Baada ya miaka 30 sababu inayowafanya wanawake kuzama kwenye dini sio wokovu. Kijana shtuka

Baada ya miaka 30 sababu inayowafanya wanawake kuzama kwenye dini sio wokovu. Kijana shtuka

As in how? Seen na nani?
Just because umekuzwa kwenye familia ya kilokole una insecurity watanionaje nisipo enda... Unasingizia integrity wakati unajua fika hakuna integrity kwenye kwenda sehemu uliyo I outgrow?...

Eti integrity like serious uudanganye umati kuwa hiyo ni integrity Unachekesha ujue! Live who you are na ndo wanawake madhaifu yenu hayo mko radhi kubaki kwenye mahusiano just because na nyie muonekane mmeolewa hata kama hamna feelings na huyo mtu ila anamawe(kuonekana vipi na jamii)

Mbona mi na Natafuta ajira tunafahamu kuwa huwa tunapingana kwenye almost kila kitu. Tatizo lako ninini?
Kila kitu tena? 😂 Wewe umedata... Si ulesama ya kuwa mna bishana linapokuja swala la patriarchy!? Na anawaweka accountable, nilipo sema ua advocate hukutaka ya kuwa Uta advocate upande hata wa accountability... Haya vipi huo upande? Uko tayari?
Hili pia wala sielewi maana yake, umecatch feelings mara hii?
Ni catch feelings? Kwako ama?

Mimi nakwambia uache kujimwambafy, unapenda sana..
 
Just because umekuzwa kwenye familia ya kilokole una insecurity watanionaje nisipo enda... Unasingizia integrity wakati unajua fika hakuna integrity kwenye kwenda sehemu uliyo I outgrow?...
How is this even your concern? Na nani alikwambia nimekuzwa kwenye familia ya kilolole acha vimbwaga Gunner, hubadilikagi!

Pole kama unadhani mimi ni aina ya mwanamke ambaye huwa nasema “watu watanionaje” Kanisani ni social place , tunaenda na hatuachi.
Eti integrity like serious uudanganye umati kuwa hiyo ni integrity Unachekesha ujue! Live who you are na ndo wanawake madhaifu yenu hayo mko radhi kubaki kwenye mahusiano just because na nyie muonekane mmeolewa hata kama hamna feelings na huyo mtu ila anamawe(kuonekana vipi na jamii)
Ulikuwa unasema uniweke kundi gani ndio nikakwambia sihitaji kukwambia nimeokoka au lah integrity inaamua, bado haujafanyia kazi comprehension skills , jitahidi it’s not a rocket science 🤣
Kila kitu tena? 😂 Wewe umedata... Si ulesama ya kuwa mna bishana linapokuja swala la patriarchy!? Na anawaweka accountable, nilipo sema ua advocate hukutaka ya kuwa Uta advocate upande hata wa accountability... Haya vipi huo upande? Uko
“Neno almost” hapo umelikwepa shwaaaa! Kama tu unavyokwepaga facts ukiwa unataka kutoa opinions zako.

Sio kwa wewe kuniambia nifanye advocacy! Nina advocate haki za wanawake already, na Natafuta ajira huwa tunakutana kwenye accountability, sababu feminism inaamini accountability. Na wala hatujawahi argue popote ukakuta ananishambulia kama unavyofanya wewe, do better!
tayari?

Ni catch feelings? Kwako ama?

Mimi nakwambia uache kujimwambafy, unapenda sana..
Finally mkia wako umeutoa nje, kama kawaida character assassination ndio kete yako maarufu humu,

Najimwambafy ni sawa, nina ego kama unavyoniambiaga wala sio uongo, jana umeniongezea nini? Toxic nini nini? bahati mbaya i will never shrink myself to make anyone feel better about anything, labda kama unatabia ya kusahau mi siombagi samahani kwa kuwa na tabia niliyonayo. Deal with it or get the f* out of my face. Kama haujazoea kukutana na wanawake kama mimi who are noisy and opinionated pole, hilo sio tatizo langu ni lako. Wewe sio JF’s mother supreme utake kudeal na tabia zangu.

Nikuulize swali: Kuna mtu yeyote JF ushawahi kujadili nae msifikie kwenye mashambulizi binafsi? If you have a functional brain you will clearly see who is a problem here, but i guess again it’s me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 (napenda kuilisha ego yako)
 
Ni kweli ila bora mwanamke tu ajitunze maana sasa mwanaume yeye akiamua kuacha uhuni hata trace inaweza futika kirahisi.

Mwanamke mara sijui nyonyo zimelala, mara bikira isiwepo, sijui kadi ya clinic ina miscariage, complication nyingi nyingi zinakuwa kama Alert inasema Hey my background ni balaa.
Sasa bikra itapatikana vipi, wakati zinatolewa kabla ya ndoa??
 
