Punyeto ni nini na nini madhara yake?

Punyeto ni nini na nini madhara yake?

Pole yako dada angu,labda nijaribu kuzungumza namna nilivyoepukana nayo kwa maana nilikua muhanga kipindi fulani
1.Ilibidi nijibidiishe au kua bize kwenye kitabu zaidi kipindi hicho na nikajikuta naacha kabisa
2.Kingine labda nikuulize je unae mpenzi kwa sasa?
 
Nijuaavyo nyeto lina punguza mccmko, haijalishi dem,man tena nakuomba dada yangu acha kabisaaa hiyo tabia ushauri tafuta kijana akutibu kwani ndio njia pekee ya kuepuka masterbassion na nihaki yako kikatiba
 
Madhara
(1) Kupungua au kukosa kabisa hamu ya kufanya mapenzi na Mume au mpenzi wako
(2) Kuchelewa sana kufika kileleni au kutofika kabisa wakati wa tendo la ndoa
(3) Kuathirika kisaikolojia kutasababisha iwe ngumu sana kuacha kupiga punyeto na kuwa mtumwa wa punyeto
(4) Kinembe kuwa na ganzi ya kudumu na kupoteza hisia kabisa kutapelekea kutamani kufanywa kinyume na maumbile.
 
Suprise said:
Habari zenu bandugu,
Once again nahitaji msaada wenu nikiamini hiki ni chuo cha mafunzo .
Jamani miaka kadhaa huko nyuma enzi za sekondari nilijikuta napenda sana huu mchezo wa punyeto(naomba kusahihishwa kwanza kama kuna jina muafaka kwa wanawake la punyeto).Enzi hizo niliamini ni njia mbadala ya kuniepusha na majaribu ya mafataki na kweli nilifanikiwa ,sasa baada ya kukua kimwili na kisaikolojia nikaachana nao kabisa huu mchezo.
Sasa kama miezi miwili hivi nimejikuta na majaribu ya kuurudia huu mchezo baada ya kua in distance love(relationship),naombezi msaada wa mawazo
(i)kuna njia yeyoye mbadala wa kuepuka hili au kama hakuna .
(ii)kuna madhara yeyote atayopata mwanamke anayejihusisha na hili,naomba nisisitize hapa nahofia zaidi madhara kwenye mahusiano yangu au ndoa hapo mbeleni if ikizoeleka hali hii maana hizi mada nazofatilia humu nyingi zimekua zikionyesha madhara upande wa pili kama kupungukiwa nguvu za kiume.sasa kuna kupungukiwa nguvu za kike au kuna madhara mengine.
Naomba ushauri toka kwa wadada kama wameexperience hii au wameweza vipi be in distance love kwa kuepuka hii kitu
Naomba ushauri kwa wanaume kama walifanikiwa kukutana na mwanamke aliyeathirika na hili tatizo I min addicted na walihandle vipi mahusiaono yao
Naomba kuwasilisha ,
NB,Kila side effect ije na constructive way forward kusolve
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Pole sana bidada.ila hili ni tatizo letu si wadada japo hatuliongelee kwa undani zaidi.ila hata mie uwa ni muhanga wa tatizo hili.linanitokea sana naweza kusahu kwa miazi adi miaka.alafu inajirudia tena naendelea na mchezo huu.

Ila kuna tatizo japo sio kubwa sana kwa upande wangu.Ninapokuwa Faragha siwezi kufika kileleni adi niweke kidole na kujichezea.Hilo ndo tatizo kubwa kufika kilele bila kidole inakuwa kazi ngumu sana kama umezoea Punyeto kwa akina dada.
 
MASTURBATION AND ITS EFFECTS​
by Lawrence Wilson, MD​
© March 2012, The Center For Development ​

I receive emails often from young men, mainly, who have had a masturbation habit. Here is a typical one from John:

Dear Dr. Wilson,
I had a severe addiction with pornography and masturbation between the years of 18 and 26. I ejaculated about 60 times a month during these years. It felt good for a while, but then I developed the following symptoms:

-severe premature ejaculation all of a sudden
-severely sexually exhausted and drained
-feeling tired, sleepy, and dopey all the time
-seminal leaking during bowel movement and after urination
-severe lower back pain
-severe bloating/tension pain in my abdomen after orgasm and lasting days/weeks
-frequent urination
-waking up during the night to urinate
-severe prostatitis

I became very alarmed and concerned, and finally realized that I had destroyed my body over the years.
My addiction was hard to kick but a year later, mostly all of my symptoms have cleared EXCEPT for the prostate pain/inflammation and its associated issue (urinating frequently, etc ) So I basically still have the prostatitis issue.
I need help, please doctor, I am desperate.

