Pesa haimpi kiburi Mwanamke bali humpa uwezo wa kutovumilia ujinga

Pesa haimpi kiburi Mwanamke bali humpa uwezo wa kutovumilia ujinga

de Gunner said:
Kipindi niko kweny bingo za road construction nilkutana na bi mdashi flan hivi anawawe kinoma akasema tumjengee lami kwake.. Kutoka getini mpk usawa wa barabara tukadhani labda anamakuu ila she was one of the humblest person. Mumewe haukuwa na mawe kumzidi ila alimnyenyekea as if utadhani karogwa.

What I learned is that a woman with integrity and wisdom hawezi kuwa na uhuru kupindukia kumzidi mwanaume especially in the house. Anajua position yaje
Click to expand...
Godamn right brother lakini such souls are very rare
 
de Gunner said:
Kipindi niko kweny bingo za road construction nilkutana na bi mdashi flan hivi anawawe kinoma akasema tumjengee lami kwake.. Kutoka getini mpk usawa wa barabara tukadhani labda anamakuu ila she was one of the humblest person. Mumewe haukuwa na mawe kumzidi ila alimnyenyekea as if utadhani karogwa.

What I learned is that a woman with integrity and wisdom hawezi kuwa na uhuru kupindukia kumzidi mwanaume especially in the house. Anajua position yaje
Click to expand...
It tells alot about how the man treats her, hii ndio part ambayo wengi tutaiskip kuizungumzia hapa.
 
binti kiziwi said:
It tales alot about how the man treats her, hii ndio part ambayo wengi tutaiskip kuizungumzia hapa.
Click to expand...
Why don't you think of her first mpk uende kwenye hiyo perspective?

Kwanini tusifikiri ya kuwa, she has wisdom and integrity ya Kujua anahitaji mwanaume wa aina gani? Ambae anajua madhaifu ya mumewe na bado akayabeba? Ambaye anajua kuwa a man in the house is a leader and good leadership means I have to create room for that to my man!?
 
de Gunner said:
Why don't you think of her first mpk uende kwenye hiyo perspective?

Kwanini tusifikiri ya kuwa, she has wisdom and integrity ya Kujua anahitaji mwanaume wa aina gani? Ambae anajua madhaifu ya mumewe na bado akayabeba? Ambaye anajua kuwa a man in the house is a leader and good leadership means I have to create room for that to my man!?
Click to expand...
You have a good point. Naelewa kuna mambo ambayo ili yaende ni lazima mtu uzingatie/usimamie kile unachotoa na si unachopokea.

But submission, utii or whatever we call it sio inborn , ni learned behavior. By this naona huyo mwanadada anamuheshimu/mnyenyekea mumewe sababu mumewe kuna namna anamfanyia, binadamu katika ubinadamu wake hawezi kusubimit kwa” muda mrefu” sehemu ambayo ina kasheshe kwake, hata kama mtu huyo ana tabia nzuri kiasi gani (ambayo umeiita wisdom/integrity)

Hata mtoto mdogo usipomtendea vizuri anakuwa rebel kwako, japo umemzaa mwenyewe, other factors zikiwa constant.
 
binti kiziwi said:
You have a good point. Naelewa kuna mambo ambayo ili yaende ni lazima mtu uzingatie/usimamie kile unachotoa na si unachopokea.

But submission, utii or whatever we call it sio inborn , ni learned behavior. By this naona huyo mwanadada anamuheshimu/mnyenyekea mumewe sababu mumewe kuna namna anamfanyia, binadamu katika ubinadamu wake hawezi kusubimit kwa” muda mrefu” sehemu ambayo ina kasheshe kwake, hata kama mtu huyo ana tabia nzuri kiasi gani (ambayo umeiita wisdom/integrity)
Click to expand...
I got you, just like the way you got me

Ni both balance ya mtenda na mtendewa.
 
Kwa akili zangu Mbili ,nilipue bomu?????

Wakuu, tukiacha mihemko na kuangalia ukweli kupitia jicho la kichambuzi (structural analysis), mwanamke hajajengwa kuwa dhaifu na maumbile, bali amejengwa kuwa dhaifu na Mifumo (The System). Kwa karne nyingi, taasisi hizi mbili zimeshirikiana kutengeneza narrative ya kumfanya mwanamke abaki chini, tegemezi, na mtiifu ili iwe rahisi kumtawala na kumnyonya kiuchumi.

Hapa kuna namna tatu kuu ambazo unyonyaji huu umekuwa ukifanyika kimkakati
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

Our Community

Coming Soon

Regional Communities

Coming Soon
Back
Top Bottom
Menu
Forums
New posts
Log in
Register