solely on its historical precedent, rather than on evidence, reason, or current circumstances.

Key characteristics of an argument from tradition:

Focus on age or history:

The argument hinges on the fact that something has been done or believed for a long period.

Assumption of inherent correctness:
It implies that because something is traditional, it must be inherently correct or superior to alternative approaches.

Lack of justification:

It often lacks a reasoned explanation for why the tradition is considered valid or why it should be upheld, according to RationalWiki.

Resistance to change:

It can be used to resist or oppose new ideas or practices that challenge the established tradition, according to Logically Fallacious.

Examples:

"We've always done things this way, so we should continue doing it".

"This traditional medicine has been used for generations, so it must be effective".

"It's our family tradition to go to this college, so I must go there too".

Why it's a fallacy:

Past is not necessarily correct:
The fact that something has been done in the past doesn't automatically make it correct or appropriate in the present.
Traditions can be based on flawed reasoning:

Traditions can be based on misconceptions, outdated information, or even harmful practices.

Ignoring evidence and reason:

An appeal to tradition often ignores or dismisses evidence, reason, or alternative viewpoints that might challenge the established tradition.

Stifling progress:

It can prevent progress or innovation by clinging to outdated methods or beliefs.
In some cases, the concept of "tradition" can be valuable, but it should be understood as a starting point, not an end in itself:

Traditions can provide cultural identity and continuity: They can offer a sense of belonging and connection to the past.
Traditions can be a source of wisdom: They can reflect valuable knowledge and lessons learned over time.

But they should always be open to scrutiny: Traditions should be examined critically, and if they are no longer relevant or harmful, they should be changed or abandoned.

 

[DR VRM]

Mwaka huu nina mpango wa kuoa sasa Mwezi uliopita nilimtuma mshenga kwenda kuposa kwao Mchumba wangu, Sasa mshenga akanipa jibu posa imekubaliwa na kiasi cha mahali wakatajiwa ni Shilingi milioni mbili na laki mbili na 30, Mimi nikakubali kulipa ila nikawaomba nilipe kwa awamu tatu yani awamu ya kwanza nilipe Milioni moja na laki tatu, Baada ya mshenga kuwaambia hivyo Baba mkwe akajibu haiwezekani kulipa kwa awamu tatu anataka Mahari ilipwe kwa awamu mbili na tuseme awamu ya mwisho tutalipa lini, Mimi kiukweli kulipa kwa awamu mbili ni ngumu.
Sass hivi nipo naumiza kichwa.

we si unamchukua kwa awamu moja mazimaa, lipa kwa awamu moja au jikusanye mpaka upate hiyo 2.1 mil

 

[sumbai]

Kuheshimu mila ni logical fallacy ya "argument from tradition".

AI Overview.

"Argument from tradtion" is a type of reasoning that asserts a belief or practice is valid simply because it has been followed for a long time or is part of a long-standing tradition. It's a type of logical fallacy where the claim that something is "right" or "correct" is based solely on its historical precedent, rather than on evidence, reason, or current circumstances.

Key characteristics of an argument from tradition:

Focus on age or history:

The argument hinges on the fact that something has been done or believed for a long period.

Assumption of inherent correctness:
It implies that because something is traditional, it must be inherently correct or superior to alternative approaches.

Lack of justification:

It often lacks a reasoned explanation for why the tradition is considered valid or why it should be upheld, according to RationalWiki.

Resistance to change:

It can be used to resist or oppose new ideas or practices that challenge the established tradition, according to Logically Fallacious.

Examples:

"We've always done things this way, so we should continue doing it".

"This traditional medicine has been used for generations, so it must be effective".

"It's our family tradition to go to this college, so I must go there too".

Why it's a fallacy:

Past is not necessarily correct:
The fact that something has been done in the past doesn't automatically make it correct or appropriate in the present.
Traditions can be based on flawed reasoning:

Traditions can be based on misconceptions, outdated information, or even harmful practices.

Ignoring evidence and reason:

An appeal to tradition often ignores or dismisses evidence, reason, or alternative viewpoints that might challenge the established tradition.

Stifling progress:

It can prevent progress or innovation by clinging to outdated methods or beliefs.
In some cases, the concept of "tradition" can be valuable, but it should be understood as a starting point, not an end in itself:

Traditions can provide cultural identity and continuity: They can offer a sense of belonging and connection to the past.
Traditions can be a source of wisdom: They can reflect valuable knowledge and lessons learned over time.

But they should always be open to scrutiny: Traditions should be examined critically, and if they are no longer relevant or harmful, they should be changed or abandoned.

Nasema hivi kijana wako akija kuoa kwenye familia yetu lazima alipe mahari mkuu, achana na uzungu uzungu hauna faida

 

[erasto Samwel]

Sikia wewe acha kuwa lofa, kubali. Waambie awamu ya kwanza utalipa hicho kiasi unachotaka kulipa (1.3m).

Ukishachukua mke hawana ujanja wowote unaweza kuwalipa hata elfu kumi kumi kila mwezi.

Naunga mkono hoja hivi✅

 

[Kiranga]

Nasema hivi kijana wako akija kuoa kwenye familia yetu lazima alipe mahari mkuu, achana na uzungu uzungu hauna faida

Kwanza hiki si suala la uzungu. Baba wa taifa lako si mzungu na aliheshimu sana mila, lakini na yeye alipinga mahari.

Pia, ukikataa mambo ya wazungu, kataa na huu ntandao pia basi tujue unakataa kweli, maana na huu mtandao tumeletewa na wazungu.

Siyo unakataa ya wazungu kwa style ya "Baniani mbaya, kiatu chake dawa".

Kuhusu kijana wangu juja kuoa kwenu.

Ndiyo maana kijana wangu hawezi kuja kununua mtumwa kwenye familia yenu kwa mila za kuoa kwa mahari.

Unakataa vipi kijana wangu kuoa kwenye familia yenu bila mahari wakati hata hatuwajui na hatutegemei kuoa kwenu?

 

[Tumwesige senior]

Kama huwezi kulipa mahari awamu mbili,hapo kuna option mbili either umtoroshe au umpige mimba,mkuu hapo utalipa mahari hata elfu tano tano

 

[Half american]

Watafute wazee wa kubageini mahari kina mzee Grahams na wenzie wakushushie kutoka 2m mpaka laki na nusu.

 

[PeeWee]

Kama huwezi kulipa mahari awamu mbili,hapo kuna option mbili either umtoroshe au umpige mimba,mkuu hapo utalipa mahari hata elfu tano tano

Apige chini wote binti na babake