Masturbation is not a good idea. I do not care what any psychologist or doctor says about it. It depletes a man or woman's sexual fluid and wastes vital energy, and this is never a good idea. The best idea is to skip it altogether.
If you have been masturbating, then you must eat an 8-ounce hamburger every day for at least three months to replenish some of the vitamins and minerals that are lost when you masturbate. Instead of a hamburger, once or twice weekly you may substitute lamb or another cut of beef such as roast beef or beef stew meat, but you must eat 8 ounces of some kind of beef or some lamb daily.
This article presents a view of masturbation that focuses on its physical effects on the body and how to cope with it. To repeat, masturbating once a month or less is okay. However, it is a problem when done more than once a month or so, and especially when it becomes habit.

End the habit, which is slow suicide and like raping yourself gently. Do not be too ashamed or embarrassed about it, however. Just move on. Masturbation is not a healthful habit for a number of reasons discussed below. However, becoming ashamed and embarrassed is not that helpful. Much more helpful is to simply become informed about it, and stop doing it for that reason. Here are reasons to stop masturbating:

SYMPTOMS THAT CAN RESULT FROM A MASTURBATION HABIT

Rapid aging and an early death. This is a horrible syndrome in which one's vitality goes down and one may feel exhausted, even as a teenager, or as a young man or woman. The hair may turn gray, the body may become thin and lose muscle, and one feels old. This is why masturbation, which some feel is okay, is really a form of slow death or suicide.

Irritability and unsteadiness. The most common symptom is a kind of irritability, emotional unsteadiness, low self-esteem, loss of willpower, and a certain type of weakness of the mind and the body. One also often becomes more lazy, and thinking is definitely impaired. Both the speed of the mind, and the memory are impaired when sexual fluids are depleted. Most people notice this even after regular sex. They often mistakenly think it is a sign of ‘love', or ‘relaxation'. However, it is the same type of ‘relaxation' one gets from using drugs or alcohol. It is more like a type of deep fatigue, mild stupor or trance state, and is not the same as real relaxation.

Sexual fluid craving. Women, in particular, who lose a lot of sexual fluids, all develop Sexual Fluid Craving. Please read about this, ladies, as it is a very important article on this website. Men can develop this condition, also, craving male or even occasionally female fluids, but it is not as common. Women may say that they re-absorb their sexual fluids, so it is not a problem. This is true to some degree, and is the reason that women can handle occasional masturbation better than most men. However, frequent sex, vegetarian diets, junk food diets and rapes, in particular, deplete women terribly of precious sexual fluids. Often the nutrients are never replaced and the woman suffers fatigue, depression, brain fog and other problems for the rest of her life.

Loss of vigor. Electrically, the body is discharged and the person loses his or her vigor. This is a very critical effect. Also, the sodium/potassium ratio tends to decrease, which is another sign of loss of vitality in some subtle way.

Other. These range from skin diseases such as acne and dermatitis, to hair loss, connective tissue problems, headaches, prostate enlargement and prostate cancer, possibly, in men, and other possible health problems. some women gain weight in the hips for some reason, perhaps because regular sex and masturbation are a type of trauma, in fact, to that area. This does not mean to avoid sex. It means to be moderate.

Masturbation does not affect everyone equally. Some men, in particular, lose much more sexual fluid than others during ejaculation, especially if it continues for more than a few seconds. Extending it is the worst thing to do, men. Get it over with and move on.
Boys and men that lose more fluid, for whatever reason, are much more affected by masturbation or by regular sexual intercourse, for that matter, and will usually feel much more tired and experience all the symptoms listed above. Women, generally, do not have as much variability in the amount of sexual fluids they lose, except during rapes, which can be of varying intensity. For much more on this topic, read Rape on this website, an insightful article, though not pleasant to contemplate.

METABOLIC EFFECTS OF MASTURBATION

1. Zinc and other nutrient loss. Masturbation depletes the body of zinc, selenium, B-complex vitamins, as well as many other vital nutrients. Male and female sexual fluids are particularly rich in certain forms of zinc and selenium that are hard to replace with food and impossible to replace with supplements, as far as I know. Some herbs help, but are somewhat toxic.
Anyone who masturbates often, and even those who have sex more than once a week, will lose a significant amount of zinc and other nutrients that are difficult to replace. For this reason, sexual fluid should be treated as very sacred and never ever wasted. It is more important for men, by the way, but important for women as well.