It's nature na ipo hivyo sio Africa mpak Ulaya sasa hivi kuna watu wanaitwa Passport Bros. Mwanaume hata awe malaya vipi au mlevi anapokuja kufanya maamuzi huwaga anatuliza kichwa kweli,hao binti anaye kutana nae huko batani/malaya,lazima ataopt binti aliye tulia na bikra ni best option kwa mwanaume yoyote duniani.

Halafu bikra ni mali ya mwanamke, ipo chini ya maamuzi ya mwanamke na Mungu kampa akili na utashi imsaidie kwenye kufanya maamuzi yahusianayo na roho na kimwili. Hawashikiwagi bunduki wakati zikitolewa, japo wanadai kwamba wanashawishiwa na wanauume,Okay tufanye kweli wanashawishiwa, hivi leo nikimshawishi binti niliyekutana nae labda hata kwa wiki,anipe laki moja,je atanipa kisa tu nimemshawishi?
Sasa kwanini ushawishi bikra uitoe na unajua hutamuoa? Sasa bikra zitaendelea kuadimika kwa kuwa nature inataka hivyo.

Kwanini mwanaume ana mshawishi msichana, kwa kutegemea aukatae ushawishi huo, si ni angeacha kushawishi tu jumla?
Na ukumbuke bikra zinatolewa na hao hao wanaume ambao baadae wanazitafuta wakati wakiwa wanataka kuoa.
Sasa sijui wanatazipata vipi na ikiwa walisha zitoa huko mwanzo,

Na km ndio nature inataka hivyo basi kilio ni endelevu.
 
How is this even your concern? Na nani alikwambia nimekuzwa kwenye familia ya kilolole acha vimbwaga Gunner, hubadilikagi!

Pole kama unadhani mimi ni aina ya mwanamke ambaye huwa nasema “watu watanionaje” Kanisani ni social place , tunaenda na hatuachi.
Unaona! Unayaa kataa maneno yako mwenyewe? Unasema you're not religious hapohapo unasema una integrity ila ukiulizwa iko wapi unasingizia eti kanisani is a social place! Like serious how can a non religious person show up to wafia dini na akashiriki nao huku akiwa anajua kabisa they're lost? Nimekwambia hakuna integrity hapoo 🤣 unaishi kioga alaf unajiita Feminist! Shida kweli kweli
Ulikuwa unasema uniweke kundi gani ndio nikakwambia sihitaji kukwambia nimeokoka au lah integrity inaamua, bado haujafanyia kazi comprehension skills , jitahidi it’s not a rocket science 🤣
Wewe usijifanye kusahau tuliko toka.... Unapenda sana kuswitch mabandiko tu your own concerns... Mara useme naenda kanisani nimetokea family ya kilokole mara ukatae kuwa ww sio religious, mara useme vita bado mbichi... Kwenda zako mwana hidaya wewe..
Sio kwa wewe kuniambia nifanye advocacy! Nina advocate haki za wanawake already, na Natafuta ajira huwa tunakutana kwenye accountability, sababu feminism inaamini accountability. Na wala hatujawahi argue popote ukakuta ananishambulia kama unavyofanya wewe, do better!
Si kushambulii na kufanya uwe accountable kama unavyotaka iwe... Unapenda kuongea vitu usivyo vimaanisha na hiyo inakupunguzia maksi za feminism. Mimi naenda na wewe bampa tu bampa hakuna kuchengana

Finally mkia wako umeutoa nje, kama kawaida character assassination ndio kete yako maarufu humu,
Ahahahaha wewe wasema, mimi sina character assassination nina attack maneno ulosema ambayo ndo yata reflect character.. Maana what's character by the way?

Najimwambafy ni sawa, nina ego kama unavyoniambiaga wala sio uongo, jana umeniongezea nini? Toxic nini nini? bahati mbaya i will never shrink myself to make anyone feel better about anything, labda kama unatabia ya kusahau mi siombagi samahani kwa kuwa na tabia niliyonayo. Deal with it or get the f* out of my face. Kama haujazoea kukutana na wanawake kama mimi who are noisy and opinionated pole, hilo sio tatizo langu ni lako. Wewe sio JF’s mother supreme utake kudeal na tabia zangu.
Tulia tukuaweke sawa wewe acha kuwa triggered...
Uombe msamaha usiombe, your dark side must feel guilty, hatutii huruma sisi.. Your ego is nothing but a wounded inner child. Kubaki upone.

