Wewe kama mwanaume Unaweza kuvumilia?

Wewe kama mwanaume Unaweza kuvumilia?

Mwachiluwi said:
Hellow

Nilimuonaga mdada mmoja huko kwenye mahangaiko kwenye kasemina fulani ila tupo nae sehemu ila sasa ni mgumu balaa yapata mwaka sasa tangu numtongeze ila jibu sipewe nazungushwa na nina mpenda sana kibaya zaidi anataka mimi nisolve changamoto zake ila mimi jibu hanipi kabisa

Nimewekeza pesa nyingi kuna muda nampa mpaka akiba yangu ila haoni kama nampenda nimechoka nifanyeje

Nilimfwata baada ya kusikia washikaji kuwa wanamsema ni mgumu sana so na mimi nikazama kimya kimya ila sasa moyo unanipelekesha na mpenda sana ila jibu hanipi

Nifanyeje ushauri wenu mwenzenu nimekamatika kwa huyu bidada kitoto cha 2000
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Pengine hana jinsia yake
 
Mr Spider said:
Kama ni kweli aisee umeivaa unafaa uende 92KJ ukapige kozi. Yani mwaka haujapewa jibu na wewe upo tuu? Kwani anakitu gani special sanaa ambacho kati ya wanawake 10 hapatakosa kumpata aliyenacho?
Ohoo, pengine nimekosea una macho ya rohoni umeona vingine vya ndani. Endeleza mission ukiona bado ngumu omba usaidizi chap chap! Mm nikishakutana na sampuli hiyo naweka Kando kama Tissue...Mapenzi ni hisia si kulazimishana.
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Sijaiva kiasi cha kwenda 92kj 🙌
 
Jackson QUECA said:
Mkuu mbona simple sana, Kwanza pole kwa kumwonesha kama unampenda sana kosa hilo..ngoja nikupe approach
1. Jifunze Kusikilza Kwa Makini,
- Mwanamke mgumu mara nyingi huwa na sababu za ndani zinazomfanya kuwa na ukingo wa kuvumiliana. Badala ya kujaribu kumvuta upesi, sikiliza kwa undani anachosema na kujifunza kumfahamu zaidi.
-Onyesha udadisi kuhusu maoni yake, matakwa yake, na hata masuala yanayomhusu. Hii inaweza kumfanya ajisikie thamani na kuvunjika kwa taratibu.
2. Kuwa Mvumilivu na Mwenye Subira,
  • Usilazimishe mambo. Mwanamke anayekuwa na msimamo imara mara nyingi huhitaji muda wa kujiamini kwako.Jenga uhusiano polepole kwa kushirikiana katika mazungumzo ya kina na matukio ya kawaida.
  • Thibitisha uaminifu wako kwa kuwa mara kwa mara katika matendo yako. Mvumilivu hushinda kila mara
3. Jitoe Kwa Hekima na Ujasiri
  • Onyesha ujasiri wa kumtakia mema bila kujidai. Mwanamke mgumu anaweza kukubali kukaribia ikiwa anaona kwako uwezo wa kumtunza kwa hekima na uangalifu.
  • Epuka kujifanya mnyenyekevu kupita kiasi au kumtumia maneno ya kutapaliza. Badala yake, kuwa mwaminifu na mwenye msimamo.
4. Tambua Mipaka Yake na Kuheshimu
- Usidharau maoni yake au kujaribu kumlazimisha. Ikiwa anaamua kusita, heshimu hilo na uendelee kuwa rafiki wa karibu. Heshima ndio msingi wa mapenzi yoyote.
-Piga moyo kwa vitendo vya dhati, kama vile kumtunzia wakati wake au kumsaidia katika shida zake. Hii inaweza kumvuta kwa njia ya asili.
5. Tumia Vitanzi vya Kiroho na Kiakili
-Mwanamke mgumu mara nyingi hutilia maanani mawazo yake na uwezo wako wa kumvutia kiakili. Zindua mazungumzo yenye mafunzo, ucheshi, au mada zinazomhusu (kama vile masomo, kazi, au malengo yake).
-Toa fursa ya kukutana naye katika mazingira yanayoweza kumfariji (k.v. sehemu zenye utulivu, bustani). 6. Jifunze Kutoka kwa Watu Wakubwa au Marafiki Zake.
- Kama unaweza,pata maelezo kutoka kwa watu wanaomjua (kama familia au marafiki wake). Hii inaweza kukupa ufahamu wa namna ya kumkaribia bila kumkasirisha.
-Epuka kusema au kufanya kitu ambacho kinaweza kumfanya aonekane kama unamjaribu kwa njia isiyofaa.
7. Jikumbushe Kuwa Si Kila Mtu Anastahili Wewe.
  • Ikiwa anabaki kuwa na msimamo mgumu hata baada ya juhudi zako, kumbuka kuwa mapenzi si vita. Wakati mwingine, kujitoa kwa heshima ni ishara ya nguvu, si udhaifu.
  • Fungua fursa kwa mwingine ambaye anaweza kukubali mapenzi yako kwa urahisi.
NOTE. Mkuu point 5 make sure unajuwa na uzaifu wake.
  • Usitumie mbinu za udanganyifu, unafiki, au ulimi mrefu. Mwanamke mgumu anaweza kuwa na uwezo wa kugundua hilo, na hii itaifanya kuwa ngumu zaidi.
  • Kuwa wewe mwenyewe. Ujasiri wa kweli na utashi wa kumjali kwa dhati ndio njia bora ya kumvuta.
Kumbuka: "Mwanamke mgumu" anaweza kuwa na sababu nyingi za kihistoria, kisaikolojia, au hata kimazingira. Kujitahidi kumfahamu kwa undani ndio ufunguo wa kweli.
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Kweli kabisa
 