2. Etheric loss. Etheric energy is also sometimes called "vital energy" or "vital force". Masturbation causes a depletion of this special type of subtle energy each of us was born with that is required in order to live a long, healthy life. One can regenerate this energy, at least to some degree, so all is not lost. But it should never be wasted, ever, and regaining the energy takes months of sexual abstinence, in most cases, and eating red meat daily or almost daily. It is fine to hug and kiss, but orgasms must be avoided or limited to regenerate the etheric energy.

3. Subtle energetic effects of masturbation. Masturbation and sexual intercourse, even more so, tend to spin the seven main energy centers of the body backwards. This may sound strange, but it is a big reason that orgasm causes pleasure in the body. This is a bit esoteric, but I am told it is the truth and important to know about.
Spinning the energy centers backwards feels good for a few seconds, and subtly weakens the entire aura or energy field of the body. In effect, it uses up a certain amount of vital force or adaptive energy that leaves the person with less energy and less vitality afterwards. This can help explain some of the symptoms of masturbation such as faster aging, irritability, and others.

4. Encouraging the mind in unhealthy thought patterns. This means that stimulating the genital organs tends to cause a certain type of thinking and feeling that is generally harmful for a person. It is much worse if one does it often, and the same applies to sexual intercourse more than about once a week. It also applies to viewing pornography, in any amount. This problem, by the way, is often more harmful for women, as it can attract them to the wrong kinds of men, and attract a rape, for example.
This is a more complex topic that has to do with the type of energy that resides in the lower part of the body, as compared with the type of energies that reside in the upper part of one's body.
The symptoms of this problem include difficulty concentrating, attention deficit or ADD, ADHD, irritability, superficiality in your thinking, lack of intelligence, lack of follow through ability, impaired school or work performance, and other difficulties in thinking clearly and forcefully.

5. Pornography and masturbation. Another consequence of masturbation in some people is a strange attraction to pornography. By this I mean attraction to photos, movies, written material such as racy sexy novels, and other things that discuss, illustrate, or demonstrate sexual acts, sexual organs of the body, and things related to this area.
Attraction to pornography easily becomes a habit and an addiction. It is one of the worst, in fact, and leads to unhappy relationships, rapes, murders, and is at the very least a total waste of one's time, energy and often money as well. If you are involved with pornography in any way, I suggest you stop it immediately and do not compromise with yourself. This may be difficult, at first, and there may be groups and other resources available to help, but it is important to stop this silly habit that often accompanies masturbation.

6. An anti-social behavior that reverses the mind in some way. Masturbation tends to make one self-centered in a serious way. It is a selfish habit, and while a little now and then is fine, if repeated often, it tends to turn a person too inward and anti-social in some way.
It is also a reversal of nature's natural process to procreate the species. By this I mean that the vital sexual fluid is designed to impregnate or fertilize an egg and produce a new human being. When orgasm occurs in other contexts, such as rape and masturbation, it is a type of mental reversal that is confusing to a healthy mind and has a detrimental effect.

Similar to depletion after sex. Some men and women feel depleted after sex due to fluid loss or etheric energy loss. However, other factors also cause this feeling in men and women after sex. These are discussed in the article on this website entitled Energy Vampirism.

OFFSETTING THE EFFECTS OF MASTURBATION

This section is divided into 1) what to do if you have a problem with masturbation, and 2) how to overcome the negative effects if you had a problem with masturbation and now you are trying to recover your health and your energy.

