Ukweli gani mgumu umekubaliana nao baada ya kuwa mtu mzima?

Benzodiazepine · Mar 19, 2026

Binti wa zamani said:
When people show you who they are 🚩🚩, believe them.
Usijitengenezee picha nyingine ya vile unavyotaka awe, hakuna tuzo ya kuteseka ambayo utapewa huku duniani.

Sema nini mkuu, tusipende tu kuwaza in one-way trip, "kwamba kuna watu wanakuja kututesa (kufanya tuteseke)"
Pia inabidi tufikirie ya kwamba, "na sisi pia kuna sehemu tumeongezeka kwenye maisha ya wengine na kuwafanya wateseke"

Kuna msemo fulani UNASEMA. "Ukiweza kuona watu walipokukosea, ni hekima"
Lakini "ukiweza kuona sehemu ulipowakosea watu wengine, ni hekma kubwa mno"

The point is, tusifikirie tu jinsi watu wanavyokuwa tatizo kwetu, bali tufikirie pia jinsi ambavyo na sisi tunaweza kuwa tatizo kwa watu wengine.

Smart Contract · Mar 19, 2026

Marmeid said:
Njia ni mbili tu uamke ukatimize ndoto kua uhalisia au ulale uendelee kuota ndoto ✌🏾

😉 i was joking

verify · Mar 19, 2026

Adverse Effect said:
Maisha yangu ni wajibu wangu kwa asilimia mia moja na ninawajibika katika yote yanayonihusu na sina sababu ya kumlaumu yeyote.

Celebrate your self , validate your self, prays your self if you know you got you no body can take away from you, and no body can F*CK with you.

Binti wa zamani · Mar 19, 2026

Eyce said:
Mafanikio ndio yataamua, kama ulivumilia ama ulipoteza muda. Vingine vyote ni michakato tu ila mafanikio ndio uthibitisho wa mapambano yako.

Usipofanikiwa utaulizwa "ujana wako uliutumiaje" ?.

Synthesizer · Mar 19, 2026

Binti wa zamani said:
Unafikiri wanawake wao hawajisikii hamu ya kufanya mchezo? kwa uzoefu wako, mchezo unatokea pale wewe tu unakapojisikia na yeye ndiyo anakua anataka?

Siku zote nimejua wanawake wanasikia hamu, lakini wana advantage juu ya wanaume wakifika umri mkubwa.

Kwa wanaume hamu ya kufanya tendo inaanzia kichwani, na kichwa kinatuma meseji kuwasha mashine chini. Ila sasa inafikia mahali hamu inakuwapo kichwani, lakini meseji ikitumwa chini mashine haiwaki!

Kwa ufupi, wanaume hamu inaendelea kuwapo siku zote, ila mashine ndio inafikia mahali haiwaki kirahisi. Kwa hiyo utamkuta mwanaume ana hamu na kutaka sana, lakini mashine inamuangusha. Sidhani kama mwanamke anaweza kusema ninasikia hamu lakini mashine inaniangusha!

Ndio maana nikashangaa iweje wanawake wanasema wanaishiwa nguvu? Mwanaume akisema nimeishiwa nguvu maana yake mashine haiwaki, sio kwamba hasikii hamu.

Binti wa zamani · Mar 19, 2026

OgaBoy said:
Watoto WA kwanza WENGI walevi na wahuni maisha uao yote hata ya ndoa wameona wake WENGI na WENGINE hawaeleweki wamekimbia ulaya na marekani.

Watoto , wanaobeba mizigo ni watoto WA pili kutoka WA kwanza . Hao wakwanza wanajufanyaga wajanja KISA watewaza sisi madogo

Mimi sijakutana na hicho ulichokisema, nafikiri hiyo ni experience yako, nitaiheshimu na kuishia hapo.

OgaBoy said:
Kwenye PESA hapo acha bro PESA ndio mpango mzima ni Kila kitu isipokuwa vile ambavyo HATA zisizopesa hazifanyi.
Mfano kifo PESA haitobu ila inategeneza heshima ya msiba je KITU gani zaidi hiyo kinafanya .
Kwahiyo ukisema PESA sio Kila kitu HATA wewe sio Kila kitu ila HUWEZI fikia PESA.

Wapi nimesema "pesa siyo kila kitu"? hebu karudie kusoma nilichokiandika.

Binti wa zamani · Mar 19, 2026

secretarybird said:
Yaani ukitaka usiumizwe nami kitandani, ni sharti umwalike shoga yako, ili kwamba unapohisi kupelekewa moto nami kiasi cha kutaka kudanja/kukata roho, basi shoga yako anaingia katika ulingo wakati wewe ukipumzika japo kidogo kabla hujarudi tena mzigoni baada ya shoga yako naye kichoshwa nami.

Kitaalami hii ☝️ inaitwa threesome 😎.

Daah, endelea tu na akina Genta, siyo vita aiseeh 😂😂 yani nidinywe mpaka nikaribie kukata roo, hapo nitapata raha kweli au naondoka na vidonda tu?

verify · Mar 19, 2026

Find something you love and die for it .

Binti wa zamani · Mar 19, 2026

Marmeid said:
Just get the CASH and go HOME📌

Smart 💯 🔥

Benzodiazepine · Mar 19, 2026

Marmeid said:
Celebrate your self , validate your self, pray your self if you know you got you no body can take away from you, and no body can F*CK with you.

