Kukosa Upendo: Chanzo cha Tabia na Mahusiano Magumu

[Hulda-Tamarri]

Hakika na ww mwana saikolojia?

Hapana.

 

[Gunner11]

Hapana.

Sawa mkuu pitia huu uzi kuna madini ya lifetime humu

 

[binti kiziwi]

Ma genius woote nawahitaji kwenye huu uzii

binti kiziwi ShesRise_1 Me and me dosho12 Tsh

Nyie wengine ephen_ min -me Lamomy najua hamna mtaleta mapovu maana hamnaga jema

Futa hilo neno genius kwanza ili tuendelee.

Ulichoeleza kipo sahihi, ungekuwa una miaka 34 ningesema wewe ni x wangu msukuma lol!

Lakini watu kama wewe mna advantage ya makuzi mnaweza kuwa over achievers, ndio huwa naona kuwa sio kila kitu ni kibaya entirely.

 

[binti kiziwi]

Ukiachana na upuuzi wako,ila unapenda kujikagua na kujitambua which is very good,na hii itakufanya uwe a better person

Kwahiyo hata zile nyuzi zako za kuwasema watu hawana magari sijui wanagombania daladala ilikuwa ni tatizo lako binafsi na sio letu

Endelea kujifahamu zaidi

Naunga mkono hoja, internal shame ni psychological driver ya bullying.

 

[Gunner11]

Futa hilo neno genius kwanza ili tuendelee.

Why, you're one of them great minds in here!

Ulichoeleza kipo sahihi, ungekuwa una miaka 34 ningesema wewe ni x wangu msukuma lol!

Ahaa kumbe ndo maana huwa tuna like hate relationship kwenye hoja zetuu. Kumbe nina reflect deeper things?

Lakini watu kama wewe mna advantage ya makuzi mnaweza kuwa over achievers, ndio huwa naona kuwa sio kila kitu ni kibaya entirely

Hakika it's all about inteegration

 

[Gunner11]

Naunga mkono hoja, internal shame psychological driver ya bullying.

Lakini unapaswa kukumbuka shame ilanza na bullying pia.... It's a viscious cycle.

 

[binti kiziwi]

Lakini unapaswa kukumbuka shame ilanza na bullying pia.... It's a viscious cycle.

💯

Nafikiri sijawahi kukukubalia kitu kwa asilimia 100 😂😂😂😂

 

[binti kiziwi]

Why, you're one of them great minds in here!


Ahaa kumbe ndo maana huwa tuna like hate relationship kwenye hoja zetuu. Kumbe nina reflect deeper things?

😂😂😂

Hakika it's all about inteegration

 

[Gunner11]

💯

Nafikiri sijawahi kukukubalia kitu kwa asilimia 100 😂😂😂😂

Nikugawie point 3 hadharani kweli?

 

[Gunner11]

😂😂😂

Inabidi tu niwe replacement yake au unaonaje?

 

[Hulda-Tamarri]

Sawa mkuu pitia huu uzi kuna madini ya lifetime humu

Nimesoma na nikauelewa.
But nimetamani wataalam wa saikolojia watueleze zaidi na ninaamini wapo humu . (Kama itawapendeza)

 

[Gunner11]

Nimesoma na nikauelewa.
But nimetamani wataalam wa saikolojia watueleze zaidi na ninaamini wapo humu . (Kama itawapendeza)

Mbona haihitaji Wataalamu hiyo na hata maelezo mengi yamekaa mule mule tuu kisaikolojia zaidi... Nahisi hao ni wa saikolojia hawataki kujulikana tu

 

[TheForgotten Genious]

SIJUI KAMA NITAKUBALIANA NA HII HALI,KUKOSA UPENDO WA WAZAZI NI MTIHANI GUMU SANA NA MAUMIVU YAKE NI MAKALI SANA,UNAKUWA MTU MZIMA UNATEGEMEA UTAPATA MWENZA MWENYE UPENDO WA DHATI AKUFUTE MADONDA ILA NAYE ANAGEUKA KUWA IZRAEL MTOA ROHO,HANA HURUMA HATA KIDOGO.

 

[Me and me]

Ma genius woote nawahitaji kwenye huu uzii

binti kiziwi ShesRise_1 Me and me dosho12 Tsh

Nyie wengine ephen_ min -me Lamomy najua hamna mtaleta mapovu maana hamnaga jema

Thanks brother Gunner but umenipa title that I am not belong to.

But wakati nasoma psychopathology na zile childhood developmental disorders nilielewa Jinsi Gani matukio wakati wa ukuaji yanaweza kuathiri child millstones pia behavior yake hata Katika adulthood.

Hili linaonesha Umuhimu Wa kuwapa upendo na kuwalinda watoto Dhidi ya unyanyasaji na traumas wakati wa utoto wao.

Kwenye issue ya perfectionism daah hapa Mimi huwa napata tabu sana nakuwa very irritated mtu akifanya Makosa ya wazi au akiongea vitu havimake sense au akiwa ana_fake Tabia zake.

But nikaja kugundua kuwa perfectionism is just an ideal concept humanity can't reach.
So nikajifunza kuvumilia baadhi ya mambo.

Ila umezungumzia vitu vyengine vipo out of my ability to comprehend and speak for.

 

[Hussein Mbega]

Hujui kuandika

We mchokozi sana😅

 

[dosho12]

upendo wa kweli ni unconditional

hii ya uconditional huwa sikubaliani nayo, nahisi tulishawahi kubishana sana😁, but still mada ni nzuri mkuu nakubaliana na wewe hasa hii statement👇🏻

subconsciously kila mtu hupenda kuonekana)

 

[Gunner11]

Mada ngumu sana mkuu. Haiitaji ujuaji.

Hakika mada kama hizi inabidi uache ego on the locker room

 

[Gunner11]

SIJUI KAMA NITAKUBALIANA NA HII HALI,KUKOSA UPENDO WA WAZAZI NI MTIHANI GUMU SANA NA MAUMIVU YAKE NI MAKALI SANA,UNAKUWA MTU MZIMA UNATEGEMEA UTAPATA MWENZA MWENYE UPENDO WA DHATI AKUFUTE MADONDA ILA NAYE ANAGEUKA KUWA IZRAEL MTOA ROHO,HANA HURUMA HATA KIDOGO.

Pole sana mkuu,
Ukweli ni kuwa ile desperation ya wewe kupata huo upendo ndo kinacho fanya watu wakupuuze na kukuumiza.

Fanya kuanza upya, anza kuyafanya mahusiano yako mwenyewe na jinsi ulivyo yawe bora, anza kula vizuri, fanya mazoezi, fanya vitu uvipendavyo...

Anza kupenda wanyama, watoto na nature huwa havina cost na vinarudisha upendo bila kazi yoyote. With time utaona unaanza kupona

 

[Mwangazza]

Ma genius woote nawahitaji kwenye huu uzii

binti kiziwi ShesRise_1 Me and me dosho12 Tsh

Nyie wengine ephen_ min -me Lamomy najua hamna mtaleta mapovu maana hamnaga jema

Mtag na Makebo huwa ana michango isiyoenda shule.

 

[Gunner11]

But nikaja kugundua kuwa perfectionism is just an ideal concept humanity can't reach.
So nikajifunza kuvumilia baadhi ya mambo.

Nailed it...

Ila umezungumzia vitu vyengine vipo out of my ability to comprehend and speak for.

Basically idea ni hiyo hiyo tuu sema imeenda deep zaidi kwenye psychology. Thanks kamanda