To overcome a masturbation habit:
1. Eat at least 8 ounces of beef every single day for several months, at least.
2. Do not stimulate yourself with pornography or pornographic thoughts. This is also quite important. Get rid of the girlie photos, magazines, website, and friends who talk about it, also. Ladies, this applies to some of you, as well. Stop talking dirty, stop staring at boy's and men's bodies, and stop flirting with your dress, looks, behavior, etc. All of this perpetuates the problem, and can set a woman up for rape very easily.
3. Follow a complete nutritional balancing program.
4. Read about addictions. A masturbation habit is a types of sexual addiction. It causes a slight ‘high', like some drugs, and this is why people like it. Some experience this more than others. The high is always followed by a low, however. For more on how all types of addictions work, read Addiction on this website.
5. Meditate using the modified Roy Masters exercise. A secret of this exercise is moving energy downward from the head to the feet as hard as you can. You can do the exercise as much as you wish. Avoid most other meditations, which will not have the same effect and may make things worse. The Masters exercise may seem boring, but it works. For more on this, read Meditation on this website. My new CD on this subject is the best one to explain how to do it. It is $9. plus $2.50 for shipping.
6. Distract yourself with other activities and increase your interest in other things. For example, go out, be with friends or family, watch non-sexual TV or movies, eat at healthful restaurants instead of home alone by yourself if this is when you masturbate, take short showers instead of long ones if this is where you masturbate. Perhaps you can find a healthy sexual relationship instead of fantasizing.
7. If needed and if helpful, get help from a counselor. Know, however, that many counselors actually condone masturbation and think it is just fine. Stay away from these counselors, as they are wrong, in my opinion.
8. Be sure to eat enough high zinc foods. The main one for this purpose is hamburger meat, and ground chuck is the best of them. Lamb is also good, but not as good for this purpose as ground chuck every day – about 8 ounces for a few months, perhaps. Totally avoid vegetarian diets.
9. A good spice to use every day is mustard. You can buy just regular mustard at the store. Put a little mustard on everything and it will help you move along faster with your healing.
10. The less ejaculation or orgasms, the better. Explain this to your partner, who may not understand at all. For example, many women do not understand that men must conserve their sexual fluid. In fact, many women crave male sexual fluid, so they want their male partners to ejaculate or "it doesn't count as sex". This is not true. You can have fun together, but don't ejaculate. This takes some practice, I know, and it is better to keep the sex to a minimum if you end up ejaculating each time. Women lose less fluid when they have an orgasm, but too much sex is still not wise for women, either. Limiting orgasms can will allow your etheric energy to regenerate as fast as possible. You can kiss and hug with a partner, but don't ejaculate.
11. For men, possibly, an "orchic glandular product" may be helpful for a while. Orchic glandular means animal testicles, and they have been used for this purpose for millennia. However, this is not a substitute for eight ounces of hamburger or other red meat daily.
12. Avoid most herbs that are used as aphrodisiacs and sexual potency. Stay away from yohimbe, ginseng, licorice, and most other sexual herbs. These are stimulating and not good at all in the long run. Avena sativa or common oats are fine, however, and may be helpful to rebuild vitality.
13. To increase your absorption of etheric energy from the environment, eat well, sleep a lot, drink a good quality spring water, keep warm, and avoid all distractions and wastes of energy.
14. Oxygen therapy. Breathing extra oxygen or taking it in other ways is also helpful. If possible, live in a rural area with a higher oxygen content. Try to avoid spending a lot of time in closed-in spaces with a lot of other people such as crowded theatres that are not well-ventilated.
An ozonation/ionizer air purifier in your bedroom is also very helpful. For more on this topic read, The Ozonator/Ionizer Machine.
15. Other procedures. Lesser, but often excellent effects come from doing coffee enemas daily and using a near infrared lamp sauna, and not other saunas, every day.

16. Sexual rejuvenation. Also see the article entitled Sexual Depletion And Rejuvenation.

CAUSES FOR MASTURBATION

These vary. Some children accidentally discover the little pleasurable feelings they get from touching themselves. It becomes a fun habit, but one that should be discouraged, always. Other times, a parent stimulates the child too much while changing diapers, perhaps, or a child may learn masturbation from a friend or even from a parent.
Too much female energy in the home of a young boy, especially if he is unhappy or feeling frustrated, can lead to masturbation in boys. This is more common than one may imagine. The boy feels somehow emasculated, and masturbation is a type of social anxiety disorder response. It is related to depression, in this sense.
A rape or some other trauma can lead to masturbation in girls, as can too much emphasis on sex, sexy clothes, sexy talk, doing your hair and so on. This can also happen to boys and men, but it is much less commonly the cause.
Another common cause is unhappiness or boredom, especially among boys, but occasionally among girls as well.
Another cause is loneliness, extreme shyness and/or embarrassment or awkwardness, especially with the opposite sex. This is also a type of social anxiety disorder in which the person withdraws into self-pleasuring instead of participating in society.
For a man, masturbation offers a way to avoid dealing with a woman, and a way to avoid risking a pregnancy or risking spreading or picking up sexually transmitted disease. For a lady, masturbation is also much "safer" than regular sex in many ways, and this is certainly true.
However, masturbation is still not a healthful habit. Regardless of the cause, the problem is best handled by distracting yourself, finding new hobbies and other things to do, and realizing it is not a healthful habit at all, no matter what a doctor or psychologist says. So end it now, and permanently.
 