Sakasaka Mao said:
Dharau huwa ni kama upinzani flani'vi halafu inavutia!

Vyote hivyo, maringo, kujidai na usmart vinampandisha thamani.

Hizo tabia za mwanamke humjaza mwanaume ghadhabu na munkari ya kufuatilia ili auone mwisho wake.

Hutengeneza ligi ya mashindano kichwani mwake, ampate ili amuwini na akione anachoringia na dharau zake.

Ndiyo hapo mtu unakuta anajidhiki kwa sababu ya kukusanya hela ya kuhonga ili ajitwalie ngao ya ushindi wa penzi afaidi yeye.

Hapo yupo tayari kula padogo na kuhonga pakubwa ili kuua manyanyaso yatokanayo na maringo na ubishi wamtu mmoja.
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Kweli kabisa
 
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USE DECOYED OBJECTS OF DESIRE AND RED HERRINGS TO THROW PEOPLE OFF THE SCENT If at any point in the deception you practice people have the slightest suspicionas to your intentions, all is lost. Do not give them the chance to sense what you are up to: Throw them off the scent by dragging red herrings across the path. Use false sincerity, send ambiguous signals, set up misleading objects of desire. Unable to distinguish the genuine from the false, they cannot pick out your real goal.
TRANSGRESSION OF THE LAW Over several weeks, Ninon de Lenclos, the most infamous courtesan of seventeenth-century France,
listened patiently as the Marquis de Sevigné explained his struggles in pursuing a beautiful but difficult young countess. Ninon was sixty-two at the time, and more than experienced in matters of love; the marquis was a lad of twenty-two, handsome, dashing, but hopelessly inexperienced in romance. At first Ninon was amused to hear the marquis talk about his mistakes, but finally she had had enough. Unable to bear ineptitude in any realm, least of all in seducing a woman, she decided to take the young man under her wing. First, he had to understand that this was war, and that the beautiful countess was a citadel to which he had to lay siege as carefully as any general. Every step had to be planned and executed with the utmost attention to detail and nuance.
Instructing the marquis to start over, Ninon told him to approach the countess with a bit of distance, an air of nonchalance. The next time the two were alone together, she said, he would confide in the countess as would a friend but not a potential lover. This was to throw her off the scent. The countess was no longer to take his interest in her for granted—perhaps he was only interested in friendship.
Ninon planned ahead. Once the countess was confused, it would be time to make her jealous. At the next encounter, at a major fête in Paris, the marquis would show up with a beautiful young woman at his side. This beautiful young woman had equally beautiful friends, so that wherever the countess would now see the marquis, he would be surrounded by the most stunning young women in Paris. Not only would the countess be seething with jealousy, she would come to see the marquis as someone who was desired by others. It was hard for Ninon to make the marquis understand, but she patiently explained that a woman who is interested in a man wants to see that other women are interested in him, too. Not only does that give him instant value, it makes it all the more satisfying to snatch him from their clutches.
Once the countess was jealous but intrigued, it would be time to beguile her. On Ninon’s instructions,
the marquis would fail to show up at affairs where the countess expected to see him. Then, suddenly, he would appear at salons he had never frequented before, but that the countess attended often. She would be unable to predict his moves. All of this would push her into the state of emotional confusion that is a prerequisite for successful seduction.
These moves were executed, and took several weeks. Ninon monitored the marquis’s progress:
Through her network of spies, she heard how the countess would laugh a little harder at his witticisms,
listen more closely to his stories. She heard that the countess was suddenly asking questions about him.
Her friends told her that at social affairs the countess would often look up at the marquis, following his steps. Ninon felt certain that the young woman was falling under his spell. It was a matter of weeks now,
maybe a month or two, but if all went smoothly, the citadel would fall.


A few days later the marquis was at the countess’s home. They were alone. Suddenly he was a different man: This time acting on his own impulse, rather than following Ninon’s instructions, he took the countess’s hands and told her he was in love with her. The young woman seemed confused, a reaction he did not expect. She became polite, then excused herself. For the rest of the evening she avoided his eyes,
was not there to say good-night to him. The next few times he visited he was told she was not at home.
When she finally admitted him again, the two felt awkward and uncomfortable with each other. The spell was broken.
 
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