I will never get my face out of your fucking face because of your insecure ass. It's either ukimbie au ukubali kuwa accountable... Idgaf.
Nikuulize swali: Kuna mtu yeyote JF ushawahi kujadili nae msifikie kwenye mashambulizi binafsi? If you have a functional brain you will clearly see who is a problem here, but i guess again it’s me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 (napenda kuilisha ego yako)
They run, not because nawakwaza, ila nawahold accountable kwa hoja na kuwa taka watetee kile wanacho dhani kiko sawa. It's not my ego, it's their insecure asses. Huwa wanakimbia because they can't stand me

Hahaha leo Nimecheka balaa, hadi wewe umekuwa pissed kweli... Calm down my dear si unajua we more than this😀
 
Unaona! Unayaa kataa maneno yako mwenyewe? Unasema you're not religious hapohapo unasema una integrity ila ukiulizwa iko wapi unasingizia eti kanisani is a social place! Like serious how can a non religious person show up to wafia dini na akashiriki nao huku akiwa anajua kabisa they're lost? Nimekwambia hakuna integrity hapoo 🤣 unaishi kioga alaf unajiita Feminist! Shida kweli kweli
I won’t understand it for you okay?! Nimekwambia kanisani people are lost? Sio kwamba tulikuwa tunajjadili kundi dogo la watu kanisani wanaoenda ndivyo sivyo? Usinilishe maneno sawa.
Wewe usijifanye kusahau tuliko toka.... Unapenda sana kuswitch mabandiko tu your own concerns... Mara useme naenda kanisani nimetokea family ya kilokole mara ukatae kuwa ww sio religious, mara useme vita bado mbichi... Kwenda zako mwana hidaya wewe..
Nililetee sehemu niliposema nimetokea familia ya kilokole, kuna laki 2 yako hapa ukipata hiyo sehemu, ukiikosa niambie utanipa nini. (taja now kabla haujaenda kutafuta)
Si kushambulii na kufanya uwe accountable kama unavyotaka iwe... Unapenda kuongea vitu usivyo vimaanisha na hiyo inakupunguzia maksi za feminism. Mimi naenda na wewe bampa tu bampa hakuna kuchengana
Bampa to bampa ilibidi iwe kwenye mada, acha utoto. Fundishika hata kana ego yako ya kisukuma hairuhusu.

Ahahahaha wewe wasema, mimi sina character assassination nina attack maneno ulosema ambayo ndo yata reflect character.. Maana what's character by the way?
Nimekuuliza swali kuna mtu ulishajadili nae msifikie huku? usijifanye huelewi nachosema.
Tulia tukuaweke sawa wewe acha kuwa triggered...
Uombe msamaha usiombe, your dark side must feel guilty, hatutii huruma sisi.. Your ego is nothing but a wounded inner child. Kubaki upone.
I’m an old dog, acha kupoteza muda Gunner. You na wenzio wajao, na ID zako zote hamtaweza kuniweka unavyotaka, kama sawa tayari niko sawa, hamna sawa nyingine ambayo unaweza kuniweka.
I will never get my face out of your fucking face because of your insecure ass. It's either ukimbie au ukubali kuwa accountable... Idgaf.
Accountable kwenye nini? Sikumbuki kwenye mjadala mzima kama kuna mahali nilitakiwa kuwa account.

Tumia neno insecurity uwezavyo, if by any chance lina kufanya ujisikie vizuri. Ila usinilazimishie insecurities ambazo sina.
They run, not because nawakwaza, ila nawahold accountable kwa hoja na kuwa taka watetee kile wanacho dhani kiko sawa. It's not my ego, it's their insecure asses. Huwa wanakimbia because they can't stand me
You are so delusional! aaiiiii 😂 gafla kila mtu ana insecurity.
Hahaha leo Nimecheka balaa, hadi wewe umekuwa pissed kweli... Calm down my dear si unajua we more than this😀
I’m calling you out, i’m not pissed, kuna watu kama 7 tu duniani wanaoweza kunipiss off, we sio mmoja wao usijipambe hapo!
 
Elevenn Tukishafikaga hii point ya kuandikiana magazeti halafu off topic not worthy it, bora tukutane mahali tupigane mshindi apatikane.

🤣
 
Sasa bikra itapatikana vipi, wakati zinatolewa kabla ya ndoa??
Kwani wanaume wenye hela watapatikana vipi ikiwa mabinti wanataka gawio kwenye hicho hicho kidogo kutoka kwenye hela ya vijana wanaojitatuta?

Kila mmoja ashinde mechi zake. Kijana ajue thamani ya mwanaume ni finance and stability kwahiyo awe na nidhamu ya fedha. Binti ajue thamani ya mwanamke ni purity and loyalty kwahiyo ajitunze.

Asitokee kijana wa kiume akafeli kimaisha halafu akasingizia hela zote ametumia kwa kushawishiwa na wanawake, vivyo hivyo asitokee binti asiye na bikira akasingziai alishawishiwa na wanaume. Kwa sababu wakati wote wanashawishiwa walikua na option ya kusema "HAPANA"
 
Sasa bikra itapatikana vipi, wakati zinatolewa kabla ya ndoa??
Ndo maana zinaadimika sababu wenye nazo wanazigawa. We Sema Genz nao weshajizoelea wanajiokotea tu wanaweka ndani vilio vitafuata.
 
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