MASTURBATION AND ITS EFFECTS​
by Lawrence Wilson, MD​
© March 2012, The Center For Development ​

I receive emails often from young men, mainly, who have had a masturbation habit. Here is a typical one from John:

Dear Dr. Wilson,
I had a severe addiction with pornography and masturbation between the years of 18 and 26. I ejaculated about 60 times a month during these years. It felt good for a while, but then I developed the following symptoms:

-severe premature ejaculation all of a sudden
-severely sexually exhausted and drained
-feeling tired, sleepy, and dopey all the time
-seminal leaking during bowel movement and after urination
-severe lower back pain
-severe bloating/tension pain in my abdomen after orgasm and lasting days/weeks
-frequent urination
-waking up during the night to urinate
-severe prostatitis

I became very alarmed and concerned, and finally realized that I had destroyed my body over the years.
My addiction was hard to kick but a year later, mostly all of my symptoms have cleared EXCEPT for the prostate pain/inflammation and its associated issue (urinating frequently, etc ) So I basically still have the prostatitis issue.
I need help, please doctor, I am desperate.

Masturbation is not a good idea. I do not care what any psychologist or doctor says about it. It depletes a man or woman’s sexual fluid and wastes vital energy, and this is never a good idea. The best idea is to skip it altogether.
If you have been masturbating, then you must eat an 8-ounce hamburger every day for at least three months to replenish some of the vitamins and minerals that are lost when you masturbate. Instead of a hamburger, once or twice weekly you may substitute lamb or another cut of beef such as roast beef or beef stew meat, but you must eat 8 ounces of some kind of beef or some lamb daily.
This article presents a view of masturbation that focuses on its physical effects on the body and how to cope with it. To repeat, masturbating once a month or less is okay. However, it is a problem when done more than once a month or so, and especially when it becomes habit.

End the habit, which is slow suicide and like raping yourself gently. Do not be too ashamed or embarrassed about it, however. Just move on. Masturbation is not a healthful habit for a number of reasons discussed below. However, becoming ashamed and embarrassed is not that helpful. Much more helpful is to simply become informed about it, and stop doing it for that reason. Here are reasons to stop masturbating:

SYMPTOMS THAT CAN RESULT FROM A MASTURBATION HABIT

Rapid aging and an early death. This is a horrible syndrome in which one’s vitality goes down and one may feel exhausted, even as a teenager, or as a young man or woman. The hair may turn gray, the body may become thin and lose muscle, and one feels old. This is why masturbation, which some feel is okay, is really a form of slow death or suicide.

Irritability and unsteadiness. The most common symptom is a kind of irritability, emotional unsteadiness, low self-esteem, loss of willpower, and a certain type of weakness of the mind and the body. One also often becomes more lazy, and thinking is definitely impaired. Both the speed of the mind, and the memory are impaired when sexual fluids are depleted. Most people notice this even after regular sex. They often mistakenly think it is a sign of ‘love’, or ‘relaxation’. However, it is the same type of ‘relaxation’ one gets from using drugs or alcohol. It is more like a type of deep fatigue, mild stupor or trance state, and is not the same as real relaxation.

Sexual fluid craving. Women, in particular, who lose a lot of sexual fluids, all develop Sexual Fluid Craving. Please read about this, ladies, as it is a very important article on this website. Men can develop this condition, also, craving male or even occasionally female fluids, but it is not as common. Women may say that they re-absorb their sexual fluids, so it is not a problem. This is true to some degree, and is the reason that women can handle occasional masturbation better than most men. However, frequent sex, vegetarian diets, junk food diets and rapes, in particular, deplete women terribly of precious sexual fluids. Often the nutrients are never replaced and the woman suffers fatigue, depression, brain fog and other problems for the rest of her life.

Loss of vigor. Electrically, the body is discharged and the person loses his or her vigor. This is a very critical effect. Also, the sodium/potassium ratio tends to decrease, which is another sign of loss of vitality in some subtle way.

Other. These range from skin diseases such as acne and dermatitis, to hair loss, connective tissue problems, headaches, prostate enlargement and prostate cancer, possibly, in men, and other possible health problems. some women gain weight in the hips for some reason, perhaps because regular sex and masturbation are a type of trauma, in fact, to that area. This does not mean to avoid sex. It means to be moderate.