Donald T. na Benjamin N. can take it away from you, and can f@ck with you 😎

Binti wa zamani · Mar 19, 2026

Sarcomere said:
Maisha ni mafupi mnoo, ukiwa chini ya miaka 20 huwa unaona una muda wa kutosha ila story hubadilika unapofika 30+ ndio unaona kumbe miaka inakimbia na huna mda mrefu safari inakuita

Nina 32 ila najiona kama vile nimeshachelewa kwenye karibia kila kitu na ni juzi tu nilikuwa mtoto mdogo kabisa nakumbuka 😔😔

Uko sahihi, kadri muda unavyozidi kwenda ndiyo unavyogundua maisha yako yanaelekea ukingoni.
Wengi wakifika 40 kama bado hawajafanikisha malengo, afya za akili zinavurugika sana.

Palac · Mar 19, 2026

Utapambana sana ila acha kusudi la mungu litokee tu

verify · Mar 19, 2026

Benzodiazepine said:
Donald T. na Benjamin N., can take it away from you, and can f@ck with you 😎

Their EGO is TOO high 😁

secretarybird · Mar 19, 2026

Binti wa zamani said:
Daah, endelea tu na akina Genta, siyo vita aiseeh 😂😂 yani nidinywe mpaka nikaribie kukata roo, hapo nitapata raha kweli au naondoka na vidonda tu?

Hebu waulize akina Genta huwa Wana feel-aje ila Mimi mtombi nae-njoy ile mbaya.

Binti wa zamani · Mar 19, 2026

Benzodiazepine said:
Sema nini mkuu, tusipende tu kuwaza in one-way trip, "kwamba kuna watu wanakuja kututesa (kufanya tuteseke)"
Pia inabidi tufikirie ya kwamba, "na sisi pia kuna sehemu tumeongezeka kwenye maisha ya wengine na kuwafanya wateseke"

Ni kweli ila soma replies nyingine kabla ya hii na baada, hapa tulikua tunaongelea umuhimu wa kutojaribu kuwabadilisha watu tabia zao za ukubwani.

Mtu akikuonyesha vitu ambavyo hapendi, au tabia ambazo si nzuri kama ubinafsi, akikukosea heshima, akiwa abusive etc. usitegemee ukizidi kukaa naye ndiyo vitaondoka. Hii si kwa wanume tu, ila ni kwa wanawake pia.

Benzodiazepine said:
Kuna msemo fulani UNASEMA. "Ukiweza kuona watu walipokukosea, ni hekima"
Lakini "ukiweza kuona sehemu ulipowakosea watu wengine, ni hekma kubwa mno"

The point is, tusifikirie tu jinsi watu wanavyokuwa tatizo kwetu, bali tufikirie pia jinsi ambavyo na sisi tunaweza kuwa tatizo kwa watu wengine.

Fact 💯 🔥, wote tuna kasoro na mabaya yetu. Huwa wanasema mahusiano ni kubebeana mapungufu, ila kila mtu ana non-negotiables zake, vile vitu ambavyo hawezi kufumbia macho.

Mahusiano mengine yanapitia wakati mgumu kwasababu kuna mtu alipuuzia zile non-negotiables zake aki-hope kwamba mwenzake atabadilika.

Binti wa zamani · Mar 19, 2026

Marmeid said:
Find something you love and die for it .

A fatal passion 🙃

Binti wa zamani · Mar 19, 2026

Synthesizer said:
Siku zote nimejua wanawake wanasikia hamu, lakini wana advantage juu ya wanaume wakifika umri mkubwa.

Kwa wanaume hamu ya kufanya tendo inaanzia kichwani, na kichwa kinatuma meseji kuwasha mashine chini. Ila sasa inafikia mahali hamu inakuwapo kichwani, lakini meseji ikitumwa chini mashine haiwaki!

Kwa ufupi, wanaume hamu inaendelea kuwapo siku zote, ila mashine ndio inafikia mahali haiwaki kirahisi. Kwa hiyo utamkuta mwanaume ana hamu na kutaka sana, lakini mashine inamuangusha.

Kweli hiyo changamoto yenu iko tofauti kidogo 😁 poleni, ila naona ni hali ya dunia kujibalance yenyewe tu.

Synthesizer said:
Sidhani kama mwanamke anaweza kusema ninasikia hamu lakini mashine inaniangusha!

Ndio maana nikashangaa iweje wanawake wanasema wanaishiwa nguvu? Mwanaume akisema nimeishiwa nguvu maana yake mashine haiwaki, sio kwamba hasikii hamu.

Mwanamke kutokua na hamu (low libido) ni kwamba mwili haukupi ushirikiano, hata hiyo uliyosema ya kutekenywa kidogo, bado unakua hupati ule mzuka wa kukulana, na hata mbususu inakua haitengenezi ute ute kama zamani.

Ndiyo inabaki ile ya kutimiza wajibu tu, akitaka, basi unampa. Na kwa sababu mwanaume tendo linaanzia kichwani, busara za kiutu uzima zinakuongoza kutoharibu saikolojia ya baba mjengo, unatoa ushirikiano kikamilifu na kama umekaa naye muda mrefu basi unakua umeshajua cha kufanya aridhike au hata amalize safari yake haraka 😂😂😂.

Binti wa zamani · Mar 19, 2026

Palac said:
Utapambana sana ila acha kusudi la mungu litokee tu

Wazaramo wanasema "Kama ipo, ipo tu"

Binti wa zamani · Mar 19, 2026

secretarybird said:
Hebu waulize akina Genta huwa Wana feel-aje ila Mimi mtombi nae-njoy ile mbaya.

Kumbe huwa wanakuja wawili wawili 😂, acha niwape pole tu, inatosha.

cocastic · Mar 19, 2026

Binti wa zamani said:
Sawa mahi wangu

😘😘

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