You have said it all. I once wrote here that nowadays we humans worship "wanting to be loved" more than God. I am certain that God is saddened by our conducts, ways of life and our priorities. Yes being ignored is daunting but its just one person, not a multitude FGS. We gotta reform our hearts and move past these "deliberate traumas" we have chosen to live with.
What is mpenzi btw....smh. Kama tungekua tunahuzunika tukitoka nje ya mstari wa kuishi katika purpose yetu kama tunavyohuzunikia mapenzi, labda tusingekua hapa. Mleta mada, kaa kwenye nafasi yako. Liko kusudi la kuumbwa hapa duniani. Usitafute validation kwa mwanamke au mwanaume awaye yoyote. Ukianza kuliishi kusudi lako, mwanamke atakuheshimu, atakutii pale ambapo unamtafuta, na hutaona mashaka ukiona anaongea na simu maana we uko katika kuliishi kusudi lako..unajua your vision well well. Unataka amani? Hakuna mwanadamu anaeweza kukutimiza perfectly, ni mke, ni mume. Amani yako inatoka kwa Mungu peke yake. Wanadamu tuna ukomo, but God never disappoints. Know this and know peace!