Masturbation does not affect everyone equally. Some men, in particular, lose much more sexual fluid than others during ejaculation, especially if it continues for more than a few seconds. Extending it is the worst thing to do, men. Get it over with and move on.
Boys and men that lose more fluid, for whatever reason, are much more affected by masturbation or by regular sexual intercourse, for that matter, and will usually feel much more tired and experience all the symptoms listed above. Women, generally, do not have as much variability in the amount of sexual fluids they lose, except during rapes, which can be of varying intensity. For much more on this topic, read Rape on this website, an insightful article, though not pleasant to contemplate.

METABOLIC EFFECTS OF MASTURBATION

1. Zinc and other nutrient loss. Masturbation depletes the body of zinc, selenium, B-complex vitamins, as well as many other vital nutrients. Male and female sexual fluids are particularly rich in certain forms of zinc and selenium that are hard to replace with food and impossible to replace with supplements, as far as I know. Some herbs help, but are somewhat toxic.
Anyone who masturbates often, and even those who have sex more than once a week, will lose a significant amount of zinc and other nutrients that are difficult to replace. For this reason, sexual fluid should be treated as very sacred and never ever wasted. It is more important for men, by the way, but important for women as well.

2. Etheric loss. Etheric energy is also sometimes called "vital energy" or "vital force". Masturbation causes a depletion of this special type of subtle energy each of us was born with that is required in order to live a long, healthy life. One can regenerate this energy, at least to some degree, so all is not lost. But it should never be wasted, ever, and regaining the energy takes months of sexual abstinence, in most cases, and eating red meat daily or almost daily. It is fine to hug and kiss, but orgasms must be avoided or limited to regenerate the etheric energy.

3. Subtle energetic effects of masturbation. Masturbation and sexual intercourse, even more so, tend to spin the seven main energy centers of the body backwards. This may sound strange, but it is a big reason that orgasm causes pleasure in the body. This is a bit esoteric, but I am told it is the truth and important to know about.
Spinning the energy centers backwards feels good for a few seconds, and subtly weakens the entire aura or energy field of the body. In effect, it uses up a certain amount of vital force or adaptive energy that leaves the person with less energy and less vitality afterwards. This can help explain some of the symptoms of masturbation such as faster aging, irritability, and others.

4. Encouraging the mind in unhealthy thought patterns. This means that stimulating the genital organs tends to cause a certain type of thinking and feeling that is generally harmful for a person. It is much worse if one does it often, and the same applies to sexual intercourse more than about once a week. It also applies to viewing pornography, in any amount. This problem, by the way, is often more harmful for women, as it can attract them to the wrong kinds of men, and attract a rape, for example.
This is a more complex topic that has to do with the type of energy that resides in the lower part of the body, as compared with the type of energies that reside in the upper part of one’s body.
The symptoms of this problem include difficulty concentrating, attention deficit or ADD, ADHD, irritability, superficiality in your thinking, lack of intelligence, lack of follow through ability, impaired school or work performance, and other difficulties in thinking clearly and forcefully.

5. Pornography and masturbation. Another consequence of masturbation in some people is a strange attraction to pornography. By this I mean attraction to photos, movies, written material such as racy sexy novels, and other things that discuss, illustrate, or demonstrate sexual acts, sexual organs of the body, and things related to this area.
Attraction to pornography easily becomes a habit and an addiction. It is one of the worst, in fact, and leads to unhappy relationships, rapes, murders, and is at the very least a total waste of one’s time, energy and often money as well. If you are involved with pornography in any way, I suggest you stop it immediately and do not compromise with yourself. This may be difficult, at first, and there may be groups and other resources available to help, but it is important to stop this silly habit that often accompanies masturbation.

6. An anti-social behavior that reverses the mind in some way. Masturbation tends to make one self-centered in a serious way. It is a selfish habit, and while a little now and then is fine, if repeated often, it tends to turn a person too inward and anti-social in some way.
It is also a reversal of nature’s natural process to procreate the species. By this I mean that the vital sexual fluid is designed to impregnate or fertilize an egg and produce a new human being. When orgasm occurs in other contexts, such as rape and masturbation, it is a type of mental reversal that is confusing to a healthy mind and has a detrimental effect.

Similar to depletion after sex. Some men and women feel depleted after sex due to fluid loss or etheric energy loss. However, other factors also cause this feeling in men and women after sex. These are discussed in the article on this website entitled Energy Vampirism.

OFFSETTING THE EFFECTS OF MASTURBATION

This section is divided into 1) what to do if you have a problem with masturbation, and 2) how to overcome the negative effects if you had a problem with masturbation and now you are trying to recover your health and your energy.

To overcome a masturbation habit:
1. Eat at least 8 ounces of beef every single day for several months, at least.
2. Do not stimulate yourself with pornography or pornographic thoughts. This is also quite important. Get rid of the girlie photos, magazines, website, and friends who talk about it, also. Ladies, this applies to some of you, as well. Stop talking dirty, stop staring at boy’s and men’s bodies, and stop flirting with your dress, looks, behavior, etc. All of this perpetuates the problem, and can set a woman up for rape very easily.
3. Follow a complete nutritional balancing program.
4. Read about addictions. A masturbation habit is a types of sexual addiction. It causes a slight ‘high’, like some drugs, and this is why people like it. Some experience this more than others. The high is always followed by a low, however. For more on how all types of addictions work, read Addiction on this website.
5. Meditate using the modified Roy Masters exercise. A secret of this exercise is moving energy downward from the head to the feet as hard as you can. You can do the exercise as much as you wish. Avoid most other meditations, which will not have the same effect and may make things worse. The Masters exercise may seem boring, but it works. For more on this, read Meditation on this website. My new CD on this subject is the best one to explain how to do it. It is $9. plus $2.50 for shipping.
6. Distract yourself with other activities and increase your interest in other things. For example, go out, be with friends or family, watch non-sexual TV or movies, eat at healthful restaurants instead of home alone by yourself if this is when you masturbate, take short showers instead of long ones if this is where you masturbate. Perhaps you can find a healthy sexual relationship instead of fantasizing.
7. If needed and if helpful, get help from a counselor. Know, however, that many counselors actually condone masturbation and think it is just fine. Stay away from these counselors, as they are wrong, in my opinion.
8. Be sure to eat enough high zinc foods. The main one for this purpose is hamburger meat, and ground chuck is the best of them. Lamb is also good, but not as good for this purpose as ground chuck every day – about 8 ounces for a few months, perhaps. Totally avoid vegetarian diets.
9. A good spice to use every day is mustard. You can buy just regular mustard at the store. Put a little mustard on everything and it will help you move along faster with your healing.
10. The less ejaculation or orgasms, the better. Explain this to your partner, who may not understand at all. For example, many women do not understand that men must conserve their sexual fluid. In fact, many women crave male sexual fluid, so they want their male partners to ejaculate or “it doesn’t count as sex”. This is not true. You can have fun together, but don’t ejaculate. This takes some practice, I know, and it is better to keep the sex to a minimum if you end up ejaculating each time. Women lose less fluid when they have an orgasm, but too much sex is still not wise for women, either. Limiting orgasms can will allow your etheric energy to regenerate as fast as possible. You can kiss and hug with a partner, but don't ejaculate.
11. For men, possibly, an “orchic glandular product” may be helpful for a while. Orchic glandular means animal testicles, and they have been used for this purpose for millennia. However, this is not a substitute for eight ounces of hamburger or other red meat daily.
12. Avoid most herbs that are used as aphrodisiacs and sexual potency. Stay away from yohimbe, ginseng, licorice, and most other sexual herbs. These are stimulating and not good at all in the long run. Avena sativa or common oats are fine, however, and may be helpful to rebuild vitality.
13. To increase your absorption of etheric energy from the environment, eat well, sleep a lot, drink a good quality spring water, keep warm, and avoid all distractions and wastes of energy.
14. Oxygen therapy. Breathing extra oxygen or taking it in other ways is also helpful. If possible, live in a rural area with a higher oxygen content. Try to avoid spending a lot of time in closed-in spaces with a lot of other people such as crowded theatres that are not well-ventilated.
An ozonation/ionizer air purifier in your bedroom is also very helpful. For more on this topic read, The Ozonator/Ionizer Machine.
15. Other procedures. Lesser, but often excellent effects come from doing coffee enemas daily and using a near infrared lamp sauna, and not other saunas, every day.

16. Sexual rejuvenation. Also see the article entitled Sexual Depletion And Rejuvenation.

CAUSES FOR MASTURBATION

These vary. Some children accidentally discover the little pleasurable feelings they get from touching themselves. It becomes a fun habit, but one that should be discouraged, always. Other times, a parent stimulates the child too much while changing diapers, perhaps, or a child may learn masturbation from a friend or even from a parent.
Too much female energy in the home of a young boy, especially if he is unhappy or feeling frustrated, can lead to masturbation in boys. This is more common than one may imagine. The boy feels somehow emasculated, and masturbation is a type of social anxiety disorder response. It is related to depression, in this sense.
A rape or some other trauma can lead to masturbation in girls, as can too much emphasis on sex, sexy clothes, sexy talk, doing your hair and so on. This can also happen to boys and men, but it is much less commonly the cause.
Another common cause is unhappiness or boredom, especially among boys, but occasionally among girls as well.
Another cause is loneliness, extreme shyness and/or embarrassment or awkwardness, especially with the opposite sex. This is also a type of social anxiety disorder in which the person withdraws into self-pleasuring instead of participating in society.
For a man, masturbation offers a way to avoid dealing with a woman, and a way to avoid risking a pregnancy or risking spreading or picking up sexually transmitted disease. For a lady, masturbation is also much “safer” than regular sex in many ways, and this is certainly true.
However, masturbation is still not a healthful habit. Regardless of the cause, the problem is best handled by distracting yourself, finding new hobbies and other things to do, and realizing it is not a healthful habit at all, no matter what a doctor or psychologist says. So end it now, and permanently.
 
kha!!! kweli wee mwanamke jasiri sana...maana ni wanawake wachache wanaweza admit kuwa wanajiridhisha na kuwa wamekuwa addicted.

anyways jipe raha and baadhi ya wanaume tunapenda kumwangalia mwanamke akijipa raha mwenuewe. kuhusu madhara ni kwamba hutaona faida ya mwanaume maana raha wajipa mwenyewe.

alafu kuna jamaa alisemaga hivi long distance hizi ufanya watu wawe masters of masturbation...!!!!
 
THE BIG SHOW said:
msaada wa namna gani??
Utoe hapa na wengine wanufaike
au unataka kumpa yeye pkee anufaike??
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Kwa kuwa yeye kaleta ombi nataka kumsaidia yeye kama yeye.........!
Ila kama kuna mdada mwingine anahitaji msaada wenye tatizo kama hili ani-PM kunipatia namba yake nimsaidie....!
 
Kimbweka said:
Kwa kuwa yeye kaleta ombi nataka kumsaidia yeye kama yeye.........!
Ila kama kuna mdada mwingine anahitaji msaada wenye tatizo kama hili ani-PM kunipatia namba yake nimsaidie....!
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TU-ASSUME WAMEKUPM WANNE HIVI,UTAWEZA WAHUDUMIA WOTE??
ITABID ULE NA USHIBE SANA,,
:smile::smile::smile:
 
mbano said:
Pole sana bidada.ila hili ni tatizo letu si wadada japo hatuliongelee kwa undani zaidi.ila hata mie uwa ni muhanga wa tatizo hili.linanitokea sana naweza kusahu kwa miazi adi miaka.alafu inajirudia tena naendelea na mchezo huu.

Ila kuna tatizo japo sio kubwa sana kwa upande wangu.Ninapokuwa Faragha siwezi kufika kileleni adi niweke kidole na kujichezea.Hilo ndo tatizo kubwa kufika kilele bila kidole inakuwa kazi ngumu sana kama umezoea Punyeto kwa akina dada.
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Mimi naamini hakuna kitu kinachoshindikana kukiacha, ni determinations tu.
Ni kweli haya mambo huwa yanawapata wadada wengi sana, na si jambo la kushangaza.
tatizo linakuja unapokuwa na mpenzi, nawajua wengi wanalalamika kuwa hawafikishwi na wapenzi wao sababu wameshazoea hayo makitu.
 
Laurence said:
Pole yako dada angu,labda nijaribu kuzungumza namna nilivyoepukana nayo kwa maana nilikua muhanga kipindi fulani
1.Ilibidi nijibidiishe au kua bize kwenye kitabu zaidi kipindi hicho na nikajikuta naacha kabisa
2.Kingine labda nikuulize je unae mpenzi kwa sasa?
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anaye ila yupo mbali au hujaelewa alichoandika..
 
Pole sana labda ungetoa ufafanuzi zaidi huwa unapigaje hiyo punyeto dadangu
ili tukupe ushauri zaidi na njia ya kufanya
 
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